Living with A Puppy for a WEEK! 

thanks for stopping by ily 💜 ps: soup recipe will be up tomorrow, I forgot to edit!

He's your friend now. So you're helping him. It shows how well your former relationship has evolved. You're helping him because you care about your friends.

I think if helping is something you want to do, then you should, I don't think it will be detrimental to your growth as an individual because you said it yourself, you are in a good place. Sure later on down the line when either one of you move on the dynamic of your friendship may change as it should respectfully, but now you be who you are. You are amazing .

You've been always a very caring person, and does not matter if you are helping Joey, that only means that you care for your friends and you always go beyond when you are doing something for someone. For us, who are Joey fans since his begginings, we want to thank you for taking care of him. ❤

Everyone feels things differently. You are a caring person. He doesn’t have family close by and maybe feels that he trusts you the most. I would reach out for help and probably would never have the thought to just post mates for help when I’m not feeling good. You are amazing Daniel and I don’t think you are less for helping. ❤

Daniel explaining the importance of toys to develop puppy brains and saying that's how he raised Monty. Also Daniel (to Monty): ''Not a thought going through your brain, huh'' 🤣 Good thing she had those toys to develop her brain! 🤣

I think you and Joey are just not the stereotypical “divorced” couple which makes your situation unique. I think as long as both of you are on the same page with things and you are comfortable and happy with where things are then I think it sweet you both can still be there for each other. I just hope he is the same for you and doesn’t take advantage of you. You are so sweet and amazing ❤

And gurl, you are NOT less-than. Fuck the haters. You are just as worthy and valuable as anyone, and maybe even a bit more fierce 😉 And you being open to starting your own channel after being thrust into this life because of your relationship with Joey, and then reimagining what your channel content was going to be now that you’re on your own, that shows growth and courage and confidence and ambition and I’ll always be here for it! 👏👏👏♥️ Also, it’s a fine line between being a supportive friend and over extending yourself thereby putting yourself second for someone else. There is nothing wrong with having this close friendship with Joey now. But just be sure you’re not stepping over that edge when you are being supportive of others. Check in with yourself often to make sure you’re doing this for the right reasons, and do say no from time to time to protect your own peace. Be you and be fabulous 🥰♥️😘

From what I have understood watching you and Joey for a while now, it is clear that this isn’t a typical post-breakup relationship. You definitely still have a lot of love for each other and that manifests itself in different ways. If it feels right for you, there nothing wrong about keeping the relationship that way. You know you will always have each other, and that’s something really special.

If we all were and had a friend like Daniel, this world would be a better place.

I 100% felt you on always helping other people when you never ask for help yourself. Even though I always help other people, I never ask for help myself because I don't want to bother them. Love you Daniel!

I feel like you talking it through and asking these questions is what’s going to help you come to your own answer. And that’ll be what’s best for you ❤

Hi daniel! I love how you take care of the dogs on behalf of joey. I really love your personality! I’m a fan! Quick question, is sakura still there?

Wolfie is such a mood in the backseat while you’re singing 😂🥰 You’re an amazing Dog Dad taking care of your babies ❤️

What I don't think a lot of people realize is, in my opinion, the reason he was able to have the success that he did, was because you were behind the scenes, so to speak, taking care of all the other things. Most people can not have that kind of success without help, and if in a relationship, supportive partners. Also, I relate to you so much talking about how to handle things after a breakup, and being the one they always go to. My rule of thumb is, if both people are giving to the "new" relationship, but maybe just in different types of ways, and it is fulfilling to both people, go with it. If the bond can survive a breakup and become a really good friendship, why throw that away, if that brings joy and fulfillment to you.

