Maybe you need to reevaluate yourself. You two need to talk and meet in the middle. We as women, we’re so fed with men who take their precious time to ready and wait for us to repeat a thousand times to do something. We women not only work but we do everything in the house, taking care of the kids etc. so at the end of the day, we are drained.
Listening to this guy, he said she dumb, not confident, and lack of intelligence at the beginning. His mother warned him that wife would learn from her husband. So this guy trained his wife to be master, now he's complaining that he's a servant. It's all his making and shaping her to act tough, capable and smart.
Tus txiv tsev koj twb tsis qhia qhov tseeb tias yog vim li cas koj tus poj niam thiaj li tig los ua koj niam lawm ne. Koj twb hais tias nws yog tus poj niam ruam2 puag thaum hluas nkauj thiab txog hnub nws pib mus ua hauj lwm. Qhov no twb qhia tau tias thaum poj niam hwm2 koj thiab nws tseem ruam2 koj cem nws tas li es koj thiaj muab nws turn ua ib tug poj dab lawm na. Thaum poj niam ruam tsis cia poj niam ruam ne. Koj muab nws cob ntse tuajj lawm ne. Yog nws ib txwm yeej heev2 puag thaum hluas nkauj los mas koj tuaj hais thiaj txaus ntseeg ov.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 You sound just like my husband and your wife sounds just like me. She is not at fault. She just wants the best for you, especially at the funeral. She didn’t want you to be hungry. There’s nothing wrong for loving you. Too bad she bow down to you. I would never!!!!!
Your wife just had control issues. It took almost losing you to wake her up to this fact, and once she realized this she made the effort to change and be more chill. Her efforts saved her marriage.
I have been in the similiar shoe as this guy. Anyone who thinks the husband in this story is at fault should reevaluate themselves. This woman was toxic and controlling and didn't realize what she's got until he proved to her that he could leave her. Unfortunately, some people will never change, unlike this woman in the story.
Kuv ces tau 4 lub xy00s no ces twb tsis pw ua ke lawm oskwv tij ua li cas hnub no kuv los hnov tau koj zaj neej neeg no es ku v mam li muab coj los xav es yog kiag li koj hais lawm ua tsaug ntau nawv
I like this story. There is a good lesson for spouses. It takes two. I get that maybe she was too much. Yet, I can't help but ponder if your wife lost her voice as she was suppressed into yielding to you. Thanks for sharing.
Pojniam mas thaum twg kawm tau ib qib siab mas nws muaj phlus li no thiab tsis yog qab tias yus tus txiv ces yog yus lub taub hau txiv es koj yuav ntse npaum li cas los koj tsis muaj tus txiv ces koj yeej tsis muaj npe thiab muaj phlus npaum li cas os nawb.
Great story. I hate the people who sit on their ass playing with their but act as if they invent the rule for driving. As soon as you get in the car, they never shut up. Change Lane, go faster, slow down and etc. There were many times where I stop the car and let my wife drive half way to our destination.
Mloog mag tus txiv tsev koj yog tus txiv uas tub nkeeg es g pab pojniam ua abtsis vim tus neeg nquag yeej yws taus dua kuv tus txiv twb yog ib tug uas g pab hle khau los pov ntawd tej hnav lub jacket los hle pov ntawd tej thiab ua mus ua tuaj ces yus uv g taus ces yus kawg yuav tsum tau xwb tiag es yog koj ua li koj tus pojniam no es koj tus pojniam g pab koj li koj puas chim thiab kuv mas ntxub 2 cov txiv uas zoo li no
Tus poj niam muaj phem ncauj tsiv lus li no mas nws tsuas muaj pheev xwm hais rau nws tsev neeg nkaus xwb, tsis tshaj nov li. Nws tsis muaj pheev xwm hais ntxhib rau tus sab nrauv li nws hais rau nws tus txiv los yog tej mi nyuam nws yug. Hom neeg siv lus ntxhib hais li no mas tsis yog poj niam thiaj coj li no, txiv neej los yeej muaj thiab. Tsis tas li no los tsis muaj leej twg yuav qhuab qhia kom nws hais lus zoo thiab haum nws tsev neeg. Av lim nkaus xwb thiaj qhuab qhia tau nws zoo.
Well...as wife and husband....we should understand that we are not mind reader.. We are can't read thoughts!! If you love him or her ....must be humble and communicate right without disrespect one another ... Do not cuz one another... Don't assume the husband or wife knows your thoughts or feelings.... We aren't perfect human being .. No matter where you go or how many man or women you've been with.. There isn't a person that will able to know your thoughts .. So please respect each other ...
