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Do you have something on your mind? Something to get off your chest? A dilemma you need settling?
Well, call in, connect and converse with our resident deep thinker and motivational man Kevin Gates and best friend OG Boobie Black, who will help pick you up and point you in the right direction.
On today’s episode - how to live a polyamorous lifestyle, advice on meeting a husband's pregnant girlfriend, and helping troubled friends.
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@YOUAreTheSecretToLife 2 года назад

I feel like we need a "Ask Dreka" I need that woman's heart and strength to channel into me. ❤️

@loknos1253 Год назад

Yesssss lawd

@jennylee5003 2 года назад

If he got someone else pregnant he shouldn’t be your bf. Women staying with men like this is destroying the black community and resulting in unwed mothers and fatherless homes. We gotta do better

@cosmichef75 2 года назад

A welfare system that rewards having more out of wedlock babies destroys any community.

@michaelfabian2401 2 года назад

Yeah that's not a man, that's a little boy trying to bust nuts in whatever amount of woman will let him. That dude doesn't respect her, that's what it comes down too.

@Hintedbymarina 2 года назад

the level of dereliction is just crazy to me and I actually hate that Vice is promoting stuff like this...

@evildrizzt1 2 года назад

He’s her bf, but she’s not his gf. Most likely he’s seeing multiple someones.

@anjalisesen449 2 года назад

AMEN!

@murtikontinental7642 2 года назад

"What they gonna do give ya a ticket?" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@nylianicole22 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@debbieomi 2 года назад

I wish this was a weekly, half hour show. Great advice, wisdom, and humor keep me watching and wishing for more.

@augiegonzalez1082 2 года назад

Wishing turn it into want the people want...a great listener

@wesabrahams5204 2 года назад

I agree!!!

@sumtxflygrl1 2 года назад

Where was the advice and wisdom part? I must’ve missed it.

@quanbrooklynkid7776 2 года назад

@@midwestnet2704 haha

@quanbrooklynkid7776 2 года назад

@@sumtxflygrl1 haha

@boredonyoutube8289 2 года назад

You don’t confront. You *run from that man*

@LawrenceAdams13 2 года назад

“What they gonna do give you a ticket” 🤣☠️

@tawnystill8341 2 года назад

Please don't stay with the man that cheated on you. Have some self respect and leave them. Not only for yourself but for your own child.

@twash4100 2 года назад

💯💯

@kevgonz7611 2 года назад

If all it takes is a lil cheating for u to leave then I don’t want it

@Jessica-cl5sb 2 года назад

So ive been in this same situation as vicky.... I actually was very respectful to that child like kevin said its not the childs fault.. I stayed with the guy and we had a child he never messed with that girl again but i helped him with the lil girl... We did break up 4 years later he ended up marrying and having another child.. When my daughter was 5 he passed my daughter is 19 now.... I am a big part of his kids lives and his grandbabies live i love them all like my own...

@akdzmon9309 2 года назад

Terrible advice telling her not to stay

@Hug_life 2 года назад

Yea horrible advice. Just because one relationship is not strong enough to work beyond mistakes and misunderstandings, doesn’t mean That the next relationship isn’t able to. The advice here is to judge on your own merits whether or not the core of the relationship is made of real love and real connection. Anything other than that is fake and not worth the energy.

@Notorious_Neal 2 года назад

Question is, at that point why is he *still* your boyfriend? Edit: *Run* and *don't* look back.

@ShitStainedBallSack 2 года назад

Because he got the best Cheeto fingers

@brianN9955 2 года назад

Yea Kevin tweaking

@angelise3188 2 года назад

Some people feel like it was destiny that thw other lady was always supposed to be there but the man was too scared to tell his first partner. So now that she knows who she is, it's all happy days... ORRRRRR Take your kid, drop everything and leave the country. And if you can't leave with your child, do what you know will make you feel best and not your kid otherwise it's asking for hell.

@vickygonzalez8482 2 года назад

He’s not anymore I walked away just wasn’t strong enough to walk away sooner

@Notorious_Neal 2 года назад

@@vickygonzalez8482 I'm happy you were able to leave him.

@IhgasikihS 2 года назад

8 years,still a boyfriend and he stepped out,had unprotected relations and had baby..and you wanna confront her and you still there for what??? Girl !!!!!

@Big87653 2 года назад

!!!!

