Kira J - "first date sex"  

saw a reel on ig and had to come see the rest, amazing and so well articulated!!!!

Unbelievable how this type of poetry really gets through you your mind fully changes once you see yourself as a worthy human being not matter what your body count is, this woman is everything for saying out loud!

She's just saying what she needs! So everything is clear. Speaks your thoughts out loud it would make relationships less complicated.

I love this perspective- the idea that giving someone the time, effort, and intimacy to know who you are truly and granting them access to your mind is honestly more sacred than just physical stuff.

This is amazing! A grown-up's version a real life attitude! Bravo

GOLD. PURE GOLD. You have said it in every way I have failed to over the years. I will be sending this to all 7 of my “boyfriends” lol love you girl keep it up

This is a masterpiece, this is a whole class on empowerment and self worth. I love this, thank you.1

Kira is such a beast!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Saw a real on ig. So so glad I came and heard the whole. AWESOME 👏

THANK YOU, THIS MAKES ME FEEL COMFORTABLE AND NOT MAKE ME FEEL BAD💕💕💕

She ATE

Imagine listening to this on your first date

Fantastic piece. Love it

This makes a lot of sense.

Kira always comes with it

THIS WAS AMAZING!! 10 out of 10! You get it sis!

My perception exactly.

Wow!!! Men have been trying to say this for a long time. Glad she understands.

Poetry slam dunk!! Loved it ❤

This gave me absolute chills

Yeaaaaassss Queen!! Preach!! I felt this in my soul.

This. Was. Beautiful! ❤

Love this.!

AMAZING! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Yasss 😮‍💨

I absolutely love this! ❤❤

I absolutely love this. So so much

WOW THAT WAS AMAZING

Instant Classic! 🫰🏿🫰🏿🫰🏿

LETS GO!!!

Spitting🔥🔥

Amazing

amazingggg

Badass!!! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

This. This. This. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Respect for her words

I love this and I love her. Saw her on ig and had to find the full poem. I can relate. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤❤

She snapped

I like her she get straight to the point ❤

This is a great perspective

God I love her so much

Snap snap snap👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤

Interesting perspective 🔥🔥🔥🔥

Snap snap snap!!!!!!! Go awwwwffff!

Saw on Fb went to if , had to hear the rest. So beautiful.

I'm feeling all👏🏾of👏🏾 this!👏🏾 Not everybody wants a damn husband/wife! Religion and societal norms got single folks believing they have to go without sex? Nah, that's a NO for me dawg! 🤣

YASSSSSSSSSSSSSS

We come a long way......I Like it

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i saw this on IG & i had to come see the rest !

💯👏👏👏👏

Finally someone speaking my language

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I love this so much I wish I wrote it 😅😂😂

Tell ‘em again!

Hear hear❤️‍🔥🎉

One word - WORD

Couldn't have said it better

You are fire girl

I wish that Mic was detachable, so you could have done an epic Mic drop as you walked out. Straight flames Kira

Yo I had to listen to this whole thing because I consciously agreed that is was bad to give it up that quick if my heart or mind wasnt in it. She said it though giving up this fruit is based upon the seasons. No need for it to spoil

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Period.

Nah this is extremely good😂😢❤

Damn ,damn,damn,damn am clapping and laughing

First time hearing this view

Let her cook✍🏾

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This is fire! Love it. Speaking truth!!!!

I loved the poetry and she is stunning! 😍 I agree with some of what she says. Women sometimes are too caught up in waiting & giving a deadline on sex. Making him wait 90 days/ 3rd date, etc wont guarantee a healthy relationship. I don’t think having sex early is bad and think having chemistry most important. But I think women should be selective with who they give their body to. What would happen if someone met 5 men and they all were bad in bed. Thats 5 men added to the body count for nothing. I believe you can teach someone what you like sexually.

Good poetry..... In real life that behavior is helping to keep us messed up.

This is me

You can feel that way but it’s still wrong! :)

Is this on tik tok 😩😩 please say yeesss

interesting

No baby. Sex is a whole blood Covenant. Spiritual knowledge is key.

@IamKiraJ So when can I take you out than. 😂👀

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This is what I try to tell this hos

her dad must be proud

She's speak about me :>

Kira 💦❤

A man and a woman can both roll around in the same pool of mud. The man will get up and still be called a man. - Grandma Lydia

Thighquakes for pancakes, I get it.

Well articulated. I don't know why women value sex that much, LOL

I rather do marriage then sex or adopt6

I get it but for me sex is just not that fun until later anyway and I want someone to know that's not my prime motivator. If they can't connect with me on any other level it's not going to be worth my time.

and you're not married? how's that possible?

Time stamp 1:47 🔥😅 THAT PART!!!

All I know is happy wife/husband, happy life. Long as both sides needs met the bond strong, if both sides needs aren’t met don’t be surprised.

Bad D IS A DEAL BREAKER! Sorry lil one.

Get ready to hate me, but does #527 (or whatever) really want to hear about the others and how she gave them her body but not her mind? And that is reassuring? There is actually something in between a "deadline" or "timeline" for sex resulting in unhappiness vs. Sleeping with men on the first date to find the "right one". Maybe "the right one" will find out her method and become "the one that got away". There is something to physical chemistry, but when you are 70...there is a whole LOT more you will have wished your 35 year old self thought about than "how was that D?" Good poem though. And begin the negative comments in 3...2...

🤔😐 I'm thinking that if a lot of you fools don't REPENT and ask for forgiveness; in🔥🔥🔥 hell you'll wake up!!! I'm praying this SISTAH will flip the script and SLAM for FATHER GOD & HEAVEN!!! She's talented; but at this moment, she's serving the wrong entity. Y'ALL BETTER FREAKING WAKE UP!!! I ❤ Y'ALL!!!❤️❤️❤️🤗

This kind of thinking is why we have more “Baby Daddies” than husbands in our communities! Then we wonder why our relationships are so dysfunctional well maybe if you really got to know the person b4 you layed down you would know his/her HIV status or any other STD status just in case the condom breaks while y’all having this fun… This is an irresponsible and ignorant way of thinking and I love my sisters but Ladies RESPECT YOURSELF!!

Wowwww. God is so displeased. We are so caught up in “Sex”. That’s not what we are put here for. You shouldn’t have sex with anyone until you get to know them, better yet when you are married. But since most of us have already had sex before marriage? The most important thing about a person is their character. How does sex come before a persons character? Why not just wait until God sends your husband? Then there is no games involved. If you’d just WAIT…. You’d get marriage and all the sex you want. It’s crazy to me that people just give their bodies away. Take the time to vet a man… and ask God to reveal to you if that is the right man for you. God always gives us signs. When God answers and tells you… no! That is not the right man for you? You will feel better knowing you didn’t give your body or heart to the wrong man! Please don’t listen to this woman… she’s a foolish woman and the book of Proverbs speaks of her foolishness. She’s very talented with words though! Such a sad video.

totally disagree this poem does not give you a pass to be free sexually for those of you who believe in God. God made sex for a married couple for a reason. and no matter what you say you or try to word it poetically the other person takes a piece of you and you know it deep down. so don't try to be hard be virtuous it is easier my loves

🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾*finger snaps* I had an argument not too long ago where a man couldn't understand how I could give my body but withhold my mind!