i have been abusive to my ex something like i have seen a young lady commented. i am truly sorry on behalf of men. i dont know how long i have been abusive for but the relationship lasted 6 years.. i have ignored her cries for me to see what she have been trying to show me and i have listened to some wrong advice. i was putting all the blame on her and was blind to the damage i was causing her and the children. i left her hurting and was refusing to accept responsibility for my ignorance. now i am deeply hurting because my eyes have been opened up to the damages i have been causing all this time. honestly she is the best thing that ever happened to me but i failed to realize until it is now too late.. so i have an idea of how that young lady may feel and the damage that may have been caused to her. now i am pleading with all men to please let us treat women the way they deserve to be treated. let us love them unconditionally and appreciate their every effort because what ever a woman does for a man she loves is sincerely genuine. let us make a difference and let us start now.
The accountability you took. ❤️. A lot of men listen to wrong advices and end up being toxic to their partners. I wish all men out there who are doing the same could realise how much damage they cause to their partners in the name of" being in a relationship "
I had a hard time getting out of a emotional abusive relationship that lasted for 15 yearsi ended up have 2 kids out of the relationship n a engagement that ended in marriage 😢I heard this song it spoke volumes to me I am more than enough n I will get my happy ending I gotta put myself back together again
Its that heartbreaking moment of clarity when you realise you have no other choice but to leave because staying hurts way more than leaving. To all those who are healing and found the courage and strength to leave places and people who failed to value and protect them, those who got out of the chaos of an untenable love that took value away instead of bringing value, those who endured abuse at the hands of someome you lovingly and bravely kept chosing... theres a future version of you thats proud you were strong enough ❤️ Sadly, they live in regret and more pain than you'd think...and they will never again find an enduring and true love as what you open-heartedly and consistently offered. But you will. Dont let losing someone who kept your heart bent make you lose faith in love and its beauty. If anything, let your journey be proof of your capacity to love and how real love is. Someone will love you better than youve ever imagined. Someone will choose you day in and day out and never lose sight of your worth. You were just in training. As you heal, let the resentments go and forgive yourself for the compromises you made against your own best interests...the haunting "why did i let that happen" or "why did i stay so long" You were brave in love. Not stupid. You were Brave. And even more brave to leave and go through a difficult process of healing. The ligjt exists only because the darkness does, embrace the pain amd confusion of it all. You're going to be shocked how much more you are when you come out the other side and all youll feel is gratitude to have gone through what you faced because now youre so much stronger, wiser and so much more beautiful. And hopefully youve learned to love yourself better and to love yourself first. ❤
I normally end up crying when I'm listening to this song because somehow he is singing about everything that endured in my marriage that nearly left me damaged beyond repair...thank God that I finally gathered strength to walk away even though I can't date again because of fear of pain and disappointment
Give yourself time to heal...u will find someone who truly loves you. When love comes knocking u will forget all the fear and pain. Hang in there...we gave all been there
Don't allow someone to steal your ability to love and be loved. The devil wins. Bc i guarantee that he sent the one that hurt you. Allow Yahuah to heal you. It's OK to open your heart again for true love, but let HIM show you how to love appropriately and healthily. Shalom. 🙏🏼
Is it because I cry too often That you don't believe me when I say I'm hurtin' Is it because you think I forgave you I'm just pretending 'cause I'm hoping I will get through this I might be mad in love with you Even hide all the pain that I've been through But I'm still hurtin', holdin' on to the fear of losin' you I'm takin' ma heart, it's all I have I'm more than you know To love myself It's been hard to accept that seasons change and feelings fade So all I ask, don't call me Is it because I don't love my body That you make me feel like you're the only one that loves me Is because you're my mother's favorite Though when I don't text you back you call at again me I might be mad in love with you, even hide all the pain in front of you But I'm still hurtin' holdin' on to the fear of losin' you I'm taking ma heart It's all I have I'm more than you love To love myself It's been hard to accept that seasons change and feelings fade So all I ask, don't call me I'm taking ma heart It's all I have I'm more than you love To love myself It's been hard to accept that seasons change and feelings fade 'Cause all I ask, don't call me All I have, don't call me
