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Grace Giles, I disagree. She is clearly choosing positive thoughts to change perspective and emotion. Emotions are not about logic. They are about thoughts and perspective.
@@sjackiesue Emotion is unconscious thought and not concious because emotion is just you feeling something about something, so you could express it as a thought. ... If you are aware of what an emotion is, then it is a thought because you think about what the emotion is.
@@sjackiesue but your thoughts and perspective is wrong your logic is always right and that's how you learn from the bible with logic not your emotions.
Cate-Nadine We need both, logic to help you think out of tight situations instead of whining about it and emotion to help you relate, make you more human, with out it, you can't sympathize and are left alone and without logic, you'll never achieve what you desire most.
Emotion is more powerful than logic, however it's important to realise that emotions are interchangeable and don't have to define you at any point, Take someone feeling depressed from a 'broken heart' after being recently dumped, and they're now feeling completely helpless and emotionally drained, now one might say it's going to take the dumpee a few months to recover from this emotional breakdown, that might be very true, but let's just imagine in this same set of circumstances you've just won the maga millions jackpot, your emotions have now been transformed by another set of circumstances and your allegedly broken heart has now mysteriously found a way to instantly be whole again. An extreme example but demonstrates your emotions are interchangeable under any set of circumstances. The key is to understand that no situation has to define you as everything is subject to change and your awareness of this principle is POWER in it's self.
Logically, mega millions of jackpot wouldn't probably make you feel as helpless as you would feel from a broken heart. A broken heart feels from the fear of missing out, rejected etc., but no one would probably disown a million jackpot candidate. Just wanna say that emotion is just as grounded as logic and anything which tries to preach otherwise is an antidote to the emotion of logic itself.
Emotional choices lead to disasters. My dad chose a career he didn't love but paid well. He was successful and I am here. He said that the job he wanted to do did not pay well at all, so he chose the other option in a heartbeat
It's funny, I've been hard on myself for letting emotion win when I'm more often than logical regarding everything, now I'm happy to have had this explained so I can start to use emotion to win the battle! Thanks marisa you're awesome and wise! 😉
Hi Marisa, I love you & the sound of your voice. I listen to you. I listen to you while I am colouring. I listen to you while I am relaxing. I listen to you while I am going to sleep. I listen to you while I am thinking. I enjoy listening to you & I am finding it really useful in my growth & learning.. Thankyou lots. Regards Sarah
I've met people who are extremely logical almost to the point of being robotic. It seems absurd to make all our decisions with the mind without including our emotions. Everything is a balance but being a logical person can often disconnect you from feeling and only when we feel when we can enter our emotions. Don't stop feeling because the day you stop feeling it's the day you're dead while living.
I've been watching this video every day for a week now and the message always fixes whatever negative emotion I'm feeling and I feel instantly motivated to move on with my day. It's almost like a miracle.
Thank you Marisa, anytime I had great emotions ro do somethings, i tops feeling the pain , I forgot even that it is difficults. But I start to feel stress and scared, I cannot do nothing, I escape even simple things I could do, mostly if the pressure of deadline or being perfect is in front!!! Thanks to Mindvalley
Logic is the language of our conscious mind and Emotion is the language of our subconscious mind. We have 5 know states of mind and Theta is the one that enables your subconscious mind to listen to the commands you send it from your conscious mind.
Logic is love that comes from your mind emotions is evil that comes from your heart and in the bible it says the heart is the most deceptive thing in your body pay no attention to your feelings and make sound decisions you can't change in a day and with that being said be patient with yourself and others.
Hello! I’m a huge follower of yours and I really look up to you! Your videos are so inspirational and it has changed my mindset and way of leading life.
I've always been the total opposite. It might be because as a child I never had stability. So, when I meet someone I have the confidence to ask them to hang out but in the long run I have the fear of them not liking who I am anymore so I get less confident. :-/
This is great!!! Wow, never did I know that we make most of our decisions driven by emotion. We would think to ourselves that we made a decision using logic but still that decision had an influence by an emotion either good or bad. This is an amazing video.
Thank you for explaining how to change our emotions to allow ourselves to make better decisions. When we're able to base our actions off of logic, we can live a more satisfying life and live full out.
Bravo!!! It looks like my dream for the management in Toto of an emotional Dysfunction. No disintegration !I love it. Very much taken by your curriculum .I wish I could rewind my life and be fully fledged energetically.Thank you.
