Reasons why you should stay alive. 1. We would miss you. 2. It's not worth the regret. Either by yourself if you failed or just simply left scars, or the regret everyone else feels by not doing enough to help you. 3. It does get better. Believe it or not it will eventually get better. Sometimes you have to go through the storm to get to the rainbow. 4. There's so much you would miss out on doing. 5. There is always a reason to live. It might not be clear right now, but it is always there. 6. So many people care, and it would hurt them if you hurt yourself. 7. You ARE worth it. Don't let anyone, especially yourself, tell you otherwise. 8. You are amazing. 9. A time will come, once you've battled the toughest times of your life and are in ease once again, where you will be so glad that you decided to keep on living. You will emerge stronger from this all, and won't regret your choice to carry on with life. Because things always get better. 10. What about all the things you've always wanted to do? What about the things you've planned, but never got around to doing? You can't do them when you're dead. 11. I love you. Even if only one person loves you, that's still a reason to stay alive. 12. You won't be able to listen to music if you die. 13. Killing yourself is never worth it. You'll hurt both yourself and all the people you care about. 14. There are so many people that would miss you, including me. 15. You're preventing a future generation, YOUR KIDS, from even being born. 16. How do you think your family would feel? Would it improve their lives if you died? 17. You're gorgeous, amazing, and to someone you are perfect. 18. Think about your favourite music artist, you'll never hear their voice again... 19. You'll never have the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day 20. Listening to incredibly loud music 21. Being alive is just really good. 22. Not being alive is really bad. 23. Finding your soulmate. 24. Red pandas 25. Going to diners at three in the morning. 26. Really soft pillows. 27. Eating pizza in New York City. 28. Proving people wrong with your success. 29. Watching the jerks that doubted you fail at life. 30. Seeing someone trip over a garbage can. 31. Being able to help other people. 32. Bonfires. 33. Sitting on rooftops. 34. Seeing every single country in the world. 35. Going on roadtrips. 36. You might win the lottery someday. 37. Listening to music on a record player. 38. Going to the top of the Eiffel Tower. 39. Taking really cool pictures. 40. Literally meeting thousands of new people. 41. Hearing crazy stories. 42. Telling crazy stories. 43. Eating ice cream on a hot day. 44. More Harry Potter books could come out, you never know. 45. Travelling to another planet someday. 46. Having an underwater house. 47. Randomly running into your hero on the street. 48. Having your own room at a fancy hotel. 49. Trampolines. 50. Think about your favourite movie, you'll never watch it again. 51. Think about the feeling of laughing out loud in a public place because your best friend has just sent you an inside joke, 52. Your survival will make the world better, even if it's for just one person or 20 or 100 or more. 53. People do care. 54. Treehouses 55. Hanging out with your soul mate in a treehouse 55. Snorting when you laugh and not caring who sees 56. I don't even know you and I love you. 57. I don't even know you and I care about you. 58. Because nobody is going to be like you ever, so embrace your uniqueness! 59. You won't be here to experience the first cat world emperor. 60. WHAT ABOUT FOOD?! YOU'LL MISS CHOCOLATE AND ALL THE OTHER NOM THINGS! 61. Starbucks. 62. Hugs. 63. Stargazing. 64. You have a purpose, and it's up to you to find out what it is. 65. You've changed somebody's life. 66. Now you could change the world. 67. You will meet the person that's perfect for you. 68. No matter how much or how little, you have your life ahead of you. 69. You have the chance to save somebody's life. 70. If you end your life, you're stopping yourself from achieving great things. 71. Making snow angels. 72. Making snowmen. 73. Snowball fights. 74. Life is what you make of it. 75. Everybody has a talent. 76. Laughing until you cry. 77. Having the ability to be sad means you have the ability to be happy. 78. The world would not be the same if you didn't exist. 79. Its possible to turn frowns, upside down 80. Be yourself, don't take anyone's shit, and never let them take you alive. 81. Heroes are ordinary people who make themselves extraordinary. Be your own hero. 82. Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections. 83. One day your smile will be real. 84. Having a really hot, relaxing bath after a stressful day. 85. Lying on grass and laughing at the clouds. 