Losing One Of Us | Chicago Med 

The worst part about his death was how he was so happy and content when he walked off the edge.

The toughest people, break the most 💔💔 I just can't.. Dr. Choi always looks tough but inside... 😭😭😭

I feel like dr. Rhodes (I think ) had a good way of comforting dr.Reese

Have lost a good friend to suicide. She was a good doctor, colleague and a good good friend. This hits me hard.

Everyone is blaming themselves for his death ..... I see how they’re really good people .... honestly I feel really bad for them

When she says "I wish I could protect them." You can really hear the mother in her coming out. She views anyone under her as her own family/her children.

This is a lot to take in. I lost my brother to suicide. He was a triathlete. And nobody knew he was suffering inside.

I have lost my sister to suicide. She isn't dead but I have lost HER. She jumped of a church but doctors were able to save her. She is alive but can't speak or walk. She just sits there and stares at the foot of the bed. I read to her often and sometimes sing to her but she doesn't notice. She was funny, kind, hard-working but now she just does nothing. I wish I could have my sister back. It breaks my heart everytime I go visit her.i used to call her Am(amber) but she doesn't respond to anything. I love my sister to bits but she doesn't seem to love anything/anyone back 💔

Miss Goodwin is such a good person.... she worries forthose who are under her...😢

To the people who have lost people to suicide and feel horrible that they never saw the signs: It's not your fault. As someone who is a survivor, I can tell you that we are masters at hiding. We've mastered hiding every single last crack in us. We don't want you to see and while I know that doesn't make you feel better necessarily - it's because we don't want you to even suffer a fragment of what we do and letting you close? It might do just that. It's a mistake, but one we are willing to make because we are blinded by our own pain. Please be safe. You will be able to get through this. Don't make the same mistake your late loved ones did and reach out.

When Dr. Manning said * Am I a monster? * I was like no way u aren’t how are you a monster when your the one who lost your husband and went through so much and is protection her beloved son

I’m glad they did an episode on this, this is a huge issue with doctors and nurses. And just the public in general, it’s good for people to see some version of what may happen to their families and friends if they do go through with this.

Dr Charles is a smart man. "(The high suicide rate in doctors)...has something to do with taking people who want to help others, and putting them in an environment where the odds are stacked against them."

When everyone was questionning about themselves. That was hard. 😭😭😭

Isnt he the guy that was drunk in one of the episodes

This is like kutner episode from house... They r amazing doctors nd yet they didn't see the signs...

I'm sitting over here crying. ;3; Because it's so sad. Most I know who has depression suffer in silence. We don't let on how bad we actually feel. We bottle it up until we explode. And this show really shows it and it gives me who suffer from depression and anxiety a perspective too because I have been on the edge of wanting to take my life more than once.

Choi Halstead and Rhodes are Reece older brothers... they care deeply about her and are probably the best friends to her

The first I watched this scene, I honestly thought that they were just opening to show everyone in their natural habitat doing their job depending on their role. I did not see the jump coming. I had to pause and recollect myself.

Does anyone else notice how everyone was affected by his death and were wondering how they could have done more, self blaming etc. yet none of them, kind of like Dr. Wheeler, didn't go directly to the person(s) designated to offer assistance? It's sad, but somehow i think i can relate to "trying" to work things out on my own.

That's face of depression, youre not gonna see it in a second, it's deep inside a person...

God I hated watching this episode purely because when he jumped, I cracked up laughing because I didn’t see it coming and I didn’t know how to react

Dr Choi: I'm so sorry. RU-vid subtitles: I'm so awesome right.

this is soo sad and soo good I love Chicago med Chicago pd Chicago fire

Video: someone commits suicide RU-vid Video Category: *Entertainment*

He jumped off the 10th floor onto concrete. He would not have looked that good after that.

I have lost two people not due to suicide but still it’s always sad one his girlfriend was pregnant and my heart melted when this happened.

It's so heartbreaking seeing everyone try to act strong despite the pain 💔😢

Dr Choi: Is it okay if I take Dr Reese for the day Ms Goodwin: Dr Charles? Dr Charles: (looks at Dr Reese) Dr Reese: sure. all that just to ask her straight out.

