LIFE UPDATE Q & A | Chloé Lukasiak 

You’re only 23 Chloe!! Take your time and do the things you’d like to do before having children. It’s totally natural to see a baby and say I can’t wait to be a mom (that just means you have that mothering instinct). That day will come and you’ll make a wonderful mom when the time is right!! ❤

Girl!!! You are killing the adult life!!! You are taking time for you, you are doing hobbies that you love, and you are improving your well being for you!! Don’t ever let the media tell you are less than for not dating or running fast or “for being behind in life”, bc you are doing great!! It’ss fricken hard to do that for yourself!! I’m 24 and I miss all my activities, I’m trying to pick them back up! I’m sooo glad this update was so positive!! You’ve grown up to be amazing!! Keep inspiring the world :)

Who just loves chole 🖐️

I am 31 years old and dont feel like I want children now, but when I see a baby, i get excited .

You are genuinely so sweet 🥹 You just seem so empathetic and trustworthy. Your friends and family are so lucky to have someone like you in their lives. We need more people like you in this world ❤

You’re honestly so beautiful and so sweet, thanks for being open about your life and being such an inspiration to many ❤️

I’ve had a hard time deciding where I want to live and what I want to do with my life and it’s caused me to sort of freeze and almost do nothing out of being afraid to make the wrong move. I let the fact that my friends seem to have that all figured out affect me more than it should. Comparing yourself to others, especially after looking at social media is so bad for your mental health. I’ve gotten so hung up on the fact that I moved back home as an adult and in reality, I should be grateful that I even had that option and that I’ve been able to spend the time with my family. I got to spend time with my dad before he passed away and I never would’ve gotten that time with him if I hadn’t moved home. This goes to anyone reading this- it doesn’t matter what age you are, as long as you’re still breathing, you have a chance to change your life for the better. People think you have to do this in your 20s or figure everything out then and it isn’t true. That’s the biggest thing I’ve learned. Don’t let other people who don’t matter affect how you feel about yourself. Things happen for different people at different times. Maybe it takes you longer to figure it out but it doesn’t make you any less of a person. Nothing frustrates me more than seeing people define everything by age and tell you where you’re supposed to be by a certain time. Humans aren’t one size fits all. We end up where we’re supposed to be when we’re ready.

chloe you inspired me so much! im a dancer and i did ballet most of my life, but thanks to you, i accomplished my dream and tried out jazz, lyrical, etc. I never thought I was good enough, but thanks to you, I worked as hard as I could- guess what?! now I'm on a dance team!!

Taking your time to figure things out sounds like the ultimate self-care move. Slow and steady wins the race, right?

UNDER 2 MINUTES! LOVE YOUR HAIR😊

My Guess is New York because she said she won't need a car and she hasn't LIVED there yet

Hey Chloe!! Yay for a long video

Chloe,at 23 years old,all sorts of emotions come & go,soooo its normal! Alot of young adults go thru that phase.

Chloe, you are wise beyond your years and incredibly poised. Your parents did a wonderful job especially given you had such an unconventional childhood. Take your time sweet girl, 23 is so so young! You don’t need to be in a rush for a single thing in life… you have so much time for moves and relationships and babies. Everything happens at the right time. 💕

Love your hair!💗

will literally never understand why people want details on something so private like a breakup

Chloe Thank you for getting me through my darkest days!! I love you!! Love to you and the OG girls and moms!! You are so beautiful and brilliant. May God Bless you and your family!!❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻☕️☕️

Couldn’t help but notice you mentioning you love “my dad and my sister” several times but never mentioned your mom. I know there’s been stuff going on behind the scenes, but I hope all is well with the entire Lukasiak fam❤️

If you guys noticed she’s not bringing up her mom and isn’t talking about her to avoid answering your guys’ ridiculous and invasive questions. Have some respect. Stop letting curiosity get the best of you

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❤hope you are well and your mom get through anything...but you are the light that makes the world better..more than could know

You are so mature for your age. A great role model to those who adore you. You are lucky you have a great family and friends. Keep doing you.

SOOO glad to see you happy and thriving!!! you got this!

My daughter is 21 & single and gets excited about babies when she sees them too. I love your hair this color, its gorgeous!

I somehow just discovered you and I love seeing another Pepperdine alum on here! Your vlogs are a breath of fresh air!!

I’m 36 and just had my first baby a month ago with my gf and this shit is no joke. Take your time. Enjoy your twenties.

I just love chole she's so sweet

Who just loves chloes wisdom for how young she is. 👇

You are such a sweetheart Chloe. I love you and I send you blessings 💚.