86. Getting completely smashed with your best friends. 87. Eating crazy food. 88. Staying up all night watching your favourite films with a loved one. 89. Sleeping in all day. 90. Creating something you're proud of. 91. You can look back on yourself 70 years later and being proud you didn't commit 92. Being able to meet your Internet friends. 93. Tea / Coffee / Hot Chocolate 94. The new season of Sherlock 95. Cuddling under the stars. 96. Being stupid in public because you just can. 97. If you are reading this then you are alive! Is there any more reason to smile? 98. being able to hug that one person you havent seen in years 99. People care enough about you and your future to come up with 100 reasons for you not to do this. 100. But, the final and most important one is, just, being able to experience life. Because even if your life doesn't seem so great right now, literally anything could happen
As someone who struggled with depression this sing really comforts me you can hear the sincerity in Capaldi's voice it's so hard to go through but remember that you are loved by somebody
I hope you can get through it. I just lost my brother last May 30 due to depression. How I wish, he is lucky enough to hear this wonderful song, to reconsider his life decisions and to know that there are many reasons to live. 😢
@@HanNa-qv8bq I am so sorry to hear about your brother, life can be unfair sometimes, but living a good life is all that matters. Thank you for sharing with me I can tell that you really loved your brother I send my love to you and your family
@@matthewphilip2609 Thank you. I know I don't have the right since I failed to help my own brother and it will never be easy but I pray that you overcome that depression soon. ❤
@@HanNa-qv8bq don't worry your words make me feel better, and don't feel like you have no right nobody is perfect. You have a good soul thank you so much
hey hun we both know your scrolling through the comments crying, bb u don’t need them, your truly amazing and god isn’t ready to take you yet, things will get better. i promise cuz once you hit rock bottom the only way to go is up. i love you so much so please stay for a while 🥺💕
Called a friend of mine two days ago in the middle of an anxiety attack. Sobbing just an emotional wreck. She sang this to me over the phone and now I'm obsessed. If you see this thank you for sharing this with me. I love you!
@@personalinformation2639 I'm very lucky to have a friend like her. She's been there for a lot. She's been there when I was in really bad situations. When my head wasn't right. She was always there.
@Ciliary_deathband ok so uhm- my bestie saw me crying bc the guy I liked broke my heart, she knows that he used me to get good grades and that he was dating another girl when he was 'dating' me!
This song means a lot to me ❤ whenever I'm feeling down just playing this song imagining that my loved ones go through that if I'm gone makes me cry a river. I almost died in my dad's hands because of suicide attempt and it is life changing. I can't belive that anything almost stopped me from being there for my family. For all of you my dear friends going through this, please know that all that pain will shape you and make you the most grateful person after you beat that demon inside of you. It can be hard but not impossible. Just listen to this and imagine what will happend if you are gone. Now go and hug everybody you love, put smile on their beautiful faces, be kind, love like you will die tomorrow and meet yourself better. You are here for reason and be that little hero that will change this cold world. Love that person that you see in the mirror every morning, that warrior that goes trough so many things and doesn't lose a smile. I love you all and I'm so proud of you. When I thought that I will die and when my family was terrified my thoughts were "no.. it is not my time, I must not die yet" and that moment when you fight for your life is unforgettable. My past is very dark but I don't want to change it no matter what because without it I will never be the person that I am now. Hypersensitive little potato that wants to be loved and is ready to give all love to for everyone worth it. I wish you all find yourself and enjoy everything that life gives you and just remember that all gifts are already around you, take a deep breath and open your eyes in this blind world. P.S. Sorry for that long comment but it was such a relief to share that and I hope someone finds this helpful, it feels better when you are not alone.
Hey, you. Yes, you. Do me a favor. Stop scrolling. Just stop. Breath. Everything is going to be alright. Relax. No matter how hard things may seem right now... It's going to be okay.
