Learn to Say No and Set Boundaries !!

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@user-ld3pf2sp3y Год назад

I was never a no person to anyone.but people starts insulting me.they thought iam always available for them.but they think they can say anything to me.anytime insult me.thank u very much.u make u feel that even we are human n even we have self respect

@rose4520 7 месяцев назад

Believe me I'm the same I thought I'm helping people being very kind but that destroyed me😢

@MR-pe9pv Год назад

Sharing your life experiences helps in empowering others. Feel so good to listen to you ❤️

@saminas11 11 месяцев назад

Absolutely right actually few months ago i started being absent for few people in my family and that helped me lot ... i have destroyed my so many years but not now .. now i don't bother for this my husband is not so supportive for this nature but i dont care now...i enjoy my life with my 4 kids.....❤

@dimpyrose Год назад

You are absolutely right. I learnt this very late through many bitter experiences in life. ❤

@asifahsohail7988 3 месяца назад

1-Learn to say No to friends and family first 2-Be direct and firm 3-Avoid asking questions . Don't give leverage 4-Check your body language. It gives message to others 5-Keep it simple. No need to explain anything 6- Remind yourselves of your own importance

@rose4520 7 месяцев назад

Indeed a very important topic to talk about

@tahiramoughal5288 Год назад

I can never say no to anyone i put my self i in pressure and get stressed . You are wright nice vlog . I will learn to say no it's first time I seen your vlog .jazakallah khairan love from UK 🇬🇧

@herfablife Год назад

Thank you so much 🙂

@moonkhan12345 Год назад

Bilkulllll sahi kaha irum mery sath ye bohttttttt ho raha hai sooooo amazing tips . Allahpak ap ko bohtttttt khushyia atha farmaye love you irum sister ❤❤❤

@eshalmalik9432 Год назад

Erum ap ki story bht maze ki thi acha bolti hyn aap bht useful bate hyn aap ki

@27shahidajamil Год назад

Very well said , lm also sufferer of that courtesy shit, where ppl disrespect you , hate you , manipulate you, it took decades to to stand for myself.

@herfablife Год назад

True

@cookingtips2908 Год назад

وعلــــیکم اســـلام ورحمـتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ ماشاءاللہ ہمیشہ خوش رہیں ڈئیر سس اللہ پاک ہم سب کے لیے آسانیاں پیدا کریں آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین بہت اچھا ٹاپک تھا آج کا بھی

@herfablife Год назад

Jazakallah

@cookingtips2908 Год назад

@@herfablife آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین 🤲

@achiibachii7546 Год назад

Sahi bat hai log boht behis hotey hain achey logon pr apni chalakiyan azamtey hain, "No" bolna seekh lena chahiye mene bhi apni life mein boht suffer kiya hai sirf 'No' na bolne ki waja se😢

@usmanmian-6564 Год назад

Mam mery pass alfaz nai hain ap ki tareef k liye main kl sy ap ko dekhna start kiya pehly nai janti thi ap ko wo hota hai na k koi ap ki zindagi ko bdl dy wesy ho ap boht achi batyn krti ho himat wali main boht pareshan thi pr ap ki videos sy boht himat mili boht shukriya ap ka Allah ap ko khush rakhy abaad rakhy ameen

@samreenrabbi5940 Год назад

Bilkul sahi kaha AP n Kash pehly mil jati ye tips sahi k Rahi h AP APNA Kam kra k log bhol jaty h k hm n samny waly ko APNA Kitna qeemti time dia h amazing tips

@user-sk3dm1vb1e Год назад

The topic is worth watching really learned a lot from you. You are really a decent person and teach how to keep yourself safe from toxic people saying no in a decent way and yes have noticed the point of body language ❤ stay blessed

@haseenarashid8231 Год назад

Kuch din se AP k vlogs dekhny LGe hn..Masha Allah so positive volgs hty hn apk...Masha Allah❤

@Lily10250 Год назад

Zaberdast mujy us velog se bohat motivation mili hai mujy b log bohat buri tarah use ker lety haen even un k problem solve kerty kerty mera kubara ho jata hai i have no time for my children n me Thank you so much

@akifshazia1968 Год назад

UR ABSOLUTELY RIGHT VERY NICE , KEEP IT UP

@herfablife Год назад

Many many thanks

@cookwithme8085 Год назад

V.true... I noticed Ur bedroom furniture looks nice . MashaAllah

@herfablife Год назад

Thank you so much 😊

@sarahsachedina1555 Год назад

It's worthy to watch this video. Great lesson for lifetime. You do good work 💯

@herfablife Год назад

I appreciate that!

