@@dreamkittyEven people with money can be victims of domestic violence, even if their partner doesn't have what they have. This is a very ignorant mindset...
In one of Keke's statements, she mentioned that Darius was rough with their baby son and would be verbally and physically abusive in front of him, and now she's possibly having another child with him. It looks like their repeating the cycle. Darius Mom had a restraining order on his Dad and DV allegations have come out about the brother too. It's messed up.
Either that or she wasn’t telling the truth, because why would she go back to him unless he didn’t actually do what she caused him of.. Her power dynamic with the wealth and social status she has lets her able to just coparent and leave the relationship, she doesn’t rely on him for any needs for her to stay with him like other DV survivors if she’s telling the truth. None of this is making any sense.
@@Aliasss then I’m a proud victim blamer lol. At some point, there needs to be accountability for the situation you keep putting yourself in. No, staying does not make you any less of a victim. But I know I don’t have it in me to save you from yourself 7 times. Nor do I have it in me to listen to you again and again about something you can change. Hope you figure it out, though.
@@kikialeaki1850Nah but you said you’ll lose empathy for the victim. That’s where you lost me at it. Regardless of how I feel about the situation and if I decide to throw my hands up. I’ll never stop praying and hoping that a human being finds the peace they deserve. There’s a difference between tough love and just no emotion about the situation at all. That’s the problem with a lot of people now. No empathy whatsoever and operating in self.
OR she wasn’t telling the truth, because why would she go back to him unless he didn’t actually do what she caused him of.. Her power dynamic with the wealth and social status she has lets her able to just coparent and leave the relationship, she doesn’t rely on him for any needs for her to stay with him like other DV survivors if she’s telling the truth. None of this is making any sense.
Remember when the Usher situation happened and she basically used it as a promo for her own merch about being a free single mom? only for her to do an IG live celebrating her birthday with him after a month or two? lol Yall need to stop getting so invested in these celebrities lives. They play in your face all the time for power, control and validation and then go on to do everything yall tell them not to do. Aint no way in hell im gonna spend a family vacation and pic with a person who "abused" me
She was even in one of his music videos where she did the whole entire choreographed routine of "U don't have to call" from start to finish after that very situation (which she ate up, licked the plate clean and left no crumbs all things considered).. she's just mad weird in general for all this shit, like she's purposely egging him and it all on. They're both bad for each other cause while he's (allegedly/potentially) physically abusive towards her, she's *definitely* emotionally & psychologically abusive towards him. Remember: she started all this, he just made the dumb decision to take his qualms about it to the internet for other fucked up people to weigh in on.
My sister and her ex husband have been divorced ever since their baby was born and my sister has literally never seen him ever since they got divorced even though my niece sees him every Friday for the last 9 years. So yeah u don’t even need to see each other
The most alarming thing she claimed was that he threatened to unalive himself and displayed jealousy over the baby….I wouldn’t be taking photos and cheesing with someone who showed he was dangerous not only to himself but to the child
It’s giving the cycle of abuse, cause as soon as you know it “oh he hitting me” like girl bye. You choose to get back with his dumbass so now deal with consequences.
Never blame the victim in a dv situation. Mindsets like this makes it worse for them. Instead of telling abusers their wrongs people make the victims fell bad for getting beat on. No one is gonna be in their right mindset dealing with trama like that and people expect them to make good decisions. Just another way the abuser isolates the victims because it's made out to be that people don't want to hear from the victim because they're too "stupid" to leave. Then the victim doesn't have anyone and the abuse gets worse.
Goes to show how self esteem and mental resilience are the deciding factors to avoid being in unhealthy relationships. Keke has resources and money to be able to support herself and her child without being with the father smh. I just wish the best for the children.
I will I understand that abuse victims often return to their abusers but self awareness is something that can’t be faked she knew she was being abused made a fuss and went back.
Yall talking bout the “cycle of abuse” their relationship goes viral after she’s caught thotting at an usher concert and now all of a sudden she’s subject to “abuse.” He claimed she was verbally and physically abusive towards him, and she claimed he was abusive towards her. If anything they both were fighting each other. And now she’s conveniently back with the “abuser?” Keke is no victim. She just finessed all of y’all for attention.
