Orm and Ling great ways to defend yourself along with orm not showing up as much issues to and the both of you are treating each other Mutual is Mutual Life Partners versus one making the other one look bad but just nonstop showing off
You could even at this little interviews and fan meets you could wear just fancy fancy jeans and a shirt you don't need to get is elegant as you an ling do
I'm also very proud of you ladies for sticking up for yourself especially with one friend that wanted to get naughty with you an ling responded back, i keep the naughty ones out of my life