Parent tip: it’s okay if they bored, I used to stress about constant entertainment, but letting them get bored makes them more creative and they even start helping with chores. Before you get pregnant make sure your healthy, with no hormonal issues, my last pregnancy was tough I wish I would have prepared for it six months in advance. Wishing you the best.
Hii Marah. Talking from a different perspective, I'm currently 24 and my sister is 19, so we are 5 years apart. I don't know how hard or how 'easy' it was for my mom to have us with a 5 years age gap, but it allowed me to grow more responsable, maternal and loving. Because I was very protective and gave my mom the support she needed, as much as I could. And yes, we still played a lot outside and with toys, we grew up together and even though we were not the same age, we still shared interests and had a routine where the other was always included. Now, I'm a bit against putting a lot of pressure on the oldest daughter, I definitely have had (and still have) a lot more responsability than my sister, but the bond we share is so so beautiful and she is the person I love the most in this world. All this to say that there is never a right time for a kid, for the second kid, for anything really. You just do it when you feel ready and have conditions to do so (money, mental health...). I would say, don't put a lot of pressure on yourself. You are a good mom and you'll do what's best for your family no matter what. When you feel physically, mentally and economically ready, go for it and be happy. It will be a lot of work but if you want a second kid, it will be 100% worth it and I'm sure the new baby will be Malik's best friend forever. I'm wishing you the best ^^
It’s a bit frustrating when you read people saying I should have had them closer etc like it’s in their control. Allah is the one who gives and He decides when you’re going to have your children. People should really stop talking like how they planned it a certain way.. It’s also insensitive for those who are trying to conceive to read such comments.
Don't wait too long to have the second child. I had my second child about 7 years later and the getting back to baby and toddler life is something I had to get adjusted to again. My first child is 9 and my second is 3 about to be 4.
Salaam Miss Marah =] I have 2 kids (7-year age difference) It wasn't planned that way but that's how it all worked out. There are pros and cons to kids being close in age and kids being further apart in age. In my case, I was originally bummed that my babies had such a big age gap. But now, my oldest is very helpful with my younger one (helps him with homework, makes him snacks, does chores ect....) and takes on a lot more responsibilities around the house. I feel like if they were closer in age, I wouldn't have that extra help BUT I do think they would have more in common than what they do now so, either way there will be benefits and challenges no matter what the age gap is. Also, I think you dress very stylish and cute while being modest so please pay no mind to the comment below
I liked her but now I see she don’t really care about her followers..no one judge if she did nose job or something but it would be nice to say about it since it’s so obvious and the way she is doing content like she always had this nose is disrespectful for someone who get paid to be a ”lifestyle influencer” but only show good side of her life and not the true side… social media is fake indeed. Marah you start to look like every other influencer and I don’t think it’s good in a long run. 🤷🏻♀️
But for baby number two, if youre wanting more, its always gonna be time lol. Whenever you feel comfortable and solid % together. But youll be ready once you get pregnant, the mind just shifts, just like the first one
Don’t stress about having a close age gap like as if time is running out. Obviously if you’re mentally and emotionally ready go for it! But remember your son and your husband NEED a healthy and happy mama/wife over having a second child. Your son needs a happy mama first. Take care of your mental health before anything! 🫶🏼
Salaam Alykum Marah. Malik is adorable and only growing smarter by the day, mashallah. I think you should start when he’s 3 only because 3 is a Sunnah and you won’t need to overthink so much. It’s a good gap because they can still hang out and be close, it’s not too far apart. Wishing you all the best with new baby IA. 💕💖
Before having kids I always thought I'd want my kids close the way I was a kid with my sister (17 months apart) after having my daughter she's 28 months now; I think it'll be easier for me and for her to reduce siblings rivalry... to try for another baby when she turns 3 or 4 so when she goes to school I can rest and sleep while baby sleeps also have alone time with baby too.❤ Lord willing it happens as He wills 🙏🏻
Marah, I've been following you for a long time now and have always loved your content because you've always been authentic and human. Not many RU-vidrs have this character. But why the hell did you change your nose? I've always liked that naturalness about you, but now it's somehow suddenly gone. It's obvious that you've had an injection in your nose, and if that's not the case and I'm wrong, please forgive me. This change in the face is also very problematic from an Islamic point of view. I love you for Allahs sake and i wanted to tell you. People who change their natural shape (without a medical emergency) are cursed by Allah. Please inform yourself more about this Sahih hadith and ask Allah for forgiveness. May Allah forgive you and me and us all.
