kuv cov me hmoob nej mus nyob tau rau lub teb chaws vam meej es thov kom nej noj txuag nej txoj sia nawb mog nyiaj yog nej nyiaj siav yog mej siav tab mas peb hlub hlub nej thiab peb pom nej noj ces txaus hlub dhau
I don't believe his story. I'm sure he probably verbally abused her calling her bad names to the point she don't give a f****. It's just his side.....we don't know her suferring. This is the 2nd story of Hmong men cheating n wanting to leave their fat wife. I don't buy it. Smh....he's making excuses to seek others.
Mai Yia Yang I believed he cheat yo show her she’s losing him if she don’t change but yet she didn’t care to change so at the end she will lose him. No matter who is the guy if that’s how she is I’m sure all guys will leave her. Having a fat and stinky spouse is pretty annoying and tiring at the end, how can you live like that forever till you die if you’re only halfway through life and your partner don’t care to keep themself clean and healthy for you. I believe I would probably do the same like this guy too if My spouse is like his.
Zaj neej neeg no tsi musj dab tsi zoo kawm li os. Txiv neej ces rog los tias rog dhau, yuag los tsi zoo puag, tsi muaj me nyuam los tias tsi muaj, hos tus muaj me nyuam coob los tias coob dhau lawm yuav yuav niam yau. Txiv neej lub niag tswv yim qias neeg koj ces Yog excuse xwb tseem muaj ntsej muag tuaj tham li ko. Txiv neej los yeej tsw phem kawg thiab los hos
30 caug tus qaib yeej tsis txaus peb noj li tiag nawb.tsis paub lwm tus tab sis kuv li tos tsis txaus noj los 1tug qaib kuv tsuas noj lub hauv siab thiab ncej puab xwb ne.
1 hli noj g tag 30 tus qaib o tsuas 2 week 3 week ua ntej thiaj noj qaib xwb. Hi peb li puv ib hli peb g rog li o tseem yuag2 g muaj zog. Cov neeg rog2 yeej noj ua dog ua dig g xaiv khoom noj, noj li npuas
Tim koj es koj tus poj niam thiaj noj ntau 2 vim koj tsis pab cheem thaum pib. Tam sim no poj nrauj tseem ua qhov zoo xwb koj thiaj tseem cia 2 siab. Tab sis thaum koj tau lawm ces koj mam paub thiab mam nco txog koj tus poj niam rog siab zoo. Cas txiv neej es tsuas nyiam thiab hlub thaum poj niam tseem zoo nkauj xwb yog thaum phem lawm ces nrhiav tus tshiab thiab tsuas qhuas tias tus tshiab mas zoo dua. Yog pom nyiam thiab hlub thaum txiv neej zoo 2 xwb es thaum txiv neej phem tsis zoo lawm es poj niam nrhiav dua tus tshiab no ho puas zoo thiab. Txiv neej rog mas haj yam tsis zoo ib qho hlo li, poj niam qhov tseem hauv tseem nyob es pab tau txiv neej zoo nyob hos txiv neej ces twb nkaum tag tsis muaj dab tsi hlo li hahaha...
Hais tau zoo kawg thiab txaus luag tiag2 li ,kuj ua kev kawm rau cov tub ntxhais kom hlub yus lub cev rau txoj kev noj qab Nyob zoo ,zoo heev li nawb yuav tsum muaj cov uas muab cov pub dhau li no coj los tham thiab !!!
Yog xav ua txiv dev mus noj poj nrauj ces ua zoo hais xwb tsis txhob muab qhov rog los hais yuam .koj mus noj poj nrauj ces lub zog tag thaum twg ces poj nrauj muab koj Pov tsig.
This isn’t an excuse for an affair. But a lesson for women to love themselves and incorporate health habits for their own well being. Many Hmong woman don’t take care of themselves and unaware that obesity (PCOS) is the cause of infertility. Love yourself, lose weight for your own good and don’t be in denial! It effects your mood, confidence and self worth. Same goes for men... wouldn’t you want your man to healthy and strong, not an obese person who is not healthy? Don’t get offended, get educated and take care of yourself!
I do agree with you. A lot of the times ppl do tend to not take care of themselves esp women cus they’re busy taking care of everyone else. & yes obesity is link to infertility.
YES Hmong Americans have a terrible weight issue That’s why Hmong mekas girls are not as beautiful as the Hmong girls in other countries Sorry people 😐
There’s no excuse for cheating. If you don’t like your wife then let her go first before sleeping with others! Cov qaib me ces yeej txaus ibleeg noj ib nub xwb los mas. Hais lub tsis txaus Ntseeg li!
