Iam a nurse...... Age കൂടുതൽ ആയാൽ issues ഇല്ല എന്നു പറയാൻ പറ്റില്ല എങ്കിലും ഒരു 40 above high risk എന്നു പറയാൻ പറ്റുള്ളൂ.....In some patients after 30 to 35 risk കാണാറുണ്ട്.... But very rare..... So don't think about that.....നിങ്ങൾ comfortable ആയാൽ മാത്രം ഒരു baby planning മതി.... Because ഒരു മനുഷ്യനെ വളർത്താൻ ഒരുപാട് കാര്യങ്ങൾ ശ്രെദ്ധിക്കണം..... അതിനു parents കൂടെ comfortable ആകണം..... So enjoy your life.....🫶🏻💞
Valare valare sathyam aane ..pakshe vere oru vasham koode unde.. Late ayittanel , kutty valarne valuthavumbolekkum , parents will be too old .. Kuttikalude nallakalathu , kurach adhikam responsibilities aavum ..
Someone in my known circle , she is 30 yrs old and having a lot of health issues , but with out considering her health or her mental state, her in laws are forcing her to have a child and she is mentally exhausted . Seriously don’t understand. Yes , have a child when you are mentally , physically and financially ready.
Ethrayo friends including me have a baby without having a job.....but surely regret later....aishu paraja pole first vendath financial and emotional stability then babies....good decision dear.....enik oke ethrem bhodam undarnenkil i will not struggle now.....kochina ettond internship cheyyalum project submission um aftr that job nokkalum sathyam paranja vattu pidikum 😂
I think there is no display of "concern" or "care" when people ask others about their baby plans. Like you said, it's a private question and there is absolutely no need for people to be NOSY and ask this question around. Having a baby is something that should be planned and others have no business in going around and enquiring about it, even to vloggers or other people.
It’s a good response that you said about baby planning being a private question. We as a family had a daughter after going through treatments after 7 years. We never thought it would be that hard for us.. going through the entire thing is so stressful and painful in itself and I don’t wish it on anyone. But it was so devastating when people especially malloos who I have only met once intentionally wanting to make me uncomfortable raising these questions. This culture should be discouraged. Thank you for bringing that up Aishu
It’s important that we need to be comfortable n ready to have a baby.. but age is definitely a factor..above the age of 35 the health of uterus and quality of eggs will decrease.. due to current life style it can even be earlier... so earlier u conceive it’s safe.. else u have options to preserve eggs and use them when u r ready.. don’t take it negative.. am someone going through this difficulty
Better to have a baby below 30.bcz our health is very important. Above 30 health okke kuranju varan sadyathayulla tym anu.namuk health undenkile nalla reethiyil makkale care chyan kazhiyullu
Enikum baby aakunnathinu mump ithine patti oru ideayum illayirunnu.ippo enik 27 kazhinju.oru baby aayathinu shesham anu parenting ethra bigger task anenn manasilakiyath.nmude health is very very important anu.orupadu struggling iloodeyanu parenting kadannu pokunnath.pregnant ayirikkumpol arum ithenne patti paranju tharilla.pregnancy anu valiya risk ennaanu ellarudeyum vijaram.but after delivery anu ettavum valiya karyngl kidakkunnathu. 30 age paranjath after 30 s il anu nmude health okke kuranju varunnath. So 30 paranj enne ullu.othiri late akathe baby okke ayaal namuk nerathe yokke freeyakaam. Before pregnancy namuk advises okke kelkkumpol deshym thonnaaam
Oru free standing umbrella undel sunny days il outdoor vlogs cheyyam ..Ayurvedic cleansing cheythal periods okke onnu regular aavan helpful aavarundu chilarku..Age avumpo delivery ku issue varaam..atharinju careful aayi monitor cheythal mathiyavum..ettavum important happiness thanneyanu..Vishnu lucky aanu..oru arranged marriage il right partner ne kitty
Hello da..baby planning nammal mentally physically prepare akumbo cheyyuka, alkar angane oro stage ilum oro karyangal chodhichondirikkum.. On safer side il amh ie ovarian egg reserve onn check cheythekuka.. Apo oru idea kittum ethratholam postpone cheyyunnath safe anennu.. Pinne be healthy, eat neat, exercise regularly, stress free.. Ella 6 months oru routine check up cheyyuka randu perum.. Athreyokkeyullu.. Pregnancy complication ella age ilum undakarund.. It depends on how well you take care of your body.. Be happy. You got only one life.. Live it the way you want ❤❤
Njn etha manasilakiye enu public ayi paryil But one day everything will alright Don’t God bless you ma Once again pls don’t suffer ❤️❤️❤️❤️ One day Manushyar manasilakum ningalude value Reality ellqm ☺️🙂
Past is past.. ennoke parayan eluppanu.. njan ipoyum regret cheythonde irikalanu.. pakshe enthu karyam.. effort edthittayalum ee qna kandapo changes life l venam ennu thonunu. This qna tells me to have a dream is beautiful. Otherwise life is boring.. thankyou aishu.. i hope i can let to go all my past experience and try to achieve my dream destiny.. for me you are a motivator, you are an influencer...
Thought you are struggling with fertility issues😊❤ anyways nice decision.. Iam now 8 months pregnant with our first and im 25 husband is 28❤ we are beyond greatful as i have only one ovary I thought it will be difficult to conceive. But we got pregnant instantly.