@jorgerh2232 2 года назад

And he suggested it would be ok??? all flowers and rainbows tf

@vickygonzalez8482 2 года назад

I walked away! Chose my self worth and my peace .

@walkinstain45 2 года назад

@@vickygonzalez8482 💪🏾

@IhgasikihS 2 года назад

@@jorgerh2232 I was like is he serious!?

@khalilahd. 2 года назад

The wildest intro I’ve ever seen 😭😭😭

@tonetorres4029 2 года назад

Are you available for finkle matter activities?🤔

@jincks277 2 года назад

Kevin a liar because if Dreka got pregnant for another man all HELL would break loose. Why are men so selfish, basically in 2022 most people want you to be faithful while they do them. There is no hope for committed relationship's.

@Kelz_X 2 года назад

Thank you!! Searched and found the truest comment posted here

@jincks277 2 года назад

@@robertmoray988 Thanks for helping me understand the two. Its still so annoying how they act.

@rel0ad551 2 года назад

It’s not the same thing. Men can have sex with women without having an emotional attachment but women can’t. I don’t think cheating is right but if a man sleeping with other women he should be transparent with his partner

@selfloveisfirst4970 2 года назад

Exactly!!!!

@phenitagomes1292 2 года назад

This was interesting but disturbing at the same time bc I was trying to picture myself with a man I made a child with cheating on me. Destroying our bound together and having another child on me. Why be in a relationship when you want to have many women to your exposal for sex. I find it selfish and self centered to think that was fair to your partner. To say its unfair to the cheater that can't be able to cheat. Take accountability. Let your partners go. Having another child and relationship on your partner is just heartbreaking to think. Breaking up with me would hurt but at least i would recover better and sooner than someone that claims they love me, cheating on my. Lying straight to my face EVERY single day. Making me believe we are a team. As he said if you want a certain life style with someone just ask. You will be surprised who will say yes but to manipulate and lying to get what you want can have you 6 feet under or going through a nasty divorce.

@veritasdel3649 2 года назад

I wanted to share some words as a guy for you. I also don't agree with the advice. Actions speak the loudest and your telling me I've got your kids.... That child should've man up a loooooooong time ago this shouldn't be an issue if you even respect someone or love em. Guy deserves neither of them but has to be the father the kids deserve since he couldn't be the man those woman needed.

@RetailMajorStylist20 Год назад

I 100% agree with this.

@shivaugn3285 2 года назад

My only issue is that I can’t take monogamous advise from someone who is the opposite 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I love you though Mr Gates 🥴🤣🤣

@apriljones1329 2 года назад

"My mind is not my best friend!!"... that was deep

@robertojofre15 2 года назад

We need more of this series, great stuff vice. Kevin got some real wisdom

@augiegonzalez1082 2 года назад

Did u call the number? I did...

@darksid33 2 года назад

I didn’t know I needed this today but I do.

@finchisneat 2 года назад

Hahaha good one

@sumtxflygrl1 2 года назад

This might be ‘wisdom’ from his perspective…but have some self respect, self control, and morals. He’s trash, just listen to his lyrics

@AyeeItzyaboiDj 2 года назад

@@sumtxflygrl1 oh hush up. You obviously don't watch enough or actually listen to enough of his music kuz he actually talks the truth. I doubt you listen to him or watch ANY of his interviews

@madej5 2 года назад

2:57 " i dont want nobody to know how freaky i really am" Og: what they gon do ? Give you a ticket , was gon happen ?... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@kk_queen6693 Год назад

He looked irritated too lol

@zzzroxyzzz 2 года назад

There's nothing to say other than goodbye. your worthy of better. Your son is worthy of better. I'd build a relationship with her and the kids but he needs to figure out what he actually wants.

@boujiebarbie3198 2 года назад

FACTSSSSS!!!! You didn't ask for how the son got that brother but they might be the best of family in the future. That said, I ain't got sh*t good for him. That boyfriend needs to be a good daddy and get his self together...

@johnstudio55 2 года назад

Please more of this! This man needs a more regular segment. I really enjoyed this. I’m about to listen to all his stuff on here now.

@noellegardner9800 2 года назад

Not him telling homegirl how to stick around after a male had a WHOLE OTHER BABY.!!!! She sounds shaky even saying it and he couldn’t even find the right words to convince her to continue to be stupid by him. “He finally told me after 2 years of cheating and a baby” “That means He really love you” I’m done 😂😂😂😂

@Big87653 2 года назад

Right!!!