Cause Darius isn't a threat to the child and he's probably only a danger to Keke when she uses the child as a weapon against him. Cause it seems like Darius don't play no games about access to his son. All he did was fight fire with fire and refused to back down and Keke invited him right back between her legs while yall still haven't figured out she was lying the whole time 😂
So much for Keke saying it’s nobody’s business, but aired out all that dirty laundry, and even worse get back w him. Keke better not act like she wasn’t warned
This is not unusual for women in Domestic Violence because the men are not always abusive and women then to take them back if they think they have "changed,".
Here's the thing Dee. A woman who's been abused is in MORE danger when she leaves. Even if she's fighting back, it doesn't mean that her self-esteem hasn't been affected. These men are good at what they do which is why women sometimes don't even know they're in an abusive relationship. Women like Keke and Danielle Brigoli don't appear the same as some other women who are in abusive relationships. They appear strong and like they have it all together when the opposite tends to be true. I don't even think Danielle is doing it for "clout." She COULD be but I don't think so. Because she's a media personality, she probably wanted to put the information out there before someone else did. Because it was going to come out. TMZ are some goddamn busy bodies so they're out looking for shit. Danielle is going to stay with that dusty until she realizes her worth. Who knows what kind of bullshit he's telling her. She has a daughter, and she needs to think about her.
Either she was telling the truth or she wasn’t, because why would she go back to him unless he didn’t actually do what she caused him of.. Her power dynamic with the wealth and social status she has lets her able to just coparent and leave the relationship, she doesn’t rely on him for any needs for her to stay with him like other DV survivors if she’s telling the truth. None of this is making any sense.
We saw a whole security video of him assaulting her and him being nasty to her online. There’s 0 reason to question the abuse allegations. Dee even covered the Cassie video of P Diddy attacking her at a hotel, she was still with him afterwards do you question that too?
@@parkerisles7256she lied 😂 played in your face bc she keke Palmer she back with him and pregnant can’t make this shit up but y’all gonna believe anything a girl like this says bc she has y’all wrapped around her finger and she knows it.
@parkerisles7256 people keep saying they saw a whole video. I keep searching for a video and all I find is still pictures from a video. Apparently an old video at the time. And police viewed the security footage and never made an arrest or issued a warrant for Darius.
@@redx9656she was telling the truth there always a video also this is really common for those abused they go back to their abuser I 🙏🏿 she realize that he have to change his ways not her and the baby having to change his ways for him!
I’m pretty sure she’s there for the sake of her family and that he’s the father of her child. They’re both grown adults who likely were mature enough to communicate and hash it out for the best interest of their kid and there’s nothing wrong with that.
@@shanellmiller-c2t I don’t remember hearing that, from the posts I’ve seen he seem to love his child dearly I don’t see him being rough with him. If that’s true, then idk why on earth Keke would go back to him if she knew her baby would be at risk of safety.
@@melinatedthinka8210She's a grown woman with enough finances due to her career to be able to raise their child together, but separately (not in a relationship). If he's as abusive as she claimed he was going back to him is not for the benefit of their child.
And yes I agree with Dee on her views with the lack of accountability. I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thinks that way either. At some point there has to be accountability especially if you keep going back and putting yourself in harms way.
KeKe Palmer is human. Love and loyalty to your child's father, partner, husband can be a difficult to overcome. Many women will forgive because they are not over their former mate. The issue is the MEN. Men are in desperate need of mental health help. Stop blaming the victim.
Girl she went back . A lot of us are thought at a young age to be male centered . Yeah men ain’t ish we know that . Now what ? Are you not going to protect yourself? She knows what he did is f’ed up but she went back . She is going to her abuser ,with her child .like if you loved your child u would keep him away from your abuser .you would keep that type of energy away from your baby
At SOME point, you have to wake TF up. Calling out STUPIDITY isn't victim blaming. COMMON SENSE clearly left the building. The issue is the CHOICE to be DUMB by returning to someone who brutalized you, ESPECIALLY in front of your CHILD. IDGAF, call me a victim blamer if you want, but its is DUMB AF to return to someone who whooped your ass and did it while your kid was present, showing you that they don't even care to have some decorum IN FRONT OF THEIR CHILD, that they'll willingly hurt you IN FRONT OF THEIR KID.
