Ladies Need To Stop These 10 Things | Kingsley Okonkwo 

Pastor is talking to me directly. I am 34 and still not married. I have learned a lot from this. I have done almost all the mentioned points. God is ready to give me a new life.

I was like this before😭 I was always praying to date this guy( I fasted and prayed even sowed seed) for a guy that doesn’t know me. Fast forward to 2023 God finally answered my prayers and i and this guy started talking and we went on a date😂 after the first date😂 I understood why God took a long time to answer my prayers( he was trying to protect me) anyways I blocked this guy everywhere and I prayed to God to never make us cross-paths again 😂. These days I don’t even pray about a particular guy again😂 if it works toor if it doesn’t toor😂 let me not bring misfortunes to myself. God is always protecting us. He sees what we don’t see❤

No real MAN that loves you in relationship or courtship will put you in a position where it is unclear where you stand

I just don't know why good people, both men and women, have difficulty finding true love. God, please help us who are in this situation and bless us with the right person. Thanks for the video, sir.

SUMMARY: 1. Praying for a stressful man (a man that"s not interested in you) to change. 2. Staying no matter what (having a do-or-die mentality). 3. Wild sex (sex before marriage). 4. Leaving your church for his. 5. Changing your career path or location because of him. 6. Giving him your money. This should be in marriage and not in relationship or dating. Keep your money aside, it makes breakup easy. 7. Total submission. You're still under your parents authority not his. Submission is specifically for wives in marriage. 8. Overfamiliarity with In-laws (overly jovial, overly playful). Properly conduct yourself. 9. Learn to call out what you can't and don't accept before marriage. 10. Fighting for love. You can't fight for relationship or dating. You can fight for your marriage but not fighting for your place during dating and relationship. Thank You Pastor Kingsley!❤

10 RIGHT THINGS THAT LADIES DO AT THE WRONG TIMES (KINGSLEY OKONKWO) 1) Praying for a man that is not interested you, doesn't know you or praying for God to change their will for you. 2) Having a do or die approach in a relationship or courtship or dating. A broken relationship is better than broken marriage. Do or die is not in relationship but in marriage. 3) Wild sex or sex in relationship or before marriage 4) Following him to his church while dating 5) Giving him your money or buying properties together while dating 6) Changing your career path or location for a man you not yet married to 7) Submitting your life to him when you are not yet married to him. wife should submit to husband and not men 8) Over familiarity with inlaws while you are still dating 9) Accepting every bad things while dating or ignoring the red flags or making excuses for him while in relationship 10) Fighting for love in dating or relationship

Ladies, don't leave your career or location for the sake of a guy who has not married you because if the guy leaves you for another woman, you might become loveless, jobless, and hopeless. 🙂

Women who married good men are still struggling, yet some women want to marry a man who doesnt want them. 😢😢😢😢😢

Please lecture the single men that their girlfriend's body doesn't belong to them while dating/ courtship. Please let's encourage the men not to be pressuring young ladies to head to bed before they can decide if they want to marry. It's a very sad state of affairs, what some of these men do to innocent ladies during courtship, taking advantage of innocent young ladies. Smh.

I'm almost 40 yet single and significant. Hopefully I'll get married according to God's original plan soon🙏 Thanks Ps Kingsley

PK really be making me laugh today 😂......... "now you're jobless, loveless and hopeless"😂😂......Deep, real stuff here. Thank you Pastor

No real man that loves you will put you in a position where it is unclear where you stand. Absolutely true👌 So insightful and informative. Thank you PK sir. I enjoy listening to you and I have learnt so so much from your teachings. I know better, thanks to your so many teachings I have listened to.

I learnt this one with you, sir. Another right thing that ladies do at the wrong time is giving husband benefits ( cooking, washing, cleaning....)to a boy friend.

I did change my location without any proper plan, all what the guy said, he changed. Finally we didn't get married and I was jobless, loveless,hopeless,etc just as PK said. Thank pastor K

It means see finish 😁 oyinbo is familiarity breeds contempt

All of these point seems to be too late already in my life....I am already a victim of all the points...I am heart broken and depressed...my family has talked to move on but everyday is a nightmare even as I pretend to be moving on......😪😪I don't even know what to do. But thank you sir....for these points.