@lisahall748 2 года назад

She left she is actually here in the comments

@asiam1528 2 года назад

@@lisahall748 glad she left the loser

@Im1BossyChick 2 года назад

I thought it was just me. Everyone's praising him in the comments but I'm like, this is crazy.

@Datpart100 Год назад

She called the wrong people for advice. smh They co-signing his immaturity. These two are always sympathetic to these immature, selfish ass men. Her bf is a coward. He probably got a third jawn now, now that baby mama #2 is involved in raising this second child and can no longer make the bf the center of her world. He introduced these women to each other so when he's with the third jawn--who is currently childless--they'll be distracted with each other.

@dharmapersona2084 2 года назад

Okay so Vice is really running out of ideas 😂😂

@ShitStainedBallSack 2 года назад

Exactly, what is this

@bloatedsodium7301 2 года назад

You’ll be here no matter what. 😂😂

@craiglyles4755 2 года назад

Gotta habbs dat jive turkey supa fly wisdom gnomesayin

@ThugFreeZone 2 года назад

IDK a lot of black people will disagree with me but I feel like he is trying to elevate and highlight struggle toxic love amongst mostly black people. If any of these women cheated and had babies on their husbands and boyfriends Kevin Gates would be singing a whole different tune. It's always accepted amongst the black community for black women to take the absolute bare minimum in to do with the crappiest behavior from our men and I think it's disgusting and I don't stand for it at all. If a man cheats on me and has a baby with someone else I'm leaving him. Why is it black women have to stay with these men? I'm so confused. Go out and have a baby on your husband he won't feel the same way LOL.

@vickygonzalez8482 2 года назад

This !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 💯 I’m the woman in the video but yes they won’t have already walked away if the situation was vice versa but anyways I did walk away no more of that toxicity for me !

@ThugFreeZone 2 года назад

@@vickygonzalez8482 I am absolutely so proud of you. A lot of black people are going to shame you for not dealing with this kind of love but just remember that just because you're a black woman doesn't mean you have to deal with black men who won't uplift you, won't stay faithful to you and will not keep the same mentality when it comes to you stepping outside of the relationship. It's really sad that a lot of black people almost force this kind of toxic struggle love on black women and we are almost shamed if we don't put up with it.

@ThugFreeZone 2 года назад

We deserve men who are not going to go out there cheat on us and make babies with other women and then expect us to raise those children and not be upset at the situation. I wish black women as a whole would raise our standards.

@vickygonzalez8482 2 года назад

@@ThugFreeZone thank you so much for all of that I’m actually Hispanic but I do understand where you’re coming from and I do see that on a daily basis of a lot of women do I actually choose to stay I just couldn’t do it anymore he was still being unfaithful and that’s why I chose to be strong enough to walk away this time and I’m never going back

@blksnow1 2 года назад

@@vickygonzalez8482 good for u idk how anything positive could come out of it

@Lishabright 2 года назад

“What you eat don’t make me sh*t” Make this a weekly thing please!!!!

@AllIsWellaus 2 года назад

Sometimes we all need to hear what we ultimately know. Good timing. Cheers.

@TititoDeBologay 2 года назад

Why would You confront a woman that your boyfriend impregnated? 8 years together with a child He lied, cheated, broke your trust, didn't bother to put protection on and hid all of this, till It was unavoidable. LEAVE ! Co-parent your child with him yes, but get out of that relationship. It's up to the father to deal with both his kids, raise and nurture them so they have a sibling relationship. He prolly has other baby mamas around ! Poly relationship need discipline, honesty, self accountability, commitment and communication. It's not some porn fantasy. And It's different from Open relationship.

@augiegonzalez1082 2 года назад

A whoooole lotta NEGATIVE over there... That's why MR GATES is available

@TititoDeBologay 2 года назад

@@augiegonzalez1082 if not wanting to be in a situation wherein You're lied to, your mental and physical health are put at risk, is being negative. Well, call me Negative Nancy 😎😘

@augiegonzalez1082 2 года назад

@@TititoDeBologay and i love you for that ...i appreciate your honesty it's 🥰

@brianN9955 2 года назад

DONT CONFRONT ANYONE KEEP THIS DRAMA OUT OF YOUR LIFE. KEVIN GATES DOES NOT KNOW WHAT THE HECK HES TALKING ABOUT..

