I think Na will be larger then Cl as when we go left to right in a periodic table the atomic size decrease because in the increase of atomic no. So Na>Cl
completely wrong concept here the force is obviously repulsive as the force is between 2 electrones(same charge). besides the distance you measured was among the nucleus but you had to measure distance between electrons buddy better luck next time and you better delete the vedio. because as the cation be larger it is easier for the cation to donate its electron and thus easier for anion to attract and it makes the bond stronger