In my considerable experience, most professionals don’t encourage “being friends” after breakups. FOR SURE, people need to embark on their new life and heal SEPARATELY. It’s a myth that you can heal WITH the same person you are healing FROM! The tricky part is if you have children and must maintain a civilized relationship for them. But very few people are truly okay with being intimately connected to an ex. That’s because you CANNOT KNOW what is really going on with them in their minds and much of the time we don’t know what’s going on with ourselves. Watching somebody moving on, maybe dating or finding a new partner can trigger you unnecessarily or trigger them. I have known people who actually chose new partners/dates unconsciously because they were making a point to the ex or to themselves!! I don’t know you, Daniel, but from what I see that you show, it seems like you are seeking health, want a good relationship, and are actually awesome. Joey is our darling boy, but he seems very codependent and needy probably without intending to manipulate you and keep you ‘handy’ in case he needs attention or help. I wonder if the dog custody thing is surreptitiously a ruse for you both. You are (IMO) administrative, nurturing, project-oriented, goal-driven, super creative (and talented/skilled at it), sincere, passionate, generous, generally caring, and you have an albatross. Your ex might not heal himself when he can emotionally access you for everything he always got from you. He’s getting the milk for free, as they say and I’m not referring to sex. Ultimately, the emotional/security/attention/easy comfort level/communication/shared memories are the good parts of an ex relationship. He still gets all that. Plus soup when he’s sick. You asked. Only you knows what is really going on. But it is true that good therapists do not usually encourage staying close with exes. Even parents sometimes are given skills to communicate about the kids through a third party or with some tools employed that keep intimacy out of it while they heal and build new lives. 🤎

We love a new Daniel video with doggies!!! sending you love.

In regards to your relationship I think if you both are in a good place and it’s not causing pain to either of you, being there for someone you care about is always the right choice. Everyone’s relationship is different and even though you aren’t together it’s obvious you still respect each other and want the best for one another. From the outside it looks like you have a healthy relationship dealing with the dogs and everything. If you guys can be in more a zone of we are friends with shared custody of dogs I don’t see any bad in that.

Firstly Derry Girls is the best!! In regards to helping Joey when he is sick, i think you are both in the position to help eachother and let a friendship blossom. He helped you with Monty's pregnancy and puppies and I am sure similar thoughts crossed his mind as well

Hi Daniel! I rarely comment but I feel called to share my thoughts with you. You remind me a little bit of myself. I just turned 40 and I spent most of my adulthood overextending myself for others but finding myself alone when I was the one in need. Sometimes because I always told myself that I could handle it on my own and most of the time because I was made to feel like I "owed" people something in return for their time and effort. I think you alone will know when the time has come to start keeping your distance from people in your life when it either no longer enriches or it's taking away from yours. If and when that time comes, you'll feel good about what you've done and can happily move forward to bigger and better things. At my age I had to learn the hard way and have had to end friendships and relationships quite a few times before I realized, sadly that I was overextending myself and enabling others not only because I want to help (which I genuinely do) but because it was far easier for me to help with their issues and needs than to face my own. You seem to be on the right path from what you've mentioned in this vlog. Keep up the amazing work you continue to do for yourself and others. ♥

you have a great view on not letting yourself react the wrong way to comments I love that and your so right

Not you calling our silver dollar euc as tacky and then Laura having it hahaha

I think the boundary is simply what you feel comfortable with. Sometimes we have bonds with our exes, and it just is what it is. When you no longer feel comfortable with your dynamic, then that's when you're done❤

You're a great dog Dad, I love this! I really hope you keep Wolf full time. Uncle Wolfie has earned peace for his golden years lol. Great vid, again!

Daniel, you are so talented! The flower arrangements looked beautiful :) Thanks for the pup tips; I have 3 pugs this week and it’s going to be quite the adventure!

Ahhh I absolutely love that you are watching Derry girls, I’m from Derry myself and find it so funny cause it describes us so well!

You always have to do what’s right for you first but I think it all depends if the other person would be there for you if you asked the same way you’re there for them!

