kid in vr talks about getting bullied... 2 years later 

Hi Dawabvle how are you?

Hey bro! Just think of them as your mind messing with you! Sometimes bully’s will be through something and throw their pain and anger on others! Maybe talk to them, ask them if they going through something but they could also just do it to make fun of you!

Hope this helped!

Sending good vibes to you always dawa ✨

We missed you dawa! 😁

Same feels bad

Yes for a 2 years its big diffrance, growing up can be weird sometimes

Same

Huge flex but I sounded deeper than he does now when I was 14

Ikr lmao

hahaha :)

For real it is the best pose, lol

my paralysis demon be like

He was twerking too.

Social anxiety is the worst. I cant live a normal life cause of it and every time i need to talk with people in a group or a presentation in class i Shake and i feel the urge to throw up

Well hope u and ur sis are doing okay

nice comment.

i do deal whit both

There are people who will find their life's happiness being your friend. Loneliness isn't the exclusive condition of people with "issues". At the end of the day, we all just want to be around people who accept us.

I know I thought I had misunderstood something and it wasn’t supposed to be the same person, until I read this comment

puberty slammed *HARD* here

Its like finding an old youtube video by some kid and then you watch their latest video

Called puberty mate

@@anhilo9716 it’ll slap even harder once he becomes a senior in high school. I swear from freshmen year to senior year the guys grow beards

it's time to finally listen to weezer

@@syrmor I agree

He was actually singing Maroon 5 "Payphone" Weezer doesn't have any songs with those lyrics.

@@whome77 I know, but he still talked about Weezer

pay phone isn’t weezer it’s maroon 5

“ok give this man a cheeseburger every day and see if there’s progress” moment 😭

5:57

I cant eat spaghetti for that reason

What does she mean by that I'm so confused ahahah

@@charlotteholden1596 i think she was trying to see if he was anorexic

@@puffmello2674 I think they're saying they just feel bad for him and wanna be his friend, like most decent people would.

@@puffmello2674 you do know that friendships don’t have the same age gap rules as romantic relationships, right?

That neoalien person felt so dumb they deleted their comment. Smh. Leave ur comment up and acknowledge ur mistake like a real one next time 🗿

@@aphr0d lel it only proves our point

@@cablekar what did they say..?

you need social anxiety?.. 😭

Yep, I’m totally self conscious like that in public spaces. I’m on medication for it, but it never really leaves you. ❤️

God said “You got your train ticket?” *proceeds to clip out his back*

I just had the same thoughts he said he had as he was telling the story and then I just cried in my bed. This was a weird experience

@Josiah No last name lmaoo idk how else i should say it then.

You know it's really awesome that he gave that information out. I guarantee you he is MTHFR snp gene mutations. It can cause a whole host of issues. Especially mental issues. These people cannot methylate properly. I'm part of that group. So is my son so is my mother my grandmother my aunt and three out of six of my cousins. It even extends into our extended family. Such as my grandmother's brother his three children, six out of eight grandchildren. I truly hope he sees my comment. They are very simple things that can help him methylate. Will help him actually process and make his own melatonin melanin and D3. Guaranteed he has oxalate issues as well. Bless him. Things such as folic acid can be a slow cell death for ourselves. It must change into another chemical before it changes into folate. That chemical gets trapped into our cells. That chemical actually is a chemical in the cyanide family. It's really sad that people don't know these things but I guess if you don't study genetics you would have no idea.

At least he seems to accept his condition and knows it all will be good.

I have scoliosis but it’s minor.

@@rubb3rlizard607 I hope you get better.

The height thing is so relatable tho.. Oh yeah im this and that but without scoliosis i would be so and so tall🥴

I have ADHD and I have never heard something so accurate to how it feels. It's comforting to know that I'm not the only one feeling like this.

