Perfection isn't always what we need. Sometimes we need to see relationship instead of showmanship. Beauty in relating to each other as people is important. The dance is supposed to be about romance, not about mechanics at this age in your lives. Do you enjoy your partner that you dance with in reality? Enjoyment, being together to enjoy the companionship is vital. At this age, we wonder when competition is over and your partners become valued as people more than a prize in a competition.