Lhakpa, you're a very compassionate mother. Whatever you're doing to your children doesn't have to be explained to people. You're a mother with a special child. Appreciate your energy, patience and love ❤️ towards Dugtak. I fully understand your feelings and hard work on your son. May Buddha always bless your precious son❤.
I am 31 year old from U.S. I watch every vlog that you post. It’s not only entertaining, raw uncut, unfiltered, i see how strong of a woman you are yet soft hearted that comes with emotions. I look upto you so much when it comes to independence, making your own path and being unique and yet loved by many.
You don’t have to explain anything to anyone. You know what’s best for your child and you give your 100%. It’s not easy at all. Being a mother myself. Can totally relate. God bless you and the family. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Lhakpa la, I feel a little low after watching this vlog of yours. I can feel your pain because I have a heart and feeling. I do feel for others who are going through or struggling with emotions. I do agree with what you have said; when you are in pain and you like to share, by sharing you feel relaxed and it's natural. I do follow it to my family and especially friends and my neighbors. Believe me, I can see the change in their facial expression and how relaxed they become after I listen to them. It's not about pity term, it's called inner engineering. It's beneficial to both sides. Here, I wanted to say I see through positively; it's a part of counseling, and of course, we don't have to help a person financially, and physically but sometimes listening to them matters a lot. It's my perspective and in general, keep oneself at Lhakpa la place or whosoever and let other person react. Then we may feel how painful the situation is. Lhakpa la, I am concerned about your health, especially with your emotions. You know very well that every individual has a different way of thinking which you can't change. The only change you can bring is that within yourself. As you said we don't have the right to judge your or any other motherhood and it's very true. You know very well about how you look after your children. Please don't keep their comments in your mind. Just respond if you feel otherwise I don't think it is necessary to respond to them but please don't react and get hurt. After all, it's a matter of your inner peace. You are smart enough to understand what I meant to say, my dear. Sorry for my long message. Always stay happy and healthy 👍
You are a good mother . It’s a shame , some people are ignorant and they don’t realise how difficult it is to look after kids with special needs and picky eaters. Continue doing what you do and ignore rude comments. Sending you hugs.❤
Hi acha Lhakpa, I am a mother and I like listening to you and I appreciate what you do for your boy. I wish i could do something to help you as a human being to ease your life but plz don’t dishearten whatever people say, in fact you shouldn’t get upset what ever they say coz ( kuta hamesha bokta hai). Keep making vlogs and inspire us as a mother. You are good and a loving mother.
I'm also a mother and i can understand the mother feelings. I have twins and they are 18.month now. Sometime i feel same as u, burst out but I control my tears. I'm always watching ur vlog when my twins are 😴 💤
Acha… I’m big fan of u becoz my elder sis love u and she alwaz use to tell me how mature ur videos are.. that’s how I saw u yesterday.. I can really feel ur pain. I m caretaker of woman who have dementia. You are very strong
From one of Geshe Lhakdor la talk, when someone praises you, don’t get carried away, Remember there are those who criticize and dislike you. When someone criticizes you, don’t get affected because Remember there are those who praise and love you. I know its hard to practise this Middle Way Approach but we all should try for our own true happiness and mental peace. Thank you to Geshe Lhakdor la. Love and warm wishes to you and your son. You are doing your best. Keep doing that and never give up hope. ❤😊
Lhakpa la You are the best mother for your child, you don’t have to explain it to others ,we can clearly see how good mother you are to them 🙏❤️. After watching this video your words really touched my heart❤️. And keep going ahead and keep slaying always ✌️
Those who have no kids, especially special child has no right to judge another mother with kids. All mothers are trying their best to raise their kids in all possible manner. Being a mother with normal (apologies for this term) kids is already daunting and no time for oneself, special kids needs extra attention and care. Autism can be of different types and severity, non verbal ones needs extra attention as you have to guess many of their moods or hints. Lhakpa, you are doing your best and you are right that you do not need to listen to these unsolicited negativities.
A lhakpa.. just ignore comments and be your self. I am also mother of two, I can feel that emotions and yes you are a strong woman and a mother too! Just keep it up and wish all the happiness and success ahead! No one have a right to judge a mom.. those people don’t feel you so, ignore it and be you❤
You are awesome mom raising three children…some kids naturally speak at a later stage…why get angry at faceless people…take care of yourself…Salute! 🫶🙏
God knows you’re doing the best for Dukdak! Don’t pay attention to this stupid comments! Know that You have more fans who loves you than those few haters! Take care! Sending big tight virtual hugs from Ari CA. 😻
You are doing a great job. Listen to your heart. What is best for you n your kids only you knows. You don’t owe any explanation to none. God bless you n your kids.❤️
I really hope and pray that your son gets help in any way possible and that he can be self independent. You are doing the absolute most and the best way you can with raising your child. Hats off to you for being the father and mother of your son. And I also hope one day you can be free from all these. Your son in hostel or somewhere professional where he’s getting the proper help and you being able to enjoy life and do what makes you happy. I really hope and pray coz you deserve it ❤
I understand 😢acha...hows to be routine.. i do the same routine n some times feel frustrated n feeling like crying 😢😢.. plz try not be upset lo..i know its not easy to do..even i have a daughter n doing everything..even looking after old parents 😢😢..its not easy to handle everything..😢 when ever i see your vlogs..i get inspired..thank you so much..love you both ..❤❤
Please don’t hurt her if you don’t help her!!🙏 Specially requested from my side!!🙏 I can feel on you about how much you love and care for you kids!please be strong acha lak. We always love you and we know very well that you’re such a very good human being and very good mother too. Be strong for your Dukda!!💕💕💕
I fully agree with you! You are a great mother! Don’t worry what other people are saying! They have no clue what your day looks like! They have no right to judge you. You are doing your best! I am your new subscriber and I started watching your videos for some weeks and already like you and see you are a great and best mother for your son!