I don't know how young he is, but he's so well-spoken for his age.

ah yes, the power of puberty

Puberty magic

Man, puberty hit my voice and height like a tricycle going a mile an hour :(

@@JourneysEnding how tall have you reached? I'm 16 and a half rn and I'm 177cm tall

@@minecraftstation6422 I think the voice changes more drastically in America IDK why but at least it seems for me xd Everyone that change voice that I know took some time to change voices, hell I took some time to change voice and a kid I know from America changed in like a week from a kid voice to a deep voice xd

Yeah, this is just in a convo off the top of his head. Imagine if he wrote stuff down

very much like...dmitri martin vibes, you know?

RIGJT ?

Idk but I think that's a common speech/thought pattern with ADHD

The first vr stand up comedian

Really!

I also have ADHD and I think it’s great you feel that way about him! I often don’t like to talk because I fear people will find me annoying :/

@@morameww1055 Dont think that! just be yourself :D

yes

@@morameww1055 it don’t matter what people think just be urself man. and i guarantee that you’ll find a special friend one day that truly supports you, i also struggle with adhd and fast matbalism i’m 4’11 at 15. and i still get bullied sometimes. it will never go away there will always be people like that. you just gotta find your way to block them out. have a great day man

Agreed, this kid is very self aware for his age

He won't if he perpetuates his nutritional deficiency.

@@mimszanadunstedt441 ... Yikes.

@@anobody4606 Psychology as a field ignores nutritional biology. If you are deficient in just a few minerals you can't use half your brain without a problem happening.

Social anxiety is easily curable. I don’t like admitting it, but I struggled with it for a very long time, then I got into fitness and now I no longer care what others think… it’s the process that makes you change the way you see yourself, and no drugs or alcohol in the world can change that.

AGREED. The way he talks is super eloquent and his stories are interesting and funny and relatable and I'm just so amazed at his self-awareness and thought processes. Insightful, really. Wish him all the best!

Sure dude

Bap

I didn’t open the comments until right when he said that and I saw this at the same time👀

Mhm

Yea, ADHD at it's finest 😄

I'm sorry but.... The floor is made out of floor.

@@kaylons NO... THIS CAN'T BE

@@ziwuri call the cops, this guy is committing arson.

“I’m into rap, but instead of rap it’s whatever the fuck else it is and not even close”

@@puntachu The way he said it was funnier, sorry. Next.

@@raccoonchild it's supposed to be an example of how someone can use that sentence and put whatever instead of drawings

​@@triiodide7762 okay but who is the one who naturally inserted into a conversation? dawa most people would never come up stuff like this on the spot

Facts Pinkerton is so good

@@zevenup yeah but raditude is better im sorry i dont make the rules

@@ofresco2 facts man "Im Your Daddy" saved my life

Saying you like the second album is a secret rule that we all know 🥲

hahah havent even seen the whole vid yet and this made me stick around

Come home plz

I have no anemo and I have a lot of pyro so why you gave me C1 Diluc

@@DEEZ_N4T same I lost the 50/50 and got Diluc

I ended up grinding primogems until I finally got kazuha on my 62nd wish :D

Thank you for coming home

As a high school dropout, I Totally agree. It's conditioning for us to be subservient and to fit into a mold that's the whole point. But I've never lost any opportunities without having a diploma, in fact most employers don't even ask And if they do I just tell them yeah I have it.

@@khufu8642 out of curiosity what do you work as?

@@valchan2258 Forklift Operator, I'm about to start an apprenticeship for an Auto Body Technician ( someone who repairs damage and paints cars ).

@@valchan2258 When I dropped out I started off working at Taco Bell, then eventually a Chinese restaurant as a cook, then Olive Garden as a line Cook. I was able to afford my own apartment with my girlfriend who also worked there as a busser. Eventually I started working as a laborer in warehouses until I got certified on the forklift.

@@khufu8642 Depends on what school really at the high school hear you can get 6 out of the 7 things to become a heavy engineer

Ohno please

🧐

What? Why tongues? Lmao.