This touched my heart because my husband walked away from the marriage an it was so heart breaking . I have moved on with my life but some pain is still there. It’s crazy I genuinely loved him .I get emotional when I talk about it . He just upped an left. This song brought tears in my eyes I’m praying that God continue to heal me from this because I don’t like this feeling. I always ask myself how can a man move on so quickly. God bless you all
This song took me back we're I come from it was not easy to be involved with someone who actually didn't see a need of being with you but I've made it abuse is not a joke is really especially if they're kids involved
@PhindileHlophe-yf2kx I think its the lack of love 4 SELF that makes us depend & expect the love we so rightfully deserve from EXTERNAL sources via Spouse or companion. Once you consistently do your best & commit to infinite state of GROWTH, you've done more than enough. Let the overzealous go find BETTER if they think you're not enough. To many persons lose the objectivity to recognize that every beautiful sculpture started out as a shapeless non artistic mass at some point. Keep your head up but learn to speak a language that cant be comprehended by the UNWORTHY & THE UNGRATEFUL. 😉👌✌️🖤
The feeling of being back here and listening to this song but with a different energy , different sense of self worth is just beautiful , it feels beautiful! I've grown so much and dang I found myself after him . I'm vibing with a huge GRIN !!!
Heard part of this song in a TikTok and searched. So much emotion I keep coming back. Did any of you hear him sigh? "I'm taking my heart, it's all I have, I'm more than enough"
Why is he not more famous?! I only found him by chance and fell in love with his voice. I'm a hermit so I found him a few months back and thought that I missed out on a star. It's alright, please know that you are reaching our hearts.
I know right. Because we Africans don’t know better. Best voice too. I think I noticed that in Africa most people that sings in English with no African accent they don’t put you on the top like that.
He was a contestant on SA Idols,still at school,thats where i started following him.The thing of idols,at the last stage,its not talent,but the amount of votes.Unfortunately Mzansi didnt vote for him
I don’t know if your gonna see but this man understand every pain inside each and everyone one of us his voice tells a painful story inside , that people are struggling, everytime l listen to his music I wanna cry God bless you and for all those struggling out there you might not share but l hope whatever making you uncomfortable l hope you find inner peace in yourself
As a man that has gone through this exact type of pain, having to take my heart back after investing every fiber of my being into a woman who I thought reciprocated it in full, to find out through guilty behavior that she was secretly seeing someone else completely ripped my heart out of my chest and I had to walk away and save my heart. That was in 2019. Then I hear this song. I can feel that pain I had in THIS song and since the first time I’ve heard it, I can’t ever get through this entire song without tears because that pain runs deep in my soul and although many years have passed, this song always touches me in the deepest depths of my soul. Man… (sighs, reflecting…) This song hits different…
Song definitely is deep I can definitely relate had to let my ex leave out of my life regardless of how I felt no matter what I did different I can't be what she needed because I could never be enough for her but I am enough for me.... So couple days ago started the healing process.
I loved him so much. Yet, the harshness and anger he showed makes me unable to stay. This is how I feel. My heart is all I have left. I’ll miss his forever ❤
I always thought I'd walk down the aisle with this song but it seems that ship has sailed. Can I atleast get a drive on an open road and see the sun rise... somewhere beautiful.😢 Your voice boy, gets me to a place where I thought I won't return. ❤
GOD has blessed this man with an absolute gift, he sings with such a passion that literally stirs your soul. I would love to work with Lloyiso, and I am positive that he will get the world wide attention that he deserves.
Lloyiso bafwetu🥺❤️🫂I’ve never seen a singer that can match his talent in South Africa 🇿🇦 this is pure talent... he should be given the spotlight he needs... by the way he looks like kidtini
This song has been on repeat everyday. God i just want to thank you for getting me out of my abusive relationship. A lot of people in these comments have been in similar situations as me and god i pray that you heal each and one of us, that you pour love in to us. That you guide us to people who follow you and want to know more about you. I can’t do this without you god, none of us can.
