Alana & Jessie really trying out here to be motivational and give out solutions, CJ giving in ideas............and there's elijah 💀 giving out one word liner bad influence solutions IM DEAD 😭🙏🏻
CJ’s advice of “just get a job” is actually true. You just want to be doing something and being productive. Your identity will grow and develop as long as you’re being proactive and taking on responsibilities. You don’t need to forge your identity in perfect calm before coming out fully formed to the world. It will never happen that way. Just jump in and start gaining life experience.
7:37 start with like, “hey, I don’t like how you’ve been acting lately” and then name a specific situation and why it was bad. Give multiple situations if you have them. Then, tell them ways to be better. That way they have no excuse to not improving, they know what they did wrong, why it was wrong, and what to do to improve. (Idk just my thoughts)
I’m the second one they answered I wrote it horribly but yeah basically girls were mean to me and I was friends with the girls in the grade above me but now they are in high school and I don’t have friends thanks for the advice though 😊 it’s just I go to a really small school their are only 12 girls in my grade