I see it as you and Joey both are family for life. And families help each other. Also totally okay to set boundaries. You don’t have to do everything. It’s absolutely okay to help though. PS love the vlogs and husky/retriever pack!!❤️

I for sure, feel like boundaries are important. I was in a similar situation, and he ended up sneaking back in. Then I felt guilty to leave but you should do what you feel is right because all situations are different you for sure should do what feels good

Don't change. You and Joey are both amazing and are lucky that you can still get along that you do.

It’s good to see you Daniel! I had so much fun watching your dog dad series. Hunter is so big now!

You are a wonderful human being. That is all we should be to one another. No matter if your were in a relationship. I stay as a great friend to my ex's. You are a great friend. That is all and this is it; say no more; think no more. Wonderful is the essence of what humanity should all be to ONE ANOTHER!!!!

Youve known each other forever and youre being a good friend. Relationships whether romantic or not are complicated, and you have every right to be good to those around you so long as youre prioritising your health first and foremost

Hi Daniel, do you also watch Sakura when there?

Wolfs look like so mad that hes not getting more food

Omg Derry Girls is such a good show

If you are comfortable still doing things for your ex and it doesn't feel like it's going to be damaging to your mental health or make your friendship too invasive then do what is natural for you. There is nothing wrong with being helpful and kind as it's in your nature to do so. I did things for my ex for a long time after we split because he asked me (because he was clueless on how to do anything for himself) and I didn't mind being helpful. However, I did over time pull back and tell him I wouldn't always be around when he needed me (because I had a life too) so he would have to figure things out. If you feel like it's too much, it's ok to say no. Not everyone is willing to help an ex purely because they are an ex and they want nothing to do with them once that relationship is over. That works fine for those people but not everyone is like that. I think that it's great that you two stayed friends and can help each other with the dogs when you are busy. They are essentially your kids and you want to leave them with people you trust. Do what works for you and if you feel it's too much then just say no, I can't I'm too busy right now. The people closest to you who care about you will understand. ps Amazing job helping with Laura's party. The flower arrangements came out stunning and the shark cootchie board looked delish.

It's wonderful to see all of the pups! I always enjoy seeing them in the vlogs, and you are great with them. Hunter has grown so much and looks like a clone of Monty. They're so cute together. I love how you take interest in a variety of home projects and cooking, as well as dog training. Your arrangements are beautiful! I'm very impressed with how creative and multi-talented you are. Btw, thanks for the links to the wobble ball and crate and also the soup recipe...yum! Take care and enjoy your week! 🌻❤😊

I think if you both can put your relationship in the past and become good friends. You might just need to sit down and put boundaries in place with each other. I think you are both good friends its nice to see.

I think you are just a super sweet kind soul Daniel and I think that’s such a lovely quality to have, it doesn’t matter if it’s Joey or someone else I think it’s just being a caring person. X

Do you send your dogs away for training OR go daily?

I love how different your personality is from mine. It seems like with every video I learn something new or start pondering about ideas that don't usually cross my mind. Really appreciate that

Hi Daniel, you're being a great friend. I think you're doing the right thing by helping Joey. I'm home by myself with strep, and I wish I had a friend to come and cook me some soup. When I was in urgent care, I tested positive for strep, but he said there is also a strain of covid going around with a bad sore throat and a headache. I hope Joey feels better, and thank you for helping him when he is sick. I was actually crying in the doctor's offce, first, it cost $100. to see the doctor, and I have insurance, and it was never that expensive. Then the lady at the desk kept calling me Miss Sarah which annoyed me. The nurse was super kind when she did the strep test, she was so nice. So was the doctor. I didn't get the zpack, I got a stronger antbiotic that is harder on your stomach, so I have just been resting eating crackers, ice pops, and the probiotic smoothies. I think I will make some tea. Keep on being the great man you are! Love ya! (That soup probably came delicious, it looked soooo good!!)