I totally agree. I love Marah for being natural and real. But when she changed her nose i started to feel different about her. I lost excitement in her content soon after. Dear Marah, if you read this, what's done is done and you can't turn back time. But as your muslim sister, i hope you seek forgiveness from Allah and do solat taubah. May Allah forgive all of us
@@darwina29yh same i unfollowed, there is nothing unique about her now, i wanted to watch content from someone who i felt similar to, uno not someone who looks like everyone else, but it seems like her content is just ad heavy now too with the same talk too, those overly repeated words like "yummy" or "obsessed" is icking me out
So true, if it's non medical reason, it's too sad that it's basics of islam , how can you change ALLAH'S Creation . Loved her for being confident in her features, but this feels weird
All you people getting on Marsh's back and supposedly unsubbing about a nose 😅 - like who cares? If you want to get all worked up about sthg that actually matters, then mobilize in support of ending FGM which is most prominent in Muslim countries. These little girls are getting brutally butchered, without their consent, wc leads to death or lifelong health issues and here y'all are judging a NOSE, wc we don't even know if it has been changed or not. Choose to invest your power into issues that matter.
MashaAllah , you have so much patience with your little one. I do admire how you don't drop him off to get things done. You are amazing. Mine are 5 years apart but honestly, having them closer in age , they will grow and play together.😊 Much love ❤ from SA
Don’t wait any longer. The younger days you’re having to be on a schedule and be with the kids round the clock. You’re changing nappies and feeding and entertaining all the same stuff. Twos a company as they say…but the first one is the hardest and having one only is a challenge too. You get to be with your toddler and baby and have no routine as they have no school etc. My point is just go for it. we plan and Allah plans and Allah is the best of planners.
It’s up to you but I feel like go ahead and start trying. It might take awhile but even if you get pregnant right away you still have 9 months before the baby is born.
As a mom of 5 over here🤭 my eldest 2 are 18 months apart best decision for my family and I found that the transition for 1 to 2 was so much easier but you will know when the time is right for your family, love the vlog❤
@@bookssssssit doesn’t suit her at all. It’s changed her face completely and it’s sad as she didn’t need to do it. The pressures of social media 😢 she just doesn’t look like Mariah anymore
There is no right time for baby #2 but from my experience (have two kids and one on the way) I had my 1st and 2nd 2.5 years apart and I wish they were even closer in age, but I was working on my PhD so had to time it right. But do what is best for you and your family ❤
Hi marah❤really really enjoyed this vlog it's 5am New Zealand time so watching this just made me smile😊 ..ur cuzins r so cute love it..the honking the horn u sound like me 😂😂😂hilarious have a beautiful day guys love and blessings ❤🙌
I enjoyed this vlog, it was fun n interesting. My 1st two kids are 2 years apart. It's a good age gap cos my eldest came out of nappies n bottle, therefore it made it easier to cope with the baby. Both of my babies got along well as they started to grow older. It's not good to wait years to have ur 2nd baby. I think now is the perfect time for u guys to decide on hsving another baby. All the best.
Malik is sooo adorable mashAllah! ❤ Regarding advice for baby nr.2... I would say that this depends on your strength to handle 2 kids 😅 I had my second child when my first was 3 and a half. It is a good age gap..not too big and not too close...😊 elhamdliAllah for everything...
Assalamualaykum Marah, I love your vlogs, i have 4 children , first 2 are only 14 months apart, That was far too close , third baby was 3 yrs later, perfect age gap, started trying when baby 2 was 2 yrs old and baby 3 was born after 3 yrs, baby 4 was born 3 years after him, Boy, girl ,boy, girl in that order, So a 3 yr age gap seems perfect for me
I have 3 sons , and they are all 3 and half years apart. Personally I feel like I should have maybe had them 5 years apart because they are a little more independent then because it can be really exhausting sometimes when u giving the baby that attention they need then your toddler comes too and demands attention and it can get overwhelming. That's my opinion,I'm sure when they are older it will be much better and easier on me but I feel guilty alot of the time that I'm not able to give so much attention to my toddler now that I have a baby , my eldest is currently 8 and his so understanding , helpful Nd independent Alhamdulila
It’s not a nose job she got fillers. Nose job takes ages to recover from. Fillers makes such a difference I had mine down took two weeks for the bruising to go. It’s perfect and straight. I had a really ugly humpy nose hated it for years. I thjnk Marah looks lovely ❤
Marah I also had a nose job 8 weeks ago. Try not to lift up Malik and rest for now because it's not good for the healing process. Ur new nose looks lovely
You don’t know if you’ll get pregnant immediately and then you’ll still have 9 months of pregnancy before the baby is born. So you can start trying without trying if you know what I mean.
I Think you should go for baby nr 2. My girls are born 2016 and 2017 and I dont regret a single secund. They are best friends🥹♥️ Alhamdulillah. InshaAllah Allah gives you what you wish for. 🫶🏼 🤲🏼
Salaam Marah, I think you should spend some more years with Malik and just wait to have another baby. My brother had two back to back and now they're regretting it 😕
السلام عليكم Marah I’ve been watching your videos lately and I noticed your clothes aren’t modest. I just want to advice you for the sake of Allah to cover more with clothes like abayas that covers the whole body shape👍🏼 May Allah forgive us all and grants us his Jannah. ameen
