Lilith In CANCER ♋️😈  

My mother had this placement and she was brutally abusive... she loved being pregnant, but despised children. It was a living hell!

My son has this placement. I don’t want him to have abandoned issues. I’d never abandon him.

My stomach actually turned while listening to this, it was very triggering. I definitely had a traumatic childhood. I've always been the black sheep and my mother gave us up for adoption, then came back.... and I was physically abused by her and people she brought around me. I'm also a Pisces sun which doesn't help with my sensitivity.... I'm definitely smothering with my siblings, which I thought was just because I was the oldest of 6, not because of my mother. I hate to say it, but if I wanted to manipulate someone, I know I have the power to do it. I've seen it from the best......... I been practicing self love a lot and I've been learning to choose myself now that I'm in my 30s This is intense.......

Bruh. Lilith and Moon in Cancer in 7th house. Someone hug me

I love my lilith. It compliments the rest of my chart. I know my strengths in terms of drawing people emotionally but I don't abuse that gift. I'm no damsel in distress but I fight for the underdog and get support for those that need it most. Thanks for the video.

I can't believe the level of accuracy. I've been reading my chart for years and never even knew about Lilith and Chiron until recently. This is what we should be learning in life! Imagine the different if we would have learned about these things in our early years...... Geez.

This is the first Astro Finesse video that made me cry due to having a moment of truth. Wow. To feel seen and understood at the exact same time as I'm seeing and understanding myself is a FEELING

🙋🏾‍♀️ I have this in my 12th house 👀. Been waiting for this one. Traumatic childhood, and I’m still haunted by it daily but healing (at least trying to). I’m considered the “black sheep”, weird one. Holding off on children so I don’t mess them up lol. Def Karma written all over this one. Trying to love myself & continue to work on self worth & confidence always. Thank you 🙏🏾✊🏾❤️

I have cancer in Lilith. Very hard placement to have during my childhood and early 20’s. Lots of things that happened that I put in the back of my mind and will not talk about. I can see the emotional manipulation you were talking about. My ex has the same Lilith in cancer placement. He would cry and threaten to commit suicide if I ever mentioned breaking up. Sorry I went too deep but shit is real. Good job you explained everything to the T. Love your channel.

This is spot on my childhood/birth was traumatic and I have abandonment issues and that loss of connection with my birth mom. This is a helpful to keep in my heart while I travel this journey of self love.

Interesting they always vilified lillith in patriarchal/monotheistic religions. I think it helped me heal alot of the lillith in cancer in recognizing that we are meant to be independent and we need to search for our actual equals rather than a form of codependency like the adam and eve mythology represents

emotions are frequency the more intense the emotion good or bad the stronger the manifestation ,if you actually work on your core beliefs to benifit you it can actually be a really good thing to have lilith in cancer

Having Lilith in Cancer can be detrimental (it had brought me to the brink of what I could take), but I have learned so much throughout my life because of this placement and my Saturn in Pisces. It is definitely a hard placement to have, but I feel it’s meant to teach a lesson and it has helped me evolve as a person to become my best self. Thank you so much for your amazing videos. 💗

Ah yes, my father was motherless, my mothers mother was motherless. My mother was a Capricorn SN Aquarius. Very cold, intellectual household. Physical needs were met occasionally not always. Got my needs met by manipulating and being codependent, here’s to learning how to love ourselves 🍻 and thank you it was spot on

I have to say this is telling of me, I have put myself into a caregiving career, I feel fulfilled doing it, but then I am also a mother… a single mother because I did in fact attract narcissistic and abusive men. So every single day of my life, every hour of every day I am in a care giving roll and I feel alone and there is a fulfillment and an agony to it simultaneously. I feel my anger rise inside when I am burnt out and tired of caring for others but I am not being cared for, but I can’t stop myself from caring for others.

I have Cancer in the 12th house. Stuff I have worked on. Inner child. Self love. Abandon issue healing. Let go of ego and pride. And most importantly forgiveness.