Joey needs someone to take care of him. 😊

I have been here from the beginning, and I will say I’m surprised how well you have adapted due to circumstances and feelings. I think as long as you both feel like you are growing your friendship and not a dependency it’s healthy, especially with the dogs. Although I would say make sure you keep your boundaries and take care of you first, because you can’t take care of Joey forever. As much as I love you both, and I know sometimes it’s hard but typically the harder path gives the most reward. I personally support you in whatever is best for you 💕💕💕💕 proud of your growth Danny

The fact that you mentioned the dog situation being different once someone is in a relationship speaks volumes....

LOTS Of love Daniel!! 🥰 I've been loving the Doggo Vids!! Haha ♥️😁♥️

Maybe Joey should have a dog walker come each day so Wolfie keeps up on his walking manners just so theirs some routine

Imagine forgetting your grangpups name smh LOL❤

IMO, seeing you are in such a good positive place and it makes you feel better being kind and helpful I would help him. Yet, I do like the fact that you are choosing to slowly distance yourself, especially seeing you are dating again. Honestly Joey needs to prepare better for days when he maybe sick, have soup and crackers on hand/be and adult. No shame to Joey, I love him! If he only depends upon you, this will cause issues when you try to move fwd romantically with someone else. Sorry so late with my comment. XO

I think its good to help people regardless of the history you have with them, what you and joey have even as a friendship now is so deep and meaningful its inspiring! Watching you and joey raise montys litter has made me feel ready to get a golden retriever so thank you! The puppy tips were so helpful ill definitely be getting that dog wobble bobble! when i get her!

The Best way...woody said...u have a friend in me

Have you watched 'My Policeman' yet? Good movie but sad.

Here in Sweden dogs not have crate.

I don't know about anyone else but I would be tempted to snoop if I had to stay at my ex's house for a week. hahaha

I’m the type person to end all contact, period. My loyalty is to my husband and don’t want him to have worries or fears about an ex.

Your love language is act of service. I’ve always admired you and Joey’s post-relationship. I think it’s sweet that you two can still be there for one another and keep a healthy distance while being true to yourselves. Everyone is different and I know I would cut people out of my life because I was so hurt by their lack of respect. Break ups are hard, but it’s your act of service that shines through as your way of showing love and care to your friends and family. Keep doing you!

Jaaaaaaaaaaaaded

Why is Moon still territorial even though he went to puppy training? He definitely has a strong personality and it's interesting to see how he reacts to the other dogs even though he has known them for years.

What about Sakura?😻?

OMG I love Derry Girls!!! Another show I got to watch is The Comeback with Lisa Kudrow.

I think you getting so defensive about all the hate proves their point. If what they say isn't true, you wouldn't get so offended by it.

I wish I had such an amazing friend that would do all that for me!! You are so sweet. I’m the same way with being independent my whole life I never want to ask for help but I’m learning maybe it is okay once in awhile :) you are truly talented and have an eye for all things aesthetic. Hope you continue to thrive

It’s amazing how you guys keep that relationship for the dogs! Some people don’t even do that with their kids…

I love this type of videos, was Sakura also at the house? 💜

Daniel comes off as such a lovely person. Now I know neither him nor Joey as an outsider but as an observer some things about their situation feels disquieting to me. Joey comes off as like a kid, innocent but thoughtless. I know Daniel was asking in the video - would we help out exes - but here be the thing - if I were in Joey's place, I would not have asked for Daniel's help unless it was a life or death situation. Not only is preparing to take of ourselves should we fall sick a part of adulting but a part of being an emotionally responsible human being is - knowing when not to take advantage of someone else. Whether or not Joey is aware of it, that is what his actions come off as. Many of us got the impression Daniel invested in the relationship more than Joey and the power imbalance seemed off even when they were together. In Joey's place, I couldn't ask someone to take care of me knowing I do not and will not reciprocate their feelings for me, I am aware of the pain, confusion and resentmrnt it might cause (and sadly a lot of the times I've felt like Daniel had unresolved feelings about their relationship while Joey seemed super carefree). Yes we can take care of a friend. But Daniel isn't exactly a friend. I understand theyll always be family in a way (what with Maria still being in Joey's life) and they must be so grateful to be able swap dogs at a safe space when they leave for work. But I hope Daniel sets boundaries, keeps maintaining them - it is vital. Otherwise as others have said, it will likely hamper his future chances of happiness. I dont know if Daniel will read this but i hope he knows that the choice to grow on his own in the last few years has been fantastic, i love seeing his glow up.

