Again must say you need to check your English. To refer to someone as she or her is rude. It implies that you are strangers. For someone you know either call them by name or "my wife or my partner or my better half". My Mum said to me who is "she"? the cats mother. Please consult English etiquette and grammar. I hope they are the same in the US... you do speak English don't you?
Hello Jenifer! Thank you for your comment. Yes, I kind of speak English, but I am an American so my English is always suspect! If you might notice I do occasionally say “my wife” when referring to her…. Please note when queried she did specifically state to not use her name in the videos! BTW… it is Xinying or Song😝 Thank you so much for your comments, I’ll try to do better in the future! All the best! T