I just had a meltdown and cried so much cause im going through this... and a few hours later this video pops up ! Subhanallah! Subhanallah! Subhanallah! Allah is always listening! Subhanallah!
What a coincidence is this SUBHAN ALLAH I’m having my marriage discussion at my home and this khutba came up to me right around the time. May Allah make marriage and all the other matters of life easy for everyone. AAMEEN
@Maruf Bin Murtuza we will, *In Shaa Allah* 😊 hang in there, man ☺ the reward for patience is well worth it 😁 and *Allah* purifies us with difficult trials 😊
I am Latina and I am American. Allah has brought me back to who I been all my life.This lecture can be on a Christian stain point too. because I can understand my family has brought me up on there religion and all there too, only to find out in life that I was doing things they asked me to do and it was all wrong. Love is something that should truly come from the heart. Amazing to hear he is on point.
Brothers and sisters, Men and Women the scriptures say 1 Corinthians 7 King James Version 7 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 6 But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment. 7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. 8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. 9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. 10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. 12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. 15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace. 16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife? 17 But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches. 18 Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised. 19 Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God. 20 Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called. 21 Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather. 22 For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord's freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ's servant. 23 Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men. 24 Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God. 25 Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful. 26 I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be. 27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. 28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you. 29 But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none; 30 And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not; 31 And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away. 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. 36 But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry. 37 Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well. 38 So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better. 39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. 40 But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God. Matthew 5:32 King James Version 32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
I am aged 29 and wallahi i haven't learned anything better from my parents or teachers etc except for you ustad nouman ali khan wallahi you are one out if few that is letting me hold on to the rope of Allah indeed you are choosen and I can't imagine myself surviving without teacher like you ..may Allah bless you foremost and enable us to spend life and die in the most better state of our emaan .Ameen
@@hamssatoumaiga5085 but there's nothing much we can do about it because we are confined in our culture. But what astonishes me more is that they wanna practice Deen but tell them this then u see how they react..dating or going out with someone with dad's money then there's no problem but all the problems arises when it comes to Halal.
@@zurzakne-etra7069 If you are not an eye witness to his actions that you claim he has done. That what source or evidence do you have expect Online/inet news about him. Since we don't really know what happend, we must focus on what he is trying to teach ( Quran ) rather than his personal life.
@@zurzakne-etra7069 No, it was a false allegation which when investigated was deemed false. He did not tell ppl he was divorced (for privacy reasons) , so when he started looking for a new wife the rumour mills started. Please do the proper investigations before starting more rumours, or you will find yourself in that position.
My barrier was ethnicity... But alhamdulillah after some really tough decisions and praying keeping my trust in Allah it actually happened albeit haven't really got an extended family anymore but I got married to whom I wanted to
hey can you please tell me what has happened, id appreciate it because it would give others hope. I am going through the same thing and making so much dua every day to open my parent's hearts it's such a difficult test
Going through the same thing and for me it isn't even about race. It's all about family reputation. Culture is so messed up. May Allah azza wal guise them
when I saw the title of the khutbah I remembered the hadith when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her religious commitment. Seek the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”
Reference? Plus, I strongly recommend you use the exact wording when quoting a hadith instead of just relying on the memory of what you heard in the past. Jazak Allah
@@blackbear1781 This hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4802) and Muslim (1466) from Abu Hurayrah and the actual words are ( تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لِأَرْبَعٍ : لِمَالِهَا ، وَلِحَسَبِهَا ، وَلِجَمَالِهَا ، وَلِدِينِهَا ، فَاظْفَرْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ ). I remembred it in arabic and I checked the English translation, in hadethe we can just say the meaning but we can't do that with the quarn, thanks for the advice brother
All you need is common sense values of understanding..and kindness towards another soul.. prophet married loved and had family even before he was called to prophethood.think above that.
@@mixulike1437 hadith compiled by hands of men, almost three hundred years after prophets death, it's an example of a source of knowledge, it's open to interpretation,
Someone should monitor the sound, nchaAllah, I think those videos are watched by lots of young muslims who sadly expect and are used to the quality sound. I know it sounds like I'm being a bratt, but I think it's important, because some might skip the video because of stuff like this. Thank you for this beautiful video one again bayyinah ❤
SubhanAllah, the other khutbas do have a pretty good sound quality. But we can bear with this one inshaAllah. Tbh i'm already thankful that they bring these khutbas online in the first place heheh May Allah reward them for it!!!
this is one of thousand videos from Bayyinah that had gone wrong with their audio. I always feel amazed with their quality, except this.. very disappointing.