How to get over a negative emotion? The experiences which I had in my past were hurtful when it came to friends! So I use my practical thinking when it comes to friends like not to get too close with them because I don’t want to get hurt again! But,this has build a wall. I’m not like how I used to be! I want to break this wall and be an open and a free person like before! It’s hard to choose between being practical and emotional. I would be really very great full to get a revert back! Thank you so much and take care🤗
No keep it there is a reason why the wall exists it is not to suppress your emotions but to moderate it just don't overdo it or then you will lack emotional morale
I'd just like to say that emotion doesn't ALWAYS win over logic. A truer expression would be USUALLY or OFTEN wins over logic. I'm nearly 70 and the best decisions I ever made were SENSIBLE ones. I didn't FEEL like doing them and had to use will power to go against my feelings. I could not envisage any good feelings from these decisions but logically knew they were right. To keep myself from letting emotion stop me, I just kept saying to myself that all my sensible decisions turned out very well. So I trust my logic over my feelings.
Logic is superior,it helps you solve *all* problems,diagnose issues,create plans,protects you in times of issues and danger,distinguishes between who is an enemy or an ally based on memories of past experiences and patterns of the individual and gets you out of an immense amount of danger. Emotions are the exact opposite,9/10 emotions are the cause of all your life’s issues,they cause you to be attracted to dangerous people,toxic individuals you shouldn’t allow into your life,it ruins your decision solving,pushes you to do irrational things,causes depression,drains your energy. I view emotions as a sort of a drug,like cocaine,they are hard to control and quit.
Life is a needs/would be better with this uneven balance of a wise and productive. Logic/logical reasoning in the driver's seat, but emotion in the passenger's seat with out spoken navigation. Although, the trick here is being able to acertain when to utilize which. Of course it's difficult or not easy, but life is. If it wasn't, we would all have a great life. If we all had the courage to seek this uneven balance. I am writing a short philosophy essay right now on this matter becuase I have always been fascinated by it.
Just want to point out that emotions wins over logic, but that doesn't mean that emotion "winning" means emotion is right and logic is wrong. They actually can't be separated, and when they work together, you act from a balanced, present, wholistic stance. It's the logic that helps you decide to pick a better emotion, and gives you the tools to formulate how you're going to do it. Emotion is the then the force that puts it in motion in the world. It's not a battle... or rather it doesn't have to be. This battles causes us the be divided against ourselves. Logic and emotion ideally work together. As one.
ohh mind blowing fact emotion wins against emotion inside in your inner world, that makes sense cuz inside of your world of dreams ther is smal dreams that grows stronger bit by bit, and logic has no effect, makes 100% sense.
What about when it comes to love? Should emotion always win? What if you love someone who repeatedly disrespects you, but you love him so much and at the same time your logic tells you to get out.
It's not that you should give in to emotion, she's saying that we tend not to manage to negate the feelings when trying to convince yourself against it logically. Get out. You deserve better ❤️
The very things that they (psychologists) say make me a potential danger to others are the very thing that made me an outstanding sailor, then soldier. Whether in combat or seeing my firstborn be born my emotions stayed flat. I'm not without emotions, I just don't feel them as deeply or drastically as so-called normals. Although I did in time figure out how to shut them off when needed. Perhaps all I really did is turn down their volume. Regardless, this is has been my existence for over 48 years. I want to offer a warning, don't let them put on medication unless you truly can't control yourself. They tried that on me, I refused. Medication because I seemed without emotions, or because I lashed out at those that deserved it, not with rage or even anger, it was a reckoning. I found I could control myself, my reactions just took determination and educating myself on how our minds work, to see the warning signs, the triggers. Use logic, base your actions on evidence, not perception. Read, and read as much as you can, all subjects. Educate your mind. Avoid falsehoods like religion. Have as many hobbies as you can afford to have. Stay occupied.
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I keep making the same error in life. I get into situations which escalate because of my emotional state and not thinking rationally as a result it gets worse and I end up looking bad, being the bad and apologising for my errors but the injustice that i feel against me gets dismissed which makes me feel worse of me. How do I remain calm when in a heated regular situation and think rationally?
Yes, because in order to impress the Feeling mind ( subconscious mind) you have to use your Thinking mind ( conscious mind, LOGIC). If conscious mind convinces subconscious mind by telling e.g. how eating a cake is bad for the body ( pain) or what good health would enjoy if doesn't eat cake (pleasure), so linking it with pain and pleasure because that's how our habits change, one will stop eating cake.
@@jay.jay. Lmao. Your emotional state won't change if you will just tell yourself in your head that cake is bad for you. You're not linking anything by merely thinking about it. Your conscious thoughts are almost completely powerless to have any impact on your emotional state. Have you ever tried telling yourself to not eat cake because it's unhealthy and you will live a shorter life and you will feel guilty afterwards and you are breaking your resolution which is to eat healthy...? It never works. All of these are just logical reasons that are powereless against your emotions.
@@porterde08 l agree... if u don't master ur emotions u will stay stuck playing checkers making stupid jumps instead of understanding chess moving smooth, quiet and calculated
