The bigger the body count. The more correct is what he is saying. Thats why body count is important. Iintegrity is Nice and all but only woman with low body count Will Stay if you are not good in bed. Now a days its rare.
@@joaosilva-ji1ve are men and women as faithful as their options yes or no? We both know the answer is yes. Body count does matter in how she’s psychologically programmed after many partners. But make no mistake in thinking low body count means a woman will go against her nature if the sex is good. Hypergamy is a woman’s nature. She will always wonder if better is out there. That’s why integrity keeps things in check. Otherwise she’s going to jump ship every time she is presented with something better. Her low body count doesn’t mean nothing if she doesn’t have a sense of integrity and respect for her man. Because theirs always a potential for better. Good sex keeps a woman satisfied not faithful.
And that's why she not getting off. I swear to god when me and my chick fooling around she cums numerous times because it's all in their head mainly. She pursued me shot her shot at me so that plays a big part she had crazy attraction already.
He mentions a caviat, honest women. Yet in some cases you're right. Some of them just want to get out of their parents' house and live their life out of there.
@@trashieaguillory7740 Most women, especially black women are coming g to the table broken from years of promiscuity and abortions nothing you can do will help them
@@T11paraplegic However you choose to spend your time daily, all that matters is if you're proud of yourself and your actions when you look in the mirror.
@@MOB-Lee Very true, I do RU-vid and Tik Tok but regardless I'm going get cheated on since I'm paralyzed and can't have sex,so I can't get good in bed and now days we live in a hookup culture but it is what it is
@T11 Paraplegic you cant work your upper body? You cant be one of those swole upper body guys with no legs? If you have something going on with your arms then please dismiss my whole comment.
Yes, and many times before the woman cheats, she doesn't know if the person she's cheating with will perform any better. So it's not about performance, it's about thrills and drama
@@heyjaja72and bcuz sex is mostly a mental thing with most women, the fact that it is exciting or 'forbidden' can make it seem even better. Basically, if she was cheating with u on him..... instead of with him on you, the sex with you would very likely seem better to her.
I’m not too sure. In my experience a lot of men don’t know how to lay it down. You’ll have women that have had better sexual partners but decide to settle for someone because “he’s a good man”. Then years down the road they’re unsatisfied. Like Kevin said, learn how to lay it down. If you last less that 20min? Get help and make it longer.
@@369ZIR im pretty sure. Im not rich man, and while i can make them laugh, im not the funniezt either, and im decent looking, but no model, they'd have no real incentive to lie and want to be my woman. I think they all tell u that u r laying it down while they are "with" you. No reason to lie and continue coming over if its really trash, let alone eventually ask....(so what are we?) But i just assume that they really just feel that way in the moment. And pretty much told almost every guy that b4 u (unless he is completely trash) and most likely will tell the next man the same thing.
Yet you have a selfie on RU-vid like this is Tinder. A low value woman constantly markets herself on every platform to the opposite sex. You want to respect him…be more exclusive.
It's not about being good in bed it's about her being bored because their perception of the man changes. Women love drama and a little bit of suspense in a relationship.
She's never yours it's jus your turn fellas she could love you today and wake up tomorrow with a whole new perception of you no matter how many great things you've done good sex you gave they move off emotion and dopamine hits
@@kacifornia929 say you're triggered and pathetic without saying it lol. Men dont benefit from relationships anymore. You could never name call me out of my opinion.
@@destamcghie632 If that’s the case it’s a good reason for a man to cheat just because he happened to find a girl he finds hot. But it really isn’t, these things cause damage that people will carry for the rest of their lives, and if there’s children in the picture it’ll hurt them too. They’ll sense the resentment their parents have towards one another and maybe their parents will even split up because of it. It’s unacceptable.
Here’s my issue with his statement, and it’s the only issue that I have with his statement, whether it’s true, or not, is irrelevant to the point that, people, if women are going to cheat then they are going to cheat, nothing that you say, or do is going to change that. If she’s for the streets, she will demonstrate it by her behavior, and again, nothing that you say, or do Will stop that from happening. At best you will delay it all week. But if she’s a cheater, she’s going to cheat, end of discussion on that part. I wanted to say that first, I wanted to make that crystal clear, because even if you could be the Leonardo da Vinci, plus Picasso put together, if you could be that in the bedroom, it wouldn’t stop her from cheating. It would just delay it at best.