@MahagonyAlaye 2 года назад

my boyfriend step out && get anybody pregnant i’m OUTTA HERE & he’s never ever hearing from me again ‼️‼️✌🏾

@upcycledlifestyles8770 2 года назад

One of vice’s best short series. @Kevin Gates we want more!!

@TheDirtyKenzo 2 года назад

Love this. Gates already on another level. Bringing into the advice format.... Sold!

@OctopusWizardry 2 года назад

This is deep. Got me tearing up on the early morning. 🖤

@TrayGaming_Reactions 2 года назад

Same here 🙋🏾‍♂️, but this was just too Goofy➡️15:32🤣

@dwillthetruth9913 2 года назад

Keep theses videos coming OG💯

@debbieomi 2 года назад

I want to add that the baby momma never said she wanted to CONFRONT the other baby momma. VICE used that word in the title. She always said MEET.

@vickygonzalez8482 2 года назад

Thank you lol 😂 I never said confront ! But anyways we’re no longer together !

@debbieomi 2 года назад

@@vickygonzalez8482 Good for you!

@kalimistakidou9103 2 года назад

@@vickygonzalez8482 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@jussylv3491 2 года назад

Exactly & it sounds like a meeting of the minds on how to move fwd & be apart of the babies life. Ppl say they will leave but until we’re in that situation we can’t say. If you’re not ready to leave you duck, bob & weave the punches until you’re strong enough to go.

@jussylv3491 2 года назад

@@vickygonzalez8482 And you made the choice when you were ready. Us as women can & do endure much more than we think we’re capable of but once our hearts/mind have left it’s easy to go. Don’t allow this to break you, your peace makes you the winner.

@daughterofdemeter 2 года назад

How do I watch more of this show? This was great to watch, didn't agree with all the advice but I'm definitely entertained lol

@meisterspectrom7061 2 года назад

I love his voice and accent so much hahah

@corycourtney8923 2 года назад

Watching since the beginning. Glad to see Vice putting some money into this. The production is definitely stepped up. This should be one a multiple times a week.

@edwardochavez1072 2 года назад

I've lived with two women before, it may sound easy, but it's not. There are more differences, than most people think

@student40008 2 года назад

Yea I never did it, but it does sound like it could be a challenge. But as men we try to fantasize that and not understanding the reality of those situations.

@Hello-jb3hp 2 года назад

Why are these guys trying to justify a man cheating on the mother of his child?

@jeannietimberger2556 2 года назад

That part 🙄

@Hello-jb3hp 2 года назад

@@jeannietimberger2556 oh yeah he’s been lying to you and disrespecting you for 2 years. He loves you though!

@jeannietimberger2556 2 года назад

@@Hello-jb3hp 🤦

@vickygonzalez8482 2 года назад

I’m the woman in the video and apparently the one they named the video after , facts on what two are saying I agree and I finally walked away , he’s not going to change ! I tried and did everything to make it work but that wasn’t real love and honestly I feel more at peace now with it just being my son and I .

@trix1227 2 года назад

@@vickygonzalez8482 Congratulations you needed to walk away

@djardvarc 2 года назад

Im so glad this is back

@OhxPreciousPlease 2 года назад

This was so dope 👏🏽

@sabong8903 2 года назад

Caller #2 needs to get counseling from caller #1.

@keallaigh486 2 года назад

Can’t be upset with how he is so honest I love that. I think more men should be more honest with what they want n women also if u can’t come to an agreement then move on n if u do don’t try to change it 10 or 20 years later n if u feel differently about the agreement then it’s time to walk away

@ryanlaporte906 2 года назад

I love this! So much love.

@Nikki-rm2zp 2 года назад

💕 he always says the right things on the worst days! Love their positive spirits.

@Giosmokes710 2 года назад

Kevin has always been a real one

@theresaedwards6167 2 года назад

Kevin Gates "oh what you cryin right now" lol!! And loved when he said tears are for healing!! Its nice to hear men being so honest!! We may not like it but its their truth.