Daniel, as if Joey doesn't see these videos and knows when you "badmouth" him, if he felt offended he wouldn't keep you in his circle. None of our business really. Meanwhile I just want you to capture some footage where you have fun with Moon cause you badmouth HIM all the time (joking). As for exes, I don't think the mainstream idea of having to hate your exes is healthy and when you've broken up with someone, it's normal that you'll always care for them in one way or another. My parents have been broken up for 20 years now but my dad is not just some dude to my mother, not even just "my children's dad", he's still someone she spent part of her life with. It's normal to care if he did nothing for you to hate him. Now if you're not done healing it's fine to take a distance too, listen to yourself..

I was married for 14 years to my best friend, he fled to half way across the US from where we resided to spare himself from getting in trouble with the cops. He’s been trying to come back into my life after being divorced for 7 years and I have told him he will always be someone I care about and want the best for but as someone who had trauma therapy and still see a therapist over this traumatic experience, I’ve been advised to find boundaries that make me feel comfortable. For me, not responding right away, not always saying yes when he asks for help, but remembering to try to be my best version of myself has helped me with my boundaries with him. I will always remain kind but I won’t be his yes girl anymore.

Sorry if you’ve already answered but what happened to lark ? I haven’t seen or heard anything about her in ages

Any day is a great day to NOT have Starbuck’s…..until they stop union busting. .

Just keep being you Daniel

Where is the cat ?

I don't think there is anything wrong with you two being in each others lives or helping/taking care of each other - you were together for so long and you were best friends & that doesn't have to change just because you're not together nor should it!! - Once one of you get into a relationship with someone else & your or his partner isn't comfortable with the relationship you two still have then & only then should you discuss changing things - until then if it makes you happy to go over there & make him soup when he's not feeling well then that is all that matters!! Listen to YOU & nobody else!!

Derry Girls is one of my favorite shows ever❤

My thoughts: For context, watching your videos over the years I feel that you and I are very similar personalities and very independent. I would drop everything to help out another human no matter who they are. I know you are the same. At the end of the day, I don't think you are ever going to feel bad about helping someone you care about. Do I think you are obligated to do so? Absolutely not. If you are in a head space where it is not hurting you to help out, then do it. It doesn't matter if the person deserves it, would return the favor, etc. You just be who you are. Check in with yourself on a case by case basis. Also, set boundaries for yourself. I feel like I'm right to assume you go above and beyond. For example, you can drop by with some meds, let the dogs out, feed them and leave. You don't have to go grocery shopping, straighten the house, make food, and all the other wonderful things I'm sure you do. Not if it's hurting you.

Wish I had a friend like you

Every floral arrangement you’ve done is so beautiful! I get stoked when you say your decorating or doing arrangements for a party because they are amazing every time. All the dogs are adorable and you can tell how much love and care they get. As far as exes go. You have to do what you are comfortable with for yourself. If you’re kinda hesitant about something then take that step back. Eventually the steps back will be enough to get to that place you need to be in. It took me 6 years with my ex that we shared a dog with to get to that place were we are now just acquaintances with. Love and light to you.

Why are they sharing Wolf again?

You are a sweetheart Daniel. ❤ Put yourself first though.

Do what makes you comfortable

I think it is awesome that you have such a big heart! I’m glad you two can still be in each others lives in a healthy way. You are being a good friend.

Being kind is always positive. ❤

I've probably already told you a hundred times, but you have THE prettiest lips. I'm jealous.

Lol all the pups are soooo cute You’re such a caring dog daddy 💜

Hunter will definitely pick up habits from the other dogs! I don’t think it’s fair to the dogs to keep moving them, like Monty, she should be with you, poor dogs are confused!

does anyone know the song at the very beginning that's playing on the radio

Daniel ! You are such an amazing soul . I just adore you !!!

