Forget being the bigger person. If they disrespect u, u do the same to them and give them a taste of their own medicine!! Glad you're strong enough to stand up for yourself and your family.
Can we stop looking down on "poj nrauj" as if it's a death sentence? Honestly, many are living much better lives than those who are in a shitty marriage. This is why I cannot deal with the Hmong community sometimes.
When my brother remarried our new nyab, we open our arms and doors for her and her babies… we’ve gained 4 more nieces and nephew and we all couldn’t be more blessed! People who have small hearts will never prosper. Being a poj/yawg nrauj shouldn’t be a burden on the children🙄 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I believe in karma. My mother-in-law doesn't love me too. But whenever all her kids (that she claimed loves her) doesn't help her like she expected, she would call me and my husband to come help her. We just help her because she is considered MOM to us. My husband's sisters dislike me, but towards the end, they want their parents to live with me. Karma will always hit those who are bad.
I’m the same too. But I don’t go and help. I say I don’t have time. Now we moved and every time my mil see me she will tell me their eggs. Lol but 🤷🏻♀️. I say karma is a itch.
Love hearing these type of stories! Finally, our sisters are standing up for themselves! Strong woman STATUS right there. We need to stop letting people (in laws) step over us just because we are the "NYAB" so we are expected to ua siab ntev. Eff that! You wouldn't like it if I do it to you so why should I let you do it to me? 🤷♀
This is a smart woman!!!! We need more smart Hmong women like her!! she learned from the death of her mil how disrespectful that family was of her..so when the FIL died she did not give a penny!! yeap!!!! that's a strong woman. Don't be a weak person who just know how to cry and cry and cry. If they don't want to consider you and your kids, I would NOT give a penny for that darn funeral... OR would not be with that kind of "kid" who can't grow balls and stand up for you
Sim neej no leej twg tsis tau ntsib ib tsev neeg phem li no mas yeej tsis paub. Kuv tus kheej no ces yog tus nyab niam tog txiv nta no ntag. Kuj zoo kuv nrauj ua ntej niam pog tuag.
Yes pleaseeee tell us more ghost stories! You tell the best realistic ghost stories and it doesn't sound over exaggerate. You're a very good storyteller!
3 cov niam txiv hmoob, yeej muaj cov cwj pwm uas luag hais tias dej ua ntu es saib neeg ua plu no yeej ib txwm g tso tseg ...cov coj noj coj ua los yeej ib tug cwj pwm zoo ib yam thiab..xyov yuav thaum twg es lub no mam li lhoov tib neeg siab lim 2 hiam no tso pov tseg ib txhia thiab...
Cov niam pog thiab muam zoo li no coj li no mas ntxim ntxub tiag tiag li os...kuv ntsib kiag lawm. Ua cas los yeej txhaum tas nrho li. Yus thiab yus tus txiv muaj teeb meem me me xwb mas lawv tas nrho ua ib nqag ib nqag ua phem thiab cem yus rau qhov txhia qhov chaw li hos...phem tiag tiag li os...
Wow! Cas ib tse neeg yuav phem npaum no es niam tuag xwb tseem tsis pub tej me nyuam uas coj los xyom thiab. Cov neeg siab phem no cia nws npam kom txaus nws thiaj ris siab. Koj tus txiv no ua tsis taus txiv los tiv thaiv koj ntawm nws tsev neeg.
Nyuam qhuav ntxim 6 cov neeg dev zoo li no xwb, cia nws los ua poj nrauj es nws li Paub txog poj nrauj txoj hauv kev...g tau muaj Leej twg xav 2 ua poj nrauj...kev npam tig los txog ces zoo li no ...
Xav mloog cov nkawm niam txiv muaj teeb meem saib lawv lub neej xaus li Cas , thiab cov uas mus ua teb ob xyoos no saib phem los zoo li Cas lawm thiab.
You got that right lady. It boils down to ladies not respecting each other like men that is why men marry more than 1. They can’t if we don’t allow, whether you are the wife or the GF. You must respect yourself first.
txoj kev ua poj nrauj tsis muaj leej twg xav tau o. vim txoj kev tsis sib hlub thiaj nyob tsis tau ua kev. nej thuam kiag ces nej tau kiag nws txoj kev tau mus ua ib tsis txhob thuan ib leej xwb.
