Brother, there is something called lawyer and clients confidentiality this prevents your friend from talking to you. You shouldn’t consult with your friend. You should have gotten a lawyer yourself.
You didn’t lose your case because of your lawyer friend buddy. You lost because you don’t know the justice system and didn’t feel the need to hire someone who does to represent you. Legal advice is not free and friendship is nothing in the court of law. Money talks. Should’ve gotten an attorney from the very beginning with all that money you had saved up.
Brother, your friend is a lawyer, he's doing his job. Your wife gave him photos and evidence it wasn't your lawyer friend. You need to respect that your lawyer friend is doing his job and following rules and laws. The lawyer cannot afford to lose his bar license either. You also step over the line trying to talk to him to get information. Did you know you can't do that?
😂😂😂😂 if your friend is truly an authentic friend, he would have denied taking on your wife's case due to conflicts of interest but of course, he is not your friend and money speaks volume😂😂😂. You should have hired your own personal lawyer when the Petitioner has its own lawyer. Hopefully this wise you up a tad bit.
I’m sorry but you have no right to blame your lawyer friend. Business is business and friend is friend. You were the stupid one for not getting legal help. Don’t blame anyone but yourself
Dude, the only thing your lawyer friend did wrong was taking on your ex-wife's case considering he's your friend. However, once he took her case, it's his JOB to defend her and everything he knows is now confidential so he CANNOT tell you anything or else he will lose his license to practice law. Tus ruam yog koj. Don't be mad at him for doing his job, but you can be mad at him for taking on the case, though. Koj yog tus ruam because you didn't know enough of the law and yet you still refused to hire a lawyer. Also, koj yog tus ruam because you didn't turn around and sue the heck out of your ex-wife and her sister for forcing your daughter to lie about the abuse---the court would now have to take into consideration that it's possible (reasonable doubt) your wife lied about you hitting her because she and her sister forced your daughter to lie about the non-existent abuse! You should have had the law now force your ex-wife to pay for child support at the very least and possibly put a stop on the alimony pay since there's reasonable doubt in her original claim! That was your chance to turn around and teach those rotten people a big lesson and regain your good name but you didn't which makes you the ruam!
I'm glad karma got her back! She makes real victim look bad. It's good your brother got your back and it's a good lesson learned for everyone. As for your friend he isn't a good friend no more. Just stay focused on your life.😊
Off that bat this is a serious case of wife abuse and child molestation. There’s always two sides to a story. Should had taken your case seriously and get an experienced lawyer to fight for you.
Don’t blame your friend for doing his job. Don’t blame your friend for your marriage it’s not his fault he just doing his job. You should of had hired your friend lol😂
It’s not your friend lawyer’s fault, it’s you. Where’s your lawyer? You need representation! It’s your own stupidity, you didn’t want to fight for your life by hiring a lawyer.
Your friend lawyer shouldn't accept this case because he was your friend at the time, but it's hard when it comes to money for some people. No one knows his financial situation, but regardless the situation. He was still your friend, and of course, it's such a shame. But now you know who your true friends are when it comes to a situation like this.
Good advise towards the end, and yes, we must protect ourselves. when things are so heated and emotions take over, stay calm and gather evidence. Much can be at stake, and your future depends heavily on your actions. Of course, what best to do is to avoid such conflicts. And we start with good respect, honesty, and openness. Understand that as we grow, we change - goals and dreams changes, and they must be reassured. Unable to recognize each others needs and wants, will cause disappointments and friction. They will ultimate lead to family failure. Take care of all that you love and have a wonderful day. :)
Not everything is about you. It’s his job to defend his client. If he failed to do so, he could lose his license. Would you pay his bills and take care of him and his family if he lost his credentials? No, you wouldn’t. Stop being selfish and ignorant.
Bro, when you got arrested for an accuse from your daughter, you should have gotten a lawyer yourself instead of going to court without one. That was a serious acquisition, it is not the ex friend's fault but your own for being cheap and going to meet him to beg for advices. Stay away from people like that. Pray to God to punish those that done you wrong. Let karma take care of it if you did not do anything wrong!!!
