Kelly Clarkson Says Divorce DESTROYED Her 

She stayed down to earth.

Single women are not happy

Happily single too. People ask if I get lonely, and honestly, I don't.

@@rosiered3403 Same!

My dream. Marriage is overrated

Your Cold like your Name

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Stand aliitle Taller ❤

Realest thing said ❤

How do you know that? How many people do you know and do you really know her or just what's shown online.

She has to take a accountability for marrying down. She married a a beta male who needed and relied on her financially and used her.

She bashed her father publicly. He didn't have a platform to defend himself.

Chris Lmx, that is not her style, just because he wasn't there when she spoke about him, doesn't mean she hasn't said what she felt to his face. Kelly doesn't seem to be a backstabber.

Kelly is a great person and she has a great career. Not everyone has a wonderful career for what ever reason. Some people only have themselves, and struggle in a system that gets harder to deal with.

That's how to play it. It is frustrating as he'll in the moment, but the silence becomes worth it.

I did tell my niece once her father "wasn't ready to leave his mama yet" when she was about 5, which in retrospect probably wasn't the most generous thing I could have said, but he hasn't called yet, and she was 5 in 1998....

That is the only way to go!! Great job family!

@@KittyKittyBangBang249 - Thank you. Yes. The children need a safe place free of the drama. Doing that will show them that the trouble making parent isn't the one to put your trust in.

He knew exactly what he was doing, just like his father did to Reba.

He was a talent manager and actually used to be Blake Shelton's manager (Blake fired him even though he knew his manager longer than he knew Kelly). He apparently quit that industry to become a rancher (it's likely no one wanted to hire him because Kelly is the darling of the music industry).

The judge is a terrible

​@@victorialopez9717 didn't really fire him he was never license to be a talent manager

​@@victorialopez9717 or maybe he just didn't have the best reputation

Find someone you can make godparent(s) and legally make them next of kin on your medical record. Arrange now that they be custodial guardian whenever you can't be at home. There's a lot you can and should arrange now, and it will ease your mind.

Stay strong stay independent and hold your head high We never realise our strength until we need to use it to stay afloat Be proud of yourself Wishing you all the best 💕

Blessings to you and your boy 💙🙏

Havent heard his side of it.. shes famous so she gets the sympathy.. n going public with ur personal life is a huge drama flag

God bless you for telling your story. We are stronger than we know and we only find this out once we step out in faith. God is with us AND for us!

Can I ask why divorce? Did he do something

@@freedom4063 He cheated their entire marriage.

@@RedRoseSeptember22 omggosh

Dating in today's world is perilous anyway. Unless you find a man or woman from God like my mother did, I think if I were to lose a husband, through death, because I don't believe in divorce, I'd rather stay single forever

It's been over ten years and I'm still single after my divorce..

20+ years after my divorce. Still happily single.

Where’d you find him?

Working on year four and happy as can be. No interest in even trying to look. Happy for you though!

@@brooklyn3299 I know, right! The good ones are scarce.

So true. Been there twice, but God wiped away every tear and turned my sadness into joy.

Hate to say it but the divorce for my parents was the happiest day of my life. But, I never thought my parents belonged together. So it was different for me.

Thanks for sharing I have also had similar bad times

Same here, lived with him for 3 years and totally changed after marriage. No one would believe what he was like behind closed doors. These types are very good at hiding who they are because they know you would have nothing to do with them otherwise. There is no way of knowing; nothing you could have done; they are that good, that manipulative. Sorry you went through that but we are free now!

@@sunnyromano6862 it changes who you are. Atleast that was my experience. I was a glass half full person. I was the boisterous laughter in a room full of people. It's like it was beat out of me w/o the physical abuse.