Depression is honestly a better killer than any murderer. They become the victim instead of luring them or capturing them. It can hide in anyone, and can sometimes almost be impossible to detect. Even to the happiest person you know, just ask if they are ok. You might save a life.

That, 'I am so sorry' in the morgue was heartbreaking.

I am in tears because this episode hits close to home for me but my mate killed herself at the age of 14 😭💔

Ngl i never even noticed the doctor that committed suicide throughout the entire series. They did a great job.

I’ve watched branches from this episode, each issue each doctor was dealing with separately and they were all so sad, now that I found this video I put them all together and noticed they all happened at the same time, i can’t imagine how much everyone had to take in that day, really shows u how strong these people can be for others.

It's so sad rewatching this... Dr. Reese blames herself for not seeing the signs, despite her being one of the first people that Dr. Wheeler came to get help from. Dr. Manning blames herself for not noticing his pain earlier even after working with him for 8 Months. Ms. Goodwin blames herself for not being able to protect him, being someone who was in the hospital for so long and wanted to make a place for doctors to have each other's back. Dr. Choi blames himself for not being able to reach out to him enough to save him, being one of the last people that Dr. Wheeler talked to.

I was just sitting here and hoping it wasn't Dr choi, he is my favourite and the show wouldn't be the same without him

Sending all love and happiness to the departed ones who are now gone because of suicide. We miss you dearly!

This show feels like a movie

How did they not know he was not okay? I watched 10 minutes of him and could tell the guy needed serious help

This is heartbreaking 💔😭

Dr. Choi: “I’m so sorry..” me subtitles: “I’m so awesome right”

The end got me in tears

In all the previous episodes with Dr. Wheeler he always showed signs I just wish Dr. Charles caught it before.

I was depressed (maybe I still am a little bit) but it surprised me how much everyone around him cared and said that he was in so much pain or a troubled man etc. I never thought about myself as someone who suffers but just as someone who couldn't pull themselves together. If someone takes their own life, I do feel sad but never surprised since I can understand them to a certain extent. Anyway, this hits back home that it isn't as normal as I think it is.

There was this one boy that was in my brothers school thst committed he had been asking the school for help but they didnt help him

This video is old but this is exactly how my sister and I felt when our dad took his life we never saw the signs blamed ourselves and for me shut everyone out it truly is the worst feeling when someone close to you takes their lives and you never even noticed.

that ending gets me tearing up everytime.

Tearing episode, am glad there is someone worrying about the doctors and nurses

My mom lost her twin brother to suicide by drowning himself. I was suicidal myself for 1.5 years and this hits hard

Wow, that line about the most compassionate people being in a setting where the odds are stacked up against them struck me… my husband and 2 friends just returned from eastern Turkey, where they worked day and night for 3 days trying to rescue some people from the rubble. They didn’t succeed. They came home to their warm beds, with scenes of broken bodies and grief stricken family. Heartbreaking….

Has anybody noticed when the doctors are relaxed they all seem 2 cross their arms

y have a mac and use windows on it wtf

To those who have lost people to suicide, I am so sorry for that pain.

I love how this show talk bout mental illness

Out of everyone i wouldn’t think doctor wheeler would commit suicide he wasn’t happy most of the time but he was a good doctor sad to see him leave......😭😭🙂🙂

When you ask and blame yourself when you didn't notice or didn't even tried to notice that your colleague have depression. I think its really hard for them to digest the situation when they are all doctors that cure other people. Dr. Choi 😭

Anyone watching after dr Charles got shot?!😭💔

the end of this clip just pulls me out slightly because doctor wheeler is remarkably intact at the end

The first Chicago clip I ever watched was his suicide. Hits me hard watching the rest of the series

