I'm so sorry to hear that...if you have only one person to talk with and he doesn't understand your mental health...that is so heart wrenching...I've recently got married....I'm starting to feel like my husband is like this aswell...he doesn't take care of my mental health...it's not even a thing for him...
bachay aap apni sehat ka khayal rakho...yahan ksa men akailay banda weak pr jata hy akele ..both physically n mentally...and dont give in to pessimism...Allah aap k lie or sb sisters jo struggle kr rai hen asaani farmaen..ameen...lots of love...
i moved to a another country i got into depression in start even i have 2 kids Alhumdulilah but i missed pk too much . its been 1&half yr now I'm adjusted a little . same to u i was independent in pk😅. i faced a lot of prblms here but I'm just doing sabr that one day everything will be fine . currently I'm living on top of mountain near beach with amazing million dollar views but u knw still I'm no more bother about beauty i just want to finish my day to day task & love to lay down all day😅. exactly the country i live is very beautiful & clean but its small island so i get depressed thinking I'm in water😅😅 & even my kids dont like they said no big parks no zoo no entertainment here . so its like kuch pany k lye kuch khona prta my plus point & motivation is that living away frm joint family 😅+ good education for kids + living with hsbnd ( i lived in pk 6 yr without him + kids wanted to live with father❤) so now i want to go back to pk permanently but can't do it i think jaha Allah ny risk likha hta wahi hm ponch jaty hn . lots of prayers for u 😊😊 stay blessed 😊
Very very relatable. ❤ I went there for only three months and i had the same feelings and experiences. That was Dammam experience. Now have to visit Riyadh. Obviously all will be the same but hats off to the husbands who are living there alone to earn for their families ❤❤
So heart touching vlog..i can feel the sadness nd being deprived of many things that deeply relate to ur soul.. infact the vacuum inside ws felt in ur voice....bt ur brave girl soon u will beat it.. lazmi second part b bnaein ...im waiting
100 % relatable . Bro I have completely changed while living in KSA. I am doctor but currently not working in Saudia aur b bht sary factors Han jis ki waja se altogether living here made me a sick minded , depressed and anxious person aur jo personality shift ai h mery ander it feels I am completely dead 😂 bai mai to wapis ja re mery se na ho Paiye ga ye
Uffff 😢 i feel you but hum yha Pakistan ki larkiyan maray jaaa re hain k bahir shaadi hu 😅 seriously 🤪 or jo waha h unki stories read kr k ap ki story sun k ab anxiety hony lg gae hai 😢
The thing i miss alot is dressing up for different occasions.Pakistan mae hi maza he dressing ka..But you will adjust i am here in Riyadh on visit visa for 7 years.But now i love Riyadh..❤
I live in Pakistan and married to other city and could not meet my family and friends for long time after marriage...i can relate each and every point of your video and also i can feel the pain in your voice...May Allah give you strength to face all these struggle...stay happy
I also moved to Canada two years ago to be with my husband. This vlog reminds me of how I too traveled alone internationally for the first time when coming here❤
Yeah plz part 2 b bnayn. Seriously I was so upset when u said u have no female bestie in Saudia. Hope u will adjust and enjoy ur company. Love for u saba and for ur family. May Allah protect u from evil eyes.🥹♥️♥️♥️
Ohhhh I can relate with you I also lived Dubai in with my husband to sab sa mushkl ya hay ap bht family and friends ko bht miss krty hay ma b bht miss krti houn
I also live in K.S.A (jubail).. 9 months ho gy hn mujhy.. mjy ab akely rehny ki adat ho gai hy.. sach mn phr dil ni krta tyar hony kam. Pakistan mn insan ka dil bht khush hota hy..
May Allah Make it easy for you and for all of us.. Aameen… Can completely understand your situation. Specifically for newly weds (girls mostly) face this issue. Here mostly people are introverts and that is one reason why it’s difficult to make your own social circle… can relate totally 💯
So true i am living in saudia from 4 years..i have one daughter too but still i am struggling there..because i also don’t have social meet ups and gatherings ..you just have to do house chores 24/7 ..thats it..
Start working ….. life is really boring here if you don’t work … once you’ve any job, you’ll have friends, you get chance to get ready everyday … you can drive Then gatherings with friends etc etc Sharing my experience ❤
I have lived in saudiarabia for the last 10 years. Best life ha ider الحمد لله i have lots of friends .i think without friends ka life mushkil ha ider.
it’s been 2 years i’m here in riyadh i also don’t have any friends and relative so i can truly understand your situation and my husband is also a biggest introvert 💔🥲
Main indain Pakistani. Non-Muslims sab sy milti houn I remain vryhappy. Apni problems apni friends ky sath share krti houn. Ap bi try krn... although.main European country main rhti houn
New sub here :) It was all relatable 10 years ago and I used to cry but Alhamdulillah Allah made it easy :) I'll ptay the same for you inshaa Allah you'll feel good as years go by :) Jeddah is more lively than riyadh I must say :)
I literally cry where you said ke ab mera dil nae krta tyar hone ko jese 6 month pehle hoti thi...uff yar i can relate with your all struggle after marriage...stay strong girl i will pray for you
Same feelingz even i have kids but missng to all family membrs and get to gether.but u have to make some friends it is necessary for u to survive internally
Yaar aik aik baaaaat pay mujhe Rona aa Raha h.... seems like someone is saying my inner..... moving to another place.... zero social circle and no dress up.... everything everything is very relevant to my story...