Period 💅🏾

So happy to see u uploading ❤

I love seeing your growth and you're very inspiring. You deserve all love and positive

That’s so comforting hearing someone in my generation having the same discours as me. It gave me hope for my own life. Thank you very much Chloé💖

LOVE YOU CHLOE ❤❤❤

I always loved you on the show you were my fav 🫶 I always rooted for you

I'm 23 and feel the exact same about kids!! Like I don't want kids now at all lol but seeing them makes me feel like I do

I love you so much, you've really inspired me to take things and pursue my dreams, and I hope you are doing well and Clara is so grown up now that we love you! ❤

13 seconds!! I love you so much ❤❤❤

chloe this hair color is GORGEOUS on you

wake up she posted

So excited to see your post collage journey 💕💕💕!

Never think that you have to share your personal thought's, feelings and relationships. Enjoy every life change and take your time to do whatever is best for you.

I'm surprised bc this might be the first time she puts comments on I love u Chloe keep it going❤❤❤

Wow i don’t know if you’ll see this, I HOPE! I graduated from a Texas University a few months ago, and im living at home now as well. It has been amazing getting to be home with my people, but you described it to a T. I could move back to that town if i wanted, but im not in a rush. But i have been struggling so so hard, seeing my friends getting their adult jobs. And im beyond happy for them, but there is a sense of, “Wow, im really not there yet.” But… we are also living in a climate that living with parents is probably the most preferable for people. For me and my family, it’s easiest for me to be living at home so taking that as a blessing can be a hard bite to chew, but im making it work. It’s nice to hear someone else going through the exact same thing, the exact same age. Also, when it’s someone you grew up watching! I danced as well, and I wear hearing aids so the true dancing and tumbling aspect was extremely hard for me. My teacher and fellow dancers were kind about it, but no one can understand a hard-of-hearing dancer array of issues until faced with them. You were always my favorite on the show, for just being the most prosperous and the TOUGHEST. You’re a role model for someone like me, and this video is a message a lot of girls our age need to hear. Good job Chloe!

Good luck with everything sweetie!!!!!!!

Please, Chloe, be careful and aware of your surroundings when you run!! Make sure you run in areas where you're not alone when you run. Hopefully, you have mace on you & you know self-defense. Sadly, we live in a crazy world that makes it unsafe sometimes for women to run alone!! 😢😡 I love your videos, Chloe & I think you are an incredibly sweet person!! 😊❤✌️

I love you chloe! You inspire me!!❤

I can see Chloe moving to NewYork!🤭🫶

I went through a break up at age 20 and I was single for three and a half years afterwards and it was such an amazing feeling how I healed and was so happy and comfortable by myself. It has also made me take my time with my current relationship and has made it that much better. Good for you Chloe!!

Love the video and Q&a!! ❤️Maybe u can record once u get to ur apartment I’m so excited for u Chloe!!💟

Wonderful Q&A. You are an angel, Chloe! ILYSM! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤

Esta bella jovencita se le ve lo noble que es soy su fan numero uno es bueno verla ella es siempre amable risueña y tiene un gran angel saludos desde Guatemala😇

im guessing london, new york or paris! heck even chicago or philly

Omg I love q&as!!! ❤

Congrats on finishing your college life you are a great person keep it up in your life and future.

You can't judge yourself chloe you are amazing and a role model to all of us its amazing what you have overcome throughout your life none of us are perfect but i think your amazing and im sure everyone else does to

Did anyone else think that Chloe was wearing Minnie Mouse ears the whole video from the design of the cabinets behind her? So cute!

As someone who always feels like they’re behind the 8 ball in life, and not feeling certain about my future, I really appreciate you speaking to that feeling

Could totally see you in NYC, DC or Boston

I assume you're moving to my city, NYC. Do you realize how blessed you are to be able to just go wherever you want? And Clara is taking her dog to college, meaning she's getting an apartment, again, I hope you guys realize how blessed you are! Take your time and don't rush into anything. Like you said, you have your entire life and the in between time you're experiencing now is fleeting and you'll back and wish you took longer, so no rush, it will all happen how it's supposed to ❤ You're like, amazing Also, your run time DOES NOT MATTER! The fact that you're even running at all is an accomplishment There were so many more things I wanted to say, I usually comment as I watch but I waited till the end with this one so I forgot lol Anyway, I already said you're amazing, so yeah, hope you're well ❣️ Also I hope your mom is okay, I did notice she's not mentioned and I've seen rumors. I truly hope everything is okay ❤

32:22 I agree! I think your hair color right now looks the best on you (not that the others didn’t tho!)