Ua cas kuv es txom nyem ua luaj 1 hli kuv noj 3 tug qaib xwb kuv xav noj kom txau los yus tus txiv tsi nrhiav rau yus noj li os...nrog koj tus poj Niam zoo siab heev.
This is sad... but reality is no one can really accept or want anyone who let themselves go either. Love doesn’t conquer all even tho we want to believe it should. If this guy’s attraction is to smaller skinnier women, it is who he is. Not necessarily an evil thing but yes he should divorced her first before cheating.
Yog kawg. Kyv mus noj laab hmoob mas peb cov poj niam hmoob mas tiiiib co maiv puv puuuuuv xwb os!!! Hmoob os hmoob aw!!! Cas yuav mus liam ua luaj li os!!! Kuv los ntshe tsis xav ua neej nrog ib niag pog rog li koj tus poj niam li thiab os!! Qhov koj txhaum ces yog koj tsis nrauj nws ua ntej koj mus nhriav dua tshiab xwb os.
First of all, who are you to teach a woman to clean herself up. If you’re that clean you shouldnt have another woman. You have the nerve to teach your own wife, she should have the right to teach you that you are a low life. There a tons of other men who wouldn’t mind a big woman, tons of men who wouldn’t mind taking your place. So before you teaches her anything, teach yourself FIRST! Be CLEAN yourself. 🤬
Brother aw kuv tus me txiv los zoo li koj hais koj tus me poj niam thiab os. Kuv zoo siab tias koj yog ib tug txiv neej ces koj ua li cas los tau os. Kuv ces niam yog ib niag poj niam xwb es yuav cas los yeej nyuaj ces ntshe kuv yuav nyuaj siab tag tiam neej no li os.
kuv xav tias kuv thiaj tau tus txij nkawm zoo li ntawv xwb no koj kuj rau kuv sab khau thiab los tus me viv ncaus. tej yam no yog raug rau leej twg leej twg thiaj paub. tsis yog yuav tsis hlub tab sis xav kom nws noj qab nyob zoo.
Owner of this story - If you are not satisfied nor happy with your marriage, you should of divorced her and not have cheated. TBH - Women can detox with apple cider vinegar, just sit in a tub of apple cider vinegar for a few minutes.
Koj yog ib tug txiv siab phem xav ntxeev siab xwb cas nim yuav keb ub keb no tus neeg yus hlub lawm txawm nws zoo li cas los yus yeej hlub nws, nws pom xeeb yug tau koj ib tug mi nyuam lawm na es noj 30 tus qaib xwb es koj tseem tuaj muab nws hais thuam rau hauv no thiab koj phem tshaj dab lawm nawb.
Koj hais tau yog lawm os txawm yuav zoo li cas los kom hais sib to taub thiab txhob cav2 ncauj xwb ua neej thiaj tsis lwj2 siab os nawb tsis tas li kom saib lub teb lub chaw ua neeg thiab yuav noj los kom paub nruas yus tus kheej xwb txhob pub kom dhau tshaj qhov yus tsis zoo yuav xwb ces yeej okay lawm nawb, vim peb ua neeg nyob luag tej qhia yus yeej tsis npaum li yus rov qhia yus os phooj ywg, koj cov lus tsis poob los li os mog peb tsis cem koj os peb zoo siab tau kawm ib cov lus zoo los ntawm koj xwb nawb Ua tsaug ntau os.
Honestly sounds like she got major issues.. I know some ppl like this. Its not a depression issue or self worth issue. She legit likes to eat. We need to stop lying and making excuses for ppl like these. The rude ones with no manners.
I get where he’s coming from. It may sound shallow to some but he tried to get her to help herself and she refused. It wasn’t like he immediately turned on her the minute she gained weight. We all hate to admit it but appearance is very important in a relationship. Women just have bigger hearts but we don’t want a man who is gonna let themselves go like that either. You have to take care of yourself physically and emotionally to get the best out of life.
Zoo li no es thiaj li xav kom zoo zoo ua ntej yus no yuav mus yuav tus neeg ntawm... zoo li no es how about when y'all get old? Yuav zoo li cas...? Damn hard headed people!!
It's better to divorce if you're not happy anymore. Your wife is too stubborn. How could she not like to look nice? Most women like to look nice and pretty. I can understand if it's a medical reason but she purposely did this to herself, to satisfy her cravings. And only one child. No excuse to be so unhealthy like this
@@pkcyang2910 Yes!!! I told my man the door is open 23/7. You don't own me and I don't own you. If you're no longer happy living and being with me then just go. No need to cheat.
