Lady T offended when Chaotic says PickMe's are better than regular women | Lapeef "Let's Talk" 

Pick-me's get picked. The rest get left behind or ran thru.

Pick mes are definitely better than loud, inebriated single mothers for sure!

chaotic makes this show complete, no cap no filler, just straight facts.

The irony that LadyMogulette proudly say she doesn't "compete" then get offended when someone say other women are "better"? The fact that you are offended when someone say other women are better show you instinctively know that there's a competition!

There's a difference between a pick me and a chameleon.

Women that don't want to compete for a man don't need to be pressed when they don't have a man.

“I’m not competing”. 5 minutes later: “what do you mean better?”…….. Don’t worry about it. You’re not competing. This doesn’t pertain to you. 😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

Chaotic be spitting 90 percent of the time. He’s just a hard pill to swallow for most women 😂

Ppl getting triggered but Chaotic got it in truth, Pick-mes are essentially what men ask for when they ask for submissive women. Invariably, women will be triggered because historically they’ve tried to belittle women like that but they keep winning. They’re the prizes, and they’re intelligent enough to build successful families with

Why would any woman wanting a husband listen to a woman who has ended multiple engagements?

“Better?!” Damn that one hit her

I live right across the street from a whole Asian community who just bought up a whole block. A group of about 20 families all working together. They are high on the family structure which is the reason they have passed everyone up. Their community is 85% married

It is really sad how black women put labels on other black women. This is insane and makes no sense! I get it every woman isn't cut out to be a wife but why insult and hate on women who have those wife qualities.

Chaotic is the only one who tells the truth on here , the rest just pander

" I don't have to compete with nobody " baby the moment you wake up, shower, and put on yo make up, hair, nails, and walk out the house with yo fancy purse YOU ARE COMPETING. Just cuz you say you not playing the game it doesn't mean the game is not going on around you.

You can tell when the ladies get triggered by the subject lol

Lady T is irritating even down to her voice 🙄

This show needs Chaotic…

I love this guy Chaotic,he just tell the truth.

Chaotic should remain a constant in this show. He is refreshing to listen to.

Keep Chaotic on the show please.

Oh how much I've missed Chaotic on this show 👏👏👏👏👏💯 this dude is spitting facts 💯. Logic doesn't understand what modern women call "pick-mes". He's confusing pick-mes with chameleons. Just because an online content creator acts feminine in their contents doesn't mean they're that same way when u meet them in person. Rilla is also right: women are the ones calling other women "pick-mes"

So she managed to put down that glass of shiraz long to flap her gums... And still not made an ounce of sense 🤦🏾

I can agree with this. This year I went on a cruise with a bunch of my wife's Coworkers. I met a Spanish couple and the mother told me she is grooming her daughter to go after the athletes. I ask her why. She said because the white girls in her school are taught to do that same. So hearing this on this panel brings validity to what this woman told me.

How you going to ask for submission, and get mad at a pick me for submitting 🤨

Chaotic is definitely a credit to the show...he brings the ugly truth from a logical perspective. But let me say this. I get so sick of Women like Lady M talking about doing wife duties being a no go if you're not a wife. Look, if that applies, then you shouldn't expect the dude to perform Husband duties before he's a Husband. There are levels/stages in relationships. You can't be lazy in such practices before marriage and expect to flip that proverbial switch when you get married. It sets the table for that tired ass excuse "I was like this when you met me" to be a cop out for coming up short on your end. This is one of the reasons why many Women are losing to the "Pick me's". If the pick me is looking past the moment...more so down the line. she'll show you why you picked her at that moment and stayed with her all this time

If you want anything in life, you have you have to be willing to compete for it. Sistas don't want to compete, hence they lose out.

Why is shawty constantly talking? She's a product of singlelitis. It's better to be quiet at times than to run her chewer.

It's ironic that the definition of a pickme has changed from the original definition (traditional woman) to now a pickme is defined as a chameleon.

I don’t care what any woman or man say…a Pick Me is any woman that holds other women accountable for their bullshit. That’s is the most consistent scenario where this term is being used.