@malihanaz8288 Год назад

Asslamu alaikum api ..I am first..same things happened to me...I can't say no from long time

@VloggerSyedaFatima Год назад

Meri be kuch yehe khani h life ke Jo bateen Ami NY nhe btai wo aj ap sy seekh li jzak Allah Allah pak ap ko bht bht ajr dy ameen❤

@azkashahbaz7679 Год назад

Plz newly married girls k liye b videos bnain wo kesy adjust hon susral me r unwanted situation ko kesy handle karain....

@hayatkhan4046 Год назад

Thanks mam you are such a good person and so Pure

@manahainoorwalipartySG123 Год назад

Der zabardast.ammi ta dua salam zama khpla moor neshta.Allah di ammi LA sehet wali ogad jund warki ameen

@hanieilaf5261 Год назад

JazakAllah , very helpful topic , bilkul thek Apne Liya khud hi stand lyna parta hy ❤

@herfablife Год назад

Thx

@rehanakhan9007 Год назад

You are right my sister ap k bolny ka Andaz is very nice

@herfablife Год назад

Thank you so much 😊

@ahmedshuja2866 Год назад

Bht h aala aapne mere dil ke bat khe kal se mei kehna chahte thi aap kch aisa sekhai mujhe mere made ne bht pareshan kia tha mei bhi usko kch bol nh skte thi magar mene bhi apne husband se share je bat usne bhi mujhe yahi kha no kehna sekho age uske marzi h kaam kri ya nh aaj mei bht relex feel kr rhe ho aaj moh phala ke kaam kr ke gye nh toh itna pareshan krte 2 ghnte tak bethi rehte ac ke samne.

@AMANpk795 Год назад

bilkul sahi baat ki hy apny family ko kesay control kerain yh bhe btain. like susrali relative

@shafaqzia2568 10 месяцев назад

Bohut sarrrrriiiii dua,main is qadar hopeless,depress her waqt ghussa,sugar patient bun gye.laikin aap ki videos daikh kr khuch motivate hoye hun.atleast ub apney aap ko change krney ka soch rhi hun

@DishWish Год назад

Very good and helpful vlog, cause it’s so hard for me to say no 😊I need so much courage to apply these tips but I will definitely try thanks for sharing dear 😊💕

@herfablife Год назад

Glad it was helpful!

@user-yv3ct8jd4q Год назад

It's my first time given my comment iam watching your channel past few months really like your personality,as house wife see many good things as I like for myself balance life style

@herfablife Год назад

Thank you so much 🙂

@Farhanatenginkeri Год назад

Wow so beautiful lines kya baat h mam❤❤ apki to fan hogai mai❤ log mrea bhut mis use kiya h❤❤ shukriya 🙏🙏

@herfablife Год назад

Welcome

@rehanaansar5064 Год назад

First time i saw your vlog .the topic was so interesting and helpful.❤❤❤❤

@herfablife Год назад

Glad you liked it!!

@junaidanwer3516 Год назад

Jee aapi me b asi hi the log hmari courtesy se najaiz faida uthate hen or hume carpet bna lete hen yes u r right k ap firmly no bolen or koi explanation b mat den i agree with u nice words Masha Allah Allah bless you amin

@memonagull408 8 месяцев назад

Your topics are always practical n interesting...may ALLAH PAK bless you alot...lots of love❤

@umasharma3693 Год назад

A few days back i got a chance to watch your video.I watched many videos of you one by one. I really liked your views which you share through your videos. Love from India ❤

@herfablife Год назад

Thanks and welcome

@romisart Год назад

No words no comments just alot of respect and love

@rodriguesfamilylifestyle1183 Год назад

Dear u have explained very well , I also suffered lot when I was teaching in school, love from India

@lifewithsabahat Год назад

Yes schools mei jb tak bolain nai ap pistay hain unfortunately

@x.x3513 Год назад

Mujay apka samjanay ka andaz achaa lagta h

@herfablife Год назад

Thanks a ton

@herfablife Год назад

Thx

@Hamarepyareladdugopalji 11 месяцев назад

Ek ek baat sachi h apki.. Muje lg rh h mere liye hi bnai h...