He dragged her over a couch and he disrespected her mom and she went back to him so good luck to her just don't go to social media for support on the next time
Comments like this are why victims are worse off then the abusers. A women got abused and your saying next time he hits you we don't care. Maybe read about dv before you say stuff like this. Sometimes it's not as simple as leaving.
@@TheSkyrimps3 The women got hit and therefore is a victim. Alot of people use the second part of your argument as a way to justify an abuser's wrong doings. Comments like this is why abusers never get held accountable.
@@kt-wg6nj she's a celebrity that has kids and young adults who look up to her it can be taken as it's ok to be treated like a dog and the world doesn't know our regular pple business had regular pple had the support that she has then maybe alot less women wouldn't stay or go back so yes I'm saying if he does again just keep it under her roof its her business
she didn’t go through with court date because it would of exposed her narcissistic ways as well . She’s put her hands on him and she mentally abused him using her fame as a excuse for degeneracy i knew he ain’t deserve that treatment
Last one I promise; Guess we’ll let it slide but after *Dee* said it I’ve been hearing this 7:24 from others now as if that was their narrative the whole time… weird idk 🤷🏾♂️
I may be wrong, I don’t remember her posting anything about the video. I remember she posted video on her restraining order and that was released. Then his brother started releasing calls with her mom… her mom going off… keke has been silent
Do people not understand the mental distortion that abuse takes on the victim? And most of the time, abuse doesn't just start with getting rough handled or struck. Most of the time, it starts in a situation where the victim doesn't even realize that you're even being abused until you, which can take YEARS before that happens because it's start off subtle. By then, they've isolated you from your people, gaslit you all to hell, probably shaped the situation to where they have to rely on the person, etc. The mental abuse that the abuse has already hooked, stripped, and marinated before the physical abuse even come in the picture...
....she is very lucky that he LOVES his SON to even want to TRY to work it out with HER after all that HE has been through with HER...and she KNOWS IT...however KARMA still has her address...her FREAK EM DRESS is STILL going to cost her....
Looks like they reconciled, been hunchin, and possibly have made another baby. I’ll just say, the first time dv happens you’re definitely a victim but any time after you go back, youve become a volunteer so Keke and Darrius need to be mindful of what theyre volunteering themselves for and what theyre exposing the kids to.
@@kt-wg6nj i know full and well. My comment is the furthest from uneducated. If someone hurts you once then theyve shown you some of what theyre capable of so when you go back youre essentially volunteering to endure it again. The stat of how often victims go back does nothing to negate that bc theyre both true at the same time. Just common sense to know that
Lesson learned. Ima mind my damn business from now on faSHO fasho 😂😂😂 Be having folks (mainly other black women) on the internet raising HELL bout you just for you to make them look stupid. And watch her not address this at all. Just gonna move on like nothing ever happened. That’s kinda gross in my opinion.
I disagree on one thing Keke doesn’t have to see him when it comes to their son. She has enough money to hire someone to mediate on her behalf where she never has to be in the same room with him ever. Ciara is an example of this where she’s hasn’t been in the same room with the Future after their split.
Good lord, I'm stunned with the ignorance and victim blaming that is in this comment section. Try doing some research on DV before you start with the victim blaming. Gain some knowledge into the psychology that permeates these toxic relarionships. I worked with DV victims way back in the 80's and 90's, it's shocking how little people's attitude has changed/developed/matured..SMDH
I said the same thing. I read why does he do that by Lundy Bancroft and it really educated me on the topic of dv. Too many people don't know that they are also the problem and not just the abusers. Haven't seen a single comment about what the abuser is doing or how he can be manipulating the victim. Everyone is saying next time we don't care when he does it again. What a sad world we live in.
