Hate always starts from the parents, just like being racist it starts from the adults. Just live your life happily, love only those who return your love, those that don't, doesn't matter.
Even family from the same family doesn't even get along too. Not just you. Family nowadays doesn't know how to love one another. Don't feel bad, just live your life.
Kav liam os, tab txawm ib co koom niam koom txiv kiag los yeej muaj tej pab uas yeej tseem tsis txawj sib hlub qees os. Es txhob tu siab os mog. Ua neeg nyob ces yus yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej xwb thiaj tsis mob mob siab rau tej yam zoo li no. Yus hlub hlub luag los thaum kawg lawv tsis hlub yus raws lub siab xav thiab ces laj laj xav li os.
I come from a family with 2 mom and there’s 10 of us, but because I’m the oldest of the siblings, I raise them to all love one another. All my siblings and I get along so well because my mom loves my step siblings like her own children and my stepmom doesn’t treat her kids good so they all in turn love my mom more. Our parents are gone but we love each other and we always do everything together. It is sad that some family or siblings don’t get along because of how the dad treats his children. Been there done that but luckily for us, we’re not like our parents ❤️❤️❤️
@@kevinher3546 ....Thank you,, becaus of the way my mom raise and taught us that i felt like she left me so much knowlegde and wisedom to open my heart to love people and to never judge a person until you get to know them first and even then I still care about them
Stop crying and Stop being a doormat. Crying doesn't help you. Please stop and start to fight for your right and start to build your family from within - your own children.
Viv ncaus aw.. tsis txhob cia cia siab rau u cov hauv tsev os mog yuav tau mus ntaus phooj ntau ywg rau luag cov sab nrauv thiab mog tej zaum cov nrauv tseem hlub u dua luag tseem ntshai tsam u tu siab dua luag ua los u mus pab luag xwb ces txog u los lawv yeej tuaj pab u thiab mog txoj kev xav kev tu siab yeej pab tsis tau u tseem yuav ua mob rau u xwb os mog
Ruam tiag tiag neb ob niam txiv no nas. Tos li lawv kaus neb hlwb noj tag los noj dua los vim neb hlwb tseem qhwv quav heev. Why care about them like they are hour life.
Vim Koj txiv yawg thiab niam tshiab tsis txawj cob nej cov menyuam from the beginning. It’s all how you raised your kids rather they’re blooded or step-children. I’m a stepmom to my husband’s only son and he’s the oldest in our family but I don’t treat him any different from my own children, my three daughters. I love them all the same. Just be the bigger & better person knowing how his half-siblings are.
Awwww... may your love and happiness grow immensely. Focus on those that love you. You don't need love from those half siblings that don't love you. Wishing you well.
Yog kawg koj zaj story no mas tsaug kuv kiag li lawm os .. mloog mas tu siab kawg li os..peb ua tib NEEG nyob mas swb kiag ib leeg niam ib leeg txiv yug xwb..thiab hais txog kwv tij tes xav tias 2 . 3 tus kwv tij xwb thiaj li sib haum tshaj 4 .5 kwv tij rov saum lawm tes yeej tsis sib HAUM li os ..kuv tes taug txoj KEV no ntag os
Phoojywg koj tham tau tu siab heev li, kuv lub neej lo kuj zoo li koj tham ib nrab thiab kuv tus txiv thiab cov kwv koom txiv xwb tsi koom niam, mas ua lub neej nyuaj thiab tu siab heev li yeej qhia tsis tau rau leej twg li os.....
Don't be mad. You cause your own heartbreak. Family or not, learn to let go of those who doesn't love you. You're a grown adult. If you can't let go then all these situations you go through is your own doing. Can't force someone who doesn't love you to love you. You are the reason you're in pain.
Kwv tij cov txawj sib hlub los muaj hos cov tsis txawj sib hlub lo yeej muaj. Kwv tij hais tias kom sib hlub sib pab luag tus qhuas thiaj ntshaw thiab ntshai hais tias lawv tsawg tsawg los lawv sib sib hlub es kom tus qhuas thiaj tsis ua phem rau lawv pab kwv tij tabsi lawv lam hais kom zoo mloog xwb hauv lawv lub siab lawv tsis xav li ntawm. Tus kwv tij twg lawv hlub ces lawv pab thiab muaj noj lawv hu hos tus lawv tsis nyiam ces lawv tsis hlub muaj noj los lawv tsis hu. Kwv tij ma muaj ib cov lawv txawj coj hos muaj ib cov lawv tsis txawj coj. Ua kwv tij nyob luag tsis hlub yus yus thiaj tsis tsua luag nqi.
Need to let go of the Hmong mentality. Know your reality and know that you can’t rely and count on anyone but yourself. If you can’t do it yourself, then don’t do it. You already know they don’t love you but you continue to expect the impossible from them. Your disappointment is your own doing.
Ua ib siab os mog peb hmoob ces txij hnub niam tuag lawm ces txiv yeej los yeej tuag nrog niam laem tsuas yog lub cev tseem nyob xwb Txij hnub yus niam tuag lawm ces txhob tos kev hlub los ntawm niam tshiab los yog cov yau ua niam tshiab yug lawv yeej tsis hlub yus Thiab yus yuav noj rooj noj rooj haus ces xum thov tus qhua los yog mab sua es thisj tsis muaj lus hais thiab thisj tsis muaj kev tu siab
Txhob tus siab os neb ma tseem koom txiv xb tsi koom niam e luag g hlub lo xav tia twb tsi yog niam yug ib plab e thiaj g hlub peb e niam txiv yug tawm tib lub plab los2 twb g hlub os sister
Niam tais aw!!! Thov tham txog Koj thiab Koj tus qub txiv nrog rau ntshuab teev saib tus twg ncav Dias mam lov. Es yus tham lwm tus li es ntshuav yus zaj me lov. Txhob cuab ntse2 Peb Xav Koj thiab nawb. Hahaha 🤣
Niam Ntsuab Teev aw, koj tsis need ua qaib qua los yog dev tsem qhia txog tus kab mob Covid-19 kom tus tsis tau paub ho paub txog mus txhaj tshuaj li os nawv vim nyias yeej paub nyias thiab nyias yeem txhaj thiab tsis txhaj rau nyias tus kheej lawm.