Very well spoken I see why this post didn't get many likes one because when you are talking reasonably people aren't drawn to that had you been going on about something negative that would have gotten the folks juices flowing however it didn't make them wet and moist but I definitely agree 💯 with what you said. Hi I'm Jonny and I approve this message please and thank you 😅😅
What sucks is that they don't even give you a chance to improve. They'll just think you trying too hard and trying to be what you are not, which is another turn off for them. You basically in a death trap of expectations
That’s manipulation bro cause I had convo with my ex and she was crying to me because she wants to become a “bad bitch” but didn’t know how to get there just like how we look at being a “high value man” as well they definitely try to become something there not lol
Every guy i know who is good, loyal and willing to commit and provide has a very small member and he may have the best of intentions but Just Doesnt Have what it takes. Makes you think, is he good to me because he knows he hs no options? Having to choose between a good guy and terrible sex is most women's fate. Something cant be improved either. And also its not just what he does or learns to do, its more important energetically how he carries himself. You can do all the right things w the wrong energy. Many men present as cocky and confident while shiverig w insecurity and anxiety on the inside.
@@Jayisinvisible lies. A man can love a woman, and still smash another with no attachments. He can also love multiple women at the same time. Hence why polygyny (not polygamy) has been practiced by many different societies throughout the world even to this day.
@@Jayisinvisible Wrong. A man can love a woman and still cheat. Sex is nothing but physical for a man. A woman, on the other hand, will never cheat on her man if she loves her.
You know whats up,is that Sex is so a high Priority in this World now. Traditions,values and Respect are hanging up in the Museum. Single is the Best way to be.
As a WOMAN ... it's not in the bedroom activity. It's lack of attention and true intimacy. I am sure Kevin Samuel's has learned a thing or two in his transition now.
Im 20+ years and i had females from ages 13yr 14yr 15yr 16yr 17 yr olds through 20+ 30+ 40+ 60+ year olds try to seduce me and have sex with me and im 20+ eeee 😳 and it usually be those type of females who wear to revealing clothes who try use you for sex all becuase they want a orgasm. Lack of attention= not having sex with alot of the times. Many of them were married woman i dont blame em tho like that because women want sex as much as men do some want it even more.
The attention and emotional needs stimulate their desires. Stop the 🧢. Sexuality is not just the act, that’s the reason there’s a difference between a prostitute and your main chick.
@@mykb8069depends on how many dicks she done had.... If she done had too much dick in her life, she won't ever chill until she is completely washed. I call it, the state of being called dickmatizatiom, or being dickmatized. I am pretty sure I coined this shit years ago, but I digress. Too much dick, she will cheat because she will get "bored" and she can't do enough social shit with people watching her. There are women not like this for sure, but in the internet age, this type of woman unfortunately seems to be the majority.
I’m done with relationships. It’s like a rollercoaster and she ain’t ever happy. I will just go to massage parlor for bjs thanks. And a dog for companionship.
women rarely stray over sex alone, plenty of women stay around with men who have NO IDEA what they are doing but they love that man and you couldn't say anything about him
I agree 💯. I was cheated on by my fiancé an the only issues we were having were sexually. The only way a relationship and/or marriage will work happily is if you Trust each other, genuinely like and love each other, and have decent good or great sex/sex life. He not lyin whatsoever.
Facts, men shouldn't ignore that. It's part of the duty no matter what you working with. Learn her body, use Google and execute the mission. First it starts in the mind realization, acceptance, info,plan and execution. If it don't work rinse wash and repeat but don't let that bring you down look at it like a journey, a game if you will
You were cheated on because you weren't valued anymore. Simple as that. You start giving women excuses for cheating and then you might as well join the feminist movement
@@heyjaja72 I feel u but at some point, in almost any situation, you have to look at your own faults. Cheating is never ok 💯 but also after I make them suffer the consequences I’m forced to think about what I could do better or differently
@@thefolks5199 yes but the woman always has room to improve as well. If you're looking at it like "What could I have done differently" when you wasn't negative in the relationship, then your being molded into what these women want men to feel when they decide to cheat. It's always the cheaters fault. Woman today will give 100s of other reasons why it was the others fault. They even have men taking the blame for their girl cheating on them. This is ridiculous.