Chaotic is on some shit. I might have hated him in in high school and he would have eventually convinced me of his stance. He is too truthful it hurts women cause they really cant stand the truth.

Women compete with everyone except themselves because they believe they can never be wrong

Logic overthinks his own logic & he’s loud Now that’s dangerous Chaotic spits the Logic that Logic should spit

Everyone is playing a role and it’s okay to play a role. You play a role as an employee, as a partner, as a mother and so on. Why saying it’s pretentious when you’re competing?

I'd like to believe a Pick-me is a person who is open minded person. No different than a athlete who changes their game to be on a team or in the league. To go against the idea is a stubborn person who is more dangerous in a relationship

I don't understand why women take issues with women wanting to be pickmes... If feminist are fighting for women to have the freedom to choose, then be happy that they are choosing what they want freely!!!

Somewhat disheartening to hear a man not teaching his daughter to compete for the best in life IN ALL THINGS! As a father I would want to know my daughter is secure in a marriage with a responsible leader who does his duty. I bet there wouldn't be a problem with telling her to compete in school, sports, work etc, but there's a problem when it comes to competing for the best man she can get? WTF are we doing to our community? Men and women aren't the same but we're equal in the value we bring to one another in life. If men should compete why shouldn't women? You want equal pay and opportunities but don't want to compete in the dating market with females peers of ALL races? Wonder why 1/4 black women will marry in a lifetime?? Our people are doomed if this doesn't change fa real...

Logic’s comments on this particular subject over the past few months give me the impression he doesn’t have a great deal of experience with traditional women. Even now, he doesn’t seem to know the difference between a pick me and a chameleon. One has traditional values and is sincere in her desire to be a wife and mother (as a matter of culture and a conscious decision), while the other is simply playing a role to lock down a man, hiding her true intentions. If you want a traditional woman, you’ll find her in “traditional” communities, raised in traditional households. Her mother, and FATHER, raised her to primarily be a wife and mother, with her career a distant second. They believed in traditional gender roles, where the father went out into the world, facing chaos and uncertainty, while the mother cared for the home and family inside the BUBBLE he created for them. Her upbringing was pretty even-keeled, and trauma-free because all of her needs were met, physically, financially, mentally, and emotionally. When you spend enough time with women from THOSE households, women who don’t fit the profile (aka chameleons) stick out like a neon sign on a desert highway.

Chaotic is the realest N word on here.

Better at not cutting the man off like you’re doing right now. Smh.

Chaotic as usual giving facts ....

So I think they were confusing chameleons for pick me's... chameleons are pretending, pick me is trying to get picked... so much so they're enthusiastically rushing to the front to let men know they are trying to get chosen. Guess what that's called??..... COMPETING! I'm sure getting to the front of the crowd isn't easy... push and shove, trip and step on...but to get there one must be competitive! They ain't just batting eyelashes when they get there either. They're showing interest... shooting their shots. I believe most women hate pick me cause they are competitive while most women dislike the idea of direct conflict and competition... the idea they have to prove themselves to anyone but an employer on a job interview unsettled most women. While pick me's don't mind the concept of auditioning for the role of wife... cause they know women's general cowardice makes it easy to beat out most of the competition.

Rilla shaking his head but he just said the same thing pretty much

CHAOTIC THE TRUTH

Chaotic needs to stay on the show.

Pick me’s get picked. Simply because she’s an asset and not a liability

They need to get rid of that drunk trick.

better means better😂😂

"the race is on But I won't compete" - Jeru the Damaja

Bw are doomed

Chaotic proves what smart women know. It can be pretend. That’s enough for men.

THEY’RE “BETTER” AT WHAT?! They’re better at being wives… ☠️☠️☠️

Lady T got fire Triggered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Rilla is a whole big mama

It seems that if you want to be married these days, dudes gotta make sure they still have 2-parent home and that the dad is already RP.