Cas neb ib niam txiv ko es ua cuag li uas tsis muaj lawv es neb yuav ua tsis taus neeg na, cov zoo li neb cov niag kwv tsis koom ntshav ko na , tsis txhawj li os, yus yog neeg zoo lawm txawm lawv yuav ua li cas los lawv yeej tsis yeej yus li os, kav tsij focus rau yus lub neej xwb mas, sij yuav ntshaw lawv hlub yus ua dab tsi naw, muaj ib co twb koom niam koom txiv tib si los twb tsis sib hlub , txhob tos lwm tus hlub yus
Why do you constantly seek others’ love and validation? You know your half siblings don’t love you yet you constantly seek them out. Just live your life and forget them.
When you don’t have siblings, you wish for some! When you have some siblings, it’s like you never really have any! I’m in same boat! You can email me if you want a brother..
Tsi txhob tu siab os tsi yog neb xwb txuas txuas tug uas zoo li neb ce yeej taug tib txoj kev xwb muab xav hais tias yus tsi yog lawv niam yug no es ua ib siab os mog
These stories are boring. If they don’t love you then just move on. Go to church or something. Forget about your family if they don’t love you. Just love your kids and partner
Tus niam tsev txiv tsev cas neb khub niam txiv ko yuav ntsaw ntsaw cov kwv yau kev hlub ua luaj na lawv tsis koom niam nrog neb lawv yeej tsis hlub neb na cas neb yuav cia siab rau tus tsis koom niam koom txiv na peb ua neeg nyob tus koom niam koom txiv twb tsis hlub na cas neb yuav tos cov kwv yau kev pab na luag twb tsis suab tsis xam txog neb lawm na leej twg hlub neb ces kav tsij mus pab tus ntawv cov tsis hlub npab kaus noj ces xum muab tso mus kwv tij muaj coob muaj ntau os tus zoo tseem muaj txhob tos cov tsis koom niam Kev pab os
Luck and prosperity is what you make of it. Doesn’t mean your siblings got any luck from your dad. Your siblings just got evil from your mom and the siblings. Concentrate on yourself and your wife - family. Self love first, love yourself- your family first. Love the one who loves you and 🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️ everyone.
my friend and her husband just joined a church and live their life without drama of their blended families. whiever treats her well is always welcome and whoever is just using her is cut out. live your life.
Tus neeg uas nws twb yog tus ua phem, tab sis tseem muaj ntsej muag xa xov los yog tsaws lus mus txiav lwm tus, yog ib tug neeg ruam tshaj plaws. Yog koj raug txoj kev no, txhob tu siab, txhob txhawj vim tus neeg txhob txwm ua phem ces li cas los nws yeej yuav ua phem. Kav tsij sawv tsees siv zog rau koj lub neej ob peb npaug ntxiv kom koj mus deb tshaj nws xwb. Cov niam txiv uas niaj hnub cob me nyuam ntxub tus tsis yog nws yug los yog tus nws tsis hlub, tuag txhob pam vim koj yeej tsis tshuav nws nqe. Stand your ground and do what is right.
My too we hated each other so much especially my step x mom and her daughter’s in law which is my cousin and her family!!! It so happy that she is my dad x and also divorce now too!!! Haha.. don’t get piss off if you read my comment because is true.
Ho ! Uacas es xabmaim no es nyob America teb es tseem muaj cov neeg ruam thiab siab phem npaum lino !!! Cov neeg no tsis phim tuaj nyob America teb uacas tsis nyob nplog teb os cov neeg xuab lino .
Wow so much drama. Drop them people!! Who needs people who are ugly like that. This is America, there’s no need for that even if they are family. Don’t worry, karma will catch up!
If everyone would just plan, save and pay for themselves you wouldn’t have these issues. Put your big boy pants on and just worry about your family instead of your grown siblings and parents.
Peb mloog tej zaj zoo li no, peb tsis ntxub cov ua phem rau qhov peb paub tias lawv yog neeg phem lawm. Tabsis peb ntxub tus uas tuaj hais, vim koj yog tus cia kom lawv ua phem rau nej nawb. Yus yog neeg ntse ces lawv ua ib zaug rau yus xwb ces, tsis pub muaj ntxiv li lawm hos. Tim koj tus kheej xwb os mog. Nyob tebchaws no, leej twg ua zoo rau yus ces yus ua zoo rau tus ntawd xwb hos. Txhob tuaj complain rau sau youtube no. Ntxim peb ntxub xwb ov cov niag ruam.
😔 sounds so much like my mom and her brother’s story. She had only one full blood brother. The rest were the stepmom’s. My mom is no longer with us. We only have her brother left. My mom told us the stories and as we got older we witnessed the countless ways our mom and her brother were left out or purposefully presented by their stepmom to be others that they weren’t hers and they were from a different mom (my grandpa’s first wife). I could see in my mom’s eyes, her actions and her words that she forever longed for a parent’s love. I loved her so much.
