I've been in that last situation, and I remember I was lying next to her, it's 6 in the morning she gets a call from her "long distance" bf and out of nowhere she says, "tumhe to bas yahi lagta hai ki me bahar jaati hu aur ladko se milti hu" and my eyes open listening to this ki bc me yahi side me sorha hu!
tu call keke us bechare Ko bata deta or usse distance bana leta to may be that guy would have thanked you and you and that guy may have become good friends and left her alone for good reason ( just my opinion ) same thing has happened with my friend he was in same situation as you he did same
Being a nice man paradox. believe me if he would not have did her anyone else would have done that. If she wants to do it she’ll find anyone and believe me boy there are plenty of options. so don’t try to be a good man and bring justice to the society. Just because you’re fake nice it doesn’t mean that you’ll get good from everyone. That’s a flaw in the moral teaching that society throws on us.
That clubbing story is pretty dark. But in real sense, that boyfriend is indeed a dumb guy. Always trust your gut. If you think your girl is cheating on you, she probably is.
@D for Don I agree with your view If are getting gut feeling your gf is going to cheat on you It's probably true Communication pehle se kaam ho raha Dates pe jyada no mil rahe hai Sex happens very less
Basically we Indians are becoming weak slaves of western hookup culture in the name of so called "modern love" and will be left alone & suffering after a few decades. This might sound like "dadaji ka lecture" but mark my words.
Wow Kshitij, you got amazing story telling skills bro. Have been following your channel and learnt a lot from you. Just wanted to end it with a thank you and saying that the Hindi-English switch that you make in a sentence sounds insanely good.
the last story depressed me and the guy may be still wandering for his next piece of validation of his pure love and it left me a thought "some time will come individually when we individually will think dating is pointless "
Dating IS pointless. Arranged marriage makes way too much sense because at the macro level, multiple compatible individuals with positive, desirable attributes exist who will commit seriously when families join together and get involved. Romance is a concept sold to us to our own detriment.
@@jogendrajoshi7327 partly you're right but in that case we have to sure that the girl have not been forced or gaslighted by others to marry otherwise outsider or she herself can break the marriage😅
I don't know why but mango wala part hits me a lot! I feel that pain (by the way mango is the same guy in one of kshitij ka video where he is conducting q seminar)
Jealous boyfriend wala scene mere sang hua hai bro..... literally manipulateros know how to play the game so learning game and be aware in the social scenario makes you much more ahead....Thank you Kshitij bro for your valuable and eye opener suggestions 🔥💥💫✨
I didn't like the conclusion. You could have just said that go with the gut and end the relationship instead of saying the trust and give your 100% either way. Coz damn, this is exactly the reason married men have messed up mental health.
I don't know why I am left perplexed after the last story , I mean I knew these things happen But I just feel sad for that guy (I also appreciate the storytelling skills bro) Kshitij bhai , I have seen these videos about setting boundaries in relationship , but they are by foreign creators Would love if you could give your perspective on this topic of setting boundaries
The first one I can relate with my self.... Just after breakup exactly this happend with me.... My mind also blows off like bomb.... Like wtf what I ll do now😂
Yes recent things happen when another boy shares the feelings with the same girl. That boy literally takes her phone and blocks my number and says don't talk to me. When the same thing was told to me on NXT morning.....I just launched and if u like this type of attitude then go with him but am not like that. I am given full freedom to talk to anyone....
I disagree with this one bro agar you get some things that she's cheating and telling lies then the best thing us to pull the plug and get out of that shitty relationship.