You should’ve sued your ex-sister-in-law and wife for making up stories to ruin your reputation. Make her pay for her crime because she works for a law firm. She should be fired from her job for making your daughter lie! People like your ex-SIL could be telling other clients out there to lie like she did to your daughter and don’t realize that their actions can ruin innocent people’s lives. You are lucky you didn’t get jail for child molestation. I’d make sure she doesn’t work in that field again!! Such disgrace!
Your friend the lawyer has a conflict of interest. When he found out that he is representing your wife, he should have recused himself from the case. You should have told this to your lawyer or the judge as well. This will be on your friend the lawyer’s record that he is an unethical lawyer.
Dude, you should have hired a lawyer. You tried to coarse your friend from representing a client. Your friend is nice he didn't file charges toward you too for defamation of his reputation....OR maybe he will after hearing this.
Bro, txhob tag kev cia siab rau tus neeg npav ua plaub kaw koj, txeeb lub neej tag nrho. Koj yog txivneej yawg muaj cai rho nyiaj xaiv yuav pojniam dua tshiab. Nws rov taw tuam ntuj, dag kom yeej ces 1 zaug xwb, tag li ntawd. Luag hnov nws lub qe tsw lwj ces tus txiv zoo yeej tsis tuaj yuav.
this is why they say your friend can betray you any time. your blood brother and sister will never betray you. your friend can deny her request if he is truly your good friend. perhaps he isn’t your true friend as you have always expected.
It’s your weakness for telling your friend about your wife. You know there’s client/lawyer confidentiality. He didn’t care about you, it’s money that he cares. Kav tsij hlawv xyab ntawv rau lub ntuj ua qhov muag pom muab kev ncaj ncees rau koj poj niam neb xwb mas. Koj poj niam tsis lees los muaj lub ntuj pom lub ntuj mam muab kev ncaj ncees rau neb. Cov neeg siab phem li koj tus poj niam no tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej, lub ntuj yeej yuav npam nws. Koj chim tsis tau rau koj tus friend. He’s just doing his job. You could’ve re-open your case after your ex-wife’s boyfriend moved in. That’s proof of adultery.
Me koov aw ua tsis tau li cas lawm ces rau rau siab ua neej xeem nws lawm xwb os mog es koj txhob lam qaug zog nawb mog es koj thiaj yuav yeej naws nawb
For whatever that is worth, you already won.live the life that will makes you happy, not for anyone that destroy your life like your ex, she knows what she lost, that's why now she's jealous...people are not your friends, only money that will keep friendship..
When you choose your brother's kid funeral over your wife and daughter, you've got your priority wrong. You could have done your daughter's birthday and go to the funeral later. What's important to her is not to you.
@user-pg9tj9tw5b yes I have but Hmong funerals are overdone. My point is that if my spouse chooses his family over his own daughter like this situation, I would be disappointed, too. Being picked or chosen over is the worst feeling in a marriage.
Tus Brother aw! yog tsis ua ces li nws iab liam koj los yog tsis ces tom ntej no nws yeej tsis tau zoo neej ua li tus nus aw ! .yeej muaj lub ntuj pom mog .es yog tsis ntaus hu ntuj rau nws thiab es luj ntuj pom ces npam kiag tsis tau zoo neej ua ib li .
Can’t get upset at your lawyer friend for just doing his job. Any lawyer would have done the same for your wife. Sorry this happened to you brother. Karma is real
This is one thing about us Hmong. Don't know the system. Don't know about client and lawyer confidential. Can't blame your friend. It's his job to defend his client. You can't expect your friend to abandon his client. One more thing, lawyers are blood suckers. It's how they earn their living. Let karma get her.
Me tub vajtswv txojlus qhia hai tia tsi txhob ntseeg leejtwg tas tas txawm yog koj tus pojniam koj tus txiv los tsi txhob ntxeeg tas tas vim luag yuav coj koj mus kaws ce yog liskos tiag.