Last year i moved to Uk but wahan pe ma set hogai ti. But now last month i moved to KSA or same feelings hain apk wali. Uk ma b weather b waja se depression hojata ta but ap aram se ghom sakty akelay nikal jatay. Public transport bht achi. Job kr sakty. But saudia ma life muje bht dull lagi hai. May be 2 3 months ma set hojaye sab
I am saba from abu dhabi,arrived here in August 2023,,i can understand your feelings,,i have 2 kids Allhamdulilah but still i miss my ami and siblings and my independency.but i would say 1 thing i dun know about your husband job,,but if you guys move to uae ,,it is better for you.i only miss my family other than that Allhamdulilah life is good here .
yes it iz expensive im here for 5 years mai bhi shadi k foran baad aye thy mjy bhi sab bht different lagta tha magr ab mjy pakistan ja k different lagta hai get used to that place n love shopping here i want to buye thing in pak but not available there so here can easily get them
I have been living in the UK for 5.5 years now and it gets so lonely because no friends and family like Pakistan. I want to wear nice fancy wedding clothes and go to Pakistani wedding events, late night drives to get kulfi or paratha lol. It’s quite dull here
I spend 14 years in Dubai and I worked day and night. But I love to be back bcz I feel I am in heaven bcz of helpers around me and freedom. Pakistan is not a bad country and not as expensive as Dubai. Haan peace of mind relatives kharab kartay hyn PR u need to handle them smartly
I am here in Saudia from last 2 years approximately,totally same same stories like yours,but alhmdolillah there are good friends here but they all are Indians, but overall feel very lonely here
Soo true....my inner thoughts...m uae ai hun husband k xth...xrf 2 months hwy hain....abhi tl adjust ni kr paa ri hun mentally...i miss everything alot...nobody talks about how hard it is to start from scratch with no social life no family no friends no being independent with whole personality change and a whole lot responsibilities 💔
Apki sari batten alg rahi but apka abaya lene ka koi faida nh bcz this is not hijab as u know.. Proper hijab apko apne hairs ko full body ko cover krna hota hai👍
When i shifted to KSA,i was also lonely and depressed then i told my hubby i want to do job and then everything is changed pir bhut bhut maza aane lga.. girls ka group mila ..ghumna phirna,one dish party enjoyed a lot now m in UAE
I moved abroad 4 months back I enjoy every bit of my new life 🙂 However it's not easy to leave your homeland but do consider yourself as a lucky person because many people in Pakistan struggling and trying very hard to move abroad 💔
Yaar apna vlog dekh k lag raha ap abhi tk inn hui hi nhi saudi life se. Jis tarah Pakistan mai log dress up hoty hamare pass abaya hoty diff styles mai colors mai hum unko dress up krty, then social circle wali apki baat sahi hai but uska hul hai aur wo hai job trust me job pe bhht sare log milengy, phir apne expensive ki baat ki it is expensive no doubt bht there are markets where wr can get things on less price like faMily saving centre etc Aur jahan tk parks ki baat hai tau han i agree wo itnr nhi likn saba trust me jeddah shift ho jyen if u can riyadh se bhhhht better hai ya phir jeddah ka chakkar lazmi lgayen ya agr yr bhi nhi tau Pakistan ka chakkar lga lein!
aik bat my b kaho gi .. mere pydaish yaha saudia.ki hy yahi pr.may pali.bari or.apny.education pori ki pir shadi hoi or pakistan islamabad shift hoi.. phly yaha say jany k bad pak.my.adjusting nai horahi ti.ager mahool ki bat hoti to insaan kerlyta hy mgr waha pr.jis qism.ki.log hy unko khush rkhna or.khud adjust hona bhuut mushkil.. pir.survival k.leyay husband ksa.job k leyay ai bcz pakistan my.bhuut.mushkil.ta... ap pir b khusnaseeb ho my to nikali gai ti susral.say or ab yaha pr.b adjsut hony my shaddeddd depression my ho ...
Yes you said it right, even if you have a very good husband still you need female friends and if you don't have any you will feel alone sometimes very much.
Same feeling but dont like to dress up even before marriage....but gradually ur husband becomes ur frd and u will not feel sad of not being frds circle...ur husband is ur life partner and make him ur frd....believe me u will be happier insha allah....just give some time
All i can say Acceptance is the key & by the way It is so true & relatable for newlywed woman. Shifting from unmarried to married life is a huge responsibility in itself . But trust me it gets better with time.
Mujy lagta tha k mai hi over react kr re in situation py aur mai hi overthink kr re . Video dekh k mujy thora sa sakoon mila h k I am not alone . Mainy kabi kisi video py comment ni kiya but yaha bol b mai apni anxiety vent out kr re hu aisy feel ho raha mai kisi k sath apni tension share kr re . Ahhhhhhh much relieved