This story did shock me a bit. I thought he was just justifying his own actions but if she did nag him that much and it’s true what he says then maybe she did overreacted and that caused him to lose his feelings for her. It was a good thing that he actually returned and gave her the chance to change to save their relationship.
Tsis hai tus txiv los yog tus niam los yog lwm lwm tus coj tus xeeb ceem no ce kuv muab tshem tawm kiag 😅😅😅Tsis cia nyob ze u ua u mob hlwb ua neeg nyob tus nai tom hauj lwm twb khoom u txau txau lawm los txog tsev los tus txiv los tus niam tseem ua nai thiab ce bye bye nyuab siab ntau tuag tiag ho
A relationship should be 50/50. You should wake up every day and try your best to lessen the load for your partner. Love is actually really simple, it’s taking care of each other.
She took charge because you were irresponsible and don't know your priorities. Do the right thing the right way, and you wouldn't hear a single word from your wife. She was mire patient with you in the past because she didn't work outside of the house and had time to clean up your mess. She talked to you like a child because you behaved like one. Up your game if you want a happy wife and a harmony home environment.
Men love to complain just about as us women, but they complain but can’t do much around the house. Don’t do much around the house but still complain. We as women, have a lot of responsibilities as a housewife, so stress builds up and with a husband who doesn’t help much. Stop complaining, I’m sure you’re not helping her as much as she likes so she’s like your mother. I’m like that to my husband, a functional family takes two, not just one person running the family, it’s overwhelming! If we go places, I get my kids ready first when he doesn’t get the kids ready, when the kids are all ready, not it’s my turn to get me ready, he had the audacity to get mad. You need to evaluate your actions to see what went wrong! Maybe you’re the reason why she is the way she is to you. You’re lucky she still with you! To be honest, I’m like this because of my husband, but now he’s changed man, glad he changed.
We often become more and more like our spouses as we learn to behave like them over time. They're their biggest critics so they hate to see themselves being mimic so they begin to battle themselves 😅 😂
These men have too much ego! Yog nej paub hais tias yog tim li cas ma ntshe yuav ntshaav siab li peb. It requires 2 to make it work. Don’t expect 1 to bow down to one. You lucky your wife says sorry. 🙄
Koj tus poj niam ua tau ntxim ntxum dhau lawm. Nws tsis yog koj tus Poj niam, nws yog ib tus poj dab lawm xwb. Yog nws twb khoo koj heev npaum li koj niam lawm ces cia li muab nws hu ua "Niam" no los mas? Yog kuv los kuv yeej ntxum thiab dhuav nws thiab os. Koj twb nrog nws mus pom tuag tom nws cov neej tsa ua cas koj ho tsis coj nws mus kiag rau neej tsa hais na? Cov poj niam zoo li koj tus ko ces tsuas ua tau nruab chaw do xwb. Tsis muaj peem xwm kiag li. Nws tsuas yog ncauj puam suab khawv xwb tabsis tes taw tuag zawv. Ua tau ua luaj ua cas ho tsis kav tsav tsheb mus saum Freeway/highway? Yog tsis muaj peev xwm txaus ces txhob ua ua Niam nai es los khoo yus tus txiv os. Txaj muag dhau lawm os.
Zaj no quav dev xwb, txiv neej tuaj taug xaiv vim tsis paub pab thiab hloov nws tus pojniam. Xaij maim tshiab, 2 leeg yuav tau sib pab. Koj xav kom pojnima hwm koj, koj yuav tau hwm pojniam thiab pab nws. I don't feel sorry for you.
I would like to listen to her side of the story. As a woman..I feel that he may be a little lazy. As a mom and woman I do feel like we tend to repeat ourselves alot of times before our kids or husband actually get up and do something about it. If he doesn't want her to treat him like a kid maybe he shouldn't act like a kid. Just saying....
To the husband in this story, be grateful she is a strong women. You would rather have a strong woman than a weak one. Why if one day you are no longer there for your kids, at least she’ll be strong for your kids. Unless you want a weak women that only rely on a men and take your kids home to home new guy to new guy. Be careful what you wish for.
You crack me up hard here by myself🤣🤣🤣! Look like your lady has moon swing after her child was born!! You should take her to see a doctor for evaluation? No body wanted a bossy spouse, or controlling spouse but be patience hopefully she will receive a good medication treatment soon!
Tsis pw ua kev tau 2 xyoo koj ib ces shut down tag Cas koj niag poj niam ko tsis txawj hloov li naws. Ib cov poj niam txiv neej mas nws coj phem phem nyaum nyaum tabsis lawv tsis pom lawv qhos phem qhov txhaum li ces zoo kiag li koj niag poj niam ko ntag mas.
Mloog ces koj los yeej zoo li niag mi nyuam nyob lub cev laus 😂 koj thiaj tsis kam piav tias koj zoo li cas kiag li. Tsuas piav txog pog zoo li cas xwb.