Our great religion made everything easy and simple for us but unfortunately we complicate things, may ALLAH lead us to the right path and grant us happiness in this life and afterlife
being his follower, from fetus sheikh nouman to this... you'd realize how time flies so fast. he's one of my favorite islamic preachers and seerah tellers. May Allah gives him long life, and bless him fid Dunya wal Akhirah. Ameen.
JazakAllah i have three boys and my intentions are same InshAllah according to Islam I will get them married I am not going to make them my bank my relatives are already laughing at my intentions but Islam comes first
there was a man who wanted to be serious with me and just because I am not the same nationality as him and not be able to speak his language, his parents not giving the blessing. this hurts me so much, we're Muslims and same human yet because of the nationality, things got so complicated. Life is easy but somehow people create rule over the religion. May Allah have people are more open-minded regardless to nationality, Aameen.
I understand, cuz I’ve also been in this situation but he’s from same country but different state (it’s a whole different story) he’s so serious that he propose me ( for Nikah) without even seeing me 🥺 Thou it’s on ig & am not someone who talks to boys an all but I said no cuz firstly am just high school passed & ik my parents never allowed me to get marry to someone from that state! Idk why people & culture made Nikah so hard in reality it’s very easy……!
You're not alone dear.. i feel u coz im in the same situation. But bear in mind that the power of dua would change your destiny.. everything will be okay at the end of the day.. Insha'Allah
@@ryuxalexei6096 thank you for your respond. Alhamdulillah I have found the love of my life and we got married this year. He's truly what I've been praying for. Indeed Allah's plan is better than anything else ☺️
Subhan’Allahi wa bihamdihi Subhan’Allahil Azweem❤️ Subhan’Allah❤️ Alhamdu lellah❤️ Laa ilaaha illaa Allah❤️ Allahu Akbar❤️ Laa hawla wa laa kuwwata illaa billah❤️ May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household Aameen❤️
its very true many men also get depressed due to the constant battle inside them to supress the feeling and not getting into Haram. fighting ones nafs is hard.
Very relevant Kuthba.I am a divorced Muslim Bangali woman.I have to face lot of misconception s from surroundings.It seems we belongs to different ethnicity.Most embarrassing thing when people disrespect us.But our religion perfectly respect the women irrespective of status.
SOMEONE PLEASE ADD TURKISH SUBTITLES AND SEND THIS TO MY MOM especially the sentence at 15:42 "If Allah has no problem with it, then you and I don't get to have a problem with it" since she thinks that my future husband has to be turkish
Just a advice sister I am not saying you should you know hurt your parents but if you know the guy is alright and you checked him thoroughly because it's really important why because I have heard cases when love marraiges happen and the husband dose not give food to his wife. Trust me this happens look if you are sure of the guy go for it but then you made the decision and it's not like it's the end of that decision May ALLAH make you happy. ALL I am saying is think about the decision and if you think it is right decision for you go for it. Look It's completely halal and you should not be bound by your parents to do something haram.
They need to make these videos word for word in every CULTURAL language so the elders who are part time forefathers worshippers can re education themselves in the TRUE RELIGION They are responsible for making the haram easy and halal difficult for all the generations after them!
Having that extra pair of eyes from fatherly oversight can't be emphasized enough. Get a good Wali first. He will also protect your interests even after you are married. GO SLOW. CHOOSE WISELY.
Asc sister may Allah grant you a pious husbund and at the time of marrige you wount luck one its the obligation of fellow Muslims in deed were all brothers
Aslam o alikum, I know someone who is in need of getting married. If you wish to let me be the mediator, please feel free to contact at azfarazi123@gmail.com. Walikum Salam
At some point living in the dfw so many single Muslims being confused by their parents and commit zina subuhanallah thx Shiekh and may Allah bring hedayah to us Ameen ya rabb
As Salam Alaikum brother Nouman JazakAllah khair for the khutba, plz also add/ discuss/ talk about the extravagant spending in weddings, decreasing barakah due to it. Encourage simplicity 🤲🏼🤲🏼
Nouman bhai i respect you very much. May allah SWT bless you and your entire family in numerous ways. Your are one of the few muslim speakers out in this world who put effort and stress on subjects that need attention. I am going through the exact situation, Jazakallah Khair may allah reward you.