@@twiggy1253because you taste your reflection of the tongue I guess

This makes a lot of sense, I was also thinking water cause water do be reflective

That's what bullying does to you. You constantly get told what's wrong with you and ostracised to the point you can't see anything good in yourself and you internalise the pessimism and feel like you deserve nothing. Being hard on yourself is the manifestation of those being hard on you as a child.

Ouchies

Has nothing to do with the USA, public schooling is a thing all over the world.

@@lukasschmidt2478 Public schooling isn't the SAME all over the world.

@@anobody4606 No, you're right, being indoctrinated in Japanese is probably a much nicer experience I would be guessing.

_meanwhile syrmor stares_

Wasn't it Payphone by Maroon 5?

@@danvexwx6926 yes, whose lead singer is adam levine

@@foodisgood5665 Ah, I see... The more we learn then, but how would he relate it all to Weezer?

@@danvexwx6926 thats the joke

Truth. I have ADHD as well. I'm also autistic and struggle with a variety of mental health issues. People like us are everywhere, people just don't like to focus on us.

@@LycanthropyLobo 🙏 may the force be with you my bruddah

Or if people do focus on you, the response is that you get bullied or ignored, unfortunately

I got diagnosed with ADHD at 30. x.x I never knew =/

I have adhd but not that bad but bad enough that I need medicine

Same bro. I have like 190 days school and went for like only 90 days in school, only 10 days were because of real reasons and the rest because of my social anxiety. Idk how the fuck i passed but im in summer now and will go to 9th grade hopefully it will be better.. :/

I have the opposite, I can't really connect with people online and I'm very scared of voice chat. Always been envious of people with online friends.

@@miipmiipmiip Yea the first time voice call is a bit yk but if u voice chat often u will become more close and speak like u would do with real friends in rl

That sounds kinda like ocd, it's not uncommon to have ocd if u have adhd (I have both lol) but it can be kinda hard to tell because ocd like. Feels rational to you on some level. Like you know it isn't but it's not as crazy as like "I have to tap this 3 times or the building will set on fire" which I feel like a lot of people make it out to be, sometimes it's just like "if I don't breathe as quietly as possible while I'm on this bus everyone is gonna look at me and think im a weirdo who breathes funny" which is fucking absurd because you can't even hear weird breathing on the bus it's so loud in there and I'm not even breathing weirdly when I just breathe normally but I get so paranoid and anxious about it that I have to just give in and breathe weird so that no one thinks I breathe weird, it's dumb but it doesn't feel dumb because it's a thing that could feasibly happen it just most likely won't

I feel you on the paranoid fear of being percieved as threatening or disgusting tho I'm dealing way better with my social anxiety and accepting that it's not my fault if people see me that way but some situations it just really messes with me, I can't date because I'm too scared of people being grossed out or getting angry that I think I have the right to ask for a date when I'm so repulsive but I don't even think I am??? It's just been bullied into me basically and it's really hard to get it out, shit sucks

Question, do you have ADHD? Because I’m starting to notice a pattern with overthinking and ADHD

same i am really scared of how people think of me that it forces me to just freeze and not even say a single word at all. which is why I socially want to be irrelevant (usually in school) so not much attention gets to me and there would be less judgement and anxiety.

TheGuyWithAHoodie there could be a pattern of overthinking with ADHD but it's not always the case. Paranoia or being overly cautious hasn't been my experience with ADHD. I don't worry too much about how I'm negatively viewed and instead try to actively have positive thoughts about people and even positive interactions. Even if that's just a smile .. or complimenting someone in my head. Funnily enough, the more I do this, the more I think they're thinking positively about me too. I used to be quite insecure in my youth about how others viewed me, and this change of pattern helped me so much. but like the original commenter noted, there's always a worry about a threat being around the corner but that could just be healthy caution (being vulnerable in some way makes u feel like this). As a woman I definitely have this thought in the back of my mind

Same mostly the "they think I'm following them" when I make eye contact. Really messes with my head so I avoid and dip.

me bc i dress kinda goth bc it makes me feel more like myself but every now and then when i’m in public i have the intense realization of “oh my god i am dressed like a literal clown”

Yeah for me I have tons of anxiety at checkout or when I’m next to someone in an isle. It really sucks.