I feel like it's an incredible tool for awakening, u know, I can see if someone's soul wants to awaken quickly they would choose a birth chart with this placement

I have Lilith in cancer but I’m also an Aquarius moon.. talk about a rough time with emotions 😂 I’m a mess lol

This was so helpful! My bf has this placement so I'm going to give him as much hugs as I can☺️

Bruhhhhhhhhh 😫 this is so extremely accurate it huuuuuuurts. I’m already a Pisces w a Scorpio Rising… this is a HARD placement that impacts my life and every single relationship. Wow. Thank you.

Wow thank God I have a lot of Aries energy becauseeee otherwise that negative cancer would have me insecure asf 😭😭😭‼️

this man is the truth, always resonates 🙏

Well shit, this just opened up some heavy heavy inner child trauma but explained everything that years of counselling couldn’t. Thank you ❤️

Bless you! Your knowledge is incredible and straight truth. Really had no clue about the Lillith, but wow it went in! It knew that shit about me.. just through placement in the chart, love learning about astrology, thank you again!

Great video! Everything is 100% accurate! This is one of the best videos I've seen on Cancer Lilith! Thank you!

Thank you for this ! Love your artwork you have. . This gave a lot of insight 💎

this one was really precious! now gonna watch Aquarius for the 11th house! thank you ma man!

This was amazing. Lots of good knowledge in here. Explained a LOT about myself. Some I knew and some I didn't. Some I'm already so aware of, I curbed in my 20s. You gone make me go through my WHOLE chart with you! Thank you so much. Keep it coming!

Accurate 🙏🏽 lilith in cancer ..I’m ♓️

Feels good to listen to you, I feel so deeply understood and now I understand myself step by step, thanks bro. Namaste 💕

Lilith in cancer and a Scorpio moon! Oh what did I do to deserve this 😭 I’m serious.

Damn. Powerful. Thankful beyond words.

My husband was the first English speaker in his home. At age 5 he had a lot of responsibility of being a translator. That was a like the hugest step into the world for all first generation (American) kids. its great to understand these things.

I have Cancer Lilith in the 4th. Not a fan at all, 10/10 would not recommend.

Im so excited to hear u explain this!!😁 I have this in my 2nd house

Thank you kindly!!! Your vids are beyond helpful and insightful...most appreciated!!!

I had to subscribe. I’m starting to really enjoy your astrology videos. I’m Lilith in cancer and yes, the childhood is definitely a tender spot for me. A lot of mental illness in my family. I’m even terrified of having kids myself because I don’t want to end up putting them through the same things.

Wow! I am floored. My lilith is in Cancer and you explained everything that I've experienced in my life to the T. I have always been a black sheep and still am. wow, I am amazed at what i just heard. Thank you for explaining this.

I been waiting my dude thank you so much!!! Yes. I love your channel thank you keep the good work up.

Ahhhh, this answers so much. I’m a Sun Virgo, Moon Scorpio, Venus Scorpio… Lilith Cancer. So much internal struggle. 😫 Childhood abuse, cold childhood with little emotional support. So once I get to know someone I have to watch now smothering I get.

Damn!!!! I really needed to hear this. Thank you.

Thank you so much. This video was spot on and you explained it beautifully .

Bang on again🙏💜

Thank you for breaking this down and you’re so right I’ve done all of this and now it’s the motherly part I’m struggling with..overcompensating and smothering my children with what I didn’t get from my mother…. I now understand why and how to work on managing this ❤

For those of you who see this in your child’s chart, don’t be super alarmed because it can show your parenting style. You can smother your child/be a helicopter parent, you can overly nurture your child to the point where it hinders them in life. Your child could just be super independent to where they want to leave home at 18 and start their life. I have also seen this with single mothers or divorced parents. Make sure you’re looking at the moon & where it is in the chart because Lilith in the 4th with good moon aspects won’t be all bad. Sometimes Lilith in cancer or in the 4th could just mean growing up with an absent father. This really can show up as different things in the chart.

This was Dope👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Honestly you’re adorable and the video was good. And I’m going to subscribe.

Lilith in Cancer and Moon in Pisces 🙂 and then Scorpio in south node..

I’ve been waiting for this video

Crazy, the self love part. I have my NN in Aries which also leads me to believe my karmic lesson is putting myself first. My Lilith is conjunct my sun in Cancer - I tend to put my extreme emotions on my Aries moon, but I guess my black moon Lilith plays a larger role.

