I play this song at least once a day before I FINALLY left my Ex. This song was the reason I finally got the strength to leave. Thank you so. much for making and sharing this song
He spoke directly when he said, “Look at you thinking you couldn’t live without him, now look at you living, look at you doing way better & all out of your feelings.” When you were stuck in a cycle for yrs and you’re finally out this song hit different..
Girl, yes! I sent this to my aunt who had her man co-sign her place and cheat on her, talk down etc. she stayed for years. She left him over a yr ago and now she got approved to buy a home, got her first brand new car, all on her own! That line right there, hits deep
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When he said "you let him cheat on you, you let him beat on you", I felt that in my soul. Thats a painful but true statement. Im so glad I finally left, and found a man who treats me with so much love, dignity and respect.
Does Lil Donald know just how much he is both empowering and healing people stuck in domestic violence cycles with this one song? 🙏 The cycle is hard to break, but this is one of those songs/moments that really opens your eyes...allowing you to see the situation for what it truly is...
@@kalani9342 Thank you ❤ &You are way too young to allow the cycle and pain of domestic violence to ruin your youthful years - It shouldn't happen at ANY age, but especially not when you're a teenager! I pray you've seen that situation for what it truly is, realized that it's not true love, and moved on 😟 Stay safe and remember love does not hurt!
This song is just what I needed to hear right now. I’m in an a physically, emotionally, and verbally abusive relationship. Never thought I’d be looking at the man I love and having to make a choice to walk away. One thing I never realized was just how much abuse impacts your self esteem, self worth, and self love. This song touched me all the way to my soul.
This song told the truth about alot is girls I was one of them girls been thru this after hearing this song it changed me I'm doing better by myself for a while now until a real man come along
24 hours out from a almost 2 year abusive relationship. This song is giving me strength. I have lost everything and everyone but God gave me a way to escape.
Literally got me crying in my feelings.... So tired of being manipulated and abused. Thanks so much Lil Donald I support you to the fullest this song gives me life
Neecie Pretty Girl sis, pray and get the courage to get out and move on. It better things out here. you blocking your blessing so you don't and can't see and feel it. 🙏💋
Neecie Pretty Girl just got out a 2 year abusive relationship people don't understand how be the shit really affects you this so deff has got me in my feelings.
Neecie Pretty Girl Your comment really touched me. I hope and pray that you find the strength to leave whatever situation you're in and look in the mirror and see the very pretty person you are.
I'm really sorry for that I wish you all this and hope you continue to stay strong and push through. Also if you still in that relationship it's poison you need to leave it's gonna be hard but you really deserve better.
@t_sizzle 205 kinda is destroys the community besides everything thats going on this is part of the problem alot of women an men dont know their worth so they settle
Verbal abuse is just as worse and it breaks you down bad. I know this cause that’s what I’m dealing with at this moment. This song helps me out so much and I wish I could meet Lil Donald so I can tell him thank you personally. Love is truly blind but I deserve better!!
KOKAiNE JANE that’s the thing, I’m not in love anymore and he wants me back so he starts arguments with me and that’s when the verbal abuse starts. He’s trying to ruin everything that has nothing to do with him. It’s a lot more , I just don’t want to get into it on here. But thank you ❤️
KOKAiNE JANE so I’m not alone ☹️ It’s like he’s verbally abusing me then he’s all calm 10 mins later. Thinking just because he has calmed down I’m suppose to come back. When he sees I’m not coming back, it starts again
@@ziyahthebest5674 girl....mine do shyt... A week go by, I address it, then I'm bringing up the PAST😒😒😒THE BS PILED UP TOO HIGH,never apologized to me for the issue before but expect me to move forward with him.. Never over the PAST CUZ ITS NEVER PAST SHYT. A NEW PROBLEM,BITCH,LIE OR DISAPPOINENT every other week.
I agree 100! It's not everyday that an artist tries to motivate a woman instead of making her into a hoe ya know even though I be jammin to them songs to lol but on the real u right and maybe it can motivate men in abusive situations to cause people make it all about women when there is some men out there be treated like shit....
I’m honestly in love with him and this song . Every time I feel like shit about myself I listen to this song , I actually feel like he’s singing it to me .
Me tooooo....I didn't know my worth and I love the abuser but I couldn't change the situation...I found a good guy and I love him and he's a real BOSS...I still love my ex and I pray for him everyday. I just couldn't stay in that toxic lifestyle. My new guy is perfect and he loves me and my kids and I'm feeling like he is the one 😍
I needed to hear this song for the first time today. It sucks that even from birth some of us. Some of us... started life without a chance. We beat all odds and made sure our childhood traumas do NOT become our kids. We make sure to fight hard and do what is right. So generational curses can be BROKEN. We have this outlook on life and see ourselves finally getting healthy love from the person we pick. We allow this person to take and take. We give and we give. We accept and we accept. As the years go by we try our best to accept their flaws and make up excuses as to why and cause. All awhile. We hurt and our hearts bleed. What little self pride and self love we do have. It is slowly taken from us by every verbal smack to any physical pain. Suddenly. We realize. The one person who could have made sure that finally in life I am safe and loved. Has done what my family, friends, and past relationships have done. Did what he said he would never do. Now we have to wake up and walk around with a fake smile so our kids and the world won't see how broken we are. This is not how I imagined my happily ever after. Pray for me, please.