@kamranslifestyle1286 Год назад

Assalam O Alaikum bhen mashallah may Allah bless you and your ✨️

@herfablife Год назад

Jazakallah

@naziathakur1474 Год назад

Thank you sooo much for explaining easy ways lots of love from🇮🇳

@herfablife Год назад

My pleasure 😊

@ismatabbas3681 Год назад

Sahi kaha ap ny shadi k start mai ksi ko no Bolna boht mushkil lagta hy but after sometimes we can say easily No

@herfablife Год назад

Yeah

@maliknoman3768 Год назад

Salam. Masha Allah so nice.apki batain hmaray liay bht motivational hoty hain.Ap khud bht achi hain R apki batain to bht e zbrdst

@herfablife Год назад

Thx

@user-ky1sl5si3c Год назад

Api main ap ki taqlif samjh sakti hun mere Sath be is tarh ke masle hote Hain 😂 main apki buht bari fan hun ❤❤🎉🎉🎉 big thanks 👍

@fashishahshah6927 11 месяцев назад

Veri good aapka jawab Nahin yahi sari problems mein face karti thi lekin aapse bahut kuchh sikha ab main aise hi karungi na bolna mere Liye bhi bahut mushki tha Meri sabse Badi mushkil HAL ho gai Allah Tala aapko bahut khush ra

@herfablife 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much 🙂

@homefoodfunliving1092 11 месяцев назад

V.nice I watch first time ur vlog Good suggestions

@herfablife 11 месяцев назад

Thanks and welcome

@atikam-qt8kz Год назад

W.salam!Yes👍say no!is need some reason! But Impressive your speak!!love from india 🥰🥰🥰🥰

@funchock--fz Год назад

Thanks aap Aap Ki bate mujhe bht achi lagi Isi chiz Ki Mai v shikar hu

@herfablife Год назад

Change yourself

@AFRIDI_GAMING302 Год назад

well done apne meri ankhain kuli ha thanks for sharing this topic

@herfablife Год назад

Welcome

@mariamazu8214 Год назад

Same like u I also couldn't say no...but after watching this I will do it next time

@littleangelkitchenvlogs1530 Год назад

I have this problem, i can't say no to any one but I will trying ❤❤thanks aapi I am from India

@muhammadehsan7440 Год назад

Savour Food, I Think on ur table. Nice Sharing. apky bed ka print nice lagra ha summer print. apni ammi ko b layen vlog ma. mujy dakhny ka shook ha. Allah unko sehat vali zindgi dy, ameen

@jyotivingale6075 Год назад

Yes no bolana lesson for me Thankful i know already about it but Ecspariment karana ye sahi me bataya easy ho gaya mere liye🎉😊

@user-li4yd5qh3p 3 месяца назад

Jazak Allah khier ❤

@samrina4322 Год назад

Assalmulakum dear ! Again one of beautiful topic “ NO” in briefly mentioned. ❤❤❤ say my Salam to your Mom 💖

@herfablife Год назад

W salam and jazakallah

@MAplays-si8td 11 месяцев назад

Excellent job sister. I have learn a lot from you ❤Thanks

@herfablife 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much 😊

@fairytail413 9 месяцев назад

Greattttt ........no krna sikhadiyaaa .....👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

@attiyaahmed4152 Год назад

You are helping a lot. 👍👍👍👍

@herfablife Год назад

Glad to hear that

@iramshamsi2983 Год назад

Nice points bari achi bateye hai

@herfablife Год назад

Thx

@shumamemon883 Год назад

Yes yes yes Meray hubby ke gaaree bht buray treekay say use hoe kuk hum no nh boltay thay😊

@farkhandasaeed2068 7 месяцев назад

Very helpful..... thank you very much..

@farkhandasaeed2068 7 месяцев назад

Very good thank you very much

@fatmakhan2927 11 месяцев назад

Such a wonderful topic and you explain so nicely thank you so much

@herfablife 11 месяцев назад

My pleasure 😊

@Hammadkhan-qp9si 11 месяцев назад

Thanx AP se boht acha sekha q k mujy no kehna bilkul nhe Ata jis ki waja se Mera boht nuqsan hota rehta hai

@IndianmomMukeema123 Год назад

Ap bohot acha samjatihey....sachmey hum na kehna nahi jante

@HomemakerMehak Год назад

So so so amazing😊mene b bohaaaaaaat kuch saha hai ku k mujhe no kehna nahi ata tha.lekin mene apne bachon ko ab no kehna sikhaya hai😊