Having cancer in Lilith with the 10th house... lol gotta say a lot of this was fresh to hear, childhood was distant from my mother emotionally and my father as well lol always felt like I was the black sheep. I gotta say self love is one of the hardest challenges I'm still figuring out... especially also trying to look at myself through astrology and my charts and learn from the ancient wisdom within myself.. it's hard opening up about my childhood and I feel there's some emotions about the past I can't even access subconsciously lol I understand from this video how my too mothering has it's faults and that self caring and loving myself frist isn't just selfish but a huge need with where cancer lives in this placement. Thank you for this :) I enjoy and can get along with how you explain things 😊 I love the vast endless of words you have

Thanks for the information I like how u explained urself well💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

I have a son with this placement.. and I’m like what the? Because I love him more than anything and will continue to nurture and love him.

Wow definitely me.... Thank you 🙏🏾

So accurate! Worse thing ever happen to me as a child, something you can’t even imagine at all so rare and so so traumatic and still trying to accept and heal. My mum is a covert narcissistic mother never cared still doesn’t, so yeah crazy life I’m telling you, I been manipulated by all the women in my life - so life made me so defensive towards anyone still got difficulty in having a relationship 😔

Wow! Crazy accurate!

i love you videos so much, they have helped me a lot with myself and with my friends. thank you 🙏 💜

Really helpfully ❤️ thank you so much🙏 my moon 🌕 is pisces and my lilith 🌑 is canser.i am a female. Keep doing this work with a your channel 👍it’s helping me so much and i am sure it’s help to another people too! Now i have understood why i am attract mad people😂it’s depends on me....Big hug 🧸

Damn this is accurate. Incredible for awareness this was something i always thought about in my life and it has been confirmed. I feel relived. Being Pisces and therefore more sensitive makes this placement alot harder but hey it all worked out. It also makes sense that my north node is in aries

thank u thank u thank u. this content was very enlightening.

I have lilith in cancer & a lot of this is true.

I had a very traumatic birth😭 and childhood too, thank you for sharing this bless you💜

You really read my life with this one 🥴

I needed to hear this

Telling my story now. Im a fatherless daughter w/abandonment issues, trust issues in opposite sex, im misunderstood all my life, no stopping this, i feel like people h8te me, are jealous n envious of me, people dont take me seriously n im not a joke so when im laughed at, called names like crazy, i just grow distant n i detach forever. Especially w/guys in situationships. I dont believe in love, romance because ive never had guys that i felt true love from. Sex is not love to me, but when i was young girl i had low self esteem n was looking for love in all wrong places which was destructive for my mental health n my self worth. I just feel im cursed n not ever going to ever find true, mature love from a man. Im a single mature woman now n loving myself more n just loving my peace of mind n my sincere friendships w/people who can share love w/me n not take me for granted any more.

Resonates very much .like half my chart has mommy issues and is telling me to love myself.which is what I’m doing . Working on it .

I have black moon Lilith in cancer and Saturn in cancer. So dealing with emotions and family has really been hard for me in this lifetime. Not sure what house black moon Lilith is in in my chart. But my Saturn is in the 4th house so YIKES! 🌑 Definitely am starting to learn to master self love in my life at 16! And have attracted a lot of people who aren’t great with their emotions I guess I’ll have to level up past this 😎 and do better. Another great video AstroFinesse thanks for the awesome uploads packed with knowledge! 😄

Everything resonated💯... im scorpio sun, virgo moon, and i have this lilith on my 7th house💔worst placement ever !

This was very helpful thank you

I relate to this entirely, it's crazy...

The best explanation of lilith in Cancer. Mine is Cancer in the 1st house.

I’m Capricorn sun Scorpio moon and Taurus ascendant and Lilith cancer in 2nd house 🏠

Ayy.. I got cancer Lilith in my 1st house.. my Lilith is the only thing I got in my first house lol. I'm still chill tho I mastered my energies.. Virgo sun Sag moon Gemini rising 💯

Moon in Gemini, lilith in Cancer, Scorpio stellium, I am feeling this. Mastering balance through shadow work gives the self the perfect masculine feminine. Being a 9/22 birth equalizes with the help of mercury&venus.