Generally masses ko itne knowledgable and technical stuff pasand nhi hote...aur jo Love and dating wale kuch farzi superficial channels bhi hai jinme millions of subs. Hai thats becoz of they say in easy way me...kshitij speaks professionally and fluent...which 80% indians k uper se jata hai
In simple word…e advice gareebi k liye nhi hie…gareeb not interms of money …it is interms of people with low self esteem who does not want to work on themsef
Meri ek friend thi jisee bhut like kiya krta tha hum 12th class me same tution me the jab humare final exam ho chuke the tab hum Facebook par thodi jada hi chat kiya krte the me use like krta hun ye bat maine apne dost ko bataya tha Kyu ki vo meri crush ke jada close tha me uske ghar bhi gya tha uska birthday celebration ke liye first time uske family me sab open minded the Vo janti thi suru se ki me use like krta hun but maine kabhi Use bola nhi tha dhire dhire hum bhut close aane lage hum daily chatting kiya krte the or sabhi friends ka birthday celebrate krne sath me jaya krte the fir pta nhi ek time aesa aaya jab usne mujhe avoid krna chalu kr diya tha thoda thoda fir bhi me use same attention diya krta tha me uske liye 24/7 available rahta tha uski ke friend thi jisko humare bare ye idea tha ki ye dono ek dusre ko like krte h fir usne Mujhse chatting kuch dino tak band kr diya tha fir ek din uska maine hal chal pucha to usne rote huve bataya tha ki uske Bhai or usko koi Banda like krta h usko police ne Aandar kr diya h us time lockdown chal raha tha isliye unko bahar aane me may be 5,6 mahine lag gaye is bich vo mujhse or jada close hoti gyi or me bhi ab usko like krta tha to ye bhul chuka tha ki usne kisi ladke ke bare me mujhe btaya tha jo use like krta h hum daily Sunday milte the morning Vo bss apni bate batane ke liye mujhe morning, afternoon, evening me or night me call kiya krti thi yaha tak ki hum Morning me 4 baje uth kr bhi bat kiya krte the me apne ghar ke bathroom me jakr bat kiya krta tha vo puri tarah se mere dimag pr Beth chuki thi vo bss Mera attention chahti thi or kuch bhi nhi humari friendship ko 1 year complete ho chuka tha hum jab bat krte the to lagta tha ki vo bhi interested hai mujhme isliye to mujhe itna call or message krti h lekin aesa kuch bhi nhi tha me friendzone ho chuka tha us time tak. Me us time pr job kr raha tha Fir uska call aaya ek din usko mujhse kuch paise chahiye the Uska bhai or uska boyfriend centre jail me the unse usko milna tha or vo ghar se paise lena bhul gyi thi isliye usne mujhse paise magvaya tha maine use centre jail ke bahar me jakr paise diye or vaha se chala gya. Valentine's week Chal raha tha dosto ne bola ab time aa gya h Usko propose kr de maine unko bat man kr propose kr diya tha us dine night me vo vo has rahi thi meri bato pr us time ke bad se humari bate thodi kam ho gyi thi lekin me usse itna jada close ho chuka tha ki vo mere mind me Beth chuki thi puri tarah se Last me yahi bolna chahunga usne mere sath aesa game khela tha ki mujhe laga me hi galat hun jab ki usko meri feelings ka idea tha suru se uska boyfriend usse 10 sal bada tha 2 ya teen sal nhi 10 sal 😂😂😂 vo looking Vise me jada acha tha usse mera uthna bethna bolna sab usse jada acha tha vo bss job krta tha or uske pass sport bike thi vo itni chalu hogi me ye smjha nhi paya tha vo bss mera use kr rahi thi jab tak ki uska boyfriend jail me h tab tak bhai log ap logo ko yahi bolna chahunga ga ki jis ladki ko ap like krte h usko bol do or agr vo naa bole to uska kabhi friend bankr mat raha naa kabhi nhi
Sir ispe bhi ek video bnao Mere saath ye ho chuka h. Actually we r 3 one is my gf and we all three r best friends from school life And firbhi my gf always give him more physical close in the name of best friend than me even she hugged him than me for first time. And me and gf know that he secratoly likes her firbhi wo aisa krti h mere saamne And says to me that i m jealous. And i don't knows friendship and says unka relation friendship se alg h Agr more accurately kahi to he is a bad boy.
Bhai honestly speaking you should make things clear with her and in case she doesn't agree then do break up. Better to leave her finally than living with the pain everyday.
Bhai tum itni saari advice dete ho. How can we know that your advice will improvise my relationship or way of life. What if your advice backfires my life
No guarantee.... It can go either way, but what he says is true 90% of the time.... If you are unlucky, you will be in the 10% situations where it can go wrong 🤷
Oh bro I am 20 year’s old bhaiya I gone from this bhaiya mera 4 saal ka relationship tha bhaiya usney aise hi pagal bnaya tha aur cheat kiya tha love you bhaiya so much bhaiya bhaiya main bacha tha bohot aur usney itna pagal bnaya tha mai depression me chla gya tha skin infection ho gya tha uss karan mughe aap hi samgh sakta ho ye baat ❤
Same brother meri girlfriend ne muje 4 years tak ase hi pgl bna rkha tha or cheat kia use dekr kabi lga hi nhi ase bankr rhi jase usse sachi or achi ladki iss dunia m nhi or dhire dire usne bat krna kam kia sal me ek bar milna usne cheat kia muje meri mental health ko khrab kr dia pura same deepresion ki bajha se mera hormonal imbalance or skin decease ho gai or bo ab kisi or ke sat mast hai use jra bu frk nhi pada ulta mujpr hi ulte side iljam lga lga kr bat krna kam kia muje ghosting krti rhi silent treatment deti rhi or fir jab me
Bhai physical hone ke hisab se hi patta chal jaata hai ki bandi pregnant hogi ki nahi 😂😂 or tum khamkha tension le rhe the 😂😂 protective measure use kiye the na properly ?? To darna kyu ...😂😂
Yeah it happened bro 20:38 Like I knew a guy who was cheating on his boyfriend with another guy and uske bf ko proves mil gye the fir Inka jhagra hua at the last that girl prove his boyfriend wrong I was like wtf dude 😑