Men exploit women all the time, use them, discard them.. lie to them to get what they want and leave them broken hearted. Now she's giving tips, these men wanna get mad.
F a ring.A ring is a placeholder.A man can waste your time and string u along for years with "a ring".No marriage license...no widely duties.,is what the motto should be.
Women need to understand we can't scare a man off if he really likes us. A man won't stay in a relationship if he doesn't want to, no matter what we do. Also, you can't make a boy a family man, especially if he wasn't raised by one.
tgresty I know you made this comment years ago but that’s facts especially the last part, “you can’t make a boy a family man especially if he wasn’t raised by one. My mom married an asshole who’s father was abusive and left the family. I can see that he isn’t a good dad at all and doesn’t like being around his kids because that’s the way his dad was. History repeats itself
The meaner I am to my guy, the nicer he treats me. Was yelling at him over the telephone yesterday for being only 5 min late to a lunch he invited me to and he talked to me so sweet. "Please don't go home baby I'm almost there, I love you baby". A drastic change from the way he treated me 2 years ago when he told me to "be nice" to him and I obliged - only for him to get crazy on me. Now the tables are turned in my favor and I'm getting everything I want from him.
I learned very quickly that the sweet submissive woman is not what men want. But when I became mean and told him to hit the road... he didn’t want to leave!!! Pissed me off but I learned I had to continue to be “rough” to get what I wanted.
Yup I had a similar experience! The guy was being ridiculous, knowingly was hurting my feelings but when I snapped him up, he shut up and stayed under me! Men (real men) like and respect women with boundaries.
Lls....yah slow. This only works on weak betas. A masculine man won't deal with a woman who not submissive. But lucky for you cougars most men are beta...but just know you'll never get a real man. Smh
@@Meedyogre bulllll shiiittt. My step dad been with my mom for 20 years. She just snapped on him and he saying sorry chasing her around the house. I'm just sitting soaking up this game from my queen Shera
i think a nice woman is a chasing woman. she is chasing the man by being nice and trying to please him. but its his job to please the woman. she should receive,
I agree. I told my husband in the beginning that niceness was overrated. 😂😂 So he knows that I'm not having it! He works hard to make sure that I'm pleased. A happy wife equals a happy life! All women have the capacity to really get into their "witchy power" which includes speaking your truth. We set the standard. You teach people how to treat you! If you want to be treated like a queen you better make it known lol. I told my husband while we were dating whatever you start doing in beginning (paying and pulling out chairs exc.. lol)-he has to keep doing! He still does. Women know your power!
You sound intimidated. I'm sure Netta does wonderful things for her husband to keep him happy as well. And even if she is selfish. So? Maybe her husband likes that, and maybe it'll be his own problem to deal with. So don't worry about it.
but then you better stay young and attractive because trust me, he is only doing this because he was attracted to you, its not going to work when your mid 30's losing your attraction, then you are just going to be some old woman who is nagging him lol, so you keep this up, he will leave and find someone younger and attractive to spend his money on, so trust me its better to try and build a relationship then make it about just money, because you setting up for a fall, there will always be younger women who are seductive and sweet and caring etc, know how to attract men, and yes, you can say there are always other men with money, but they will always choose the younger women, so you basically have until the age of 21-27 (maybe early 30's) but thats it, so trust me its better to find something real, like i have seen relationships (where there is no abuse, whatsoever) but they are like best friends, and thats what is going to last, its rare, but that is more real
favored one. its the person with the money that has the control, the rich man will have loads of young gold diggers after him, he is not gonna fall for the no sex before marriage shit, like the woman in the video is trying saying, he will just get with another girl, its his decision, just like if the woman is the rich one, its her decision what to do, pick and choose
Samung 7 ....so you think when a woman is 50 she can just get with a rich 70 year old??? ur delusional lol, that 70 year old will be going for women 20 to early 30, not 50, so all im saying is build a real relationship with someone, and you say ''demand more money'' oh pleeeeease lol, the rich man knows there are hundreds of prettier younger, sweet, more caring golddiggers around the corner, ur demand dont mean crap, like i said it the person with the money that hold all the power, so if the women is the rich one then she will hold the power and can make demands, not the golddigger,
When you actually care about your own happiness more than others, this is automatic. Strong boundaries and desires get expressed, as you won't settle for anything less than the best as a companionship.
That one guy got HELLA mad when you said that cooking a meal for a man is considered wifey duties. Girl, you're messing with his meal times. LOL So funny how you are making some men outrageously unhappy. LOL
M Kay - now just why is that Childless Smart-ass? Your shit-broke, or are you a man, meaning your attitude if not literally? Gay perhaps? Oh, that's right, you're waiting until you're Older? I get it. Sorry, My bad.
I have started to operate in your teachings and ladies IT WORKS!!!! Its crazy because everything you say I already knew but I never truly did the work. I NOW DO THE WORK.
I do agree with that theory. The "b*tch mentality/alpha female" definitely goes further. I've been the "too nice", but then when I bucked up, they would be shocked or they'd fall in line and step up.
9:43 make sure he’s the one getting butterflies about you, not the other way around … that’s not a connection, that’s your weakness and his way to exploit you
I agree to speak the truth but I also believe in respecting a man because I feel men and women have some different gifts and roles that we bring to the table. Men should be respected if they are respectable. If they aren't, we need to choose to depart.
Cool Chicka - I saw that movie way back when. Now that shits really funny. I have to give you that one. I'm still laughing. But don't forget, it's a movie and you need not apply. It's above your pay grade. Sorry to say child support is your best option. You Go Girl.