I can't even pray for any guy. God thank you for not answering my prayer and opening my eyes quite early, I for don see shege by now

Wow this is awesome I'm a victim of almost all but with this now I must be a change person God bless you man of God 🙏

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂..."what can separate me from the love of Bode" 😂😂😂😂😂😂....my ribs

I love what he said at 16:04. Don’t do things that show you don’t have authority figures in your life. You need to be accountable to someone. When you’re 21 and you’re already moving into your boyfriend’s house; or you get pregnant by someone who your parents haven’t even met talk more of marriage, it just shows you lack accountability to someone. It makes you look cheap. Isn’t there someone in your family that you respect to the point that you won’t do foolish things?

I really couldn’t keep a straight face while watching this video. Pastor Kingsley is too funny 😂

This is a timely message for I have struggled with accepting when someone doesn't want me thank you holy spirit I needed this word as I prepare to enter courtship

Thank you for this pastor K, am 27 but marriage scares life out of me, i pray i get it right 🙏🏾🙏🏾

I think the most important is for us ladies to learn how to control and put our emotions in check. And also to be able to flee from anything that can and will stir up our emotions

God bless you sir, your massage makes me cry 😭 bcos this was my character and I thought I was doing the best I did know I am doing the wrong thing at the right time, God bless you sir, How wish you can come to Delta state and preach for us, how wish I have the the money to invite you, I would have loved to bring you to Delta state, Sapele

We should let God do his thing,we should trust in Gods plans… We have to rely on him for everything,God wants the best for us in every area of our life’s including relationships..

When you have an IDOL in your heart you already set yourself up for disaster

Pastor K 😂😂😂 Thank you for always giving value and making it very fun at the same time🙌

A powerful marriage lesson for all indeed.

Yes sir. If there are women who are fighting for their man before marriage, then the winner is still the loser 🙌🏽

Hmmm pastor k ,did you hear my prayers to God😂. I literally have let go today before I turn my Bible to charm 😂. Thanks so much sir for your words today ,some hard decisions was made after this video . God bless you sir .

You are so on point Sir... The madness and witchcraft needs to stop!

This blessed me even as a guy. Thank you for sharing sir. More grace and glory.

God help us to love ourselves enough, to allow ourselves to be loved 🤍🙏🏼

😂😂😂 Your sense of humor is top notch sir

God bless u immensely Sir for this great advice. U're indeed a blessing to our generation

That number 6 really struck me, a guy I was dating was pushing for me to leave my job and relocate because of him. He even went as far as looking for a job for me over there. But I asked him why he couldn’t relocate instead, after all, he was running a business, he could move his business to Lagos, shebi all na sacrifice?? 😂. His response was family, he couldn’t leave his family, I didn’t budge o because I had gotten the dream job and wasn’t about to leave it for him.

That “do or die approach” 😩😩. Lord pls free these women ❤

Yeap be wise choose wisely. It's the most important choice you make. Yet we jump into it like we're choosing a temp job. Lesson learned now that I'm divorced. Hoping God will use me to help others not go through the same.

Wise words coming from a wise pastor🫡❤️

Even man that I have married if he changes and after several second chances he refuses to change I WILL LEAVE HIM. What nonsense! Ladies una well done oh. More grace to fight rubbish needless battles.

😂🤣 This was so funny and informative at the same time. Thank you PK.

Ps K your sense of humour is top notch! Thank you sir I have learnt alot

Pastor do same video for guys please

They's too much sense here❤

Pst Kingsley please kind shed some light on narcissism In relationship.

May God give me the courage to call out bad things before entering marriage and seek Godly counsel

This message found me in the right time. Thank You God... Thank you pst K for this vid..