@lifewithsabahat Год назад

👍

@herfablife Год назад

Great

@auntiejamilla Год назад

Masha Allah beautiful sharing as always great vlog 🇬🇧💞💞

@family-vlog804 Год назад

Ap jo situation bta rahi same mry sath hota h.bhot miss use krty h log😢❤

@herfablife Год назад

Don't let them

@goldensparrow8977 Год назад

I loved todays vlog please share more such a type of life experiences video we as a girl need to know because we have some toxic people around which disturb our routine

@herfablife Год назад

ive shared

@muqaddasmalik1256 11 месяцев назад

Very nice erum bajiii👍😄

@HamzaT537 11 месяцев назад

U are best queen for the women I really learn from u through this video❤❤

@herfablife 11 месяцев назад

Honoured

@qaariazaheer6681 Год назад

U are amazing mam.... I started watching your videos few weeks ago... and I am in love... u r so energetic... motivated... mashallah...mashallah.... may Allah bless u always....

@herfablife Год назад

Thank you so much 🙂

@farkhandasaeed2068 7 месяцев назад

Plz green dress Ka bta dn Kahan sy lia mjy bht Pasand Aya.....

@VloggerSyedaFatima Год назад

Ma Sha Allah sister ap ka Khana bht bht zbrdst lag rha h Allah ap ko or sab ko brqt dy.

@herfablife Год назад

jazakallah

@maryamirfan8021 Год назад

Assalam o Alaikom irum m NY ap sy buhut Kuch seekha hy thnx for this topic I appreciate your videos topics thnx a lot and lot of prayers for you thnx

@herfablife Год назад

It's my pleasure

@sobiaqureshi7278 10 месяцев назад

Good points

@MuhammadTalhaSaeed-fi3ox Год назад

Thanks

@herfablife Год назад

Welcome

@ayeshaasad8169 Год назад

What a sweet relaxing start of another informative vlog

@herfablife Год назад

Hope you enjoyed it!

@khanscontenthub4566 11 месяцев назад

I am new at you're channel and I watch your vlogs mostly.I learn alot

@mariashahzadi2565 Год назад

Jazakillah hu khaira Dear

@sairacookingideas Год назад

Thanks for Sharing ❤

@herfablife Год назад

You are so welcome

@zikranaeem8416 Год назад

I am from Quetta abhi do teen vlogs dekhe he but this contant was amazing 🤩 best wishes for you

@sabafamily4391 Год назад

Thank you for your sharing I will try to say no because lot's of people do with me like you 😢

@MuhammadIbrahim-md6bt Год назад

Thank you so much. Ap ki tips ki sakht zarurat thi ...❤❤❤❤

@herfablife Год назад

Thank you so much 🙂

@khanscontenthub4566 11 месяцев назад

I am from Sargodha..beautiful memories I have

@Flowers_12v 8 месяцев назад

U r absolutely right

@mehreenzafar-il7vy Год назад

Assalamoalaikum me and shadi forun bad SGD hi gui thi uni k ander hum log rehtay thay ,,, Kher me 3 sail huay new gher me shift Hui Hun, ap believe kren meri nebour me hain unk 4 bchay hain wo ek din me 12 ya 13 bar door knock krtay thay air baqaeda andr bedroom me aajatin,,,, me ne 3 bar unhe mnna kia but in vain,,, last time phir me ne much skhti se mna kia,,,, a believe kren mjhay lgta tha k me door or hi hun like a guard

@sakoonzindagi44 10 месяцев назад

Great talking ❤

@seeratkhan7766 Год назад

Good good job and good luck MashaAllah 🥰🥰😘😋😘

@herfablife Год назад

Thank you so much 😊

@memesboys175 10 месяцев назад

@@herfablifeاپکے بچے اب کدھر ہیں اور کیا پڑھ رہے ہیں

@KiranSardarKashmiriVlogger Год назад

Mashallah mashallah bhttttttt acha aur helpful topic ha i appreciate you api ❤❤❤❤❤

@herfablife Год назад

Jazakallah

@KiranSardarKashmiriVlogger Год назад

@@herfablifestay connected and subscribe dear sis JazakAllaha

@nishapmala3770 Год назад

I am so so happy that i got you thanks a lot maam.....

@herfablife Год назад

Most welcome 😊

@MahwishNaveed1988 Год назад

Mashallah very nice❤

@herfablife Год назад

Thx

@niazkhan4387 Год назад

Ajkal ap bohat useful tips hamse shear kar rahi hain..plz koi diet wali tips bi shear kar den..mujhe dieting karni ha joke mene zindagi me kabi ni ki lakin ab zarorat par gai or mujhe ni pata k kese diet karen..me to bs simple khana kam kar leti hu..kya ye sahi ha?