@@AhaOk2398 You have no idea how it works then. Don't tell someone that's not how it works. We all have different circumstances and ideals and experiences. So speak for urself
@@adamantium4797 It's like someone saying "ppl don't need oxygen to live" and you point out that's not how it works, because it's pure biology. It's not preference, people need other people to live and will suffer from loneliness. Telling someone to embrace loneliness is like saying "embrace suffocation, it's not that bad, you can thrive without oxygen". Not the kind of an advice I'd give to a friend.
@@AhaOk2398 lol ur actually comparing between someone needing oxygen to survive and someone needing someone to be with them to survive.. u gotta be freaking kidding. Ppl come and go. Being alone from time to time is useful to reflect on ones self and make improvements without the extra damn baggage another person will bring. You need to wake up and realize life is not a fairy tale. It's business. damn you are naive. and no being on ur own is not suffocating, having extra baggage and responsibilities is suffocating. The whole point is what works for me won't work for you ur too naive, and what works for you won't fit with what I prefer. So don't assume how it works for others we are all very different. Embrace whatever works
Well it's tru we don't need anyone to be who we want to be. It jus happens. And so called loneliness is nonsense. so no need to embrace it. Instead use that time you have with ur own self to do what you want. Simple
Loneliness is not only being alone all of the time, its also that inability to have a relationship with anybody, be that friend or lover. That flame goes out inside of you and all you can do is wonder why, you try to form connections but it feels empty and meaningless, physical touch is repulsive to you and all you can do is wonder why
Work on it and try to fix it. You seem to me like you made yourself believe in own inability to form relationships while you are capable of that. Anyone is. Feeling melancholic is fine, feeling sorry for yourself whole life isn't. Draw a thick line between these things and never go for the second.
You didn’t have to hit the nail on the head with that one, that’s exactly how I’m feeling in life rn, plain and simple. I want to do better, I go to the gym work almost everyday and yet the fire inside is just gone and I feel like there’s no hope for me. Just slowly the clocks ticks away until my time is gone
Embrace your emotions , negativity become more socials it isn’t what it is only you decide your fate, if you want to be left alone it’s because you want it if you want people to be within around you go to the gym practice your social skills you have everything to change and the only one who can change you is yourself no one els, don’t listen to the people ik it’s not like before when it was more easy to be social people were more nicer now people hate you for no reason remember you have everything you need to change yourself you don’t need a girl to be successful or be someone in life girls are just distraction and dont fall for girls I’ve seen what it feels like but it didn’t affect me because I know I don’t need anyone but my mom, dad and god to be successful, remember people who are close to you can hurt you the most and make the most of your life enjoy life with your parents while you still can and thank god for giving you life, food,clothes and everything you need to stay alive don’t end yourself it won’t make things better it won’t it just won’t , remember you aren’t alone unless you choose to be alone and stay strong, prove people you aren’t weak and show them what you really are made it may seem impossible but it isn’t a man is the impossible you are special you just don’t know it think before you say for all of the chads out there stay safe and remember make the most of your life 🗿 that’s it for now…….
@TrivedijiGames clearly you don’t know what it’s like to be a nobody that lives in a society that doesn’t give a shit about you. Solitude and being alone can be good but not that often for me cause unlike you guys I’m not a celebrity that gets constant attention from everyone in school
I’m not talking about solitude dammit I’m talking about loneliness and being unloved. There’s a difference. One you can’t seem to understand very well genius
it does. it's just like anything in life, there's a way to achieve it. and if you don't get it then first time, try a different way. keep trying until you get it, and in this case, there is no wrong way to get it.
We create our loneliness and sadness, we can destroy it with words, but it's grown too strong to perish, and it eats away at out liveliness and kills us from the inside out. Depression is a virus that grows by time. You can easily stop it, you just don't want to, trauma? Fear?, live without a care and you'll see, life is beautiful, you just saw the dark side first.
