Louis Theroux Explains the Controversial Story Behind His New Doc "Tell Them You Love Me" 

I would absolutely watch a whole channel with these two doing film critiques of random movies.

These 2 together......we need a series...Theo and Louis tour Europe 😂😂😂😂

Wait,is this the guy whose money don't jiggle jiggle?

You failed to mention the professor had a husband and children. I’m sure that was the bigger concern for the family as to how Anna could allow such a thing to happen.

Name 70 black vegetarians 😂😂😂

He cracked Louis with the “he looks Bangladeshean”

Something about the way Louis laughs at Theo asking if a guy is Bangladeshi at 10:03 cracked me up so much

For real, go watch the documentary. I just finished it and it was one of the most disturbing movies I’ve ever seen. 10/10.

Jesus, dude. When the “let me set it up”, becomes “let me tell you the beginning, middle, end and reveal the story twist”.

Anna definitely came across as narcissistic. But I wish they had done more facilitated communication testing after the romantic relationship was revealed. Like, why didn't they do the blind testing with them like they had done with other disabled people? Or tested more extensively with other people, other than Anna? There were some things that were inconsistent. Like, what about him typing up information on books that Anna supposedly hadn't even read? Not defending anyone, just asking some questions that weren't answered in the doc. Also, so glad I stopped watching this like a minute in and watched the doc before watching the rest of this video, because they left nothing up to the imagination, lol. Worth the watch though, if this comment and video hasn't discouraged you, lol.

I have a severely disabled cousin who was born with 7 major birth defects. He learned to scoot around on his bottom using his arms to pull forward. We would all be at a family gathering and you would feel and slap on your ankle and hear a grunt, looking down you see him trying to scoot through. We’d just say “oh sorry kiddo,” an add nd move out of his way. He learned to walk at 14 and never had had verbal abilities with language (physically impossible) he learned to sign a bit. Even though he seems “locked-up” mentally, he has fully knowing brain. But yes if someone woman started a “relationship” with him (he’s 40 now) it would be a crime

Damn dude I was enthralled with the conversation, then outta nowhere Louis said the word "puppeteering" and Jeff Dunham flashed on screen and I lost it 😂

You can tell Theo Von actually has consumed the material unlike every other comedian podcaster who pretends to read/watch the material.

A lot of black vegetarians Theo. Rastafarians are usually vegan

Many Rastafarians in Jamaica eat vegetarian & plant based meals

This host gives "Wayne's World" vibes 😂

Thank you Theo and Louis. My previous school had a student who was supported by a specialist who used that technology. She was barred from practice in Australia, mainly for providing false hope to families with children diagnosed with non-verbal autism. I will have to set aside some time to watch the documentary described. Quality standards in disability support is becoming a major topic of conversation in Australia, i.e. "equity vs equality, or best/ideal vs good enough".

That documentary made me feel sick for weeks

“My listeners know I’m doing my best…”😂

Two of my fav people together, this was not on my bingo card 😂❤

10:03 how i feel every time I listen to Theo

Theo said “bring that up” he def wanted the find out the contact info of the service😂

If she was a predator wouldn’t she have done that to more of her students? Did she just find the perfect victim from day one? Because it would have to be right away considering he started to actually communicate with her early on? The love connecting came a long time after the communication got going. They have all the records of their conversations. Man so many questions. This documentary needed more information.

If its OK for a nurse to do that (which i don't think it is i think thats to do with a disabled couple needing help consummating) then an actual relationship would be better anyway wouldn't it? I don't think it would be ok generally but if there were nurses who did that which would actually make the patients life worse in the long run in my view then he might as well have an actual relationship with that woman. That through me for a loop. If a professional carer, ie a nurse, is...Well, if we don't call that abuse why is it an issue to be actually in love with someone...I don't think either is ok but imagine someone saying its ok for a stranger to jerk you off but you absolutely CANNOT do it with someone you know and trust and wants to do it..That's MENTAL.

“He only eats nut cutlets now…” is that what louis said? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Netherlands here, yes if you are disabled you can get specialised help in that department. We have ***workers that do that specifically

2 extra ottomans was wild 😂😂 like what

I couldn’t help but have Theo-isms in my head while watching the doc - which gave me some laughs at the most inappropriate times. Great doc, feel bad for Derrick. His bro and mom take amazing care for him.

Unbelievable This is an unforeseen joy What a world

"He only eats nut cutlets now". 😂😂

Theo is the goat

"two different Ottamans"lmfao

This documentary was crazy, my girlfriend and i watched it together and we couldnt believe how ridiculous it was. Unrelated, but another crazy documentary is "Tell Me Who I Am". Its pretty rough to watch, but i think its worth it.

How did he write those essays?

It’s was nice of him to spoil the movie he worked so hard on.

