I almost didn’t finish watching this movie because I didn’t like the direction I THOUGHT it was going in, but it progressively got better. I cried so much throughout. Communication, understanding, compassion, empathy, and love are the keys to a happy and successful marriage! The willingness to help each other over whatever hurdle life throws at one of you, it throws at both of you! The loss of a baby is devastating for anyone! Be there! Don’t hide your head in the Bible and forget that you took marriage vows. Money is money. It shouldn’t matter who earns more. You’re in it TOGETHER! We don’t want to admit it sometimes, but SEX is a huge part of marriage. If he/she can’t get it from you, the streets will surely give it to them. I’m glad all of them worked it out in the end! I’ve always been the one to walk away. But if I knew then what I know now, I might have stayed long enough to work through it. This brought many years of heartache and pain. Thank God I made it through with His help! Ruth never disappoints with her movies. The cast was phenomenal! Every actor/actress is in my list of top ten! Refreshing storyline just keeps getting better and better! Nollywood can compete with Hollywood any day of the week, and that’s coming from an American!👍🏾👍🏾
"Take me higher higher through the mountain I wanna be higher higher than my problem" I honestly love ❤️❤️this song and the voice of the man... It's so nice 😘😘
Fred's wife made me cry,😭 having a husband who doesn't even know the pain you are going through bcoz of religion. Ruth you nailed it again. Thumbs 👍 up to all the cast
this is a movie I can watch again and again lots of lessons to learn in here especially those who are married and those in courtship 1. Support your lovers in everything 2. Listen to each other 3. Put your ego aside especially on the males side 4. There is time for everything time for God Family and friends so we should balance that 5. Women we should learn not to pull down the ego of our men( husband spouse) let's make them feel like they are the men 6. Let's not deny our husbands sex and talk to them if there is anything so that solutions can be found 7. We need to stop taking pills any how cause it's the reason she was dry even when lubricants were used 8. Guys need to respect there women even when things aren't working out no body needs to bring in another woman or man in the presence of the other,it's just disrespectful 9. Not to give up on making things work in relationships e.g Ruth's"Tiri's" husband never gave up 10. Before leaving any relationship it's always good to find out why things never worked out There lots of lessons hope you all have learnt something thumbs up for Ruth Kadiri I have learnt a lot from this movie looking forward to watching more and learning more THANK YOU SO MUCH
Perfectly said dr👌 especially the last point, don't leave a relationship without finding out the cause of the break up. It helps you know your stand and right your wrongs in the next one. Mama Ruth I really did learn alot from this movie❤
The man who acted as the ' counsellor' always act so natural . His expressions were everything . Marriage is hard work. It takes a lot of communicating , listening understanding ,trust, commitment, sacrifice , trust and love to really build a marriage. This film made me cry. It was wonderful to see the couples made it at the end. Ruth, the Ruth, as usual, you did it again. You along with the cast were wonderful. Kudos to you.
The problem I see here is just communication. The moment there was communication, there was reconcilation. Kudos to the cast and crew. Ruth, you do this one 😄
Communication is very important in every marriage.i believe in God,crazy like fred,for me loosing a womb for God ,its nothing because the same God will give it back.but communication breakdown amounts to fruitless
Watched this with tears, got married at 21 with NO knowledge but my mum told me u are going to life boarding xul, u will learn everyday but always communicate, sacrifice, respect n be there for each other. Wen u fight Always settle n find where each one of u went wrong. The stubborn me went ahead and became a wife at 21. 10 years later i am still doing this journey of marriage but i always tell my friends marry ur friend, so that wen things get worse tht friendship keeps u going n willing to make it work.
@@ruthiedinma4066 you don't need to regret dear,just sit your spouse and you guys should always be open to each other and look out for what brings issues and avoid it Marriage is a good thing don't let anyone tell you otherwise...
I'm really feeling so emotional rn cos, this says a lot about love life and marriage. Being an extremist is a bad idea. I sincerely appreciate the writer, producer and team for putting this together and I can tell you that this movie deserves an award. I pray I find that woman who we can respect, love and adore each other at all cost. 🙏
Lol, the taxi driver's part got me laugh out laugh. If person slap u, u no dey slap am back? 😁😀😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Awwww loved the movie, such a nice and educative movie. Lovely ending.