I’m late to this What a wonderful song When i read the lyrics, instant tears. I wish I could love myself more. I wish I can be selfish. I wish I could take the risk. I wish I could just run away. I hate this pain, been suffering for years 😭
Every time i feel hurt.....i seem to find myself listening to you bro. I am currently hurt.....i am going through a lot and it feels like....i failed but i know i didn`t. It`s just that i love too much and that gets the best out of me and i break down. But you music keeps me goin even hard.
Lioyiso just sang my truth been hurting all this while, this makes me cry cause despite it all I only have my heart and I will be sure to get up from the ground keep walking.
Michael Jackson and his brothers once asked the question in song, "Can You Feel It?" Now I can answer their question right here. YES! Beautiful. Absolutely Beautiful!
BRAVO, my ears went skating on clouds with this. That sound made me forget about gravity for a cool four minutes and fourteen seconds. I wouldn't need to count sheep to fall asleep if my pillow was to be made out of this sound. That pillow would make honey out of my nightmares. BRAVO mon frere!
I’m just finding out about this song through shorts, it’s been on repeat since 🔂 “I’m just pretending, cus I’m hoping we’ll get through this… I might be mad in love with you!” Hit me too my core!!!
Just know your worth and know you deserve all the love this world has to give. Whether it be from the person you are with or someone down the line. Don’t give up on living for yourself and having hope in the future with or without them. You’ll do just fine. It may not seem it right now as times may be confusing and you may feel like you’ve lost all faith but there is light at the end of the tunnel and your time will come. Hope you get through what you’re going through :) x
@@madeeariaz53I appreciate you for kind, and encouraging words! It means a lot when a stranger can pass this type of positive energy. I definitely will be more than ok. Just another life lesson added to the resume. 😊
This song puts heartbreak into words. All the questions you ask yourself, all the reasons you give and all the emotions you feel! Then the fact that so many people can relate???? Man he really did that with this one 👏
This song breaks me every time I listen to it 💔even after breaking ip with my ex. All the pains and damages caused still haunt me 🥺but I will get there 😭🫶🏽❤️❤️🩹love and light to all those who are healing ❤️🩹 🫂
This song is so helpful I don't wanna lie been through alot the past 2 months but listening to it healed my soul here I am today still strong and pushing 🙏
After birth to my baby. I felt so worthless …😢😢my body changed cuz of childbirth and he left us years of my losts I couldn’t count..this song giving me hope cuz my heart it’s all I got 🫢🫢😭😭😭
This guy is under rated his very talent.... Than most musicians..... THE Pop market in SA is not as huge as in America but he has beautiful tone.... Ambitious records Is good with local music International standard is not something they have mastered and are able to do
This really touched my soul. I felt every word. Wow…. Just an incredible, powerful and impactful song. Amazing. Gives me chills every time I hear it. Thank you.
I cry evryday wen i listen to this song but to day i buried my friend n i feel like m world s shuttn down but tanx to this guy loy loy you the only person who can take m pain away wen i listen to you may ur soul rest n peace till we meet again ❤❤❤❤
I stumbled on this on Spotify, I played on repeat but then I had to come to RU-vid to find him, I just needed to see him sing this! Man your voice is heaven!
Man, SA you must be proud of him. His voice is priceless Treasure, soul invading, breaking thru silencie without even disturbing the moment, leaving people astonishly humbly attentive to what is truly going on in the moment, doubting this is even a human being singing. Lol from ANGOLA
That point in a relationship where you have to put your😔self first and it's so hard to do so because you truly deeply love this person and they just blind to see that or take your love for granted. Love can be heartless sometimes 😭😭😭💔
Never thought that I of all people would relate to this song. I use to shy away from showing feelings, emotions and love… I know know why I didn’t. This pain that I am feeling is unbearable. But I know that I’ll be okay one day. 😢