Once i made a joke (out of anxiety) about looking homeless to this guy i was meeting, because i was wearing a really oversized hoodie. Part of why i was even wearing the hoodie was because it helps my anxiety a bit. He took that as a sign to think its fine to be rude to me, and he asked me to take off my hoodie because he was embarrassed to be seen with me in public wearing that hoodie 😠 Still get annoyed thinking about that dude lol. He also kept asking me questions and then as SOON as i started answering the questions he would cut me off and start talking about something else. It wasnt just a few times either, it was seriously every question he asked. Never heard of such a weird douchebag behaviour before or since

Same, except instead of thinking others think I look bad, I’m told by my own family that I’m “ratty” And people still wonder why I have self confidence problems

if i may ask what's arfid?

that cracked me up cause it always happens to me, i go off on some tangent and completely forget what the question was

I have adhd and I do that

That's how a lot of really short people are. They're witty because they kinda have to be or people will just step all over them.

@@ironhead1177 idk man, i was the shortest in my grade but ive only gotten positive interactions out of it in my 18 years... depends where you grow up i suppose. like you said, i feel like your personality is more of a factor to getting bullied (i.e if you're a very quiet person, or maybe if you're really annoying)

@@homeyworkey Yeah you're probably right about the personality thing. Where I grew up, a lot of the short kids were known for insulting people and fighting a lot, but losing almost every time. But most people left them alone because they didn't want to deal with their short tempers. But that's just my community, cant speak for other places.

@@ironhead1177 That's such a weird and false take. Either you're witty or you aren't, it's not something you develop as a defense mechanism. People who try hard to be funny/witty typically fail at it catastrophically and come across as just corny, cringe and, you guessed it, tryhard instead.

@@raccoonchild If you don't agree with me that's cool, but a lot of people do develop "wit" as a defense mechanism. No one is born with any trait and if you're talking about people who "fail" at it, I'm guessing you are talking about people who are not actually witty but try to be.

It hit him like truck-kun to an isekai anime protagonist.

@@arodnoir3092 I don’t watch anime so I have no idea what the fuck that meant😂😂

@@Heisenberg000. well the joke wasn't for you

@@StrawberryDreamsicle well my joke wasn’t for you

@@Heisenberg000. And every isekai anime there is a cliche or a where a truck comes barreling through a stop light and kills the main character and they get transported to another world and so the Internet has taken the name truck-kun.

Love inconveniencing myself so I can avoid speaking to someone.

I wasn't even homeschooled, and I'll still run away from someone I recognize in public.

You'll become a lot less concerned what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they think of anyone but themselves.

@@ShadowWizard123 I can at least speak for myself that I can get anxious just from having to talk to others, and not necessarily conscious worrying about what they think of me. But yes, agree, as a fellow human being, I'm usually caught up in my own shit. I do notice little things people do, but I'm just a creepy people watcher, so I don't set the standard.

I cant leave the house without headphones so I can act like im the only person in public. Hate being looked at and hearing all the people in public. Crazy how many people are so agoraphobic.

Ever considered HGH shots?

Wtf this made me feel some way

This hit different, you’re real for this

People with ADHD, I can confirm as one of them with really severe ADHD, are super creative and we can think of things that your brain wouldn’t think to think of in ages..like what would a mirror taste like??

@@moony2543 if were thinking with mirror logic, it would taste like the thig it would be reflecting, so it would just be T O N G U E

it would taste like…water probably.

It’s ADHD lol 😂

Omg AGREE

Read my mind

@@absarqureshi8608 Read my mind

Dude is genuinely funny.

It's okay. A lot of people arent college material. Dont let that lead you to thinking that you wont be successful. College saddles you with a lot of debt as well.