1. The salty smell and calming sound of the beach 2. You would hurt a lot people that love you more than life itself 3. Hot chocolate on cold winter days 4. Your moms smile 5. Your best friends laugh 6. Your little cousins, nieces, and nephews that look up to you 7. The feeling of the sun against your face 8. Hearing the words “I love you” 9. Not being able to sleep/the feeling you get the night before a holiday 10. Birthdays 11. Quiet late night drives 12. Missed opportunities and adventures 13. The feeling of lying in bed after a long day 14. Long hot showers 15. Music that you connect with 16. You have a purpose 17. You can change somebody’s life 18. Snowball fights 19. Concerts 20. Watching people fall 21. As long as you heart is beating, there is hope 22. You will regret dying 23. What if Heaven isn’t real? 24. Marriage 25. You are enough 26. Pain is only temporary 27. Late night food runs with your friends 28. The sound of rain 29. Reading powerful quotes 30. Eating your favorite foods 31. Stars 32. Good movies 33. Having children 34. Staring at clouds and finding pictures within them 35. Meeting new people 36. Your struggle will make you stronger 37. You have a lot of people that love and support you 38. Being able to say, “I made it” 39. Genuine smiles 40. Bonfires 41. You matter 42. Time heals most wounds 43. Your first apartment/house 44. The crunch of leaves in the fall 45. Finding your soul mate 46. Meaningful hugs 47. Being in/attending someone’s wedding 48. You are worth it 49. Sunday night football 50. The smell of Christmas trees 51. People care about you; lots of them in fact 52. Sunsets 53. Ice cream 54. You are brave 55. Things really do get better 56. Dogs 57. Cats 58. Pets in general 59. Rainbows 60. You are amazing 61. The city 62. Traveling 63. Vacations 64. Road trips 65. Hearing awesome stories 66. Inside jokes 67. Coffee 68. Snowmen 69. Your talents 70. You’ll disappoint the people that love you by letting your illness win 71. The feeling of pure joy/happiness 72. You will be happy one day 73. All-nighters with your friends 74. Cuddling 75. Reunions with your friends/high school/college 76. Re-connecting with someone you haven’t talked to in years 77. Smiling 78. Seeing someone else smile 79. You are beautiful 80. Decorating you house/apartment 81. Capturing perfect moments on camera 82. You would be missed 83. Quiet bookstores/small restaurants 84. Your favorite hobby 85. Swimming on a hot day 86. Being cozied up with blankets 87. Feeling refreshed after a nice nap 88. Helping other people 89. Watching the people you love become successful 90. Becoming successful yourself 91. Babies/little kids 92. Cute old people 93. Love stories 94. You are strong 95. You will be proud that you continued to live 96. The feeling of grass under your feet 97. Telling crazy stories 98. The smell of rain 99. Watching lightning 100. YOU ARE LOVED These are 100 reasons to live.. so live your life as if it where the last...
I what to die I feel like no one what Me is that true would people cry if I die they properly won’t so if u have tips on dieing plz say them yo me so I can try them
This song is for my cousin. He committed suicide, he had addiction problems among other issues. He was wonderful man, father, son, brother, cousin, friend. He was and is loved, and he will be forever missed more than he could ever have imagined. Love you so much Bam Bam!
Here we are a year or so after posting this comment and the pain is still fresh. He passed in 2020 and it still shatters my heart knowing his bright shinning light has been extinguished. B we all still need you. We miss you so much. Life is not the same knowing we will never be in your presence again. Rest in peace cousin and go on protecting your babies! They are growing and achieving new milestones every single day! Your sons look and act just like you while your daughter is so beautiful and brilliant and such a strong young woman. You'd be more than proud. I love and miss you so much Bam Bam!
They used this song for my cousins funeral. I miss her so much. She died so young and had just gotten out of her longterm toxic relationship and just as we thought things were brightening up, it ends. I love you Cel 💙
Being with a toxic person, especially long-term, can break your self esteem very fast. Even when you know they're wrong, the BS they put on you becomes ingrained. Sorry for your loss 💔
“Was there something I could’ve said to make ur heart beat better” I feel like this song explains a lot. I feel like it explains my feelings when something happens to a loved one. My baby cousin died when she was 1 years old and I have felt like I could’ve helped or done something for her. I want to remind someone who is going through something like that or anything just remember it’s not ur fault always and keep being strong! ❤️
Your real friends see you everyday so there not worrying about you leaving soon... your online friends never met you so there scared that you might leave them..
Lewis capaldi’s beautifully masterpeace of a song sounds like a heartbreaking story about a life with two humans. But in real life he sings about someone he loved, when he was younger who couldn’t survive the world.
This song was all over the radio when my baby brother took his own life a little over three years ago. The gut-wrenching grief is over, and now all I'm left with is an ache, memories, and endless questions. He would have been 42 on July 1st of 2024. I miss him every day.