I will always watch Louis in the Miami jail over and over and more than I ever would the lord of the rings tbh

Theo always knows how to make like of a situation. Milking. Omg 😂😂

Yanks are always banging on about race.

"my people, know im doing my best" is so fucking accurate. love you theo

“The bigger conversation is around…” “Race” “… Well I was gonna say disability.” “Oh ok” 😂😂

She was an ethics Teacher and did something completely unethical. I got the feeling she liked playing make-believe, in her story on how she grew up pretending a lot to be a sick person or someone in a wheelchair, etc. I think she made up a whole idealized version of someone in Derrick. Completely took advantage of a vulnerable individual. Used him in her game of make believe in the most brutal way as he can't speak for himself, can't defend himself, can't stop anything or consent. It was wrong. It was so wrong.

ABOUT TIME SOMEONE HAD LOUIS ON AGAIN.

Do you know any Black Vegetarians ? As a black person! That made me laugh so loud.hahahah 🎉🎉🎉❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😢😂😂😂😂😂😂

This Theo Von dude has to be the strangest combination of sorta ignorant, yet incredibly open-minded I've ever seen.

Now Louis and Theo are the combo I never knew I needed 🤯💙

I hadn't realised how similar Theo and Louis actually are.

Louis is my most favorite journalist of all time. His impeccable ability to remain like an innocent child asking questions no matter how bad the subject seems still impresses me. I believe that gift is what allows him to blow apart stories that other journalists may miss out on.

The lady was possessed with her own mind diarrhea and forced him 😢

Lol how funny is Louis doing the american accent 😂

“Do a milking of him” 😅 Bro this conversation was awesome

Take notes Segura, this is how you interview someone on their films, you path.

If you haven't seen his old documentary on Miami county jail you have to. It is insane

Maybe Arthur Ash got me, what a line

We need more of loius and theo good dynamic

10:48 Again, he is profoundly disabled and he never used to do that before. He was a teenager, in his twenties, in his early thirties, and didn’t do any of that. Just such a narrow understanding from Theroux. Like literal children will display those same behaviours after being abused, doesn’t mean it’s organic. Louis should know this from his docs with his friend Jimmy Saville, since he wanted to pretend he regretted than and was now educated on the topic, well guess not.

Wtf with the milking comment. No nurse is ever hired to do that it's sexual abuse for the patient and nurse.

"see if anyones milking them" hahahahahaha

I saw the documentary and I was surprised that they didn’t show the documentary crew trying to communicate with Derrick. Show us how he communicates now. Yes, Anna’s way was wrong and all in her head, but show us how he reacts to questions now.

I watched the doc last night and re: the self pleasure, the mom’s concern didn’t seem to be the act itself, more that it was chronic and he had no concept of boundaries. Potentially as if he was doing it so much that it was causing him physical harm. He couldn’t do it traditionally due to his lack of control of his hands, so he was likely rubbing and grinding on all kinds of things to the point that he was maybe causing wounding of some kind, which could be dangerous because he is in diapers. You’ll see this kind of behavior in some disabled folks with food as well, where they have no concept of food being harmful when over consumed, but they enjoy the pleasure of eating yummy things. It can lead to serious weight and health issues. I had a cousin who was severely mentally challenged and she only ate bacon and listened to Christmas music. Who wouldn’t want to just eat bacon? But on top of her other conditions, she weighed about 400lbs and it became difficult for her elderly parents to care for her.

Woah. Theo really out here bringing the interviews we all wanna see

Milking 🤣🤣I was a "working girl" for some time in my twenties and there were a few disabled men who came in ,one in particular was difficult for us "working girls" to cope with because his mum would help bring him in as she was his carer ,we were young n had little to no understanding of the situation but looking back I think that wow what a great mum ,she recognised he had this need that wasn't being met so she got on with fixing that for him .We were all really kind n nice to the the "client " who had severe cerbal palsy but apparently had full mind capacity.I can remember feeling so friggen sad that this human being was normal in every way but his body would twist n twitch and it kept him trapped to so much of living .I can tell you with 100 percent honesty I cant recall one single client ,s face ( sorry guys but your just cash to us ) but I do remember his and his really awesome mum

This doc absolutely blew my mind. This woman was mentally ill.

Givin away the punches and twists Guys lol

Can you imagine how much fun it would be to spend time with Theo. He has such a gift of putting a funny twist on life. You can easily see how much time he spends in his mind… thanks Theo…’

Louis doing voice impersonations 😂, I need more of this!