Cov niam pog li no ces nws tseem xav nrog nws tus tub es nws thiaj khib khib li no. Tsev neeg no lawv tseem yuav sib tham, nkauj muam, niam tij niam ntxawm niam pog txiv yawg es tseem yuav sib tham es lawv thiaj khib khib tias koj tus txiv yuav koj. txhob ntshai cov neeg phem no..ua kom zoo li koj ua tau xwb.
cov niag niam pog phem li no mas ntxim ntxub tshaj lub neej no twb tsis yog yus lub ned, tus nyab qub zoo zoo los luag twb tsis nrog yus nyob lawm na, tsuav yus tej tub ua neej zoo siab hlo xwb los pob. hos cov niam muam cov niam niam hlob niam ntxawm uas ntxub ntxub yus ntawd mas ruam tiag tiag luag twb tsis yog los yus nav luag muaj luag txiv nav yus pheej yuav ntxub luag ua dab tsi thiab lau, cov neeg phem zoo li no txawm ntshaw koob hmoov npaum li cas los yeej tsis tau koob hmoov npaum li ntawd tej niag kev xyom no tsis pub yus tej me nyuam xyom los tsis ua cas os cov niag neegsiab phem npaum npaum li no yeej tsis tau txais koob hmoov dab tsi li os nawb.
Yep, leave him because he’s not man enough to stand up to his family as protect you. That’s why his first wife left him, he haven’t learned his lesson. He left his family ruined his life over and over, he’s a loser! He don’t deserve your love and your sons love.
Muab 2 points credit rau koj. 1 yog ntseeg hais tias muaj ntuj. 2 paub meej hais tias txoj kev revenge yog txoj kev yuam kev. Yog sawv daws paub meej li koj lawm ces peb yeej tsis muaj nkauj nrab thiab nraug nrab coob npaum no los tsim txom peb txoj kev ua neej. Twb vim yog tsis muaj leej twg paub li koj paub thiab tau saj ntuj lub fwj chim thiab haus teev dej iab li koj es peb thiaj muaj cov menyuam, cov niam thiab txiv thiab zoo niam tsev thiab txiv tsev thiaj niaj hnub haus ntiaj teb teev dej iab. Peb txoj kev ua neej nyob ces peb zoo li yam li luag xwb yog thaum peb muaj ntsib teeb meem lawm.. nrhiav kev pab es txhob npaj los ua phab ej thiab na ej. Remember, some time you win, some time you lose but every time you learn. Tsis tag li learn to brush off neeg cov lus iab lus daw thiab hmoob tej koob hmoov.
Dang people!!! Quit complaining about the types of stories told…if u don’t want to hear it, don’t listen to it. May is so polite and just saying it in a nice way.
Tell stories that make you feel comfortable. Love and life stories are always worth listening per it reminds us All what and not to do. Always a fan of yours....
Pat on the back! I'm glad tus niam tsev won her battles with her monster in laws! You handle it well! May it's ok if you decided not to tell ghost stories because I would be scared too if I was telling them.
I totally agree with you sister! I don't worry about other women. It's all on the husband, if he doesn't make himself available then another woman won't be able to get in.
@@c.lee-soulisak327 yep! I don't understand why married women go fight with their husband's mistress. If the husband cheat, the wife already lose him. His heart left her already. No need to fight for a man.
I learn that "killing them with kindness or love" doesn't work with people who already don't like or respect you. Do unto others the way they do unto you. Love this sister's story! You go girl.
I took very good care of my in-laws when they were old and sick. But my mother n law started calling my husband's ex to come do stuff for her, on her death bed. So I simply said well if want to be together so be it!! Guess what? After my mother n law died, just 3 years later, the ex wife died. They together now, who's complaining, right.
Niam no es pheej tsis npam neeg siab phem lim hiam thiab cov dag noj dag haus li. Yog npam tau ces Lawv twb tuag tas lawm vim pheej tsis npam li. Yog neeg siab phem ces muab tsim kiag kom tshuav siav xwb mas txaus ntsaig los muab ntsaig mus vim ntxub cov neeg phem dhau lawm twb tsis xav mloog nej tej dabneeg los hmoob ruam pheej tso ces peb khaws xyeem tso comment qhia rau cov neeg phem xwb
