Abandonment issues are real,when you have been through so much and don't know who to trust. Then when someone who comes into your life,that would never do that to you,you would never know,because you are filled with so much doubt,because of your past and I am guessing that's what this song is about. People who get hurt sometimes keep picking people who hurt them,because it is all they have ever known,thats y thinking outside the box,going sometimes for another type of man/ woman you usually would never go for,could stop a self sabotaging habit and lead to real success and happiness.