I wish to share my story so that future doctors and nurses who read this change this behaviour. I am a student nurse at university. I suffer from depression and anxiety especially after doing my stage in hospital. I have feared needles and deseases my whole life but i decided to go into this career regardles because it offers a lot of job opportunities and my family is poor. It was my mistake to do it but i don't regret it. I learned so many things and every thing we learn is something useful in life. Anyway, i started feeling depressed during practicals. I shared my concerns with my classmates and with the nurses who were employed at the hospital. NOT ONE of them helped me or even wanted to listen to me. Some would just stay silent waiting for me to finish talking, some would tell me how i was stupid to even think to give up this degree because "there are no other certain jobs as nursing jobs", some would just change the subject. The indifference these people showed was painful. And what is worse those same people were were kind to patients but there i was struggling trying to reach for help and no one would give f*ck. One other thing thag bothered me is that i could tell some of them were feeling similar emotions but instead of connecting with me and helping each other those were the worst. They would shame me for thinking of quitting. So some months later i told everyone i won't be pursuing this degree. I would rather be unemployed than in a job that makes me miserable no matter how much i like helping people. I would love people to understand that this behaviour is wrong. Nursing and medicine are hard fields per sé and you should help each other not just patients and then when it's too late be like ooh i didn't notice he/she was suffering. But how many times people try to reach for help only to be dismissed by everyone or worse shamed? When i told my classmates i wasn't going to pursue this degree any more they were all like: we will miss you so much bla bla bla all that fake concern. It is horrible let me tell you. Please, be kind to your colleagues, friends, classmates. Don't be indifferent.

Yea, this made me cry the ugly tears.

I know this is a show but god knows that this happens in real life and how doctors and nurses try to keep it in is so sad and honestly deserve better

Okay I know this is sad and all but why does dr.Choi walk like a GTA character

From Taylor I loved Dr Wheeler for what he did on his job at Gaffeny Chicago Medical Center he worked so hard for eight months alongside Dr Manning, Dr Halstead and Dr Clarke loved watching you on Chicago med Dr Wheeler sleep tight💓💓💔💔💔

I think that Dr Choi went to the morgue to say goodbye to Wheeler. Some people need to see the deceased to help them in the long term to accept their loss. Sadly, service personnel, medical personnel and veterinary workers take their lives all too often every year. These people are under constant scrutiny;the smallest mistake can lead to death or serious injury. High stress, trauma, seeing humanity at it's very worse on a daily basis takes it's toll on their health and wellbeing. The NHS,RCVS, MOD are only now starting to realise that their personnel are human too an d have limits.

She asked about all the ones who *don't* jump off the ledge, and I... I knew the answer. I'm one of them. I've been experiencing major depressive episodes with suicidal ideation since I was in high school. With the most recent one, it's been thinking about what it would be like if I ate a whole bottle of iron supplements. A lethal dose. And it's not that I want to be dead, it's never been that. It's just wanting the pain to stop. The pain of loneliness, and crippling anxiety, and living in a world that isn't designed to help, with parents who think mental health is just a Big Pharma conspiracy. It's all the years of lost opportunities and empty dreams. I've taken to thinking of my suicidal thoughts as a toad crouching in the back of my brain, slimy and awful. I could shove him in a box and bury him deep down, but he'd just fester then. I'd rather have him in the light, where I can keep an eye on him. Tell him to shut up when he gets smug because another famous performer I love lost their battle, or because my mom is ranting about how SSRIs are the real danger. Tell him to fuck off when he starts taunting me because it's been another shitty day in a very long string of them, and I'm too exhausted not to hear him gloating. Right now that's the best I can do. So far it's working, but I have no idea how long it'll last. I've got no support system, no access to treatment or sympathetic relatives or friends. My only good friend is drowning just as bad in her own family drama. So yeah, that's what's going through our heads. And no, we don't confide in our work colleagues. For some of us, work is the one place where we can get away from all of the shit, and we don't want that toad tainting it. For others, it's fear of losing that job, and having even more shit piled on us when we no longer have that income. For others still, we're just so used to burying it that it never even crossed our mind to reach out. Some of us have tried reaching out before, many times, just to have our hand slapped away. We've given up on the idea of receiving help from others.

my best friend died by suicide in my first year of highschool almost 5 years ago and its really hard, i couldnt watch this episode without thinking about how hard it is to spot the signs and how sad it is when you blame yourself for not seeing the signs and it fucking sucks..😓

High five to those who have suffered from suicidal thoughts and are still alive.