I watched the doc last night and re: the self pleasure, the mom’s concern didn’t seem to be the act itself, more that it was chronic and he had no concept of boundaries. Potentially as if he was doing it so much that it was causing him physical harm. He couldn’t do it traditionally due to his lack of control of his hands, so he was likely rubbing and grinding on all kinds of things to the point that he was maybe causing wounding of some kind, which could be dangerous because he is in diapers. You’ll see this kind of behavior in some disabled folks with food as well, where they have no concept of food being harmful when over consumed, but they enjoy the pleasure of eating yummy things. It can lead to serious weight and health issues. I had a cousin who was severely mentally challenged and she only ate bacon and listened to Christmas music. Who wouldn’t want to just eat bacon? But on top of her other conditions, she weighed about 400lbs and it became difficult for her elderly parents to care for her.

From the friends I have who have been in rehab and therapy, ALL of them have met bat 💩 therapists, counselors, and psychiatrists.

This was the funniest documentary I’ve seen in awhile. The lady is so stupid she fell in love with herself.

I was surprised to hear Louis' interpretation of the masturbation thing. To me, the issue was him masturbating publicly or in inappropriate situations. It would never have occurred to me that his mother took issue with him masturbating at all until I heard Louis say it. Even considering it now that seems like a weird take on it.

I was with you until the " how many black people are vegetarian" that was supremely racist.... I can name 75 black vegetarians..chill with the generalizations no race is a monolith.. ignorance!!!

Ummmmmmm....... There are plenty of black vegetarians stereotype much?

To the "milking" question at the end. There is a service in Japan called the Hand Angels, who are sex workers who help out severely disabled people.

Amazing doc! This is the real harm of leftist racism through the prism of academic narcissism. No spoilers, but she and her supporters are the villains imo. God bless D-Man's (not DaMan like Ana kept mispronouncing, which was my first indication of bs) mother and brother. They are the best advocates for him and have been all his life.

Oh wow the interview we never asked fir but all needed 😂

Saw Theo live in Idaho Falls and it was THE BEST! Thanks for coming through for us over here, Theo! You were the talk of the town that night.

Even if this disabled man was NOT cognitively disabled, this woman was in a professional position as his facilitator and the relationship was inappropriate and ethically wrong. Full stop.

“They might have been excited.” No, she was. He had no clue.

I loved watching Louis documentaries growing up his voice is like butter

Yes there is legit sex services & sex workers for disabled men and women. I've watched videos about it even being funded, as part of physical and mental/emotional help for disabled men and women. Alot of disabled people can feel isolated or unable to find sexual contact or just a connection of some sort in their life. It's a great service for those that need it.

"Name 70 black vegetarians" 😂😂😂

I love both these guys

There’s a business opportunity for some entrepreneurial soul a“milking service”. Company name suggestions ?

It's not really a mystery, she abused him.

These two are trying to out “play dumb” each other. I love it. Get Sasha Baron cohen up there, and it’s the Trinity of playing dumb.

The Theo Theroux Show! Louis is the perfect straight man for Theo 😂

So ignorant!! Name 70 vegetarians?! Let's start with the Rastafarians they are if not vegan! Our people who are following the Dr. Sebi diet.

Not being able order some sloppy toppy from a nurse at 2 in the morning is one of the main problems this country has and its a cryin shame

Fantastic documentary, thanks for this interview. Stubblefeld really reveals herself as a fantasist, cruel and entirely self-motivated. Thanks for discussing disability and power! Agree with Theroux that this dynamic is key to the case.

When is he gonna perform "My money don't jingle jingle, it folds..I'd like to see ya wiggle wiggle, for sure..."

I know Theo is joking, but PLENTY of Black people are vegetarian. That's such an absurd think to say 🤣

The Arthur Ashe comment cracked me up.

Did yall really sit up here and say how many black men are vegan? What do black men and meat have to do with each other? Almost all Muslim, Rastafarian, Socially conscious and health conscious BLACK MEN are vegetarian or vegan. Don’t be stupid

Louis Theroux should be a voice actor, he would do a mean Randy Marsh(South Park) or the old pedo Herbert(Family Guy)😄 joke aside he's actually gifted with dialects/accents👍

This is such a woman thing to do tbh

Wow this is so cool. I have been obsessed with this doc since I watched it last week, and I just went to Theo's show in Wallingford, CT last night. Dude tore it up along with his openers Lee Kimbrell and Amir K. Haven't listened to the pod but I might check this episode out, I have long admired Louis Theroux.

I’m British black, but what is the American obsession with race. This man Theo has brought up the race of the young Nan several times, when it has absolute no relevance to the story. I really pray that he is playing a charter and there are not actual people like this. Side note: does anyone know where the doc can be watched in the U.K.?

The black vegetarian one got Louis lmao he tried to stop himself from laughing 😂😂

Helen Keller was a situation like this too

Somebody had a bit, (maybe on the MSSP podcast?), about how the lady working with Helen Keller could have been the greatest scammer of all time.

*This is a great documentary. I really loved the Mama and his brother. This was* *very insightful.*