Ive known this song for 2 years but i am worse now even more shy and care too much of what people think and im stressfull and have no confidence so well im a mess..
Especially the music video 50 Million views like that video should at least have 1 billion (I know I'm being dramatic don't attack me but come on Mixers we can do it)
I remember this is exactly what I was, shy , and nobody knew I was talking. I was so quiet. Now I'm using my voice , and I'm not shy anymore. Maybe alittle bit but not as much
I've been bullied since 3rd grade for anything. I was bullied for my height, my light skin color, my pimples, having a broken ankle in 8th grade, having ADD, for being a Christian, for being sensitive and much more. Used to believe what they said. I deal with insecurities that refused to go away. They would come I would give myself a self pity party someone would encourage me and they go away but they come right back months later. This cycle has stopped thanks to Jesus and so many other great friends who got me through it. I want you all to know that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. And no one has the right to bully for any reason. When it comes to bullying I've been all the positions. I was the victim since third grade, I was the bystander since 4th grade, I bullied the girl for one school year in 5th grade, and I stood up for people who were being bullied. Many people stood up for me as well. In 5th grade I acted stupid because I wanted to be popular. But now as a 10th grader I know all sides of the situation. We need to stop putting others down cause they are different. If you aren't part of the solution you're part of the problem
Here’s a tip you gotta yell back or make fun of them and punch them show em whose boss or just make fun of your self that way they will leave u alone cuz the whole point is for them to make u feel bad bout your self but when they see u already make fun of urself they will leave you alon
Masoud Abedi That’s just wrong. You should never respond the same way. Be proud of who you are and learn something from the pain. Be kind and help them, because that’s what you wanted the most at the time. Help may have never come and it’s a horrible feeling to be so sad. Always try and prevent others from feeling the same way. No matter what they’ve done.
Masoud Abedi I have anger issues I can’t yell back because that’s why I get bullied they want me to yell because they find it funny that I struggle to control my anger
To everyone who has got bullied, who is alone, who got raped, who's parents tormented them, who got treaded wrong, who got cheated on, who have self insecurities listen up: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE WORTH IT. YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER. YOU ARE *NOT* THE PROBLEM. YOU ARE PERFECT THE WAY YOU ARE. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING! Just belive in yourself!!! I have been where you are and look at me, after plenty suicide tries I am still here and so can you, you can make it, I belive in you. Even if I am just a stranger on the internet, I belive in you!
...This song made me think about how shy i am... When i moved in germany and stated going to school, i met this boy who is from my land(im not from america or any other land where you speak english)he seemed nice, he was kinda helping me with the language because i couldn't talk german good at first, but one day he started kicking me hard and bulling me... I didn't tell my parents or teacher, only my friends knew about that....then i told my parents about that cause i had enough of him. They told me to tell the teache4or they will. I told the teacher next day and she told the boy not to... But he and his friends kept doing it.I didn't tell my parents or the teacher. It's been a long time now since i moved to germany, the summer break was really helpful,i didn't even see my bully fo whole summer. I have beeb listening to this song for a while. First time i cried... I kept listening to this. And now back to school time... I was confident and kicked my bully every time he did it to me, i was also being kinda rude to him. Luckly he hasn't told the teacher so im safe... This song litterally saved my butt from my bully!!! And now im confident everywhere Thanks LM💘
+Neriman Sensoy I wish I can go back & tell my younger self so many great things about me & about my future but it cant happen cause time travel doesn't exist #INeedStewieGriffinsHelp
today i saw my childhood aggressor/ the reason why i have ptsd, anxiety and depression...she chased me around. i was able to get away and didn’t have a breakdown over it. i tried to press changes and get a restraining order but unfortunately there’s not enough proof. but it’s okay, i finally fought back i was able to take myself out of a awful situation and not die over it. i know i made little me proud, it’s a little victory for us
I had a trauma as a child and also have PTSD, but since I turned 18 the restraining order expired. One of men was my grandfather so any time there's a family gathering on his property (which is also partly my uncle's) I run the risk of seeing him if I go so sometimes it comes down to being left out of a family event or risk having a panic attack from seeing him. The family does try their best to help me avoid him when I do go, but it still can be a bit hard even if I catch a glimpse of him. I guess I just wanna say that you're not alone and to keep on fighting you strong, beautiful person.