Prayers of strength and restoration. The plans intended for your life will prosper and God is greater than our biggest problems. May you give yourself grace, know that you’re loved and someone is always praying for you. God got you. May you be blessed and every part of your life partake in total salvation. I agree with you in your healing and blessings. It’s a work that’s being done, but know that it’s already finished. My prayer is that you believe what you pray for, you most definitely already received. Blessings love ❤
I am gonna look like an ass, but I am gonna wait and see results because its been like this forever and I doubt a song will change it. Also I would not want a woman who cheated like what she gonna cheat on me too? I am not a cellphone nobody gonna use me as an upgrade til a better phone gets released(referencing the beginning of the video)
When I first heard this song I had to change the channel when it would come on. It was too hard to hear while living that life. Knowing good & damn well I needed to put it on replay. Months later I can turn it up & sing along. Look at me doing way better & all outta my feelings. ❤️
Shit I felt this comment hella When I heard reminder the first time it made my heart feel like it was having a anxiety attack and now I can listen to it like I never dated my ex
This song is good just need a little taste in it cuz he should have said you know she said so why did he beat her in the face her mama phone number so I can call right now
I don't know bout ya'll but I swear this song gives COURAGE AND STRENGTH to finally leave the toxic sht. It was so right on time I heard this song, I couldn't stop crying because I broke up with my ex, then when I started playing this every single day, slowly the lyrics slap the sht out of me and one day I just said "ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!" Yes I still love you, but I will never come back 😌 Thank you so much for this song... To all the people out there who gets abused MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY...be brave and leave. I know it's not that easy but I swear it will get better every day. Hugs xx
Real luv don't hurt👏🤝💥 .. loyalty is everything..if the one u luv bring u pain that's not luv that's bad for your health🖤💥😍💥🤔👏🤝always luv yourself and Know your Worth.😍
Brooki Lover 🖤🤝💯🤘aww thanks some ppl don't know difference between luv and real luv real luv don't hurt it make u smile every day😀and real friends there no Matter what🖤🤘👏👏 🖤real is real
Brooki Lover awww thanks I know u real .Real is real 🤝some people don't know difference between luv 🤔and real luv🖤real luv don't hurt👏real friends there no Matter what🤘real man gonna put a ring on u not around your eye's.some ppl don't be Happy with they selves so they try and make the one they luv miserable that's not luv that's bad for your health.real luv don't hurt it gives u butterflies😀🖤👏🤔🦋🦋😍💥💥 real is real Karma is real🤝God is Realer 🙏always luv yourself 🖤have dreams chase them let nobody sell you No dreams Make your own dreams a reality🌠🌟💥🦋😀dreams are made to come true we all fall its not about how we fall its about how we get up👏🙏👏💪real luv real friends support u through anything real is Rare 🤘😀👏and u are real and you are somebody we all are 🖤😀👏
Brooki Lover 🤗awww thanks👏🙏👏I speak from the heart 🖤it just come to mind I luv to write poetry n plays n books been writing since a child😀 😀👏🙏when u speak From the heart and mind real is all I know🤝 real is real no copyright lol😀🤣🤗and aww thanks Amen 🙏
Love this 10 years dealing with my ex nothing but abuse made me feel worthless brought my self esteem down SMh this song made me feel so much better! Never thought I would move on now I'm happy with a new man who treats me like a queen! And loves my daughter like his own! God is amazing!!
God bless you and you're family I'm happy you got away from dysfunction. I can't wait till my time to shine comes I'm patiently waiting on God I know he has something in store for me and my children.
This needs to be played on radio stations worldwide. Motivational and spreads positive influence!!! Hope he makes it big in the music industry. It could definitely use more meaningful positive music.
I can't even begin to say how much impact you've made with this song, Lil Donald. You're a legend for this. Big props for taking a modern music style and using it to preach a legitimate message that actually helps people, the rap community needs more people like you making music
L864 so ur saying that white Mexican and asian people shouldnt make songs with meaning, why should only black artists make music with meaning, and not the other races?
Lol I'm not saying only blacks, I'm just speaking on behalf of black male artists.. Because a lot of them dont make enough music with purpose. Motivation,Knowledge,Meaning,Inspiration and so on.. Most hiphop music u hear nowadays is about Money,sex and violence.