You can feel the pain and depth in his voice. I send love out to everyone going through something, just know that ur not alone, you have to prove that you're strong, not to anyone else, but to yourself. ;)
Its sad how the comment section understands us more then family and friends but The thing that hurts the most is sitting in your room in the dark trying, to hold back those tears.. just remember that everyone has got your back even at the toughest times Thank you for the likes
This reminds me of my grandpa..I can't believe that I'm sharing this on the internet but I know that the good people are hidden here so..my grandpa got into a car accident like 3 months ago I was about to visit him but the quarantine came up and I couldn't go to visit..I only saw him through the camera like 1 month ago or so..he smiled and we hung up.. little did I know it was the last time I would see him smile..1month later I was about to go to my cousin for a visit when I get in the car and my father had a terrible look on his face I knew right away what was going on and I started crying...this song reminds me of him so much in many different ways...I feel like he is with me while I'm typing this and I'm glad I'm having that feeling..(sorry for bad grammar English is not my first language)
I lost my husband due to suicide, and I’m still affected to this day. Sometimes I wish I knew what to say to make him feel better, but I know it was beyond my control, as hard as it is for me to admit. I know he would’ve liked my help, but he was just so sick. I was young, he was old, I didn’t know how to help him. If I could have I would have and I know that I would have helped him if I could. Praying for you, Geoff. God bless.
This is the type of song u listen to after your lover/family/friend pass on and its so sad to think about the few people you love leaving but you slowly drift into thought thinking about where the afterlife would take them, and it hurts for a bit not knowing if you'll see them again but it will pass i promise. p.s. to those who listen to this after a breakup you will find your soulmate so what if the person you loved left you there will be plenty more people who you would love and they would love you back your heart will be sewed back together by the person who loves you most :) thank you for reading this comment
Thank you for this song it makes me feel like someone actually gets me and this song is calming and it helps me to clear my head and I just feel happy about this song
If you're hurting read this: It's okay to not be okay but hurt doesn't last, love and happiness does. If your heart is shattered then I promise someone will come and pick the pieces up and put your heart together. Have hope. Keep pushing and every time you want to give up think of something you haven't done then say I cant go till I do this. Pain is not a good feeling but relief is the best feeling and you will feel relief and happiness, you just have to be patient. If you ever want to talk I'm here. Keep your head up.
sometimes when everything is against you listening to music is the best option and if some tears come out it is not because you are weak but because it fills you with memories of feelings
This song randomly came to me a few days ago and I have been listening several times since then. I'm not even listening to it while hurting, it's just such a heartfelt song 💙
I already said my goodbyes to everyone... I will surely miss them.. I just need to hear this before i go.. To the person that's reading this.. YOU'RE PRECIOUS. YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. YOU'RE LOVED. YOU'RE PRETTY AND I LOVE YOU.. PLEASE STAY STRONG. YOU CAN DO THIS. YOU'RE SPECIAL!
My grandfather recently committed suicide. This song is helping me release the feelings I am suppressing. I barely remember the man I grew up with because of my addictions and my ineptitude to fulfill my responsibilities as an adult. I just wish I could have told him I loved him one more time. I wish I could hug him again. I carried him at his funeral. That was the best I could do. I'm sorry I failed you papa. I hope he knows I loved him.
Lexi Corley hey I just read ur story, please don’t attempt suicide u r not worthless but in fact u are amazing u got saved n didnt die because god gave u another chance so please use ur chance wisely, trust me I was always depressed I thought that I don’t wanna love anymore and I was always scrolling through tiktok looking at those beautiful girls n I’m just thinking why am I not like them they look like they have no troubles on their mind n everything is going great for them but little did I know that everyone was fighting their own battle but I was too blinded by their beauty to even think about that and instead I just started pitying myself but I knew I was going nowhere pitying myself n from there I started learning how to love myself n not to judge anyone based on their cover so lastly I hope u get better n not have to attempt suicide because everything will become better I promise :) 💖✨🥰
For all those people that have been in love and in a relationship, lucky you.. I’ve never dated anyone, never been in love, never liked anyone. Because I choose to bury my feelings and keep a big heavy brick wall up that my feelings can’t break down... Btw use me as a replay button 0:00 :)
you’re the lucky one. i was like you once but i fell in love and it was great until it wasn’t. love is a beautiful but destructive thing. please wait to give up your heart.
My 6 years old cousin passed away 2 years ago, he used to sing Before You Go on the top of his lungs even the lyrics aren't correct, he's such an angel, I miss him so much 💔 Everytime I am missing him all I do is listen to this song and picture his face while trying to sang this song🥺♥️
Whenever I listen to this song it really reminds me of 2020 and it really makes me sad for the fact I got rejected and many unlucky things has happend to me within this 2 years all I want is to travel back in time and fix the mistakes I have done. If you see this comment you are not alone.
