Labour - Alicent Hightower (House of the Dragon) 

San!! 💗💗

No, it really isn't, not by any stretch of the imagination. Viserys was the one who neglected Aegon and his other children by Alicent, leaving her, a child herself, raising the children on her own. He is responsible for how Aegon turned out. And if you're suggesting that it's Alicent's fault that Aegon and Heleana were married in the first place, then 1) Viserys has final say over all such decisions as the King and the man in the family, 2) this is ancient Targaryen tradition, not a Hightower one, and Targaryens most often marry their relatives so it's not like Heleana ever had a lot of options and most importantly 3) Rhaenyra was scheming to have Heleana wed to one of her illegitimate sons that the entire realm knew to be illegitimate, which would have placed Heleana in great danger as the wife of a man whose inheritance was always in question and who might end up dead or destitute

it's 50% because of her father who agreed to marry his teenage daughter to an old man and 50% on her husband who agreed to marry a teenager he didn't give two shits about and then proceeded to ignore her children