Great movie! I actually wrote a book about this movie; little bit different for I had one couple in my story but was so happy to see this Ruth. Your movies never fail. Marriage is very complex and I am happy you have shown this side of it to the world. Therapy, God, Outings and so much more helps it keep together. Praying for all married couples and those that are aspiring to get there ❤️💫
I don't know why I was shedding tears when Ruth had to tell her husband to be on the same page with her and not compete. I wish everyone in any marriage mess good luck, that includes myself ❤️
Hey @@zitaufeh6773 I know youl be fine and your home back in one piece. All you need too is turn a blind eye to whatever he does wrong, invest in praying for your marriage and work on being the best version of yourself and in no time God will restore all your lost times Sending you hugs
I am a South African and never liked our local content when it comes to local broad casting because mostly its evil and I came across Uchenna Mbunambo movies and was immediately hooked, great content, and then again there comes Ruth Kadiri, I love your work girl and keep up the good work, every work its educational, informative, thought provoking. And to all Nigerian producers, keep expanding
Ma'am Ruth Ever since I came across your channel, I have been following keenly, the lessons, the storylines, and every casts have really shown light to everything that I could have been in the dark about More Shoots and Blessings
I really cried throughout this movie, thought I would be able to hold my tears but I couldn't I'm not married yet but I already learnt alot about communication, say it out and let them to decide their choice.. This is an excellent job
To anyone who thinks he or she mistakenly come across this film, I tell you it not a mistake but a Devine way of mending any marriage that is about to crash, my God will fix it for you and you will smile again.❤❤❤
I'm a sucker for happy endings and the tears flowed freely.... Effective ommunication and understanding remains key to the success of marriages. Bravo Ruthy and her team!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This movie is everything with so many lessons to learn 🙏🥰to think I was having issue with my partner but after watching this movie we will reconcile our differences Thanks auntie Ruth for always bringing the best🥰🥰
I just watched this movie and I’ve been crying since 😢. I will be breaking up with a man who I’ve been with for.6 good years. He manipulates me, disrespects me, doesn’t know when I’m going through pain and cheats on me😭 He doesn’t see anything wrong with him and it hurts me a lot. He always use my words against me. The most painful part is, he wants to break with and he couldn’t tell but he rather used unknown number to chat me pretending he’s a girl. Telling he wants to confirm from me we ain’t dating anymore and he said bitter things to hurt my soul😭😭😭😭 Edwin, my good God will judge for this pain 😭
This movie for me was a reminder that you can make any relationship work no matter how terrible things have gone. I am definitely rewatching. Thank you for this therapeutic story. Learnt a lot 💯📌All the cast came with their A game♥️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Ehhh. No. Not any relationship. Some are just way too toxic and the spouse should not be put in danger in any way to make it look like it's working. In some situations, divorce is definitely a godsend, for which we give thanks.
Some marriages were not meant to end but because of a lack of proper communication they ended, I just love the message in this movie, God bless all the cast for interpreting this message so well.
This movie made me cry.. I don’t want pride, selfishness and stubbornness to destroy any form of peace I would have with any man. These days relationships aren’t strong enough to beat tides. Moral lesson: No one and no marriage is perfect but it would be bliss when two imperfect people don’t give up on each other except from when physical assault and maybe constant emotional torture is involved , then that is different. It is well. ❤
Ruth kadiri you're looking fine girl hola from Tanzania i love your movies alot I can stop watching them you base alot on true life stories continue making me cry 😄😁
I think this should be turned into a series let's follow the lives of the couple to see how they fared considering the lessons learnt from this experience
I watched this movie with so much intensity. I laughed and cried with this star studded cast. Lessons taught and lessons learned. COMMUNICATION IS 🔑!! Love love this movie!! Thank you, Mrs Ruth. Congratulations!!! Ken is not a victim! Until you are divorced, you shouldn’t be building a relationship with anyone else.