This song reminds me of my grandpa, I loved him so much and its been like 8 months and I'm still sad/heartbroken and I wish I could have told him I loved him one more time or visited him and the hospital more. Before he was in the hospital I got so annoyed when he would say " I love you " and " you are beautiful " but now I regret not telling him I loved him back and now without him, I feel so lonely and I hate myself... I legit miss him so much and this song is a way to explain how I feel.
This Song Is so Comforting For me. these kind Of songs are part of the reason im Still going. im in my happy place when listening to this Type of Music 💜
hey you yes you i want to tell you something..... even though i don't know i still wanted to let you know that you are beautiful and strong. don't remember how it hurt you but what it taught you. keep going cause you are good enough and will always be. you are beautiful so don't change anything for anyone. don't be sorry for a mistake, its life. you aren't perfect and that's a good thing. perfectly imperfect i would say but remember its okay cause i am too but i keep fighting everyday. still reading this? then keep going. keep fighting. you are good enough.
Sunni YT Thank you soo much but no matter how many comments I read and no matter how many comments I have read that has made me cry..... I don’t think that there will be a word that can change my mind🙃💔 I’m already too broken to be fixed again, because I’m like a glass that was shattered completely to the ground and all you can do is throw it away in the trash can so that *the other people won’t get hurt if they step on it* and if you do try to fix it it will still never be the same..... The scars will always be there to last forever and if that scar snaps👏🏻 it could also be a chance to make yourself turn against yourself to be, well, 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘯 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯.
I promise you it will get better. I didn’t think I could handle the pain anymore either. But here I am 6 months later. It gets easier to breathe each day and slowly but surely the hole in your chest starts to close. You got this :) (edit:spelling)
It will get better. No pain lasts forever! I know it feels like you cant handle it but, trust me, you can. I dont know you but i know you were strong enough to admit it to the world. People wont believe you, or make fun of you. Ignore them. Dont do this. Please.
Lewis, you touched my heart again. Love you better days are coming for all of us fighting in our head and hearts WISH YOU ALL THE BEST WITH ALL MY HEART, YOUR MUSIC HAS HELPED ME,BUT HAPPINESS IS SOMETHING I WORK FOR EVERYDAY . THANK YOU FOR BEING YOUR TRUE SELF, YOU ARE INCREDIBLY BRAVE 🙏😇✌️👍😘
I'm someone who has struggled with depression & PTSD & finally diagnosed at about age 13, this song hits home. The word "suicide" entered my vocabulary when a boyfriend killed himself back in '86. I since realized there was another way to end MY pain, but my parents & sister saved me from myself all through my teen years. I had 2 beautiful children who are now amazing adults & my daughter is a mom to 3 amazing boys. Then all of a sudden God took the only people who cared enough to save me. He took my dad in Aug. 2012, my sister in Aug. 2014 & finally my mom in Apr. 2015. He took them all in less than 3 years & left me feeling alone & abandoned. In fact, the 15th has been 9 years since my mom died. I feel completely & utterly alone. I don't live near my kids, which I have just recently started (kind of) talking to my daughter again (another huge mess she blamed me for) & my son only contacts me if he needs money, which I barely have enough to survive as it is. So yes, I feel completely alone. I can't even think of how many times I've thought about being with my family again. However, I continue to wake up every morning. I'm not sure why He keeps waking me up, but He does. I don't know what it is I have to offer anyone else, I'm not even living myself, I'm simply not dying. I'll only be 51 in a couple weeks & feel like I'm 151. It's so hard to even pretend to be ok anymore when all I pray for is to be with my family again. The family that never judged me, the one who did what they could to help. All I hear now is judgement from people. "I'm just trying to get attention", "I'm just trying to make everything about me", "I'm being over dramatic", you name it, my daughter has surely said it to me. So I've learned to never say anything...to anyone anymore. Social media has made it a little easier to talk, I can talk to strangers, I can talk to people who actually understand how I feel, where my mind might be when I start feeling like this & they understand that feeling of loneliness that apparently not all family members understand. I just came across this song, just after the anniversary of my mom's death & I lost it. The song is beautiful & amazing & so truthful. It's amazing when you hear some artists also understand what you're possibly feeling & going through. Thanks for listening/reading. It's crazy how much just getting it out helps. 🙏😢😔
Me: *listens to this song on my phone with my hood draped over my head* My fake friend: “Bruh, you don’t look depressed when you’re wearing that pink hoodie” Me: “Did I ever say I was depressed?? No, you just assumed so because of my posture and song choices” Me in my head: *jeez, why can’t people understand that not everyone who listens to sad songs are depressed but may just like the way it hits you in the heart*
