Hi Trophies!!! 🏆 I truly enjoyed doing this first live call-in show! Please let me know in the comments if you would like to see more of these! Love you Ladies to Life! - Isis 🕊
Tianna is beautiful but very stuck in her ways. Why do you think you’re going to meet the man of your dreams in a casino? A 63 year old divorced gambler isn’t marrying anyone, join a volunteer group, a church group, travel, dance, golf, etc. Good men are in bed by 9pm.
The first girl is stubborn, she’s literally not listening. You’re telling her not to meet men in nightlife settings and she is wondering why she can’t find her match in a nightlife setting. Change where you meet men and your results will change.
Your advice was superb! I don't think the first two ladies liked it, I kind of sensed that but if you think about it, once they start dating other guys the other suitors might get it together and get them what they want. The time was not wasted ladies, I'm 41 and if I was not married I would have a roster of 7 men. 🤣
Great live, I agree that frequent casino visits spells gambling addiction and possibly other vices. Big red flag. That young lady may need some inner work, she could invest in a relationship/mindset coach, she’s putting out a “certain aura” and not realizing it. I pray she does the work and start going to some upscale galas, some financial and tech seminars. Invest in learning golf. Take herself to upscale restaurants & travel. Stay out of the casinos.
Ando keeps referring to herself as 'older' makes me so uncomfortable for her. She says it with an air of being undeserving when just being a woman is a huge blessing in this world. She is so beautiful. She doesn't realize it. And how can any woman in her right mind date any man with his rules. A little arrogance is needed here. A man comes up to me, he finna play by my rules. Women always go with a man not being ready for marriage wich translates to him not wanting marriage with you or deciding what he'll spend on you vs what you want him to spend om you etcetera. We have way more power than we think and we need to excercise it. If he thinks you'rs not worthy of your demands then he is not worthy of your time. Kindly move on to the next man. The 'Casino' woman has a lot of inner work to do and the younger woman of 25 should not waste those precious years playing foolish games. Loved this live and excited to see some more of this.🎉🎉🎉
So true. Plus I did not understand how after dating a guy for 3 weeks and him spending his resources on her, she was not comfortable with giving him a kiss.
@@librascales7717 Hes not entitled to a kiss just for spending money, especially since he spent the amount HE WANTS. I know women who made men spend the amount those women WANT, AND DIDN'T GIVE A SINGLE KISS.
I feel when you are dating for marriage, enjoy the date dont ask for things straight away. The date is for you to see what they will provide and if they dont meet your standards let them go. After serveral dates you can "ask" in feminine ways. After awhile after you just honestly and openly talk about your life. They will naturally ( if they are providers) want to give you and take care of you ( the right man will do this naturally
Just found your channel today and I'm obsessed! Thank you for all your wisdom. I never realized that investing meant something that just benefitted me, I always thought dates counted! Also, you are absolutely beautiful 😍
Tianna is NOT realistic! A 60s year old gambler is NOT someone you would want to commit to and no 60 year old gambler is going to buy you things and give you spending cash to Dubai while all he got was a kiss on the cheek! I think sometime us as women we think men are not human and we can just cash out from them! While she said she wanted to slow down she also wanted him to spend more after she reiterated that he spent a lot within a few weeks. That man is giving suga daddy and he is not going to give you cash to edify yourself but definitely wine and dine you and buy you gifts! She is also not receiving the advice and I think at 40, she should know not to meet men in the casino!
Raina is cute but she should vet her suitors a bit more- salary, careers, locations etc. bc a man’s career is really important in considering if he’s a provider. All need to get their roster up.
Thank you for your honesty!!! It was classy and honesty. Men will show you who they are believe it and walk away. Ladies don’t give it up until he proposes and signs on that dotted line. It’s really hard cause they will walk away if they’re not getting it so why aren’t you walking away! It’s hard ! But I’m sticking to it. and the excuse for wanting to get it will come in full 😂😂 “I want to see if we have chemistry”
This was a unique video. I don’t know any level up RU-vidrs making videos like this. Keep it up!! I think it will help your channel grow and in turn help lots of ladies.
1. I used to work at the casino, and meeting ppl at the casino is a hit and miss, kinda like dating apps. A lot of young women used to sell themselves at the casino. 2. Good luck to the caller.
The second woman need to become more financially stable for herself. She has mentioned several times that she is struggling. She should adjust her lifestyle to what she can afford so that way anything extra a man provides monetarily is appreciated. A man giving $500 a month for spending money is generous. A man isn’t REQUIRED to pay your overhead bills unless you two live together married or not.
I’m new to hypergamy, I’m curious, is no one concerned with a spouse so much older than you, that you many enjoy his later years with him, but he may pass way before you, then you’ll be alone 🧐
Hey babe! So what if you’d met a man that met all of your requirements as a provider but who smokes weed everyday still at age 50?!? That’s my current dilemma. He’s doing the most out of all my suitors but I’m stuck on the smoking thing because I said it was a nonnegotiable 😩
@@missede96 Yes! He gets high everyday and works from home so he’s already high when I FaceTime him at 7am on a Tuesday 🤦🏾♀️ I have no issue with a moderate smoker. All things in moderation. He has a functioning addiction and I’m torn because of how well he treats me.
@@Loveprevails1111You should communicate that with him. Tell him that you like him but can’t handle his substance use. It sounds like he’s self medicating because smoking everyday at that age is a sign of something else.
That’s a no! Keep him on the roster until you get a proposal from another man. A man with an addiction is not someone you want to be with for the rest of your life. If you don’t care about marriage stay with him but have others on the roster. I would not tie the knot with him though.
The Second Lady is 40 years old meaning she’s not in her prime years. She needs to wake up and realize youth and beauty is what she’s competing against. Lowering her standards will help her find something realistic because she’s at her expiration date
She’s in her prime and since she already has a child she doesn’t need to rely on a man. The reason for having a man is for them to improve our lives. If they can’t do that then they need to move out of the way. She actually can do better than the man she’s dealing with. She owes it to herself she sounds like a deserving woman.