All I learnt in this movie is maturity and been real, facing reality against all odds. Thank you to all the characters and Ruth the producer. All marital and other intimate relationships, I believe change of environment helps a lot
Some (of us) didn’t even get the partner to show up in court not talking of trying to resolve things but we all learn from experiences. Thank you so much Ruth for ALL your movies. Remain blessed ❤
This movie is just wow!...as a divorcee, I found myself wishing I had the opportunity to take part in such a program before getting divorced. Wow! ...the way Too sweets rushed up to Ruth to console her towards the end, was breath taking.
what a wonderful movie. I can relate to a lot of things especially tired, giving up and working away, I have seen so much that I can't understand why our parents stayed so long regardless of all signs that it was time to throw in the towel. With time I began to see different points of view and this movie also just gave me a new point of view that no matter how bad your marriage is, as long as you people still love each other the marriage is worth what fighting for and saving even with or without kids. Thanks Ruth, your movies always have a moral message to pass.
Wow, this is so touching. Love is a beautiful thing. It's a blessing and it's a unique feeling. Love is a gift. Love is just unexplainable, it's a four lettered word but it carries emotions. Love is love guys, let's embrace it ♥️♥️♥️
I was watching with my husband and I was like babe can you imagine what someone's husband is saying, though I was still looking at his reaction to see if I should change it for him too🤣
This movie should be tittle when men cry... Communication that's free like water ..all because of Ego and pride. I learned alot in this movie. Kudos to Everyone that participated ...❤❤
One thing about Mama Ruth's movies; they communicate and teach is big time. From the one about OCD, Breakfast ... You name it ! Thank you for these priceless gifts. And for your casts🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Ruth KADIRIm as young as she is, is the Nollywood Matriarch Psychologist, psychiatrist, and therapist of social issues in our today's society. She is one of the most gifted women who know to bring to the attention of everyone what are the most pressing problems our society is facing today. In her movies, she tries to offer practical solutions to those issues. She needs our love, prayers, and support as she continues to educate all of us on how to do better, and live together as humans for a better world for all of us. She is a gem.💯💝💖💓
I love the movie and who ever sang that song "if i could turn back the hands of time" did I great job. I have been hearing this song in most movies that I now know how to sing it.
I need one thats what i find out here. We can actually sort ourselves out and stop being secretive and selfish. Thanks Ruth thanks so much i live you gal. I wish i can afford a therapist or even get my hubby to attend counselling. Sincerely i love the movie. You always come up with educative plays. Thanks
Wow...hands off Ruth and her team.They have done extremely well...I could see myself in one of these woman's life's..thank you so much for entertaining and teaching us at the same time...keep it up God bless you all
Ruth honestly you re not just an encouragement you are a teacher and more the movie is beyond entertainment,dont know how You come out with amazing stories but trust me you will go far in life.I learnt so much ..Thank u so much couldn't stop smiling all through..all actors on point ♥️
She's becoming another frederick Leonard " film goddess 👸🏾I wonder wht will happen if these two can come together nd cast a movie, that I wld love to see 🥰
I've been following Ruth's movies, all of them but never commented but on this one I must say that I really loved it, it brings out the reality of marriages and then how to overcome all the challenges. Communication, love, respect, understanding, patience, meeting each other's needs are keys to a successful marriage. Welldone Ruth, keep it up! We love you all😍
I always give it to Mama Ruth, you really touch topics that are not normally talked about. Communication indeed helps relationships, Bottling things up and pretending all is well does not solve problems it only worsens it. This why i and my husband make sure we talk about issues when something happens, we make out time to talk about how we feel or how an event affects us, especially if we quarrelled over something. having these conversations helps us understand each other and make adjustments where necessary. Kudos to RK productions and team. the movie really evoked a lot of emotions in me
I have learnt a few valuable lessons here.. keeping quiet in a relationship is not always the solution, forgiveness, forgiveness and forgiveness. Thank you team👏
The collaboration here is massive, beautiful and stunningly gorgeous ladies, awesome and handsome guy's,no doubt you all stole the show ❤️, Baba Jide he's looking so good 🥰, lovely background song Sampson Oranugo 🥰.
With each couple they were lessons to learn, communication, understanding, forgiveness, respect etc. Thank you you it a beautiful experience and journey to watch unfold.