@@justsomeguy4099 Well said. College didn't work out for me but I learned that it's not what I wanna do and that's what it's all about.

@@justsomeguy4099 god bless America

That's all good. College is a scam anyways.

@@mortis3732 college is a wonderful resource. You should’ve used it

Magnesium exercise and zinc deficiency~

oh my god same

My voice changed when I started 6th grade. I did not know this around the time, but everyone would point out how my voice deepened. It is to the point where it is not even surprising anymore if the newer generation were to have a deeper voice around 6th grade. Well, that is just my experience. I am currently 15 years old.

right

Same he also lowkey just seems like a SUPER chill guy to just hang with and talk to

Months? Wow I can’t imagine. We got out surgeries in the same time frame but I was up and going by the second day after surgery. I hope she’s okayyyy 😭

@@jordansprings4954 Spinal surgery is invasive and intense.

@@cablekar Ik I’ve had it 😭

I knew a guy who had the surgery with great results. Straightened his spine, relieving him of curvature and pinched nerves. His discs were beginning to be compressed, too. One week in hospital, was able to carefully walk by the time he went home. Turns out he gained TWO inches in height!! Yeah, he’s got the long scar, but he’s able to joke lightly about it.

Take control, assert dominance - come say hello before they do. Be the threat that you fear - initiate contact first. If you do it first then you are catching them off-guard and not the other way around. 😂😂 But if you actually do that, you don't even need to say much: "hey, how you doing?" "Cool, cool, alright I gotta go. See you later"

Damn this comment was what I wanted to say. Haha.

Church wafers

It would taste like whatever it is reflecting

@@lefudj4236 so if its reflecting a human being, would it taste like raw meat or cooked?

@@aisharosealeta6801 definately (sorry if it's spelt wrong,) raw

@@aisharosealeta6801 raw meat obviously !

XD

YEET

factssss

Hey brother.....if ya don't mind, can I know more bout adhd from ya??

oh shoot

@@nikhilpatro6376 it sucks I have it too and it makes it very difficult to focus in highschool. It also makes me seem less mature this is because I'm always hyper if you compare me to the normal person.

ADHD is not a real disability

same! i’m his age but a girl! these 16 minutes were so comforting cause i understood every little thing he was saying. i’ve felt and experienced (to a degree) of what hes talking about and all that

i am the exact same as well i am also 21 i feel less weird now knowing that other people are like me / went through similar things

Third Reich noises intensify

😶

hahaha i was just gonna comment something like this

@@GPickle32 we do quite an extensive amount of trolling

*_comfort over ze internet_*

Honestly same

Okay so avoidance isn't a great strategy for dealing with anxiety but neither is constantly exposing yourself to triggers, the method to deal with this is essentially confronting your problems by avoiding them, which sounds stupid but hear me out. If you acknowledge and accept that you have a mental health issue that is obstructing your ability to succeed in a school environment, you need to tell people that AND tell them what you need from them to be able to manage that issue so you can improve. It won't always go well and that is hard to deal with, but it's worth trying because when it does work it makes everything so much easier. Maybe you need a special pass or something that allows you to leave class and go to a quiet space where you can still be supervised but have less people around you, wherever that may be. Maybe you need private meetings with your teachers to help you break down assignments into smaller less overwhelming steps so it takes less mental energy to make progress. Things like that that help you avoid your triggers without avoiding your responsibilities completely. If you can communicate your problems in a way that shows you want to do well and are willing to put effort in to improve it can really help convince people that you aren't trying to use your mental health as an excuse to get out of stuff, and that you are capable of doing what's expected of you provided you have the right supports.

I mention school first because it's easier to improve that anxiety than social anxiety at first, but once you start thinking about strategies like that and practising them you'll be able to start applying the same kind of thinking to social anxiety and that can give you just enough confidence to still function while you try to work through and process your insecurities and learn to love yourself, because that's really hard and takes a long time but it's much easier when being insecure isn't making you too scared to leave the house unless you have to

Same here :(