Beautiful khutbah. May Allah make it easy for us and grant us a deeper understanding, amen. I'm excited for future khutbahs inshaAllah from Brother Nouman Ali Khan regarding marriage and the capability for it.
How can he know the exact conversations within my family. But this vedio has been made my opinion more strong in my family. Jajakallah khair NAK. May ALLAH subhanatala make easy for us to stay in HIS path.
why it make me sad when i note that he got old love all my brothers and sisters May ALLAH (SWT) bless us with good iman and make his soldiers and gave us a good death ameen Asalamualaikum
Age in his case means wisdom. No reason to be sad. Masha'Allah. Alhamdulillah that Allah blessed us with Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan, Munti Menk, Yasir Khadhi and other brothers who we learn so much from. These are just the signs that Allah wanted us to understand before it's too late. That is another sign of His Mercy☝️
Please do your next lecture on that. Please let us know what are the qualities. “Are you capable” what do we need to look in that. Many family are ok with mixing of cultures and class. But the problem that comes in now is “Is he capable?” Yes I did hear the story of Musa (AS) that you just narrated so beautifully. Thank you for opening our minds for that. But Please do continue with this lecture in detail because we all need this
Salam evreone I want to ask someone a question . I was married 9 years with Muslim men in English law we no have Islamic marriage . After divorce we decided to married again this time Islamic marriage to doing Nikha But his father said we no can married until I'm going myself married and doing divorce and after married again . That is true if we no was have first time islamic marriage ?
May Allah SWT make this issue easy for all the youth and grant the parents the ability to understand this important topic according to our religion Islam Ameen
14:30 Not on resume but prophets alayhimussalaam were blessed with very impressive physical qualities. Wouldn't be surprising if he was a very powerfully built and extremely handsome man, so there's that too.
بارك الله فيك وجزاك عنّا الف خير يا استاذنا العزيز وجمعنا وكل أسرة معهد بيّنة في اعلى الجنان❤️ May allah bless you our beloved teacher and grant you and us and all bayyinah Team and students The highest grades of paradise ❤️
@Labib al-Barr They get that from the analytics of the video. People don't need to comment their country. I too am from Bangladesh and this current wave of trend "..watching from whoCaresFromWherever" or, "..who's watching from someplaceNobodyCares" just disgusts me, specially when I see people of my own country doing it. It's idiotic and, seems to me, kinda attention seeking approach.
I live in California and I have no idea how to find a right person for myself to get married . My parents tell me all the time to go to mosque and find someone but I don’t understand how. I don’t even go to mosque because I feel better praying at home than going to the mosque. I turned 26 this year and now I am worried that I am getting old. Please pray for all of us that we can find a right person for ourselves AMEEN 😊
Its mind blowing how u always talk about my problems, makes me realize that r a lot of ppl r going thro the same thing im going thro. My family is exactly like that, they will not allow us to get married and i have 2 sisters who got pregnant out of wedlock bcuz of this issue. My family is ok with haram but when i wanted to get married they had so many demands from the man that he left and never came back. Only allah is keeping me steadfast, i cry to him and beg him to not let me fall into haram. And being in saudi arabia where u cant get married unless u have a wali and my father could care less about me. Im gonna have to go to a western non muslim country where i dont need my father or a brother to get married. As long as im here i wont be able to do the halal way and im left to commit haram and no one would care.
Esselamu Aleykum dear NAK, it is always a pleasure to witness your presence on the screen watching and listening to you uttering the holly words of Alllah (Subhanallahu ve celle), in the name of advising the umme and all others to become real players of this temporary life place. May Allah grant us with deep understanding insallah..
I’m a Muslim American that is from an interfaith marriage and I have struggled with my faith and this viewpoint and that there’s many scholars who have reassured my beliefs as made me be able to understand actual Islam and not cultural Islam
Desi culture is quite opposite to what Quran is saying and still, people put culture over Islam making nikah very difficult. May Allah make it easy for all of us and guide us on a straight path!
I just wish I could make my family hear this lecture as the topic of marriage is going on. Family's happiness and expectations over their children. perhaps I have come across this video either too late or early. should I take this video as guidance from Allah as he is giving me a hint or should I just keep this as an addition to my general knowledge......