I'm 25 years old now and still when i remember my middle school years i feel a deep pain in my chest and i have this instinctive feeling of wanting to hurt my self.... Today I'm a loner by choice but back then i was a loner because i was too insecure, to afraid of what others thought of me. I always felt that everyone was way better than me..... yes, at 25 years old i still feel pain remembering my childhood but not because i still feel insecure, no! It's because i wish i knew then what i know now...it would save me from a lot of pain
This song means so much to me, I grew up listening to little mix and everytime I came home from school, upset because I was being bullied, I would listen to this song and it would give me hope. I'm still being bullied, and I still come back to this song. I wish I could meet the girls and tell them how much they helped me and how much I love them. Maybe one day I will 😊❤
Phoebe Chan Exactly. and that's so wrong. Music is supposed to be about the meaning of it , the lyrics behind it. How it makes you feel . The Connection . Not about unimportant things like in most of today's music.
i was bullied from 2nd grade to 7th. i always had meltdowns and would cry. i wouldnt even come to school because i was so fucking terrified. sometimes i thought that i was in the wrong. my parents were also having throughout the days. each day got worse. i eventually tried drowning myself in my bath at around 7th grade. then i thought. i am beautiful. i am amazing. i made good friends from there on and to this day i am SO greatful i have them; seriously, i don't know where i'd be if i didn't meet them back then.
Sad thing is I relate, when I was younger I was and still am shy, I can't speak infront of the class. I'm afraid to speak my opinion and once I do I immediately regret it cause I'm scared of what ppl think
Me too I have major anxiety problems and can’t seem to get the words out if I put my hand up sometimes I struggle to talk at all over times I’m loud and obnoxious and others I stutter ppl seem to think I’m making it up because sometimes I speak with such confindence and clarity that ppl think I’m not shy at all
That is exactly me i will have panic attacks if i have to do presentations or anything i am horrible at socializing horrible at talking and getting to know ppl and i want to sing so bad but im to shy to song for ppl so im trying to work on it and maybe post a cover wish me the best to see if i could maybe try to get a career with singing
@@mx.menacing Are you.. missing the point of the comment? They said this group sings great without autotune. There was no comment on the lack of using it..
I was being bulled a lot and one day I herd this song and the next day I put this song on and put my headphones in and I stood up for myself and as I was doing that I was listening to this song and it keep me go so thank you little mix
People can be so unkind but you need to know that they aren't right. You're beautiful! One of the hardest things to learn is how love yourself even when others don't seem to accept you. But stay strong and hang in there and don't let it get to you. You're stronger and better than how you are being treated. Remember that you're beautiful and God loves you. :)
the first time I heard this song I was amazed by the talent these girls have. honestly, other than this song, I'd only heard black magic which I liked, but didn't exactly make me a mixer. I heard little me and WOW, ever since that day I've been truly blown away by these girls because they have amazing talent and beautiful lyrics. I guess I could say I'm a mixer now :)
+Emma Paige Same. Although I know why I'm particularly self-conscious - it's because I avoid eye contact. I think everyone judges me by my eyes (like they can see into my soul), and it feels like daggers in the back of my head when I have my back turned to them.
My BFF: everyone hates me I’m ugly Me: You gotta speak up! You gotta shout out! And know that right here right now you can be beautiful,wonderful anything you wanna be!
This song got me through some serious stuff not only because the words speak to me but because it gives me a sense of empowerment.like I’m in control of my own life. It stopped me from ending it all on occasions and it gives me shivers when I do put it on. I’m so glad this song exists
When I first heard this son I started crying and repeated it and became stronger because Im always bullied and shy so I became strong and ignored the haters :3
omg, this is _soo_ me.. I mean, I'm kind of a talkative person so everyone assumes that I don't have social anxiety at all and am an Extrovert. People keep expecting me to be completely fine talking to a person that I barely know when truth is that I freak out. I only talk freely with the people that I know and trust. I constantly doubt myself.. :( I have no idea what I'd do without Little Mix.. Gonna really miss Jesy....