The driving part😂. Thats my wife. Make me drive 99% of the time, and tells me to speed if im slow, switch lane, yell at me if I miss a turn 😂. she don't drive bcus she says slow drivers will piss her off😂. smh
Be careful what you wish for. You brought out the monster in her. 😂 Your wife sounds like my niam ntxawm, bossy but won’t do things herself. She makes her husband do everything but treats him like a kid. Maybe he needs to be a nraug fav too so she can learn to be nicer. He once told her that he wished that she can be more like me. She didn’t like that!
Wow, just 2 mins into this story and I already know, let me tell you brother or uncle, your wife seems like a mother to you because you still act like a boy. When your young wife finally grows up, she knows what she is doing. If you change then perhaps she will stop acting like your mother. The truth is, no women/wives want a husband who acts like a big baby, so grow up please! Nej dhuav2 mloog pojniam los nej yuav tau nkag siab tias pojniam yeej dhuav2 hais nej cov txiv tsev thiab. Pojniam khwv2 tu me tub me nyuam, ua noj ua haus thiab tseem ua hauj lwm es yog nej cov txiv neej ua npaum no nej puas ua taus thiab? Yog thaum twg tsis muaj tus niam lawm, vim li cas nej cov txiv neej thiaj mus nrhiav pojniam? Vim nej twb yeej ua tsis taus npaum cov niam. Nco ntsoov tias tus txiv lub hwj chim muaj nqis rau ntawm tej kwv tij neej tsa thiab phoojywg los ntawm koj tus niam tsev txoj kev coj.
Tooj aw koj twb tsis qhia rau koj tus poj niam hais tias koj yog txiv neej yawg es koj tsis yog me nyuam yaus no ne. Vim saum txaj saum chaw koj twb tsis ua kom koj poj niam huaj cheej tuam pig pig poog poog es 3 los 4 nas this nws mam ua tau pa mas nws thiaj paub hais tias koj yog txiv neej yawg os. Es nws thiaj saib tau koj os.
Is this my husband? Lol my husband hasn’t khiav nraugfav yet but we can relate! I hate leaving clothes in the laundry overnight or for long periods of time. It does smell bad. I will rewash it again and or tell the other person to do it if they’re the one who did it. Don’t hate her for that. She just doesn’t want you to smell nasty in public.
Base on what I'm hearing how she treat you like a child because you act like a child. Some of the stuff you say about her control I do the same to my husband because (not all but some) because he careless and doesn't do what's best for the family. She might over do on some part but you also need to change yourself too.
Brother, she sounds like she doesn't have patience. Maybe you're not helping her nor doing a proper job. You should have a sit down with her and explain to her. Tell her the turn off she's creating.
No wonder she treats you like a child. You are a child. Running away? How childish! If you’re an adult, deal with the issues and resolve it like a man!
You so right brother, when it's time to leave it's time to leave if she has no more respect for you as a husband These are some of the reasons a lot of sons don't get married due to no respects for their dad from their mom, just saying but it's out there
Also you need to know this when a person tell you to do things it's also mean that she love and care for you that why she keep you updated. And remembered when they do Not tell you what to do anymore mean they Don't care about you anymore. Bro you're so lucky she love you If I'm her ill divorce you already and put you on child support for being an idiot. Think harder
Need to hear your wife’s side of the story. From my own personal experiences, by the time I have to act like your mom it’s because you’ve shown me you are incapable of being a man. Seems like she developed that habit of making you do something right away because you probably always say you will do it but don’t end up doing it and she has to come do it eventually. For example, she probably wanted you to pack for the funeral right then and there because she knows you’re going to wait until last minute to rush pack and then forget this and that. I get it. I hope you take a step back and reflect yourself as well and learn to compromise with her. Not saying it’s entirely your fault, but I am saying I’m sure you got flaws resulting in how she was treating you as well.
I hear some OG calls their wife "Mommie" and their wives called them " Daddie". Lol So what about the Hmong way Me Ka Niam and Me ka tee. Sorry don't know how to spell in Hmong.
You cannot expect women to be your mom who takes care of you and also be a wife and sex you. It takes two to build a marriage. If you don't contribute, of course we will be your mom to get ur act right!
Listen brother I think you Need to sleep wisely and think harder b4 you do stupid things as I listen to your story here it since like you're Not a real man enough to handle the situation as a husband you should be. You say that she too mean and too control? Are you serious? I do not think it's her fault but yours!!!! You need to understand why your wife keep telling you to do things too or maybe your too lazy. As a man I'm too, I believe you're tired of her Not only and you make up things to blame on her what a shame you are. You Need help man.
