Hey loves!💕 We’re at it again! This is an update of how things have been and sadly I’m going through a hectic time right now.. Please don’t forget to subscribe, share and like!🤗
I'm a host parent here in America in the state of Ohio. I just want to say that my children and I are blessed and grateful for our Aupair❤ in my heart she is my Daughter! I will call our aupair BB because I don't want to use her real name without her knowing! BB is from the beautiful Country of Thailand. When BB first arrived it was a little stressful for BB not myself or my children! The culture change was a big shock for her! She also missed her beautiful family so very much! I was patient and understanding with BB! I was also blessed that my sister only lives 8 miles from me! So when I was working or traveling for work my sister would come over to help and comfort BB!...BB caught on very quickly. My message to host parents/parent please be kind and patient with your Aupair! Remember your Aupair is a young lady! She is coming into new Country, culture. Which can seem like a different planet! Please give her time to adjust. I can promise you she will make you proud! My children speak more Thai language in our home than English because they look up to BB so very much! They think her language is cool❤❤ We love BB so very much she is our family❤❤❤ she is so sweet and kind with a very loving heart! So please host parents remember your Aupair is a human with feelings and emotions just as you and I. They are not robots!! Also remember she isn't becoming Rich from being an Aupair so be generous with your aupair if you can afford to be! Most importantly show her love, kindness, respect! I promise she will do the same! I can't wait to watch BB grow and accomplish her goals and dreams! Give her the biggest hug! Also remember your Aupair is a young Woman! So please help to build her confidence! Especially if she is an Aupair in America. Because too many girls/Women in America are sexualized! There is too much pressures on young girls and women to believe they have to look what some of our society believes is sexy😑 So help to build the confidence or your Aupair let her know she is a beautiful person the way she already is because true beauty comes from within! Look out for your Aupair because there are many disrespectful disgusting men here in America! So lookout for her as she is your daughter, mother, sister!
We need more host parents like you 🙌🏽. I couldn’t have said it better! The culture shock is certainly something I didn’t expect but my family made it super easy for me to blend in.
@@Becoming1306 I'm so grateful that your host family helped to make it a little easier for the culture shock! I'm grateful that BB has amazing friends that watch her back! Alog with myself. It's very sad here in America girls/ women are sexualized! On our television, magazine, in A lot of our music! In my opinion there are more pressures from society on girls/ women than Young men/ adult men. We have many disgusting men that don't even think twice to harass Girls! Even many sick so called gown men will harass youn teen girls😠 especially foreign girls! They think the girl can't understand what they say! I went to jail in May for protecting BB because some man in the mall was saying disgusting words to her😠 my father raised me to protect anyone who is being bullied or harassed. Especially a Girl/ Woman! It's very sad! A lot of American men who visit Thailand only go to look for a young girl😠 I'm ashamed by this! It's disgusting!! I hope you have never experienced this from a man! If you have I'm sorry from my heart. You deserve respect. I wish you peace, love, and happiness❤ Remember that you are beautiful the way you are! The best beauty comes from within!
@@jasoncarpenter7488 my daughter is finishing her nursing course in December , I don't want her to anlage in anything like relationship in my country and I want her to get a job through au pair. Any connections please
@@jasoncarpenter7488 All the respect to you You're a really super sweet and kind and awesome host mom, I've read every word you typed and it was unbelievable how much you have a soft heart ❤️ Bless you and your lovely family
Hi Your channel was recommended to me on my youtube front page and im glad it was cause your journey seems so interesting, I enjoy watching traveling videos. Good luck and hope things get better for you 🙂
Hi Karii! I’m also an aupair from SA here in the usa. I went through rematch during my first 3 months! Worst time of my life, cried everyday during and before rematch. I’m with a great family now , I wouldn’t do anything else if I could. It shaped me so much ! Hope you are doing well, just remember that everything passes.
Just seeing the title of your video my heart broke for you. I was an au pair in the UK and almost had a rematch, because the family felt it wasn't a good fit. We managed to make it work in the end, but it was a difficult situation to be in. Thinking of you.
Hi watched videos and am at ease now as my daughter is working towards the Au pair currently working towards the licensing story and 200 hours of kiddy care... excitement building up for her
Hey, I think it was Delta Airlines, yes they book the flights.Also, it’s pretty easy when you get there, of course if you don’t understand something, they’ll be someone there to assist.
Hi Karrie I just wanted to find out with the medical report does the agent cover that or you’ll have to get your own doc to do it than you must submit the report to the agency?
I have been meaning to apply for the au pair programme and I started applying since I am in my final year of study. I am with your agency basically and I have completed the questions part and now I was just adding the documents. My question was, does the agency assist me with the VISA or do I acquire it myself and the international driving permit… does the agency assist with that?
The agency assists you by sending you a link and videos on how to apply. If you’re struggling you can give them a call and email them they’ll definitely call you back.
Hi, I hope u okay now but I’m also in my final year of uni now and thinking of au pairing next year. When do u think I should apply for this program if I want to get there like end of January next year?
Hey babe. You should start with your application now because finding a family might take months. ❤️ If you have any questions during your application feel free to ask me😘
Well what I know about my agency (cultural care Au pair) the cut off age is 26, but I’ve met Au pairs who are 27 and still in the program. I think others allow you to actually travel when you’re that age..
I'm an AuPair for 5 years here in SA but 4 kids?? In a foreign land? Mntase, you are brave😂😂😂. I can't even do 3 kids😂 Looking into going to the USA now.
@Breathe! I'm with AuPair Extraodinaire, however I've also done it by myself through AuPairSA. I've worked mostly in Sandton and Bedfordview. Still in Sandton.
@Breathe! It has its ups and downs. Some families are great, some are full of shit but I really enjoy it and I've only had 1 experience of the kids being mean and rude. The rest are all lovely kids.
Hellow girl how are yo able to identify a genuine agency? L got my match in usa ohi bt l don't know if its legit l can share so that you can yell me if its legit please
Wow I never heard of au pair. This seems like modern day slavery. I’m blk American. And this is sad to me. I had to look up what all of this means. Why can’t you just find someone to help? Without being the help. Why do you have to work for them? With little pay. Maybe im not understanding correctly . This is sad to me. Im willing to help.
I know I’m too late to comment on this 🥹❤️but I felt some comfort seeing this .. I am going through a rematch and seeing this made me feel better and have hope