It's them they write their own songs. I think this one was co-written with someone else but it's still mostly them. Their songs are almost all written by them (Actually, I think Jesy made a comment about how it annoyed her that people usually assume they don't). Anyway now you know.
I was introduced to this song when i am about 8 years old, i love this song at that time but now that I'm becoming teenager who was so insecure my body this song hit different 😭❤
This song is so powerful. You only get one life so just be yourself, be proud of yourself and don't worry about anything because if you sit around and worry about what others think of you, life will go by so quick and you won't even know it because you were so worried about other people rather than caring about what you thought of yourself. Life is about creating yourself so go and do it, go and chase whatever dream is yours and have some fun along the way. You don't need to change for other people just because they don't agree with what you agree with. That's what makes us all unique. We are all beautiful in our own ways, no matter what.
I love how everyone relates to this,honestly i can't quite relate,since i was a real brat as a kid,very impulsive and arrogant,i would tell myself to respect others more and be more empathic,that she doesn't have to always argue and think she is right however i would tell her she is beautiful,wonderful and everything she doesn't see,i would tell her she is not as bad as she thinks,and tell her it's alright to be emotional
This video gave me confidence and is my favorite song thank you so much I really needed this song god bless your group have a great day and keep up the good work ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am so glad I found this song now. I just turned 16 and have been dealing with anxiety self hate and depression. This song is.......I can't explain it. I wish I could tell these girls thank you
Is it weird that my seven-year-old self already knew the meaning behind this song? This song made my "little me" think about my future self and now I'm here... 😅
I remember listening to this when I was around 13. I didn't understand all the words back then, as English isn't my first language, but I really liked it, pretended I'm singing it. I understood enough to make up a story in my mind, about a girl who travels through time to tell this all to her younger self, simply because I saw that as a cool story idea. Back then, stories and my imagination were my therapy, whole new worlds where I could escape to, from the reality that was filled with bullying and manipulation. I am 22 now and stumbled upon this song again. There's so much I know now, where some of my feelings come from, what I should have done, what I shouldn't have done, what mattered a lot and what didn't. But most of all, I know I never deserved any of that bullying, or manipulation. She, the little girl I once was, never deserved to feel like she's unlovable unless she is "normal", slim and obedient. I wish I could tell her that. But seeing how many other people were/are in a similar situation, I know I'm not alone, and therefore, none of us are. So...whoever is reading this, going through a tough time... You are a wonderful person, just as you are. You deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, by your peers and your family. You are capable of so many amazing things. You are worthy of love. Your feelings and opinions matter. You don't owe anyone anything, nor should you ever have to prove your worth to anyone. You are strong and beautiful, in and out, no matter what anyone says. You deserve to be happy. Stay safe and strong.
@rubberchannieyourtheone true that .she no 12? i though she was 14 rn her father made it official a year ago that she was 13 so i think she is 14 rn. she still doing to much tough. But hate is not gonna make it any better.
Jewel Esera i really can’t believe how ur brain made u think of that specific person while listening to the song i mean u could’ve thought of yourself first cuz u really need that lyric line too.
This song speaks true to me this is all the things I would have wanted to tell myself years ago when I was bullied terribly and I have grown so strong now that I stand tall now proud of who I am how far I have come in life and nobody can tell me otherwise.
I am a very quiet girl but I can't speak up cause I am too scared and I don't know why,but this song doesn't help because I can't speak up.shout out,be a bit louder,be a bit prouder or believe I am beautiful
+Tara Murtagh I wish I could. Maybe if you try to start and hold a conversation with a kind person you know you can grow in confidence and work up from there?
+Tara Murtagh Just have the knowledge that those people who tear you down are not worth your time, and that they have their own issues, but choose to take it out on you instead. I've been bullied and still am at times, but I know they're f'd up in their own degree too.
this song is literally me and i even listened to this song when i was like 8-9 playing a game on my laptop and i was obsessed with this song (still am) and i am sooooooo glad i found it after all that time
I needed this song in my secondary School phase,srsly now that I listen to it I wish I could turn back time and tell myself I'm beautiful, important and a very strong and determined girl. Because that's what I am ❤️
I really didn't feel this song till I reached my 20's .. uses to listen to it as a teen, just like any other song. Now, it's so meaningful to me, and I'm full of tears.