Yes, I wish I would have heard this as I was growing up or even as a younger woman. It would have made a world of difference in my relationships. I always wondered why men got "tired of me", and just ended up leaving me for no reason. Well, now I know. And there was a simple solution. SPEAK UP!!!!! RESPECT YOURSELF! !!#🙆 Thank you for sharing this. 😍
yes i totally agree with you ! I ve been too nice with guys my whole life before and i never gained anything from them but problems; they would just take advantage of me and run away ! you re absolutely right ...
Watching all these videos is really helping to learn what I’ve been doing wrong in my 26 years of age! I actually started practicing some of your tips this weekend and a guy bought dinner for me and my friend 🤣
I have to give you credit, you are putting this 35 year old on game. I know some of things you mention in the vids I have seen and know, but I am learning a lot as well. Especially the having butterflies for the guy. THAT is so true! That was my last relationship, not saying that he didn't have strong feelings for me too and he did do some things I wanted but for the most part, I was a dumbass when it came to him.
Your advice is worth GOLD, Ashera. I am right now working 2 jobs and leveling up so I can quit soon, I want to look better and improve my mental game so I can have a good partner that provides. I watch your videos in between consultations with my patients 😆. Gonna start advising them to watch too, they need this knowledge in their lives, most women I see are in deplorable emotional situations they don't even need to be in.
You only have to do all of this work if you're with a low quality man. A high quality man appreciates mutual respect and love already without you needing to manipulate or training them into loving and respecting you.
This is spot on. I literally listened to this video, and within 10 minutes of appealing to his sexual side. I snagged a dude who didn’t want to be tied down into being exclusive.
I’m so glad I came across this video for years I was always too nice that’s how I was raised and it was to the point dudes thought I was too good they wouldn’t even approach me.
Thank you, I always enjoy your talks. I appreciate you not sugar coating things and serving your it straight up. I could of use this channel 2yrs ago but feel the timing is now and I'm able to receive the message.
I agree with everything you just said. I always say I dont believe in/ aint no such thing as unconditional love with romantic partners. My shit comes with conditions for sure
I was too nice and I reached my last straw and exploded 🌋😡💢☢️. My husband has started to respond differently. I was PISSed and I was normally a sweet submissive wife. I saw I was a doormat. Please ladies, listen to her! Get that stuff out up front!!!!! Even after it’s resolved, I still feel differently. Never the same.
+Don John if he chooses to raise a grown female, that's his preference. I am a woman who desires a man.I don't desire a grown male who complains about a man spoiling his woman the way he chooses to do so. I don't need to be raised, my parents did that already...lol!!
+Don John it's wrong when an adult raises another adult, who is not their child. You have your preference with what you will and will not put up with, I have mine. What he and I choose to do with our money, when it's time, will be our decision. You can't speak for all men and I can't speak for women. Her man feels that her presence and what she does at home is enough. You don't have to turn a situation/discussion you have no control over into a debate just you don't agree. If you don't agree, don't do it. It's that simple.
Hmmm, late to the party, but tell you what, men who complain about putting out for women, usually put out for single mothers that are struggling and not women who are independent. i'll let that sink in.
Thank you Queen 👑 💗🙏. I wished I would have found you in my 30’s. I was young, naive, always trying to see the best in people, but most men are only out for themselves trying to get in between your legs. Many will say and do what they can to get what they want, and then leave you. No husband benefits without being a husband. Don’t clean, don’t cook, don’t do things a wife would do without the tittle.
What an eye-opener! What you said about man/woman love is conditional. I really was the one who was always going for the "butterflies" guy. I'm done with that.
I’m just finding this video in 2021. So many Gems 💎! I wish I had this sooner! I was in a relationship with a guy that I was so head over heals for, and he walked all over me. Never again.
I did this and he acted so scorched and tried to guilt me. He said many times that he wants marriage. Well he contacted me again. I barely texted back for a few days. Then he flipped out by inventing drama in texts because he's one of those believers in striking up frustration and converting it to some attachment. At the end of it he said you hate me anyway and I hate you because I hate feeling stuck on you and never can be with you there you go there's the truth. I waited until the next day and said you might be ready to be married but are you ready to be a husband, that is the million dollar question, I don't need an answer, just ruminate on that. No response.
First Comment!!! Love the makeup (I am subscribed to your makeup channel and I will be looking at the how to) and as always love the advice! I am applying it to my life! And better to be single than to be with a man who is stressing you out and not getting what you want wouldn't you say? Much luv!
I absaloutley love you Leticia! Your advice hits home, I've been through these mistakes but I'm ready to play the game right and learn from it, as a young woman this means a lot to have someone like you share their wisdom. Do you do private counseling ?
Ooooh so happy I found your channel, I hope to be elevated to this level soon #goodinfluence #amazingwoman thank you thank you thank you #goddesspower 🔥🔥🔥
I watched all your videos this is the last one I didn't wanna watch because I am the nice woman and I am single because I should step up and say what I want I was married 4 8 years and I started do demand better in the middle of the relationship which to no avail he never ever changed he just treated me worse until I couldn't take it anymore so yes it is important to say what you need and want.
You should be careful as you don't know the persons hygiene in the sense that you could get HPV. Also good to the clinic before you have sex as some people are evil and it will safe you any doubt of you getting any disease.
Can you please do video on abandonment issues in relationships/ marriage. Like men abandoning women n how to deal with it and how to stop it. Thank you.
It is different from everyone but look it up on psychological blogs etc they have a pattern or history in their past. Also fear of the future if men don't feel secure in themselves financial emotional etc they will never marry, like myself so they need time to get better
Aww your husband must be a proud man he has a wifey who switches up her styles. My daughter heard your first line of words and took a peek at your look and said she knows this look and it's cool. You're very influential in terms of your advice 😊👍x