It's quite simple each women has to be learned their all different with different likes different ways intimately. If you have a partner you should continue to learn them and not be afraid to ask what they like and don't like
I will say this. Not all women deserve a good sex all the time. Because even when give to them on time and a good sex . How will you know that their telling the truth. Plus on top of that they can be thinking about another guy. It gotta make sense. Can’t go all in on wasting time on someone who doesn’t deserve it. Keep it real…
YES! I talk dirty and she tell me to shut up. WTF???. I guess she’s cheating. Now i have to take it out on her hot cousins & childhood friends + 1 co-worker. 💯
Who told me that I was good in bed? The ex women in my life that constantly come back around and call to reminisce about the old days so clearly I did something right sexually! 😂 But seriously he has a point you have to stimulate her physically and intimately on the physiological psychological level. Relationships last marriages is not for the week you're constantly working.
No one has told me i was any good except eating the pum pum. Its extremely frustrating when I ASK THEM questions on what they like, how i can be better etc etc. and i never get ANY answers. I literally stare at them and say “if you get bad dick from me, im blaming you. Cuz i asked. You said nothing.” 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
When sex takes place that is an activity of submission for women. They're submitting to you which is part of the turn on for them giving you their body as you enter them. When you ask them what they want that's almost like them telling you what to do which switches their role as submissive to dominant. Most don't want to be dominant and will get turned off by the question or suggestion. They want us to know what to do and tell them what to do. Some are hard to read, it may be unfair but that's what it is.
If i may be so frank, maybe you already do this. But dont ask when your in bed. Talk about it outside the bedroom. Alot of men and women find it very difficult to openly talk during, it puts ppl on the spot especially because a no or a boundry can kill the moment. The other guy makes a good point too. Once you talked, intructions can follow in the bedroom. Dirty talk does help if they are open to that. Less serious.
Bedroom activities should be discussed prior to ever getting close to them.. and if those conversations don’t lead to what she likes.. don’t bother. Being asked to give direction is an absolute turn off for a lot of women. If I have to direct you, we have no business in bed together.
@@shaddowgolden1054 then theyre going to get bad dick. Thats dumb af. When a woman ask how i like my dick sucked i tell them. Cuz i want my dick to be sucked correctly. Im not a mind reader. I can do all the research and reading i want but every vagina is different.
@@byronmartin1840 precisely!!! I received some of the greatest sex of my life after being celibate for five years and I was bewildered when he asked me to compare him to my former partners. My mouth was literally on the floor and I told him I didn’t remember the details of those experiences and that seemed to have bothered him but I was just being honest. A few weeks later he abandoned me. That sucks😢 didn’t hear from him again for about two months. When we spoke I told him I missed him. He said he missed me too. That was after Valentine’s Day. Nevertheless I decided to block him because my emotions were all over the place. I cared for him but became overwhelmed by my feelings. He was very kind and we had shared a lot about each other and for us to fall off how we did was very painful. Thankfully, I’ve recovered and still have a lot of respect for him.
This is one of the reasons I will not get married to a woman who’s not a virgin. The more partners she had makes it harder to pair bond with her and satisfy her sexually.
Being a virgin or not isn't the issue, not being the man you think you are for her is the issue as described in video. If you've been with multiple women, you'll more than likely have the same issue you fear having with an experienced woman. Better her to be the victim than you huh? Lol
@@nataliewalton5118 there’s risk to everything. It’s just less likely a virgin will step out on a man than a woman who’ve actually experienced multiple partners.
It's not so much about us men improving on in the bed as much as we need to find out what turns your woman on & do that so that she'll have a satisfying sexual relationship with you. Learn her bodies, desires & fulfill them.
But thats just giving an excuse to other woman. "Being mistreated "emotionally" is vague and everyone has a different opinion on that. And even that doesn't give a woman the right to cheat. Shes the one that picked the man.
