It kills me when guys in the comments say they don't care about what turns a woman on. Like? What do you do? Do you just expect the woman to turn herself on? This is important shit for sexually active people who are attracted to women.
sparkymoo do you realize how hypocritical that sounds? xD unless you don't get turned on by that woman (why are you having sex with her anyway if that's the case?) then why would you expect that woman to pull being horny out of thin air as well? And turning on a woman so that she enjoys sex isn't the world owing her anything, it's being a responsible and sensible sexual partner. if you don't think a woman being turned on _by you_ or at all is important, you shouldn't be having sex.
Joseph M you'd be surprised. i've actually dated men who complain about women being hard to turn on, then saying they don't care when i try to explain.
yes....nice to read someone who also likes veins, my ex i did not noticed when we were dating but just later on how sexy his veiny fingers arms .....and other bodyparts were ....and now i still find that very sexy, and he has a deep voice.
when a guy gets a little embarrassed and he blushes especially if he's trying to impress me it just makes them seem SO HOT I don't know if that's just me
I like when a guy has a beautiful smile... you know, the one that makes you feel like you are the only girl that matters right then. Also, I like when they have a really calm voice, and they are understanding
Duckymomo424 Huh. I'm a bit abnormal then. I'm more often aroused than not. But then again, like they said, it's mostly mental and my brain is ALWAYS flitting from one thing to the next and if it's even the least bit interesting...yay!
Yes! Everything except the abs🤣 Hands: long skelly fingers and veins that make the hand look strong but soft at the same time, something that makes you want to touch it. Eyes: tired eyes, just tired eyes are beautiful idec about the color 🤣
the last lady i loved and i kissed on the porch as the teenagers watched. i think we taught them too much. kissing is such a smooth, inertialess drive into passion.
No one said neck kissing. Did they? Have I been doing it wrong all this time? Wait, if I'm kissing a girls neck I guess she was already turned on enough by whatever stupid shit I did to get her off right Haha point of no return
Iceburgg Slimm ah yeah they forgot neck kissing... Like if a guy, a stranger in the mall started kissing my neck - that's the only thing he wouldn't get slapped for
If I see a muscular guy playing piano Or that guy coming out of the bathroom with steam from the shower coming out with only a towel around his hips and the smell of cologne Suit with a tie or just the dress shirt and tie, flannels and occasionally glasses Those long line dimples when they smile - not the dot shape, the line ones Deep voice too. and sharp canines Cooking a meal shirtless
+Lily Hackney 1) Damn shouldve taken more piano lessons.... 2)*Whistles the Old Spice commercial* 3) Seriously, too much newyorker's menswear commercials 4) Genetic trait that is uncommon but still easy to find in the right, confident man... too bad i dont have them >.> 5) YES, finally deep voic- dammit my puppy's canines are larger... 6) Can i just say that most of us are too lazy to put anything on the stove much less on ourselves? XD
eh, I try. Not gonna quit my day job though gonna need to pay the food tab somehow. In a realistic view most men will have one or 2 traits a woman sees right off the bat, it's the other traits when time is spent with them that is shown gradually. Vice versa with women, dogs, etc.
zain I don’t think this is bad... men are usually bigger than women. If he’s hovering above us it’s a natural turn on bc it makes us feel more feminine. Maybe she likes it for other reasons and that’s fine too, but for lots of us, it’s just that it makes us feel feminine. I’m always intrigued by our size differences... the biological purpose of that, blah blah blah.. nerd thoughts. 😁
partyof6 I’m kind of a masochist (I like having my back scratched till there’s bloody marks, and death threats :) but I’m a guy, and more men are masochists than women. I don’t know if it’s about size, but I know some women love dominating bigger men. There’s an element of control to making a big guy squirm underneath them that they find sexy. I’d totally love to be that guy lol. But I couldn’t treat anyone like that, and it literally hurts my heart to think women out there like being hurt. But then again I like being hurt too so hooray :)
Maybe they aren't into it? Not everyone likes the same things. My ex girlfriend was super ticklish and kissing her neck meant bye-bye sexy fun time and hello giggle session. :c
Narrowing down my type of guy is hard because one moment I’ll see like a clean shaven, button down sleeves rolled to elbows guy and be like *WOAH* And the next I’ll see a full scruff, beanie, full sleeve guy and be like *WOAH*
Women can sense when a man is not truly connected to her, even in the middle of the act itself. So even if he's doing all the right things, it can have an empty feel and not be totally arousing as a result.
yeah, most part of it is mental, for a women to have an orgasm it needs to dont be rush, and the woman needs to feel safe and relaxed, if she feels like there's not enough communication with her partner, she probably wont have a orgasm or lose interest in the act itself.
