Dharmander bhai aap ki soch behut auchi hai, aapko behut behut dhanbaad. Mata ji to samajh gayi, asha karta hun aur logon ko bejha mein aapki baat ghusegi. Ramram.
The Mother in law is Right. She did NOT refuse, she just asked to give him in a seperate vessel. Nothing wrong in that.This system is followed in Our Traditional families since ages.