This is a strong cast very strong cast

R.I.P wheeler. 1 like = 1 prayer

The greatest thing you could give someone is time!!! JUST STOP, FOR A SPLIT SECOND STOP AND LISTEN... THAT SECOND COULD BE THE GAME CHANGER

This isn't how it happens in real life. Everyone you work with goes "Eek. Yikes. Time to never bring that up ever again"

What heavy drama... Man this show's off the hook!

Christ the captions in the morgue are just so wrong. He says I'm so sorry, the subtitles say I'm so awesome right. Just so wrong

I lost a fellow classmate to suicide when I was in primary school it was so hard on everyone I blamed myself for her taking her own life when I knew it wasn't my fault I did try to make sure that she was okay I missed the signs of her needing help .

This made me cry

Dr reese's and goodwill's statements hurt the most Resse knew he was trying to ask for help and being a psychiatrist hits hard she couldn't know and diagnose that. And goodwill's because, she is supposed to be the head and a good leader and she knows she should keep everyone together and be there for everyone, yet after this she was hurt because the person who died, no one knew him and for her it meant she couldn't keep her people together.

I’m sorry Dr’s I know it’s hard losing someone you’ve worked with for years, stay strong for him, okay? Be happy, don’t let him stop you. He is watching over you all the time

I love Chicago Med

Dr Wheeler died many years ago. But today, his death is getting harder to move on from.

Why do I watch these? I'm just gonna end up with nightmares.

5:21 - A great advise to the junior

Me 1 53 “that’s an excellent speech but we want the next hour to be exciting so we’re going to ignore you.” Me 2:21 “told you!”

1:28 I was in a LPN course and had a huge panic attack at my hospital placement when I realized just how real and serious everything was. One of the nurses asked me to take blood pressure and the woman had iv port on her right arm and a butterfly on her left side, I just panicked because I remembered my instructors mentioning to go for the right arm if there was a iv in the left. I was absolutely terrified of hurting her or making things worse, that I ended up crying in the bathroom for a good 10-15 minutes. I had good long talk with the nurse I was job shadowing and then another talk with my aunt who's a nurse and came to the conclusion that even though I could things very well in lab, I just did not have what it takes to be a nurse in the field. I was so scared to tell parents because who wants to hear their kid say they're dropping out of Nursing when they've been doing great and had good feedback, but they understood and were there for me, I'm glad they were because if they weren't I don't know if I would be here today. Even though it's been 9 years I still think about it, and feel like a failure sometimes for dropping out since my province is in need of more heath care workers, but I try to remind myself I'd be no good to a patient if I was constantly doubting myself or ever began to resent working as a nurse. It's hard to remember that even though you seem suited for a important job like and can well in practice labs, doesn't mean it'll be a good match in the long run. I'm just very glad I had a good support system and people I could talk to, never underestimate how relieving it can be to just talk to someone and have them listen to you.

When is season 4 coming?

someone please remind me that this is acting, remind me its acting please

Depression is "The Joker in Disguise" no one can see it until its to late. Unless you can see the cracks forming, even small ones, it's to late.

When Dr. Wheeler jumped off the building, the staff, including Sharon Goodwin, said nobody noticed Dr. Wheeler's problems, that's weird...Dr. Halstead knew when Wheeler's handling patients issues led to drinking...

This was so upsetting when dr wheeler died

Is Apple sponsored? - 1:03.

When Shanon said, “ I worry about these people” I lost it

The sad thing is he had no hesitation while walk8ng off

Dr. Choi still drift king to me ........where his nissan 350z???

When Ethan apologised to doctor wheeler the subs said I'm awesome right. Like WHYYY

shuch good acting

Dr Choi *Crying while looking at Wheelers body* : "I'm so awesome right?" 😅 *turn on subtitles

At 1:03 wills face is me when I realize all of that sobbing is for nothing because it's just a show 😂

Awe

A month ago. A friend of mine committed suicide, he was a guy good, he was a few months away from graduation, had dozens of colleges to choose to go to, loving friends and family. I just…..don’t know why he would would do it.

2:07 that person didn't even login to that desktop in the background, just tapped a key on the keyboard