Have never in my life put myself first.. thinking after terminal spouse passed I'm going to try but I don't know how.. I've never lived a life for myself, all I've done my whole life is care for others and work. I'm now going to be old and alone.. I'm determined to try to think of myself and not find my worth only in work and service of others. When I hear do your favorite thing, go to your favorite place etc and I don't know what any of those things are..
Fellow Leo, you begin with CURIOSITY… and just that…. The inspiration will pour in there after to what is truly aligned to your soul. You are Leo after all….” YOU CREATE “ Start with positive affirmations first. It’s okay to be of service to others but is it really CARE TAKING OR CARE GIVING?? People can FEEL you… do you take on others problems so that you numb? (Just an example).. I highly recommend Melody Beattie book “Codependent No More”. Please don’t go off the title…. Become curious as to why I’m sharing this? Also, you may have to get thru a few chapters first bcuz you may or may not be a drinker and it talks about that… stay curious and keep going… and no you will not read this in one sitting… read some and journal about it… forget a few days and something will remind you to go back to reading… and then repeat! Stay CURIOUS, you are in fact A CAT AFTER ALL LOL A BIG ONE 🦁
I was in your position 20 yrs ago. It was the scariest thing, but friend did help in the beginning. I taught myself how "to be me" and it liberating. I still put others before myself, but those years alone taught me so much. I'm 82 going 40 and in a relationship with a nice man. Scared though !!!! I love my own company now❤
You can still be of service to others (after you heal) and put yourself first. Just take a deep breath and enjoy the moments left with your loved one (so sorry about the illness) and take it one day at a time.
You are spot on. I don't know what to do or entirely what I want. I don't want to let someone down and I can't just walk away but equally I don't want to keep living for another person. I don't feel loved. I am alone
So I just commented on the Sagittarius video because that’s my sun sign. I’m a Leo rising, again this person has been in my energy for a little while, he showed a little of his true colours and I took the exit but I ended up on a side road hoping he would prove me wrong with no contact from me…. I have found the exit and didn’t want to take it but his masked completely slipped and I sped to the exit. It’s hard… I can feel the energy leaving though. I have strong boundaries now! I don’t have the time or energy to be trying to change any grown person.
I just want to say this is so accurate and resonates and I feel this is better than any therapy I've ever had. I'm going through a very hard time in my life to say the least. I feel just stuck in it for sure and I don't know who I am anymore. I'm constantly in survival mode. Thank you for your insight. I just want to feel better. Like there's no light I'm seeing. I just want one thing to start working out.
I'm a Leo and I don't give up on my dreams. Sometimes it's hard but faith is all it takes. Open my heart ? I did that. And now the magic is happening ✨️ 🎉 🙏. Thanks for the reading ! I needed a confirmation ❤
A "communication collapse" is a polite name for it. The much needed time away was announced, but not respected, resulting in a departure door ... It's difficult to communicate with those who won't listen, who are quick to think the worst, throw shade. Holding dignity & self-respect amidst the surrounding storm is empowering, tho' the whole thing becomes quite tiring. Anticipating a cathartic release when finished. Soon. Into freedom 🦋 💜 Thank you☯️ x
Yes Ali ! I am beginning to focus on myself, and not try to take care of everyone else. Im a giver, i have to take some. I say my piece now. Put myself first. There are takers out there.......
Deci.. Am un taur care umbla dupa mine de mai bine de o decada. Nu continuu dar anyway! Nu s-a concretizat nimic ever si nu inteleg daca omu e nebun de nu ma lasa in pace sau chiar ma iubeste. Sta prost rau cu comunicarea cand vb cu el vb cu peretii. E ceva cu energia lui.. Nu mi a placut niciodata. Simt energie de weakness si disperare, nu simt energie curata de iubire. Si mereu au aparut pb cu el. Niciodata nu a decurs lin. Ceea ce mi spune ca nu e ce trebuie. Acum sunt cu focusul pe mine sa mi imbunatatesc partea financiara sa ajung sa muncesc ceva ce ma implineste si iar a reaparut. Ma oboseste toata situatia. A facut ceva gesturi dragute pt mine si tocmai d aia ma simt confuza. I dont have the time and energy for this anymoree. Im 40 daca nu ma prioritizez acum, cand o s o fac? Ca si asa nu m am prioritizat niciodata
I kept starting the reading over and over, 😢I feel like no one hears my side or hears my pain in this. I want to scream but why, no one can hear anyway. Im going to use the full moon on the 17th to release me from it all.
Your statement of releasing yourself from it all sounds very ominous. I hope I’m misinterpreting and this is not about any type of self harm. Please reach out to someone if you are contemplating anything final.
@@thibodeaux99 Thank you for your concern, but no I’m not going to unlife myself. I’m just in a really bad place and this reading really hit home. I have been fighting all my life and have had so much loss and trauma that sometimes it just feels overwhelming with no light in sight. Again that you, I will get through this too.
Thanks Ali- You totally woke up the lion back in me 🦁 & your last piece of advice on the orchid 🪴~ uplifted my spirit for a moment there lol.✨ As you mentioned , removing myself from the current equation somewhat felt like i was abandoning my loved ones. Being “loyal”is in my BLOOD. Don’t know if it’s a blessing or a curse sometimes. But your words helped me to “un-drown”🌊🛟 myself from my own guilt, take a deep breath 😮💨, remove myself from my emotions🧘♀️, and weigh the pros & cons to clarify what positive outcomes can come out from long term planning. As much as it bothers me to take the exit now, reality is, I do see how removing myself from the picture is a harder choice but the better choice, for sure … Patience and strength are definitely needed and going to be tested here. It’s easier said than done. But I will cling onto faith! Paws Up & Thank you always for your guidance!🐾
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