Cas koj yuav hais dag ua luaj na tus txiv neej no na. Yog koj tus wife tsis muaj pim mas koj thiaj nrhiav tsis tau pob cas nws ho yug tau koj tus me nyuam na los. Koj txawm mus yuav tus yuag yuag los yog koj txoj niag hmoov ces lawv yeej yuav rog thiab los ma lol.
I don’t blame him for cheating if this story is true. I believe we as women or men we should try very hard to take care of ourselves. No matter how busy our life is we need to take care of ourselves it’s self confidence.
Npawg aw...cov poj niam rog mas koj hais tias nws rog2 lawm kom noj me2 no mas nws tseem hais tias yus rog tshaj nws...thiab lo hais tias tsis K no mas dhuav tiag2 li lau cov phooj ywg lau....
Brother, tsis muaj leej twg xav rog kiag li nawb. Kuv yog neeg rog thiab. Thaum 40 xyoo tod mus ces ua yuag mas nyuaj kawg and li. Koj txhob thuam nws os. Tsim nyog koj pab hlub nws....she needs help but cannot help herself. The way you approach her makes her feel offended because she sees that you are no longer attracted to her. You said how come she did not lose weight when you cheat, did you know, some people eat even more when they have stress or depress. Brother, go get some education so you can help her the right way. Also.....because she has diabetes so sugar will trigger her to keep eating more even she's not hungry. What she needs is Keto diet....cut all her carbs and sugar. And it is hard for her to do it. So your help is needed. Koj tsis txawj hlub nws li os.
Wow I'm disappointed at him. She can do better move on if he do you no good. He only love you when your skinny, but when you had his kids and gain weight he decided to cheat. Girl you cheat too lol.
I don't understand how a person could let them go to this extreme. I personally want to take care of my health so I could live longer to be there for my kids and see my grandchildren. How could someone just don't care about their weight at all? And they get upset when people tell them they need to lose a few pounds. Come on, when I put on a few pounds I dont get offended. I actually like when someone tell me lose to motivate me to lose the weight. If no one tells me I may think I look ok.
Omg....you cheat just cause your wife is heavy after having your child? Some people gets over weight not just cause she eats a lot. Maybe it's you that's making her life so miserable and stressed and food is her only comfort. Sorry I don't think you are a true love. You could have spent time with her to do activity together and cook eat healthy. Certainly not go cheat which put more stress on her.
Not really true, by the sound of this she does over eat too much. I can never in a million years eat a whole pizza by myself! If you can eat a whole pizza 🍕 by yourself and even after your doctor tells you you’re too obesity to get pregnant, that should be your clue to stop and take care of your health better. I know an obesity person that eats 3 plates of food each time whenever we have family dinners together. I can’t even finish one plate and yet I think I’m fat already, but she ate 3 plate with no concerns!! Now she regrets her health and weight.
I wonder how much of his description is true. He’s just trying to make himself the victim even though he’s the cheater. But he doesn’t realize that he will reap what he sows.
Tus txiv neej liam txwv no.....yog tias koj tib koj tus pojniam npaum li no lawm ces tsis tha yuav lawm os. Cov pojniam tsis ceev faj thiab tu yus tus kheej thiab ces yog ib tug txiv neej no tib tob npaum no lawm yuav los tsis nyog thiab as.
Thaub aw pab hlub koj tu me poj niam txawm sib nrauj los txhub nws thiab os koj tus poj nrauj los txhob ntxub koj tus poj niam thiab thiaj tsis npam neb
I do believe that there are some women & men that does have more body odor than others. If you know you have a bad body odor then you need to take care of yourself to save your marriage if necessary.
Zong Yang I agreed! I need at least 60 to feed me a whole month. One for breakfast and one for dinner! My last child, I eat two Cornish hens per meal. LOL!
Dude, 30 chickens not enough to feed her for a whole month...remember we eat 3X a day (breakfast, lunch and dinner). That’s 90 chickens, not 30! And be nice to your big wife! Big women shades you during summer and keeps you warm during winter. Just saying.
Aub yau ua li cas es yus ho tsis ntshaw zoo nkauj los ua li cas ho tsis pab txuag yus tus kheej me ntsis thiab os me viv ncaus aw2 cas yuav cia luag muab yus thuan sab ua luaj li nas yog luag thuam kuv npaum li no lawm ces ntshe kuv yoo lawm xwb os.
