literally i quit for the stupidest reason (adhd struggle)

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Hi fam!! Super excited to share this life update with you: I QUIT MY JOB FOR THE STUPIDEST REASON (or did i?). Honestly, I think you will laugh too. It's just the most adhd moment i can think of. It makes me think about my past work experience. And it make me think of you, think of all of us.
How many time does an adhder quit their jobs for a different stupid reason and got stuck in this endless circle of get a job - love it - hate it - quit again -think "i'm a loser" - get a job again...
I'm not saying changes for not good. Changes are necessary (most of the time), but for adhders (especially the young and just diagnosed ones), we need to admit sometimes our emotions are playing with our brain.
With my new insight from the adhd life coach courses i have been taking. I knew a lot of adhders feel like this is a never ending circle. We deserve happy and stable life just like everyone else. But first...let face our struggle. I hope this video can make you feel seen. You are not alone in this emotion battle.
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@Astrid-cc3mg Месяц назад

"I have worked too hard to be this broke." GIRL. SAME. That hit my soul. It's hard. Thanks for being so transparent. It really helps.

@adhd_alex23 Месяц назад

Thanks for watching!

@MamasDoingtheWork 4 месяца назад

Trust me when I tell you you aren't alone and all of the feelings you've shared are also experienced by others including myself. Thank you for sharing

@adhd_alex23 4 месяца назад

That’s why I want to be honest with it. So less people can feel like they are alone! 🎉❤

@mimimil7975 Месяц назад

I don't wanna sound corny or nothing, but this video came at a perfect time in my life. It feels cathartic hearing someone, who is not me, verbalize what I feel and what's going on in my head. It's hard because each year I get older I feel more and more like lost potential as opposed to celebrating getting older and other lifetime events. I always want to do more to prove myself, and then I burn out and am faced with a wave of self-hatred for how "lazy" I'm being. Also, even when try to give yourself some grace, thoughts of whether you're actually neurodivergent/ going through a depressive episode/experiencing the symptoms that it hard to function, or am just making excuses.

@jclyntoledo 4 дня назад

You are definitely not making excuses and sometimes it's not depression, it's a burnout and that's completely different. It won't be cured with medication, your body and mind need to rest and that can be 1 month or a few months or even a yr.

@chchchchiaaaa339 2 месяца назад

Yeah, that basket or picking up one thing and dropping another is exactly what happens. It's so important to balance. It looks like everyone else is doing it so easily. Just keep pressing forward I guess, but one day we have to pick ourselves up and figure out who we really want to be. So much of this resonates.

@ideatorx 4 месяца назад

That basket analogy is too real!! But I also think it’s part of life and I think that everyone’s struggling in our community in one way or another but will never tell you right! We’re all saving face. There isn’t enough time to have it all, so we have to pick and choose!

@maniya6830 2 месяца назад

I legit haven't even watched the entire video, yet one thing's for sure. I am gonna support you on your journey as much as I can.

@cassielee1114 2 месяца назад

The basket thing - we can only hold a few things in our attention. This happened to me all my life.

@katiedyck5407 4 месяца назад

I get the juggling and picking up one thing and then dropping the other thing. I get it so much!

@loayalghshm8415 3 месяца назад

thank you for sharing. I always feel that decisions i make are somewhat wrong, but when I'm in a better state of mind, they turn out to be quite good and i realize i shouldn't be so hard on myself and should love myself more

@SM-zw3on 4 месяца назад

Dr K healthygamer on YT said something along the lines of, if you feel angry and wanting to start a fight, don’t act on it. Let that emotion pass. Even after a day or two, you still think (rationally) it’s necessary to address the issue, then by all means do. I think this applies to a lot of emotions, not just anger. Whatever that disturbs me emotionally, I let it pass. If that problem or situation persists after two days, I’d address it.

@Simply_Selina 4 месяца назад

I think its very inspirational how open and vulnerable you are! I just found your channel and am happy I did. Looking forward to hear about all the good moments that will come for you ❤

@adhd_alex23 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much!

@flowerbloom5782 2 месяца назад

Ong I feel you. I worked at a job that was did shipping and papers and I would have issues with executive dysfunction. Dropping or picking up things. I also have commitment issues with work but I think it’s cause I need flexibility. I’ve been focusing on doing seasonal work or temporary jobs more. I feel the same way with the basket example you gave which turns out to be common with adhd cause of invalidation of our struggles and Brain. I have been comparing myself too and feeling like everyone was given a handbook on life while I didn’t. I have been exercising to be patient with myself.

@datarake7222 Месяц назад

Thank you so much for honestly sharing your life and thoughts. Its very relatable, I think a lot of people are having a hard time nowadays. All the best to you, I wish that everything works out for you in the future.