Thank you for another great video😎👍🏽, but I don’t feel like I manipulate anyone. I just think that my family and friends sympathize with the craziness that ALWAYS happens in my life🤦🏾‍♀️....but that’s only if I tell them 🤐♉️

Love how you break things down, thankssss

Please do Black Moon 🌚 in Capricorn ♑️. You make it easy to understand.

Lilith in Cancer and 9th House and I have always had a complicated relationship with religion (and was one of those edgy atheists in high school and college, but have toned down a bit) plus I am childfree and will probably stay that way tbh because the idea of motherhood sounds very confining.

All facts 🙏🏽🦉

spot on

Thank you so accurate

I am a Sagittarius sun, cancer moon and aquaries rising and Lilith in cancer

How aptly you have explained this placement Iam able to understand begat Iam doing wrong in my life I have Lilith moon in cancer in the seventh house and it’s really bad for me thanks for sharing your knowledge!

I have this placement and the worst thing that can happen to me is being abandoned especially in hard times. And this happens over and over again. I feel i need someone to take care of me. I'm codependent. But this ruins my relationships. I guess I'm the manipulative Denzel in distress but this is really something I'm not doing consciously. I want to go live by myself to be the independent self caring woman i want to be. I feel abandoned very fast even over small things but it happened over major issues in my life too. . With my parents , yes, I'm also the black sheep. And relationships. I have been abandoned in the most difficult times in my live by partners. I also had two post partum psychosis. The first one my ex abandoned me emotionally during this time which was extremely hard. I did not realise i had post partum psychosis. I was 21 and never heard of it. I only knew something was terribly wrong with me. The second pregnancy with my current partner i looked for help before the birth. I attract partners that are dominant and are abusive because they had a fucked up childhood. For me it feels its time to leave and taking care of myself. Feeling abandoned can drive me suicidal. I don't think i was still alive today if it was not for my kids. Or an alcohol or drug addict. I just know it's time to go and give myself the love and freedom i deserve But I can't go far because of my 11 year old. I would of just packed my backs and booked a ticket to South America and see where life me leads. I rather be by myself then feeling dependent and alone with a man

My little brother has cancer ♋ lilith sign. That so true about my little brother

i have a cancer lilith in my 8th house my cancer moon is also in my 8th house help 🙃 i thought the first 24 years of my life were rough but now i’m lowkey worried about the rest of it too LMAO

Lilith in cancer... now I see why it’s been so hard for me

Can't wait for lilith in Scorpio!

Lilith in Aries in the 4th house. My parents split up when I was 4, barely saw my father and my mother became sick when I was 10. Meanwhile my moon in Aquarius. It’s been a fun ride 🤣

Thank you ❤

Thank you!! Lilith in cancer ascendant/12th house

I'm literally going through my Saturn return now at 25. I have 6 Cap placements (Sun, Moon, Neptune, Uranus, Midheaven, Mercury, Mars) so Saturn been kicking my ass my entire life. Then my Lilith is in Cancer, Jupiter in Sag, and Saturn in Pisces. Anyways, after watching this and you vid on Saturn in Pisces, I'm just like: it all makes sense. Thank you so much. You just read me to a t and made so much really clear to me. I really appreciate the work that you do. Thank you🙏🏾🦋💙

The ACCURACY!!!!!!

I'm so fascinated with black moon Lilith made Grandma has a black moon Lilith and cancer so this is going to be really interesting to listen to considering the personal circumstances her and I are facing right now I'm a Black Moon Lilith and Scorpio LOL

Ur amazing 😀

Libra Sun, Cancer Lilith. Close relationships are the most important thing to me which makes me clingy. Right now, I feel lonely and abandoned which makes me feel resentful and go ultra-independent mode.

Man this was hard to listen but I'm happy that I know now. Thank you!

So, here I am, Lillith in cancer in the 12th. Cancer Ascendant, moon and jupiter also in Cancer 12th house. Mercury, venus, saturn, mars and NN are all in Virgo. And then my sun's in Leo. Selena's in Scorpio, surely that is something fun 😂

Wow so accurate

Sagittarius lilith in the 4th house. I recognized all of these things. My mom is a cancer and she is all of these things. I worked hard to not be like this