@@numbernine3436 I understand this; it happened to me too but I learned something; that this is what they wanted to accomplish. I don't know if it is jealousy or what but this is what they wanted to do to you; whether with you or not. Even after I left, for a long time it was all still in my head as I relived it, all the hurt and fear; they call that PTSD. You might as well still be with them still right, cause they are living rent free in your head? Everytime you think of him, the situation, how he hurt you; switch your thinking. I found i would be in my head about it for awhile by the time I even realized it. I could be doing something else but this was running in my head like a bad computer program. I learned through therapy to catch myself and when I did to switch my thoughts to something else, something from the past of happiness or something of the future where I could see myself being happy. It is not so easy to do in the beginning. I could not think of anything good, everything brought me to sadness but as you do it, it gets easier. The brain during trauma will make a path, a neuropathy, like a path in the woods, as you are forced to go down this path more and more (as the trauma continues) you wear a pathway in your brain and you easily go down that path now; it is trauma, sadness, fear. Now you have to stop going down this well worn path and start another path of happiness, positivity, of goodness but it is hard because it is new and not worn down like the other path, the other pathway is comfortable to you even though it is painful. I still practice this today as I still have trauma from that relationship but it is much better. You will get yourself back, you are still in there. I learned this in therapy and it has really helped me; I hope I explained it well enough. You are still in there, that happy go lucky person. You just had to hide it, he made you hide it because he was so jealous of your shining loving soul but that's who you are and I think this practice will allow you to get back to who you really are; it did me. ❤️

@@sunnyromano6862 so true. Crazy thing is maybe its not crazy I think it may be his conscious. He voluntarily gv me half of his 401k. Pd alimony for years w/o being ordered to. No strings attached. Or maybe it was so I could go back to thinking he wasn't so bad after all. But boy oh boy do I remember .

One of my friends told her fiance she wouldn't marry him till her kids were grown but she would be his farm manager. She told him as his employee, he would have no right over how she spent her money raising her kids, and she'd never allow him to think he could tell them how to act. As soon as they were grown and on their own, she married him. But it wasn't going to be "his money" as long as it was "her kids."

If I your friend's fiance, I would've dumped her. If she truly loved him, she wouldn't care if the kids were grown. She sounds like she thought of herself first! That marriage won't last

So true.I hand on for 26 years and once my kids were grown I couldn’t stay in that marriage any longer.

@@rondanatan6198 I am in your past shoes. 16 years in. My son will barely be 11 this summer. Pray for me 😭😭

Or don't marry at all 😮 No good ones came my way. I won't be yoked to an unbeliever or a phoney Christian man and as a woman we are under a man in marriage as unto unto God- so no way. I'll just pray to be a happy single and serve God with all my heart- unless He brings someone- He will make it clear. Peace Maranatha

@@lisaberchtold2248 you said a whole word 👏

@@blueseptember2174 I appreciate your encouragement. We need to help each other finish strong. Peace my friend

You can't say divorce is worse than death.

ironic that she wrote Piece by Piece about "how he never asks for money, he loves me". he turned out to try and get every dime he could

Same here I was the same age as well

I’m so sorry you had to go through that. That breaks my heart I cannot imagine being angry with my child for showing emotion. How are you doing now?

She asked for it, screw her, always playing victim,

She is right, divorce/separation can be awful/feel like death, but glad she moved forward!

I think that is why she has been more affected by the divorce😢, her issues with her bad father 😢but time heals everything ❤

@@mitzkitty but time doesn't usually heal. Changing the energetic connections to the emotions and patterns does. That's why people spend years in therapy without making much progress because talking only reinforces pain but doesn't change the associations in the body and brain. When someone knows how to address the energy of emotions and patterns, that's when things heal. That's when people have success unhooking from the trauma and pain instead of just coping with it.

@@JoanneJaworski yes talking has it's place but we have to redo memories sometimes to replace triggers that are day altering. Replacing negative feelings for certain places or memories with more upbuilding ones to draw on.

@@mitzkitty unfortunately time doesn’t heal everything for everyone.

@@blueseptember2174 often you have to change the emotional energy holding in the body along with beliefs before triggers will change but not always. That's been my experience working in this field.