I didn't notice her stomach although from the picture, what I see are forced smiles. She's not standing beside him. If they were back together, she'd at least be standing next to him. I don't think they're back together. I could be wrong. But I also know that in domestic violence relationships, the abused person will leave and sometimes go back many times. I hope that's not the case and I hope she's not pregnant with another child by him. But, at the end of the day, it's her life.
If you continue to choose your abuser over your well being and your child’s the state you live in can and maybe will take your child especially if they find out it’s bad and you won’t leave. Their reasoning would be toxic home environment. It’s up to both parents to provide a healthy, stable, and safe environment. DV is not that, so they will take your baby if you don’t leave that man or woman.
I’m sorry if that man beat her again I don’t wanna hear from her or that mother. I’m Jackie from what love got to do with it. You only have one time to beat me and I’m out. I’ll be there for you but don’t involve me until you out
It's not that simple. Maybe look up dv before making comments like this. What's sad is that alot of people think like this which leaves the victims to loose people in their lives. This only makes it worse for them and gives the abuser just what he wants. He wants the victim to be isolated and not have anyone so they can abuse the victim some more and manipulate them into thinking they're crazy. Then they'll say that's why so and so left when really it's because of them. They make the victim think they're the problem which is actually what you're doing now.
She better get back with that good looking dude. That’s why she got with him. He is good looking and they can make cute babies! He may be abusive but he has what she wants.
dang whats wrong with celebs halle left ddg, skai jackson preg, keke preg by darius, cardi preg by offset yet told the other girl that was preg by him to get an abor.. so sad and these are my girls except skai... but i like em all
He not only abused her but recorded her and apparently harmed the baby. No ma’am. I wish them luck, safety and wellness. I’m giving no more energy to her
Nothing about anything that has been posted indicates that Keke and that man are back together. People can coparent. At this point you would think people would know we don't know these people or their story. Thats still that child's father and this is a moment in time. They weren't posed, it literally could have just been the drop off and she was smiling at her son. Its a picture.
That's what I'm saying. Nothing indicates that they're even back together. The situation may not be how others would play it, but if they're working through the situation of coparenting for their child, especially if the situation has improved (we don't know what's been dealt with since that situation that perhaps therapy and they're both are in a healtheir place), and the child is taken care of...
So you exposed him as a abuser, said he abused her AND the child...went to the judge for a restraining order an filing for sole custody.. Had the mom and the brother against you calling them crazy and abusive aswell.. Tagged onto usher about moving on an being single... NOW you put yourself AND your child back in harms way AND have gotten pregnant again with another child by the same abuser?! Ain't no fucking way. Keke is a actress after all. This shit was a play an staged at this point 😂 This ain't one of those situations where she ain't got no money or resources to leave an get out of the situation...she's CHOOSING to do this...
Hold up ,wait a minute.didnt keke say that there was a moment he was being rough with their child ?NAH they are DEFINITELY back together ion care .you being with your alleged abuser is not beneficial for your child .your child doesn’t deserve to see abuse
Reading these comments saying most domestic violence victims return to their abuser. Tell me that most women love that type relationship, not every dumb decision a woman makes has to be replaced with “well she probably doesn’t have a father figure” can we just accept that their are things in men and women that is natural built in us in our biology to think certain ways. Let’s say theirs as man that has a girlfriend that verbally abusing him, physically, mentally and he just takes it. In that situation he most likely doesn’t have “ mommy issues” he just is very attracted to his girlfriend that he decides to stay with her. A man’s downside is going to be how attractive he sees her and a woman’s is how entertaining and different he’s is like going for bad boys.
Being attracted to attractive or entertaining people is quite different from using that to excuse their abuse. Like, I don’t think I understand what you’re saying. Most women like abusers/to be abused? Maybe you’re missing an adjective like “broken” somewhere there😅.
@@kikialeaki1850 stop with this “broken”shit women just like men who unfortunately have traits of a bad boy women usually like those type of guys. Thats why we see women having story’s about “my ex boyfriend is a narcissist” which is impossible by the way for all 5 of boyfriends to be narcissists.
