I feel you I got teased so bad when King’s of Comedy came out 😂😡😂 But when I get mad I don’t stutter as much and you mess with me I will bite back though. I definitely related whole heartIy to what you saying. I still struggle mentally when other people have a problem with my speech. I refuse to pretend that I don’t stutter to make people that I don’t even know and don’t me comfortable. I have a speech impediment and always will have one. I have bad days and good days but I keep going. Very helpful video on the bad days when I doubt myself. It good to hear from someone who gets it ❤️ But blessings to you on this journey
I have a good friend who stutters worse than anyone I have ever heard before. He displays the confidence to approach and talk to anyone anywhere and it doesnt seem to hold him back. However, I'm sure he is a minority. Thank you for putting yourself out there and trying to help others!
Hi Mohamed, I feel your struggle brother....im not sure that i'm qualified to give you advice about this but I can share my experiences that helped me deal with my stutter. Speech therapy never worked for me although I must admit that I only tried it for about 2 months and got bored of the exercises. let me ask you, what are you doing to overcome your stutter? are you doing like many stutters and trying to avoid being in an embarrassing situation...like avoiding speaking in public settings? Thats what I used to do and then I just got tired of hiding it so on my bad days I just come out right at the start of a conversation with someone and tell them that I stutter so if i make a weird face to try to get a word out i tell them not to get awkward about it, in fact i encourage them to laugh coz I find it funny sometimes too. I tend to speak much fluently when the monkey is out the bag and im not trying to hide it and when i do get stuck on a word i say some funny comment like "see i told you" and we both smile about it and im usually able to overcome the block because of the filler words. Because im not so anxious about hiding the stutter it releases my tension and im able to speak fluently. The other thing i did that has helped me is that I constantly put myself in places that I have to speak to an audience and before i speak I make sure to prepare and think about what im going to say as i find that the more prepared I am to speak to more comfortable I become. Like anything, practice will make you better so the constant speaking to an audience has made me much more comfortable and less likely to stutter. Hope this helps and please feel free to reach out to me anytime of you ever need a pep talk or some advice while working to overcome this and become the awesome person you are douggirma@gmail.com
Loved this video, Been stuttering my whole life. My slap in the face was at age 17 when I went to serve our country and was disqualified due to a stutter. I've let it hold me back and have always thought I was just dealt a shitty hand. Time for a change I'm looking to get into sells myself.
T Sistare You can do it!!! Go for it and crush it!!! What works well for me before every sales presentation is that I tell the prospect that I have a stutter and I may get stuck on a word or two during the presentation. This simple strategy eliminates the elephant in the room and I'm no longer trying to conceal my stutter so I find that I stutter less and even when I do stutter there is no awkward pause cause they already know and I crack a joke like "see I told you" and we laugh together and I continue. Congrats on freeing yourself, I wish you the best!!!! anytime you need any advice or just a pep talk please email me at douggirma@gmail.com
There are varying degrees of a stutter, but this day was one of my good days. I’m def not on the severe side of the spectrum but my stutter is noticeable on an average day. I also tend to to stutter less or more depending on the situation and for some reason I don’t stutter much in front of a camera
I feel you man, the fear is always there. I've been stuttering for years & theres no sign it will stop anytime soon. Thanks for sharing your story. Liked & Sub
I saw your vid too, you have a great attitude about it so you'll be just fine. Personally I have found that the more honest I am with it, the more fluent I am. It's when I'm trying to be super incognito in trying to disguise it that i trip and fall. Cheers bro. I subbed back
Its so weird to me cuz everybody says they been stuttering since they could talk, but I started at 10 years old. I've always wondered will I ever get a job, will I ever get married one day? So can You plzz talk about stuttering and relationships, btw thx for doing this video, I really needed this.
Fathia Maani you will do all those things and your stuttering will not stop you. If anything it will help you find someone that cares about the person you are so see it like a tool to avoid superficial people. A person that truly loves you will wait for you to get the words out and won’t judge you for it. You will also get a job, if you don’t find one, create it. As rough as some days are, I can truly say that my stutter has been a blessing once I changed my mindset towards it. Bless you and reach out to me if you care to discuss this further
@@JetsetChronicles Thank you so much for responding, means a lot to me. There are just days where I feel so hopeless, and worthless, I ask myself why am I even here. But its people like you who keep me going, and me make realize that I am worth full, and that no matter what people think or say about my stutter, I am in control of my life. So thank you, I really look forward to watching more of your videos.