@phuckyoutube5927 2 года назад

This is the best honestly

@dimrioh1987 2 года назад

For anyone to consider taking advice from Kevin gates is beyond lost 😐

@jayhari1713 2 года назад

🤣🤣

@joshwallace9208 2 года назад

Then why are you here

@dimrioh1987 2 года назад

@@joshwallace9208 because I can be

@timbuktu777 2 года назад

@@joshwallace9208 why do you think we watch Jerry Springer? 🤣

@ammaralshamiri3522 2 года назад

Love the show brother keep it up

@peach7496 2 года назад

THIS IS SO INSPIRING THANK YOU

@namastay1111 2 года назад

Love you guys!✨💕

@shantetladyshantet495 Год назад

Love yall shows

@stresspharrow 2 года назад

I respect this show; and these two men for keeping it 1000% the only way to true joy for any soul is to be bluntly honest with yourself and the people you love. If you truly do love them then live in your truth!

@srfreem7 2 года назад

Second one was just for me!!!! Blessed me

@Sullys-GamingYT 2 года назад

These guys are og for sure. They way the put things together the knowledge they have.

@shawntaybeckford7857 2 года назад

I needed to hear this today! Thank u!

@shuntaherbert3288 2 года назад

Love the last call advice ❤❤❤❤

@187FML187 2 года назад

Damn I listen to Gates music just for the words of wisdom in his intros. And to deal with life in general! Definitely needs to be weekly!

@bigwilly955 2 года назад

That really stuck too me “ I Get too do this “ those was some very powerful words

@aightmanchannel 2 года назад

Always some useful advice from Boobie and Kevin.

@DingusMortus 2 года назад

My respect for Kevin Gates just skyrocketed. He’s such a smart and calm man, wow.

@kjmaneboygames3641 2 года назад

Gates you need a PODCAST this is not enough lol I really enjoy your advice wand wisdom.

@kennethking5424 2 года назад

#1#LOVE THIS ONE#LOVE IT

@Four20Kevin Год назад

I love how much positive energy they got going on

@NN-tl1oy 2 года назад

Best show ever, what a great idea. Keep it up, and thank you.

@iVizuh 2 года назад

10:30 wow what a great question. Definitely need to work on my bad habits but also my friends habits that are worse. Gotta tell them the truth.

@brianN9955 2 года назад

KEVIN JUST BE TALKING TO TALK HE MAKES NO SENSE

@ricardobates7891 2 года назад

This gone boost your star power ..right here my brother .. don’t stop this .. you the black dr Phil .. lbvs. Salute !!!!

@GeedyP 2 года назад

Great episode

@Mr3344555 2 года назад

Y'all need to go back to the motherland and watch how true love and devotion is instead of tolerating bullshit from bullshit ass people. People stay with boyfriends and girlfriends like those out of loneliness and desperation. Be wealthy in every aspect of your lives..

@kimforester4290 2 года назад

I really ❤ 😍 K.Gates- wisdom is like a faucet-ty bro

@admtpasi 2 года назад

Dude you're making me cry on the bus. Wonderful video

@tmg_sav209 2 года назад

9:59 🤣🤣🤣🤣 they had to be honest at the end

@SKiLLsSoLoN 2 года назад

haha that had me in tears!

@marilynmonheaux6356 2 года назад

If you accept the baby you accept the baby mama too 👍

@Truewise 2 года назад

I’ll watch this more. Give Gates and OG a show.

@buildingblockflips3475 2 года назад

Love the edits

@beefyogurt 2 года назад

communication is the key

@x.s.bleeding7780 2 года назад

Wow. Kevin Gates on Vice. Got here late but glad I did. Big Fan of Gates both as an Artist and The Man he has become. Great Man 🔥

@MarieAmicalola Год назад

Lol at the suggestion of a ”freaky ticket”

@louisianacookingwithkay 2 года назад

This is going to be good. 🤞🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@user-nq8tr1hw3w 2 года назад

He looks like Ving Rhames in Holiday Heart😂😭

@jacoblins7024 2 года назад

LEGEND STATUS ‼️‼️‼️💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

@amcole2012 2 года назад

That second call brought tears and the background music didn't make it better! Lmao!! But then that last comment Kevin made after the music stops! My laugh for the day!

@missbburnsxo1112 2 года назад

You make it sound so easy 💯🤣😂

@basedera14 2 года назад

This dope 📺🎙

@mightyme.makingitnew9979 2 года назад

Glad Kevin is back at this 👌🏿💢💯👍 u learn so much 😁😊

@Yeti1473 2 года назад

That's a very specific title

@andrewjones575 2 года назад

Quite a common situation though. Millions of attached men are very keen on enjoying plenty of sex, with many other women, and don't bother with contraception.

@ShitStainedBallSack 2 года назад

@@andrewjones575 like your dad