@dailydevotionals2405 I agree. I have been praying about kingdom spouse's in general. If it's a deception to distract from the enemy. I pray not to be deceived, that I keep my eyes and ears toward Jesus🙌🏼
I too came from a narcissistic abusive relationship and when God told me that my ordained spouse is an avoidant, I cried because I didn’t understand why I had to deal with an Avoidant after a Narc but then he started to explain to me in different ways that a Narc and an Avoidant are different. They can actually be healed and once they are, it’ll be the most beautiful person you’d ever imagine. Also, he told me that the pain I’ve endured with the Narc was preparing me for my Avoidant. He also made me realize that the Narc didn’t turn my heart to stone, it remained as flesh and this is why. So, I’m so glad you have this video up. I intercede for my ordained spouse and continue to stand in the gap for him because the devil will definitely play on his emotions especially his fear. Smh! That’s why this separation is taking too long. We are in NO contact at all.
I can relate so very much! This last time is different. I asked him never to contact me again if a Jesus centered marriage wasn't the goal. And I do mean that God is first! I am tired of the roller coaster, push/pull. I know he loves me very much. His family doesn't want him with anyone, especially me (because of his strong feelings for me). But he can't seem to tell them he loves me and wants to be with me. He did one daughter, and she was fine with it...the others, not so much. They are grown and marrried. I have asked him to please let me go. And it seems as if he has listened this time. Before , he would text to check in, and it's been crickets. I love this man, but this has been going on for too long. God's will be done, amen. If it's not from Jesus, I dont want it!
@DancingAndPraze then what the Lord Thy God ordains... no one can stop! Amen! It's his decision time to choose. God knows my heart and his. If he can't stand up to his family, then what does that say about his being my covering? He has changed a lot. He has drifted from the Lord Jesus. We all do from time to time, but this is so different from the man I knew. (I have known him a very long time). His divorce from a narcissist almost destroyed him; as did mine. The difference, I went through my mess and allowed Jesus to heal me & he buried his. I think he is still a little angry w/God about it. And he is very afraid. I pray he turns towards Jesus & not away & that he allows Jesus to fully heal him. I want him to be whole, whether with me or not. And Holy Spirit is the One Who can do that! Amen
I totally understand that as I am beginning to learn my own attachment patterns. And my 'Kingdom Spouse' is also a fearful avoidant. I do pray for his and my deliverance every day.
I forget that I have to continually pray against that. God revealed to me two weeks ago that he is fear hiding behind pride and pain hiding behind pride.
Yes, exactly!! God asked me to send my kingdom spouse a message and include the verse I John 4:18- There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. Definitely, praying against the spirit of fear and for supernatural healing!! ❤
Perfect love casts out fear. We are called to continue to love by doing, (even if we receive nothing at all but silence in return), just as Christ loved us before we ever loved Him. Sacrificial love. And then, sometimes God just says, “Be still and know.” Be still and know that God has given you the promise. Be still and know that God has given you the confirmation. Be still and know that God doesn’t lie; so just be still and know. Let Him do His work. ❤️❤️
Not that exact scenario ofc but definitely keep experiencing these kinds of experiences with my GOS.. it’s so frustrating and exhausting. But God reminds me that He is struggling in his mind and heart and my heart becomes softened and I forgive. The Lord has laid heavy on my heart to pray against fear this past month or so. Confirmation!
How can I go to bed when you not going to bed, I hear a bing(notification) I look to see who? Daly Grace😊 Well I got one for this one too. When my God Ordained was early in the game … He would flirt with me(in the weirdest way because he’s introvert) you couldn’t tell that he was flirting, so Holy Spirit would let me know that he was flirting, but the moment I tried to flirt back he would shut me down … walk away, or turn his back! ( that use to fume me!) like he was saying “Look I can flirt, but you bet not flirt back” I let it be, I let him think he was in charge 😂 Good night 💤
Thank you and the trauma is deep rooted in some of our God ordained spouses. This shed some light that will bring healing and deliverance to them. Blessings 🎉🎉🎉
What a triggering song lol I was fearful avoidant but I did the work! So I kindly call my spouse out & set boundaries with the dismissive avoidant. I’ve been praying against fear in him for a long timeeee. But um yes I relate.
Father we stand together, united as a community of believers who love those in hard places and ask that you deliver each loved one from the spirit of fear, rejection, avoidance and all other oppression that they face. Encounter each stander and our KS and let them supernaturally experience your PERFECT LOVE that casts out ALL FEAR this very day. Bring healing, wholeness and the ability to make bold moves in our relationships come EVEN overnight! Bless us all with breakthrough. You are baal-perazim, LORD OF THE BREAKTHROUGH! 🔥 🙌 🕊️
Jesus please give me strength I seem to bear the weight of the world on my shoulders as a single mom, I often face challenges that can seem insurmountable especially with raising two children with special needs. I won’t give up but Lord I’m so discouraged. I’m trying to balance everything but Lord I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children. Jesus hear my prayers and please continue to give me strength.
Your recent messages are so very timely.... It's a complete disaster in their mind and heart. The healthiest thing to do is to stay at a distance I feel .. So it doesn't drag us down further.
@@ginamarie4287 no, I don’t want a man like this which is why I didn’t choose him and why we’re not together. My assignment from God is simply to pray for his salvation and deliverance… 🙏❤️
Wow sister thank you ❤ God bless you This was my relationship But may I know why is it that they don’t feel like that with the counterfeits/AKA they can choose to be with them ?
Yes, they only run from deep feelings and intimacy, because only those they have deep feelings for can hurt them. Being with someone they don’t love feels safe, because there’s no risk involved…❤️🙏
@@DalyGrace77 God bless you sister ❤️ thanks for explaining it as to someone like me this behaviour is very difficult to understand. I will be praying for him. God bless you richly for the insight ❤️
Because counterfeits are carnal, it's about quick pleasure sex , etc. Its superficial because they avoid deep feelings they live a superficial sinful life going from pleasure to pleasure.sleeping with many woman or any other drug. I believe they to make the decision to change. Without decisions can they really change ?there is alot involved evil spirits, traumas alot..
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