The lady "eldest daughter" is more educated than her school grades. I mean when she speaks there is so much sense and braveness.... And the story is very touching.... But God's ways are not man's... So i believe they should use their second chance together in the best way they can.... Wish you all the best from now onwards❤️❤️❤️
The second mother has obviously been through a lot of things and has learnt to rely on alcohol and a defence mechanism to survive. She's void and needs counseling herself. She can't express the love and embrace she's feeling because she doesn't know how. All of them need counseling but I'm happy the young man was smiling in the end
I DISAGREE,,THAT MOTHER IS HEAVILY SCARED PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY,,AFTER YEARS OF ABUSE,,SOME PEOPLE MIGHT NOT SEE IT BUT I FELT THAT SHE WAS TRULY REMORSEFUL
Jha neh life is very hard, I don't understand umama weyingane avele ahambe nje Nkosi zwela abantwana bakho Sbongile God may bless u Sis ukuty ungalahle izingan zakin👏👏
Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. Self awareness first before you decide to bring someone in this world. I can never understand how u bring a child to this world and expect other people to raise your child while you still alive. Children get abused due to growing up in places where they were never planned. They get abused when the people you left them with feel the pressure of raising your children.
How bathong Andile, please buy more of d thing you are wearing on your head. U look wow. The clothes you are wearing today suits your body n your character
The second story realy made me cry. Il never ever in my life leave my children nomater what. This mother is selfish. I hope they get proper counseling.
Oh well,so he said Nelson Mandela,I'm going to paraphrase, of All the sins in this world,there is no Worse sin like depriving a person education!!! They are children their anger is understood BUT respect for you're parent should be key. You Don't on national TV tell you're mother to stop drinking!!! You then contradict you're self to say you're there because of her?Really.Those physical scars will never heel.you still children I wish you well But learn to hold you're horses,they easily get astray. I'm happy for mom,maybe through the program counselling could be organized for you!!Social I'll in this Country are insurmountable!!! I'm with you mom,financially you we're not in a position to move around and look for you're children in a far off and maybe very deep and rural area!I wish you well and hope God heals the scars and deep seated wounds in you that only He can see and heal.
Tjeer second episode muur it's very painful and i pray God to bless this siblings more especially the old girl she's got a strong character or balls of steel.
Mme wa no 2, aikhona xem , u left ur children with people shame on her, she says it was far ijo🙆🏻♀️she want to blame other people for her drinking ijo wa tena xem, ,i wouldnt stay in an abusive relationship but i wnt leave my children with people never
How dare this woman blame a 4 year old😞😞 for failing her children not 1 not 2 but 3 of them... Instead of coming clean that she wasn't ready and stable Seriously
Circumstances forced her hand. She had no choice. Today she is alive because she chose to leave. Her only fault was allowing her children to be taken from her.
What was she to do?? ...go.look for the husband's out of marriage child truth be told no one can do that.At least she confessed that her husband told her about the child engomunye ubezoyenza ngathi akakwazi
Antie tell me, what do you do when your husband cheats on you, and doesn't even bother to condomise, impregnate another woman, comes and tell you she made another woman pregnant? Are you gonna go out and look for your husband 's illegitimate child? What was this woman suppose to do? Put yourself in her situation first before you throw stones please sisi.Tomorrow you might find yourself in the same situation!!!
fathers of the olden days would take kids away from mothers and poor mothers would just give in to lose their kids.....i know kids suffer but i understand the powerless mothers whose kids are taken away...xolani bantwana ubaba laye kazange alitshele iqiniso....futhi uyezwa bethi umtwana ngokayise....physical abuse is painful...eish laye umama lowu ngubhudwetshwaleni mani...uwisa isithunzi sabomama
Why is it always the childrens are the ones to suffer wen the parents separated 😭😭😭the second family eish the mother is busy telling the kids about how their father used to beat her ,were did the kids fits in there,that was the fight between the parents she is not supposed to use that as an excuse 😡😡😡 all these years and they separated long long back without her try and look for her kids, whenever the alcohol is involved there is always a problem.
@@ramoshabaramoshaba9561 and again in this case the father was also a drunker so like the mother that's why I said were there is alcohol involved you can not expect good outcomes
Lomama ozala omkhaya she still doesn't deserve these humble kids lah bazifunele inkinga as long esaphuza never ebathande basazohlukumezeka leli yilo izanka ilema likamama.How can you listen to a 4 year old I believe the story that she signed those kids away epolice station
Second story sizwisa nhlungu lomama uty saphuza kuyacaca lengane bezizikhathaza zifuna lomama kakashitshi kayikho yuh kubuhlungu zalwa mama phuzayo ngenakwathando lengane fanele kunilahla bezosela kanjan nikhona wabona kungcono anilahle so sad mama ngenakwathando nganeni zakhe yamuzwa kwangoku story sakhe asivakali yuh. Mama nika ngane thando wena yeka sela yini thixo
The first story this woman looks exactly like her father and her older sister (judging from that I.d photo). Imagine meeting a sister you never knew as an adult. I wish her all the best.
They should just be grateful that they found their mother alive and not killed by their father. African men love showing their kids just to show that they can produce babies and they never love and respect their wives. They make wives baby producing machines and take the babies to their parents cause their parents are happy to have grandkids. These kids must just be thankful and consider themselves lucky that they found their mother alive.
This second mother does not care about kids how can a 4 yr old give you rules.A child always goes where they find love and happiness you don't have that mama.mwana webenzi haana mufaro .
The problem with this mum is that she takes zero responsibility for her part in this! Yes the father was wrong for abusing her. Being beaten affects you emotionally and psychologically. I hope they move on and heal....😭☹️
First lady sounds bit angry but she doesn't blame her mother and her mother knew that her boyfriend has a wife at home thats why she was quite about it. I'm proud of the wife she welcomed her as her husband's daughter
The mother on part 2 is remorseful. Only thing is she’s still bitter over how their dad treated her. She’s still drinking her sorrows away. She’s stuck in the past. She’s clearly hurt to hear how her kids grew up. Especially the son who lived on alcohol at 4years. It’s really hard to humble yourself. I’m glad the older sister took an initiative and hugged her first. Hoping and praying for the best for them from now onwards. Really hope they can all get professional psychological help. Heal them Jesus! 🙏🏾
The 1st family, they are not open at all..am sure the Lady would have wanted to know what kind of person was He, and what happened to him. But they did not touch that part.. She's still having lot of unanswered questions I guess
Queen Thako.. what do you wanna know? You want them to tell this young woman that his father was a married man who went to Lusikisiki for work but ended up cheating on his wife by impregnating someone else other than his wife that he left at home? They don't wanna talk about those things on a national television. Anyway it's all in the past now what's done is done. They wanna move on.
Laba bafuna induku abazali abakhohlakele sis mani bring kids in this world to make them suffer, and labo mama balamanga stupid, even ushayiwa marriage injalo baleka nengane zakho
I can't bet the aunt in the second story is still making excuses for her sister. Having drunkards as parents is a curse shem. This woman wronged her children but she doesn't want to be accountable instead she blames everyone else but herself . SMH
Uyabheda ke mina ngikutshele uma ungawafuni ama Xhosa hamba la. Nxa nizenza engathi umhlaba owenu. Uyithathaphi indlela yokuthi ukhulume so ngabanye abantu? Who are you? Mina ke ngingu Mzulu ongavumelani nalombhedo yenu we nzondo.
@@p.k.2220 Hahahaha l am actually Xhosa. I have been observing that almost on all the episodes of Khumbulekhaya this season there is a Xhosa person featured.