Chloe your my idol💛

Chloe so pretty 😍

HI CHLOE I LOVE YOU ❤❤❤❤

Will you ever do a coming out story or talk a bit about your experience i could have done with a beautiful soul like you to represent me when i was a kid and coming out it is so important

FIRST TO THE QUEEN’S QNA

Don’t judge yourself! Yes be grateful, count your blessings! You’re doing amazing, don’t be hard on yourself. Everyone struggles in life and just take it one day at a time:)

9 minutes!!!!!❤ I love you Chloe❤❤❤❤

I totally get that!!! I'm personally older (39) and I know I can't have my own kids due to my medical issues. I hope to someday possibly either adopt or do Foster care. I hope to someday meet my 'Mr Right" and it just seems hard.

chloe, your skin looks fantastic!

the thing about kids you described is so relatable omg. my whole life i’ve never had the biggest interest in having children, but for some reason when i was 23 (24 now) i went through this phase of constantly daydreaming of what it would be like to be a mother and have kids and it made me so excited, even though i don’t want children for many many years. something about being 23 apparently makes our motherly instincts kick in i guess 😂😂

Aw nice video Chloe

SLAY CHLOE

LOVE U

Im so proud of you!!!

Can I just say you look REALLY pretty?!

Chloe I admire you and have so much respect for you and I wish you and your family all the best please ignore the comments of people being rude and excessively nosy Carry on and I wish you all the best ❤

This might be the best video you have ever given us. Thank you.

You’re a dancing princess❤

hi chloe love the hair ❤

I absolutely loved your hair red

You haven’t posted in so long!!!!!!! (First)

Your video was very nicely organized.Great to waych!

I think she’s moving to New York City

Ive wanted a baby since i was 14. I met my partner in college and i was 32 before we had a baby. ♡ no need to rush. In the uk the average age is 30 for a first time mum. Theres women here in their 40s having babies . No rush ♡

Waitttt your house is so gorgeous!!

Love you

I don’t know if this is okay to ask about, but what’s happened to Eleve’? Every time I think I’m all up-to-date on important stuff, well, I’m not. ❤

I started the same thing w babies and kids at 24!!! Only started trying at 34. Unfortunately had waited too late, had 2 miscarriages and now still owe for 1 round of IVF. $22k and I’ve raised $450. Only got 1 good embryo and am 37 w menopause expected around 39 😢I need another round but can’t afford it. I’ve attempted sui*de 3x bc of the losses etc. i had cancer treatment they promised me would not affect my eggs at 29….that’s all they can think of that ruined my eggs. 29 years of schooling, 11 years debating having kids….I would do anything for my 1 miracle and be able to afford my second cycle of IVF. So crazy seeing you at 23!!! I haven’t seen you online since Dance Moms. Am from Pittsburgh and was older so I didn’t watch it religiously but I did catch some of it. My advice is to do the things you really want before kids bc you want to be able to devote your entire life to them…but I don’t think anyone ever feels “ready.” I would tell people not to wait too long. I so regret listening to people telling me at 26-33 to wait, stay on the pill, I’d have plenty of time…. Nothing was further from the truth. For now my 2 year old pup I’ve raised alone since 8 weeks keeps me here. Also YESSS DO THE MARATHON!!!! I did Pittsburgh and Erie marathons and did the Pittsburgh half maybe 7 times. My back and knees are too bad now but man I used to love running. Even 5am through Frick park, 10pm…ahhhhh I need to find something else. I used to mountain bike through frick. Tennis too!!! I lived tennis through high school. It was my life. I got out of school early for it and played constant tournaments…ended up playing college tennis.

Love this video! Just graduated college in May and I can definitely relate. I've been applying to 100+ jobs but haven't gotten anything yet so I'm living at home with my family

Heyyyy Chlo bird 1 min! Your my idol!✨❤️😊

you are glowing!!!

Love the Q and A vids Chloe!

Hi Chloe I just saw lifetime and dance moms channel the drama was crazy but all of you guys were so talented and gorgeous especially you maddie and Kendall I will keep watching dance moms I am currently in season 5 I think 🤔 ok I will keep admiring you😊

Hii Chloe!!🩷🫶🏻

Chloe I just love you my Top fav on Dance moms but you are more beautiful then but glad your taking time to yourself good luck beautiful

Hi Chloe I love your videos and I'm still watching episodes I think I'm on season 4 of season 4 you're a grown lady of teenager now I love your dancing

hey I have a Penelope too! 🐱 you’re beautiful and you’re doing amazing in life. I can’t wait to see where life takes you and where you move! There is ZERO shame living at home while you’re figuring it out. ❤❤❤

1 minute! Love your hair! Can I get a hi?Love from Austria 🇦🇹 ❤❤

You are beautiful and amazing chloe