This was full of so much wisdom and so hilarious at the same time. I feel like I was listening to a wise uncle lol

Not PK defining see finish as See Finish😂😂😂. Thank you for this eords of wisdom Sir🙇🏾‍♀️

👏👏👏👏 I did all this at the right time after marriage. But now a lot has changed, May God help us . Now he’s changing to a church I do not want and spiritually it’s not for me to be there

It is Witchcraft trying to manipulate him to marry you. Nice point raised 👍

PK ooo😂😂😂😂😂 "did they steal him inside a polythene bag..??" 😂😂😂😂😂

Watching you from Zambia 🇿🇲 chaii 🙆 point number one u are talking to me😂😂😂😂

I thought it was only me that found it really educating and funny😂😂

The 4. point just reminded me of someone I met of recent. Like Pk will always say „don’t confuse attention for intention „ YOU NEED TO KNOW THE REASON he is chasing you. So, right from the onset I knew from our conversation that the guy is not even born - again. 😅

Pk has destroyed all tables We are learning sir

God bless you Pastor K❤❤ My marriage will be dedicated to you and Pastor M, infact I'll schedule my marital counselling physically to come and see you in Nigeria ❤❤❤🎉

It's the Jobless, loveless and hopeless for me...PK! 😂😂

Wow, I love this message. I see some things I did in the past, but thank God i saw the light n left the relationship before it got worse. As he said better a broken rlshp than a broken marriage.

Thank you, Sir

The part about your Mother being a witch took me out 🤣🤣🤣.

Thank you so much PK. I have learnt a lot from this teaching. God will help me and have mercy on me.

God can use pipo to speak to you 🧏🧏 this message is for me 🙏 I was about to make a big mistake, giving out mi 4m to a boyfriend , that we buy a land together yet we are not yet even seen each other 😢 but I was crying to God for guidance, here is the answer 🙏

Thank you Pastor Kingsley Sir. You are talking about practical things that some of us women do which put us in a very compromising position whereas we are still single.

Thank you sire for the teachings 🙏

I wish I could give you a very loud speaker and say these to my friend. 🇿🇦

When he said "see finish" with an accent😂😂😂😂😂😂

How about when men who we don't want continue to pursue us with persistance and at the end they win our hearts,so I think too ladies should pray for those they like,and God willing ,they see us😂😂

God will surely help us ladies 🤲🙏

Thank you Jesus for this teaching. I am deliveref

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This is sooooo hilariously and sadly funny

I am super blessed by this words

May the lord blessed you Pastor k this message is so timely and in season I trust everyone is blessed as I'm.

I learnt frrom this. Thank you Pastor

10 solid points.

Thanks God for ur life PK 🙏

Thank you Pastor

Absolutely loved these points😂👏🏾👏🏾

Pastor this is so true😂 unlike me, these things are happening to me as a woman. I don’t want to be with this man😰 please make one on MEN🤦‍♀️

This is so Apt at the moment. This message is unfathomable.

Nothing can separate me from peter😂😂😂

God bless you Papa, I have really learnt a lot in teachings and vigilant henceforth.

Thank you pastor for this teaching , I actually learnt alot on submission

Thank you pastor k. You are indeed the best

Soo much humour and power 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 My God

I disagree, yes its true love can not be one sided, but love can not be 50, 50, by all means one person will love the other person more. sometimes the love between a man and a woman can be 40, 60. One person will love the other person more than the other. That's the truth . It's never the same . You both grow love after marriage

Ride on Pastor!😂😂

Solid points! A lot of things i have done and I'm happy I've learnt my lessons! Stumbled on your page at the right time! Some of these things i did because i thought they were just normal and i was doing in the name of love. Indeed my people suffer for lack of knowledge! This phase of my life is called, now that i know better, i MUST do better!!

Thank you sir 🙏 I actually needed this

Sir you have said it all 😢😢I will be fighting for attention like you're my husband 😔😔😔

I am here on time... An hour to posting 😊😊😊

Thank you sir ❤

Your are a blessing to this generation, may God give you more grace

Thanks sir,i have learn alot

Thank you sir for such a profound teaching 👏🏿👏🏿😊 May God richly bless you

Im whole with this topic

Thank you for this, found my category😂😂😂 and by His grace I’ll do better. Thank you so much❤

Thank you Daddy, we are grateful please