Very much so. With us it truly is mental...and when men get all sarcastic when she is trying to communicate, or he never addresses her concerns outside of the bedroom she can definitely shut down completely and lose desire.
tranquility once I was hanging out with my bf and I was super horny. My bf asked me if I was horny judging by my acts and didn't look very excited when he got the answer. He decided to go down on me and I dunno but that's the part he went wrong, there is just no way I can get an orgasm anymore if you don't feel a connection between you and your partner or you feel unwanted...
@@rexasaurus3853 mate people get boners for all sorts of reasons I would venture to say guys get more boners from not being sexually aroused than from being sexually aroused
You are right. Sometimes cold weather can get you boner. In the morning wake up can get you boner. Even any object touching your private can get you boner. Talking to someone you you like or someone you have both done it can get you boner. So many things can.
@@chibyk2008 needing to pee badly gives me one most times. Like a mechanism for my body to stop me from peeing or something ahah. Jeans sometimes give me one. The pressure and tightness I guess
Georgia Watts Honestly I spent almost two years developing my body into society's view of a hot male body (with these abs I've never had before), but my fiance doesn't seem to want me any more than before. Which I find strange because she wanted me plenty when I was 60 pounds overweight. Why is this?
Well she's you're finance, she loves you for who you are on the inside and thats all that matters. It's nice to appreciate when someone works hard for a good body but at the end of the day it isn't a deciding factor as to why you date/marry a person (at least not for me personally). Maybe talk to her about it, just say how you're feeling. :) ArseGoblin69
+ArseGoblin69 if she felt in love when you were overweight than what si the problem? She just loved you all the time. She found something else about you attractive than your weight.
My friends think I'm crazy because I find like shoulder muscles so attractive. Like if you have broad shoulders and a good back I'm gonna keep you around for a good while.
Okay is it just me who absolutely loves it when a guy has a piercing gaze.... Like when they have *those* eyes which make it seem like they're looking into your subconscious and then you're just like *flaps arms in attempt to communicate eloquently* - NOT to be confused with creepy guys staring at you intently, that's just weird. There's a difference between staring badly and looking at someone with style Oh and someone with a blunt, cynical nature coupled with intelligence and a nice face. (I'm sorry. I'm just thinking of Levi Ackerman. Too much. Sorry :>)
Wild4lon _There's a difference between staring badly and looking at someone with style_ There's a difference between staring while being handsome and while being average. Fixed.
i really love muscular arms, strong jawlines, well-kept beards and straight noses. if you have all of these things and you dress like a very stylish lumberjack, then just fuckin take me now i also really love guys who can sing really well because i sing, but it isn't a requirement lmao
+the subject of stars Am learning too sing the hit song of the rocky horror Picture Show. @ I am just a sweet transvanian transsexual transvestite Ahh hum.. james barrington Hill, off number 702 Fritzroy Avenue. hastings 5156. new Zealand.
I'm honestly more confused than I was when I started the video, but my main takeaway is, it kinda varies by person. So, the moral of the story is, just ask.
Yeah but noone ask them... The only person I would imagine having this type of conversation is my BFF. I wouldn't ask that a grill from my classroom for example.
James Quinn what are the questions you wanted to ask? This is social media and we have no idea who you are....you can easily ask those questions and we can answer
I never tire of hearing girls give an insight into what makes them tick. Guys need to listen to this sort of thing a LOT more ... how else will we ever learn? After 20 years of (very happy) marriage, I'm only just really getting to grips with my relationship!!!!!!!
My partners voice when they're aroused, a lot of eye contact, a lot of kissing and compliments. That's what really helps me to really get into it honestly xD
Dylen Royer I'm pan and my partner is genderfluid so sometimes he's a he and sometimes she's a she, so I use the word partner instead of boy/girlfriend :)
I'm pretty sure that roughly 60% of all of the times I've been turned on were due shows or movies where an attractive male character was displaying pain? Is this normal?
I do know what I want. Because my boyfriend's hands are just like that. :) But stuff like that is hard to describe, especially when English is not your mother tongue. I meant "gentle" not "soft"
+kaylee lol that's sinister, I'm like 6'3" and 230lbs and it's like when you see a fully grown Lion turn into a scared kitty cat when girls do that to me. It's like guys have ALL the physical strength and abilities, and women are emotional and psychological orchestra conductors
I have a thing for people showing passion, and a thing for hands, so needless to say when my BF plays guitar it is far more arousing than I would like to admit.
It seems to me that when a lot of women are asked "what turns you on?" the answer they give is the answer to the question: "What do you find attractive in a man?". For a man they are 2 different questions. Are those 2 questions interchangeable to women? And is this a crucial difference between male and female sexuality?
It's like all the boys are just reading the comments of the girls researching about what they find attractive xD Seriously, almost no boys in the comment section
Yesterday a girl came up behind me and whispered in my ear and it was almost a neck thing like I felt the breath and just it was hot and I'm hella pan.
Anything with my neck and I swear I will die. My boyfriends chin brushed against my neck one time and I swear I felt it everywhere, like my breath just up and left.