Dealt with this for 14 yrs. he constantly was cheating and getting high and abusing me and accused me of cheating and the shit he did. I thank god im alive and got away when I did🙏
I dont know u but i don't play that shit when a guy hits a girl i will beat the fuck out of someone idc if i dont know if i see someone get hit im gonna fight
This song was my life story. When I first heard it a couple yrs ago I cried bc the truth hurts but I still listen to it all the time. Stay strong queens!
Love this song so much. My now husband helped me get out of a horrible situation, risking his life for my safety. We stayed friends through everything.. we got together & from the beginning it was magic ✨ he played this song one day when we were moving into our first apartment. Still one of my favorites. Now we have 2 beautiful kids and life has never been so good. Girl f*** that lil n****!!! Cause you DON’T deserve that. Get away from it, run as far as you can & your life will change for the better I promise you!!! ❤ hugs to anyone going through this or who has gone thru it!! MEN don’t EVER hit their women, they protect them!!!
This song hit hme for me. Im not n a physical abusing relationship...but I am n a mental one. N knowing my worth I can do better bcuz i deserve better. Mental abuse is the worst bcuz it makes u feel worthless. 😔 So lil donald thank u for the inspiration..n letting me knw i can do better for myself.
I Kno the feeling becareful with your heart . I was in a mental and emotional abusive relationship and it took a toll on me I felt worthless I start doing shit I wouldn't normally do ..self LOVE is the best love please get out and don't look back👉👉👑
I recently got pregnant by some guy who I thought loved me and it turned out that he wanted me to abort. This song makes me move on from him and keep this blessing. I felt suicidal after he told me that but Sometimes I ask God why and I believe that it’s a lesson I had to learn in order to really appreciate my life. My baby is coming January 2021 and I’m so excited 💞 definitely know my worth
I was in an abusive relationship, that relationship led me to drugs .. it’s crazy how I didn’t know my worth.. this song is powerful, I’m glad that I did better.
Seen a lot of abuse but for a man to claim he loves u... To point a pistol to ur head n front of ur child he doesn't love u... Thanks Lil Donald for this song
My daughter father pointed a gun to my head serveral times and it was cold and i still feel it on me.He died a day after her bday from being paralyzed for about 20yrs.Thats how i became free! He got engaged and still had me in bondage for years up until his accident when i didnt see him anymore.I seen his accident yrs b4 it happened, I was laying on the floor in our home listening too tina Marie and It flashed b4 me. About 3yrs later his girlfriend knocked on my door and told me...
Wow sorry I didn't see this... He has been trying his best to keep me around I love him don't get me wrong we been together for 13 years I just had to do what's best for me n mines
Just heard this song on the radio. To be honest this song is amazing and it's a message to a lot of people who going through it. You have to open up your eyes and realize it's not worth being there if you not happy.
I would play this all the time crying I was with him from 15-18 and I finally got away in 2019 coming back gave me waves of emotion but I’m glad I’m out & to anyone going through this you can I promise you do it you deserve EVERYTHING and what he/she doing to you is not LOVE !! ❤
I seriously can't thank you enough for this song. 7 years with an abusive addict. So much trauma it caused me to have fibromyalgia. He almost killed me in front of my 2 kids 3 times..and did drugs the entire time. Lied about me to everyone. I need to get healthy and happy and healed. 💜
Wow same situation I'm in good on u girl 💚 n peace From Dublin IRELAND I cant seem to take the jump I don't get it I was in a awfull state yesterday and he was sat beside me and I swear he s cheated many times drugs money hit me u name it Im soo upset Iv allowed it I stayed I don't get wat is wrong with me. Stay strong I need to eat my own words xxxx
God bless u for giving this powerful song to the world! U can't even know how many ppl u are helping just by speaking the truth!!! Ppl need to hear reassurance and love and truth about themselves! This touches my soul. This was me for almost 5 yrs. Only reason I got out was for my babygirl. She's my saving grace! 💓
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!! I just broke down. Not only because I went through the pain in this song but also how I started to appreciate myself. I never knew that anyone cared on the scale of making a song about the facts of what I have went through and Im sure others had as well and inspiring 2 LEAVE!!!... Thank you for making this don't get Trap(ed) and don't die music.;p
Heard this audio on tiktok and immediately ran to look for it. This song is so deep 😍. Been in a rough relationship feels good listening to this master piece 💟
You can "do better" beautiful! "You don't deserve that" these lyrics are full of truth! I uplift any person dealing w/domestic violence. May God Bless Your Soul.... 🙏🏽
This a song for people who deserve better. Life is short so you deserve better. Finding the right one is a fairy tale but doesn’t mean you go back to that person. We all do and I did few times. Because they made me feel worth it. But it was just in my head. Living what they can give you is none sense. But not just a relationship a friendship too. Move on to something better.