Hello ma'am, I am from North India (Delhi) and not able to understand whatever you speak. So it's my humble request to you please add subtitles so that we can also understand. I want to listen you, i want to know about you, your struggle and everything about you so please add substitle. I love hard working people bcz I'm of them. And you are so sweet 😇
Hi aishu... recently gone through your channel and iam a big fan of u... reason is your positive vibe and you are enjoying your life at fullest.....I got married at 25 and my in-laws were forcing to have a kid... that time I was going through some health issues and financially I was not stable....So the worst thing happened is that I was suffering from post partum depression for almost 2- 3 years and my child was showing speech delay and symptoms of autism....all this happened because I conceived when I was not ready...So I don't want anyone to go through my phase....So I wanted to say age doesn't matter. Plan a baby when u are mentally prepared...bcoz mother's mental health is equally important for a healthy baby....😊
9.00 to 9.47 vare paranja kaaryam valare important aan .... actually enikathin pattunnilla but agine aaavaan njaan aagrahikunu sramikunnu...☺️..orupad ytbrs undegilum ..enik nigalee entho baygarytt ishtaa..onnamathe kaaranm ee oru personality aan..☺️🤗🤗 I wish you the best and all goodness in your life 💞
I have always been asked this question of "when will we have a baby" now we do have a lil boy who is 3 years!! What i would say is...let ppl be y sud one ask another when or why aren't u guys planning for a baby!! Societal pressure is too much though that person asked out of love or whatsoever we never know what is going in one's life !! That's their personal n private thing i really dnt know y are ppl so bothered about them hvng a kid its not easy like before u just randomly get pregnant n hv a baby nooo now that we women understand how physically emotionally n financially should we be rdy to bring a kid to this world!! I have seen creators talking nntaking care of babies with so much of ease thats the brighter side we see but very few ppl are coming out telling how emotionally exhausted they are and we know how a Herculean task its to look after a kid its not easy at all! There are days where i love staying all alone getting some me time, im craving for it!! So what i wud tell is emotionally n physically okke ready aanenkil maathre baby planning chyyavu n dn think im just tllng the other side of it but positoves ellarkum parayan undavum negatives aarum parayilla!! And Im such a person who wouldn't want to dump my kid to someone to look after even if its my parents or in laws we made the kid we sud look after athaanu ente policy may be for some me time avrde kayyil kodukka ennalland, what u told is right actually!!! Emotionally stable allnkil baby kazhnjit athinte double low aavum nammal cuz its tiring but yes at the end avrde mughath oru chiri kandal nammal veezhum 🤩 and especially European countries il (not only europe US aanelum canada aanelum) evde aanelum looking after babies help indavila and thats y njan Indiayil ninnu thanne avnte ellam my husband n i do it equally athond we nvr felt a burden though 🤩 we are in Germany n ivde its the same like NL!! 🤩
Aishu chechide vlogs okke kanumbo kittunna oru positive energy ✨️✨️✨️aishu chechii samsarikumbol ente oru sis/ frnd okke parayunnapole thonnunn💖💖love you❤️
Ohh my dear, having a baby n nurturing it is a natural process...dont make it too technical..there s no time as perfect timing...when it happens it happens...on a separate note, if you are baring everyting in public, abt your family career friends couple life, it is very obvious that public will def get into ur personal space n intrude..you cannot have your cake and eat it too..if you are earning ur utube revenue by unveiling ur personal life for public viewing you cannot put a barrier...see i find utube to be an alternate source of income, but i will not put a camera into my personal space and sell it...i m n avid viewer of ur channel n i love ur character..more than u vishnus..feel bad fr him that he being a private person is forced to ne in public space..best wishes
It was a great video .. Day by day you are influencing me more ❤I really appreciate the crisp and clear opinion and attitude you have towards your life ❤
Hey Aishu, great video. Loved your matured, well thought out answers to some difficult questions. And yes I love these q/a or casual sit-down chit chat videos. Hoping to see more of these! ✌🏽
Hi chechi.. it's my first time I'm commenting in ur video... I think this video was the best one u have ever done in ur channel..there is something special in all ur videos... moreover Vishnu chettan ..he was too special for me as a viewer...keep going on chechii.❤
Adipoli q&a aayirunnu Aishu...just loved the way you answered all the difficult questions with a lot of maturity...would love to see more of such q&a from you❤
Hi aishu.....I never agree with vishnuz cmnt that u have to get matured after your birthday...your answers to these questions are just amazing..I just loved the way of ur response....
Spot on about "rewrite/regret".....past, maybe could guide the future but never carry that "load". Too many stuff to look forward in the short span of life....!!! You guys are terrific.....keep up the great sense of humour going....!!!
Njn delhi schoolil ndayrnn cheriya classl chechi head girl okke aaya tyml..i remembr how popular u was🤌🏻i do rembr your sports talent..i used to admire your running skills..hope u have a good future❤
Hi chechi, Started following u few months ago from videos from India. Found something connection with your character as I am somewhat similar and I too have a hubby similar to Vishnu chettan. And I connect that too in your videos. Now I m a regular viewer and I do wait for your videos. U do motivate me a lot and make me think twice. Thankyou so much do videos regularly. Do convey my regards to geethu chechi and alka chechi. I do like them in your videos