@jozefgurzynski7380 Месяц назад

=) keep making videos. Your authenticity and candor is refreshing Jingwen. I hope things are getting better everyday for you 🙏

@lauril111 4 месяца назад

When it gets to the plottwist at the end I GOT SO MAD, HOW COULD THEM?? AND THEY EVEN READ YOU HEART-OPENING LETTER AND DIDNT REMEMBER THEYRE ONLY JOB lol Glad everything turns out fine, this story really inspired me thank you ❤❤

@adhd_alex23 4 месяца назад

Hahahah my bosses are very very busy. And they apologize to me right after. It was the accountant who forgot about it. 😂

@AnaPuffy Месяц назад

@@adhd_alex23I was shocked that they forgot, until I remembered I am the person responsible for payments in my job and already did this too 🙈

@Toasteryummy 28 дней назад

You always have control!! Think outside the box homie

@chchchchiaaaa339 2 месяца назад

That feeling that we want to just run away. I do that, I cancel all contact with others, do the bare minimum, and shrink down only doing the bare minimum to avoid being more of a burden to people sort of.

@adhd_alex23 2 месяца назад

Yes…always want to run away

@dancole2994 Месяц назад

Beware any coach who doesn't offer to cancel any time. There are much cheaper options out there, but worth learning what makes a good coach from a bad one first.

@snippysnacks9193 4 месяца назад

Your story was so beautiful! I am now a subscriber.

@anapaulasandes202 2 месяца назад

Hello from Brazil! Your story resonates with mine in a lot of points. It is refreshing to see how you are copying. I am searching for a coach for myself too. I feel extremely bad for forgetting things, which I think leads to me forgetting even more things. Having had a bad leader only increased this feeling... Although I had better ones and more human ones, I still feel I don't deserve the nice things I have and revive the abuse I went trough with her. I need to change that

@TheHadMatters Месяц назад

Accepting how replaceable you are is so important. It teaches you to make effort for your own sake, your own life's moments, the future self you create for yourself. You don't create better habits so others will praise you for how amazing you did at reshaping your future, and tell you how much they desire to have you around. You create better habits past the struggles, so you are in control of your life and your future. It's all for yourself. And because it's all for yourself, all the motivation and willpower has to come from within you; you have to create it when you need it. You can't wait for it to come from outside.

@TegridyMadeGames 2 месяца назад

1:13 me as an american every single day of my life 🤣🤣

@adhd_alex23 2 месяца назад

🤣🤣

@HonestlyHolistic 3 месяца назад

This was very relatavke to me, I hope things are going better right now for you

@adhd_alex23 2 месяца назад

Much much better

@JTK639 Месяц назад

Hi. Very brave to speak so honestly 😊 You certainly gave me a boost💎🙏😎

@adhd_alex23 Месяц назад

I'm so glad!

@shazma 4 месяца назад

I left my job for similar reasons recently. This is all very oddly specific for me. Thanks

@adhd_alex23 4 месяца назад

Hope you felt better soon ❤

@entkells5803 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much. Made me cry but ended it smiling.

@adhd_alex23 2 месяца назад

I'm so glad!

@kkarl_shots 20 дней назад

You just earned a subscriber. 🎉

@kkarl_shots 20 дней назад

Recently found out I have adhd.

@courtr1588 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing this!

@diamonddiva59 4 месяца назад

Very nice video and story, cheered me up a lot :)

@adhd_alex23 4 месяца назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@MrEpsilonZero 4 месяца назад

You are brave for moving in to Canada at 15. Yes I agree working so hard for small pay is a bummer. If you really want to quit try taking unpaid leave (like for week )or say you have family issues or burnout. Glad they took you back and sorted out your pay. Just my opinion. Hope things turn out great for you.

@thethpian 4 месяца назад

It wasn't that you were replaceable. Pretty much as soon as someone decides that they are out their attitude changes despite their best efforts. They are just bad juju, bad energy for the rest of the staff. I agree with your boss. You're either in or out. Not you specifically, anybody. Stay or go but don't stick around with all your interstitial energy bad vibing the place.

@arethajb6105 Месяц назад

❤

@MoonFairy929 3 месяца назад

Wow. Thanks for this.

@Vampirelov3r2000 Месяц назад

How has the adhd life coaching been for you? I heard most life coaches are scams because they don’t have appropriate training/qualifications versus like a therapist for instance. Which one are you using and how has it been?

@jclyntoledo 4 дня назад

I wouldn't say they are all scams but more so that there aren't qualifications to do that so it's all subjective. You would have to ask what their experience is in or their trainin and decide for yourself if you think that would make them knowledgeable to be your adhd coach 😊.

@--Singularity-- 2 месяца назад

You need a book keeping for your income/expenses.

@sansxverse 2 месяца назад

living in big cities is hella expensive... is it okay to ask what field you are working in? 🥺

@Toasteryummy 28 дней назад

I have generic advice for anyone in this position and its something i guarantee you have never thought of. If you want to know let me know and we can chat somewhere