I understand you are a giving and sweet person. Honestly I admire that. I’m not that close to my friends we don’t talk everyday or see each other often. Also, once I’m done seeing someone, that’s it. I don’t keep my exes as friends. I’ve tried that with a couple of them but I just get annoyed tbh. I’m always the one who loses at the end because I’m usually the one who cares too much just like you. So once I’m done I’m done because people also take advantage of me. I try to keep my distance from pretty much everyone. It’s hard to say no at times but I have learned to in the past couple of years. Animals are my weakness though. The fact that you both have animal custody is hard. But we’re all different, if you don’t feel taken advantage of and you love helping without them returning the favor then do it. Don’t change. Just take care of yourself first 😊

Weird feeling this way about my adult kids..I have to work at stoping to jump to help fix or solve their issues make them happy Im trying to step back

My dog never had puzzle and things but he’s trained 💀

What was the name of the show he was watching? 6:56

Great job on the flower arrangements & the soups looked very healthy & delicious. I say keep putting the love, care & true kindness out to your family, friends (& yes, exes) & your happy pups. They & all of us are so much better for it. You have a good circle around you & we reap what we sow. Keep sowing all those wonderful seeds, so to speak, since it is a part of who you are. You’ll know when you need to slow down or it doesn’t feel right for that time! Much love & care back to you.

Regarding boundaries, literally just do what makes you feel comfortable. As an outsider looking in I don’t think Joey has as strong a support system in LA as you but obviously I don’t know. I do think you and Joey have a very complex relationship that none of us will totally understand, but just try your best to think of yourself in the situation and what is best for you. I’ve been in a scarily similar situation recently and I just had to make my boundaries clear as i was starting to get confused in my own feelings. Much love ❤️

Hunter is getting so big she’s beautiful! You guys are great friends!

Daniel, do you take care of Sakura as well when Joey’s gone? I miss seeing her❤

I feel like u can definitely help ! If ur at a good place in your emotions with it not being a relationship and so is he then why not ..u can still be friends and stil help.eachother !!

At the beginning....Wolf's face when you talked about all the dogs who will be in the house together lol

In regards to being there for Joey, I think what you're doing is out of kindness and a true love for your friend. With that said, stepping back and allowing space for growth for both of you is the smart way to go. Its hard to let go. The dogs are a great way to keep the feeling of being together alive. You are, in my opinion making yourself too available both emotionally and physically(by being there when he needs help) for Joey. Its a hard thing to unravel a life you've built with someone after being together for so long, but i've been there. Creating boundaries and moving on is a slow process. I don't think what you guys are doing is wrong, its just part of the process of moving on. You both will eventually move on, but you'll get to that point when your both ready and from what I can sense from your side of things, you're a lot closer to doing so than Joey. And again, I only speak from my own experience with being with my ex partner for 5 years and slowly dissolving the relationship we had. It's hard, but at some point you'll both let go but the rewards of doing so are tremendous,

We, as humans, are always learning and evolving. Ur so very sweet to Joey. Hes a lucky guy❤

There are people who are obsessed with the idea of you and your ex still being a thing..so they throw negativity to you, in order to explain away fault on his side (relationships ending are seldom a one sided thing). These certain ppl mostly started as his viewers and they cannot let that go either. As far as the boundaries...I feel that when you find yourself doing the same things you used to do, that made you unhappy and feel stuck, and feel slightly used and losing yourself again, its time to step back. Otherwise it's just you being in the same relationship you already left, but without the perks of sharing a bed. It is detrimental because you can't move on fully if you always feel that obligation and drop it all, for someone else. 2023 is the year of self love and self care..and that starts with boundaries.(He needs to learn self love too..then he will feel more capable of stepping up to solve things himself and feel more satisfied and accomplished in his own self love too) Its ok to love someone with boundaries. ❤❤