Courtney got her ass up here and said women don’t compete for men. Then they fight each other over men, try to get the most attention, copy hair and clothes and all like the same men. They are competing

You can’t just reinterpret the meaning of a word or phrase and stamp it . Pick me isn’t equivalent to deceiver

As a man I'm consistent no matter who I'm around... I don't change because I'm around females, white people, in the hood whatever... My point is if you are a “solid person” then you don't change your behavior based on who you're around...be who you are regardless and if they don't appreciate you remove them from your life... Women who complain about “pick me” are usually selfish and by themselves

Rilla stand ten toes down on em . And with the 1st pick of the Black womans draft .

@5:15. News flash: For all the women who feel they don't have to compete, um if you're in the dating market you are competing whether you feel like you have to or not. The difference is you're just a terrible competitor, if you're in the game you're competing, you are just trash competition for the ones who know and want to compete.

I'm actually surprised any of these men have a woman 🧐🤔 and shocked if any man wants any of the women on this panel 🥱😔

They're better at listening for sure

We're all in competition, especially women, whether you want to admit it or not. When you go out and meet a guy, making yourself available is a form of "competition", the less you make yourself available, the higher chance that man will find someone else. As much as I love black, yes majority of them do habe this attitude that being a "a challenge" or "a handful" is cute, and I've told women that that's not a good thing to je proud of. A lot of women have it backwards that we're suppose to cater and finance them from the jump when they need to be more worried about what we think of them.

Lady T is a different version of Tawana

Jewish men are excellent providers and are the top earners in the world. So why wont their women be good wives to their jewish men? That is a given and common sense. The black guy on the panel really have balls and nerves to even mention jews in this conversation. My doctor is jewish his wife dont need to work and live in the most elite community in Miami.

Crabs r not concerned when there is a headache pandemic. If u r not competing for a man then y r u triggered when we say pickmes r winning? Shouldn't concern u. The foolishness!

Logic is stupidly logical

The feminist movement really did a number on our women smh

We love pass-me….a lot of them

This dude has lost his mind if he thinks Jewish women are meek and quiet.

Chaotic speaks logic

😂😂😂😂 Pick me 😂😂😂😂

"pick me" can just be translated to "Try hard" in gaming bro it's a dumb concept

Its ok, they dont have to compete. But one will. And thats the one that will get everything and all the benefits. So for a woman that knows most women dont think they should compete, they are the winners today.

LadyM = Today's Word 🥗 Award.

Man Lady T is so pretty. But her attitude decreases her beauty

These women the panel are so beautiful....wow

Pick me aren't single moms

Pick Me's are better. End of story.

Pick me's just really want to be wifed. Regular chicks don't want to be wifed as much. I don't know if it makes them better.... maybe smarter

The Jewish folks have history/ tradition/ duty to survive the ages!! We BA most r the walking dead !!!

You ain't competing for nobody means you will either be by yourself or you will not be datingv the top 40% of men... Its much easier to meet an ok woman than a great guy...the problem is most women are “average at best” but because they are delusional they tend to they rate higher than they do...ladies when you are trying to date men “with options” you must compete if you want monogamy

Anyone finds it interesting 🤔 that a definition or a form of phrase "pickme" has a meaning though and is seen negatively any thoughts on this...

I need to see the rest of this

Lady T.....yes Jewish Women are better! Get over it or get better!

But y’all would compete for a job tho this is why only 1-4 black women are married

Chaotic was coming again in this jawn the man tells no lies!

You other a pick me or skip me that’s just what it is

Wtf is a pick me? Pick 3 pick 4? Lotter

A lot of RU-vid dating coaches are pick-me's🧐🤔 you'd don't say..1,2,3 I count 3 women on the panel that are RU-vid dating coaches and give relationships advice.🤷

Kay and Island gyal,laugh at everything men that speak the truth has to say.

Pick me's are definitely better

What is a "regular" woman?

T could get it if she didn’t talk so much lol

Logic u talking about a modern woman not a pick me. U talking a chameleon not no dam pick me.

Good luck new generation. Yall are screwed

Chaotic taking the channel back to denigrating Black women. It's getting sooooo old. Haven't watched in ages..came because someone said they were offering different themes.