Koj tsis txhob chim rau koj tus phoojywg ua lawyer. Vim koj POJNIAM twb mus ntiav nws lawm ces txoj cai Nws yuav tau ua li koj POJNIAM xaj kom nws ua xwb. Yog tus lawyer tsis ua li hais ces tus lawyer yuav poob nws Daim license ua lawyer thiab.
Tus txiv tsev koj tus me phoojywg Zaj koj twb pom thawj zaug nws tuaj nrog koj pojniam es koj tseem yuav nrog nws tham ntxiv li cas tau thiab. Ruam tiag tiag li yom. Qhov zoo ces nyob ntuj thaum ub ces muab ib me kab luam yeeb rau nws haus xa nws mus nkag rau zaj teb xwb hos. Thiab koj tus pojniam na kav tsij hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv kom nws lub neej tsuas muaj piam sij mus xwb hos.
Tus brother aws, you should hire a lawyer and do your homework thoroughly to investigate your ex-wife infidelity before you got to court. You should be entitle to spousal support since she has better education than you. Never talk to your ex-wife attorney or your so call friend, because he’s doing his job so you can’t blame him too.
Dude why are you so upset with your friend. He was hired by your ex. It’s a lawyer and client confidentiality. You knew the law, he’s doing what his hired for. You should be mad at your ex
Don't be mad at your friend. It is his profession. Your ex-wife was his client. Therefore, he needed to do his job. You're a bad friend, just because he is your friend. You wanted him to side with you and give you advice. Tf. You should have gotten an attorney.
Tsis txhob ntseeg phooj ywg tas tas txhob tso22siab dab qus tom yus mas yog lawv tshaib plab xwb hos dab nyeg tom yus ces tom kom koj mus cuag poj cuag yawm kiag hos hmoob nco ntsoov li ntawd nawv mog
Dude, you are not innocent. Just heard your friend lawyer mom side of the story of you. Sound like you were always jealous of your lawyer friend because you can’t be a lawyer
Koj tus poj niam twb mus tham hluas nraug lawm es nws twb npav ua lub maib ko rau koj kom nrauj tau koj xwb os.....muab nws foom kom nws npam tuag mus los mas.
I see where your wife is coming from. You need to get your priority straight. If she had this place reserved for a yr. Seems like you just want to play the blame game. You can’t blame your friend for loosing your case. Your friend wouldn’t take on the case if he didn’t know it’s a winning case. Off course topical hmoob man.
Me phooj yws tos hmoob chim2 es hlawv xyab ntawv foom tus neeg liam txim rau yus kom npam los yeej muaj tej tus neeg phem li koj tus poj niam no ntas lauj.
Kuv tau mus mloog aib phooj ywg lawyer niam tag mam li los mloog koi cov lus , mas kuv pom tau tias koj tus phooj ywg lawyer no yeej phem nawb, tsoob koj poj niam tib si ov, . Hos aib pog lawyer niam mas khij xuaj heev nawb !! Tej lus nws hais no dag li dag xwb ??? Ntseeg vaj tswv ua tsis tau pov thawj cuav li no nawb, nyob hauv vaj lug kub ntuj 10 lo lus qhia nqi 8 : koj yuav tsis txhob ua pov thawj cuav los tawm tsam luag lwm leej lwm tus no laiv??? Niag tsov tom pog laus tsis tsim txiaj ??
Tsis tim koj tus lawyer os thaub ruam. Tim koj xwb txhob mus hais li rau koj tus phooj ywd lawyer nawb. Luag tsuas ua luag hauj lwm raws kev ncaj ncees xwb. Luag yuav xaiv tsis tau hais tias koj yog nws tub plooj ywg ces nws yuav ysum pab koj no na. Ua li ntawv ces tsis raws txoj cai lawm.
Your lawyer friend is not a true friend if he is sided with your wife to take you down. A real friend would not do that. He didn’t have to take the case regardless.
Koj tus lawyer friend qhov txhaum ces qhov tias he take your ex’s case xwb. He can’t talk about the case or anything else due to confidentiality. What kind lawyer he is if he represents your ex but talking to you about the case. Come on bro, you know better. Koj tsis muaj qab haum dab tsi chim rsu your friend.