Sexually pleasing a woman deserves more respect. As it takes longer and is physically demanding. That why women who have lots of sexual partners are mocked and men with the lots of partners are praised and respected.
Then accept the fact you will always be cheated on. That or find a woman who isn't making her relationship all about sexual pleasure. Something western society has pushed on the younger generation
“When women are honest, they say what I tell them to say. I’ve been married three times and in all three situations, I was blameless because men are perfect and women are always wrong, and I’m going to claim that’s a fact as though I were the steward of all truth because nothing on earth is bigger than my ego.”
Exactly.. we have turned things around and put it all on the guy which also feeds the woman ego while allowing her not to have to bring anything to the table
No it's the man job to drive her in bed this the reason why it's attractive for a woman when her men already had multiple relationships before because he knows buy in the other it's unattractive for them if their woman had multiple relationships before... Men became clueless and lazy that they even forgot that they have to lead 🥱 weird...
@@cece6493 it's not about leading, it's about pleasing. "Woman like men who have been in multiple relationships" NO...... 304 woman.. Godly woman would prefer a godly man who isn't out there. Muslim women don't look for men with like that. Your speaking on the declining western society where men think they're women and women think they're men. So of course, someone will want their partner to have multiple relationships JUST SO THE BED CAN BE FUN. Even if commitment is lost
@Easton West ...speaking harshly..ignoring her when she expresses emotion..mental/physical/emotional/financial abuse.refusing to please her per Her needs, not what your prior partner liked
@@IndigoSeeress_Yaa7 many times women consider a man just having boundaries and standing by them as “mean, controlling, abusive” etc. Not every emotion a woman expresses is based on logic or a valid reason and needs to be validated.
@@Eastonwest71 I've never met a woman that expressed herself to find the solution to her problems. But every woman I've ever known just wants us men to listen as they vent.
Even if you start off as "good in bed"... that will eventually not be enough. You'll need to constantly improve in order to keep her excited... to the point that it becomes a second career. Sex just isn't THAT important to me. 😆 I give up. Let some other man waste his time.
Las personas son infieles por falta de valores morales, no por culpa de otros, son solos pretexto, o hablo contigo o me separó, no hay necesidad de ser infiel.
No excuse for cheating.... or even going outside of the marriage. She should confide in him, and let him know what she desires. No marriage is perfect; but between the two of you... Be creative, spice it up and always keep it Hot🔥🔥🔥 Marriage requires work, compassion, and mutual respect.
Men can improve my choosing women that actually like them when you play stupid games win stupid prizes of sexy dress with him for the money so he's asking for that what's wrong with a pretty lady that I like him but actually loves him
Sexting, dirty talking during sex, and actually making love and enjoying each other exploring her/his body trying new things. That’s the key. But it doesn’t mean a thing if she doesn’t love you. She going to cheat anyways if her mind even had the thought
Kevin got this wrong. Women who will get with a man that is an amazing provider and cheat is just that type of woman. She wants the man she can boss around while being with the broke dude who blows her back out. It’s no way around it. Until the victim wakes up. It’s sad though because the good guys usually still end up getting played. Because they still have to pay.
I thought women was cheating becos they were permiscues? I've been married for 10 years. And men came up to me and asks if I want to "get with" them and I answer "no I'm married." Not becos of something my man can or can't do. It's bicuspid I believe in. "Till deth do oss part." ❤❤😊
I was told I was good in bed and the multiple orgasms I have brought forth with the use of my hands are testament of that however I can do this only because I learned from an early age that no matter how good I may be I can always improve upon my skills and abilities. However this will make you good only to some women. As a brother who is just above average (going by the black scale of measurement), if a woman was use to being gutted by a horse hung dude, no matter how you finesse her body, she will still itch for that depth. Learned that the hard, painful way.
This is one of the reasons I will not get married to a woman who’s not a virgin. The more partners she had makes it harder to pair bond with her and satisfy her sexually.
It really have nothing to do with sex, most women are just attracted to who they are not with and who they can never get. That's why the men who are single, or men who aren't good get the best results out of women, and that's why I've changed how I treat women.