I'm done. The pain is constant. People just assume you fix everything in a day. Act happy and they think you're fixed. I just want to not wake up anymore. I'm trying to stand up each day, go to university because my family wants me alive. I don't. Maybe I'm just too weak. And keep nagging. I should just man up. That's why I will keep going. Even if I'm done. I think the pain will never stop. I will always be in pain and people will always not care. I have to get used being in pain and never to be understood. I just want to be hold without having to worry for a second they'll turn their back at me. But I understand that it's not possible. It just isn't. Bye. I know the percentage of someone reading this is 0.00001% and that is also okay. That's just how it is
Damn you just made me tear up. Listen man I’m not here to tell you that everything is gonna be alright or any other bs like that, I know it wouldn’t make me feel better about the bitter reality of life. When life kicks you, you need to kick back harder. Don’t do it for the ones that don’t appreciate you, do it for yourself. If nobody significant to you has told you this yet then I shall do so instead: I understand, please hang in there for me bud. I hope this goodbye wasn’t your last. If you need to talk I’ll always be here waiting, friend
The point is that we can still bear this pain. For me, at least, I think that I deserve it, it's like a heavy weight I must carry with me. But still, I'm gonna accept it, it's all fine
One thing I learned in my 24 years of live is that in order to live, we have to accept that loneliness will be always apart of our lives because, we are and will always be alone, accepting that and the darkness within us is the only way to happiness and finding the light we all wish for. Have faith and hope🙂
Always know no matter how hard it is you are born into this world to fight the sadness, you will always have to take care of your family no matter how big it is just embrace yourself and keep going it all it takes is just keep going
Today was my birthday,so I got some gifts and felt happy but... The best gift I got was this night time where there is no one but me and this peaceful song. I love solitude.
HBD! A month ago a I turned 29 and my best friend ( she’s a girl) forgot my birthday man. It hits me hard. I could expect that from anybody but not firm her and I didn’t tell her, I remained in silent. It is what it is…
@@texcom1 its just a day. Same as christmas, new year etc. I dont understand why people Take this so serious. What i wanna say, she Loves you, be happy.
Why is this so depressing for people being alone is worth so much to me and having to learn that having someone or being happy is not everything happiness means so much more to me when I get it and I’m glad to know what it is so if you have experienced happiness you have won
It’s different. I’m not completely alone where I legit have nobody, but I feel alone. I have some few friends here and there, and my family. But something is missing that stabs me over and over every day and it’s hurts so bad.
I'm just a lonely MF. Sometimes it doesn't bother me being a lone but I don't like it all the time. Sometimes I just haven't felt good to even be around anybody also
Theres difference between lonly and alone. Lonely mean longing for a partner. Alone mean being yourself A lonly person will be sad most of the time but the later one not necessarily sad all time
We all eventually stop looking for monster in our closet, or under our bed, because we have a painful realization that they actually live inside of us.
The pain caused by loneliness it's just hight. I done know who everyday to improve that. And everything broke me. I'm 27 years old but everymorning I cry. I done know who to change it. 🥺🥺🥺
i used to be unhappy and yet i got a girl but it doesn't change but still she left and it kinda hurts but it feels like it has nothing to do with others, it's just me
Literally my ass suffering all the damn fucking time, everytime i wake up i act so happy and tired its gonna be a new day but instead i'm 11 and i have to go threw fucking shit 3 hours-2 hours a day and run 4 whole fucking damn laps, i just wish people cared who i really am but they don't know they only care about the silly goofball i am.
i don't even know you yet you're the only one on youtube expect for one person who is nice plus you care what i go threw and i got kicked out the locker room for 3 days.@@ddumbee9305
@@vascogamer4513 Puedo entender que el mundo es cruel, pero no siempre es cruel y mira, todo lo que puedo decir es que espero que estés bien y, si no, habla con alguien y recuerda seguir avanzando nuevamente, espero que estés bien.
man onetime i started to talk to this girl and getting to know her and she asked me what are you doing today this Saturday evening, i said: im going to watch a movie at the theatre by myself. never heard from her again she prob thought i was a psycho or something smh
“If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you."
Somos una sociedad destruida y vacía debido a que no nos resguardamos en las mantas de un Dios vivo, necesitamos volver a el así ya no nos sentimos vacíos, créanme e pasado por esto y e encontrado la felicidad y el sentido a mi vida en Dios animo a los que pasan por momentos duros, ya que en este momento tendréis aflicciones dice la biblia...
I remember when she was birthday, i wait for the night and make her a suprise but 1 or 2 weeks later she broke up with me for a nothing...I still waiting my every birthday but she is never came back,sorry...
Soch raha tha maya ke maje leyenge aur rehenge aapni wali different duniya me but na to height h and also got some scars jiske wajah se na to volley ball khel pata hu aur na hi ek ladki ko dil ki baat keh sakta hu but there is one solution "Money". Sacchai hai saali manni padegi koi bhav nahi deta . Saala paise kamane aaye hai kya dharti par
I can't feel God anymore i was going to get baptized this sunday but idk something happend to me now i feel so far away to him cuz i did a sin twice on same time I just hate myself. I wish there was some button that can change me for better
To get something you have to give something. You can escape but you can't hide. Understand why you are alone, figure out what distanced you from everyone. When you meet few individuals who you enjoy being in company with,respect them and dont avoid them. Also dont expect overnight life time friendship and love. Magic comes in least expected moments, but 99% rest od moments is our actions.