Hello acha you don’t have to explain to people like that! They won’t understand until it’s comes on their head .. people who love you will understand and knows everything about you lo . ❤❤❤
A Lhakpa la, you are a very strong, loving and dedicated mother and an inspiration to many parents out there. I wish you get hostel for your son soon so that he will be taught and cared in a way he needed. I having nothing more to wish other than respect and best wishes towards you.
This vlog made me feel sad and filled with tears…people are so so heartless how come they can write these kind of message…I’m so hurt..please you don’t care about those people who don’t have heart…
I'm really sorry about those clueless people. If they've got nothing nice to say, they should zip it. Don’t let them get to you. You're an awesome mom! I just started following your channel and binged all your vlogs. You're doing great with your son, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Making bhaley every day isn't a easy task, bet those calling you lazy eat bread daily. Stay happy, ignore the haters. I'm a big fan. Sending love and prayers for you and your son! ❤️
At the same time you are spreading hell lot of awareness about Austism and it’s categories. You are already strong but then it’s completely ok and normal for us to cry at times. It makes us conscious that you are functioning perfectly well. More love to Dukda ❤
I know its hard to ignore the negative comment’s but just know that you’re emotionally motivating us every time you outburst and speaks the reality……lets be strong. ❤
Please don’t get disheartened with negative comments regarding how you look after your son; you are an amazing mother! You can share your emotions and feelings through your vlog. I like to listen and watch your vlog. Raising a child is hardest job in the world, as my self have two kids. Especially with special needs child. Lots of love and hug to you❤❤
Cheers for the 20k subs🎉🎉🎉 N as for Dukda I feel like he’s gonna have a great future. N yeah plz inform people that Elon musk, Albert Einstein n many popular creators had a Autism when they were kid. Stay strong 💕☮️
Lhakpa la, you are doing great as a mother. I can fully understand your concern and pain. My son is same age as Dukdak and he is also very choose with food. He didn’t eat a single piece of rice and not even bhaklab/bread now a days. I felt bad too not able to feed him well. But I can’t force him to eat and at the same time happy that at least you are trying your best to give him whatever he wants to eat. So don’t waste your time on those negative comments. Be happy and have a wonderful time with your beautiful family and specially your son, touched wood. My good wishes are always with you. 🙏🏻
You are an incredibly caring and loving mom to your son. Your dedication to raising awareness about autism and your immense patience with him are truly admirable. Please continue to block out any external distractions and remember that you are amazing.
Autism has different kind, our society must hsve knowledge abort autism and its difference from other kids. It,s True. They hsve their own rutiner, some talk , others dont talk AT all. Some eat only pasta, some drink Milk, yours son is not the worst. Only the autism,s mother know the pain. I reqest People to Google whst sutistic is . Those of you who hsve normal kids must rally thsnk god. I have Great respekt to you Boeing a strong mother. Keep going n ignir tjose negativ comments.
Lhakpa, I think there are some gyami sowas who like to give negative comments to all the brave and successful Tibetan women, and they are trying to put them down. I just wanted to say go higher and grab your goals
You are an awesome hard working mother. You don’t have to prove it to the world. People will say no matter what. Being a mother myself, I can’t imagine how you do this single handedly. Stay strong as you are.
true acha my heart goes out to you but feeling so sorry that i cant do anything for you except keeping you and your son in my prayers and hopefully Dukdak gets all the help that he actually needs in getting better in anyway which will help him in the future. take care and lots of love
I have heard that some autistic children have obsessive compulsive disorder ( OCD). They need everything in order as their mind think until then they won’t relax .
Wonderful and valuable talk to ur followers.. spreading the awareness of daily struggles with our vulnerable and special child.. lots of people dosnt know how parents go through these struggles, it will be very knowledgeable if you share ur daily life with dukdha.
We all know that u r good mother n u don’t need to explain to those people who never been this kind of situation, i can understand ur feeling, also when u make bhaklap try to mix with egg and milk tats good enough if he is not eating other food I do same things❤ stay strong n healthy lol
I’ve been following you for awhile now, and I see that you’re a pretty good mother to all your kids not only your son. I’m a mother of 2 myself, my son is a very picky eater also. If you think u try your best with your kids on any given day, you don’t need to explain yourself to these ignorant, judgmental, pea brain people. Fuck them! And especially don’t let these MF get to ur feelings!!! Your doing great as a caring mother❤
Lhakpa these jobless people juge always.I know your r good mother . I watched always your Chanel . How you r struggling for your son .😊😊😊 be strong and always simle 😊😊😊
Being a mother is the toughest job. You don’t owe an explanation acha. You know what’s good for your son and you are doing a fabulous job. ignore negative people.. I feel you. I m also a mother of 2year old and sometimes it is really frustrating but we ain’t go no choice..
U’ve really made me emotional. Lhakpa u r wat u r and wat u r u r A IMPERFECT but LOVELY MOTHER FRIEND & an INFLUENCER. Proud to b an old frd. U don’t deserve these outburst towards unknown people.
It's the toughest job to look after a special child. Those who don't understand about autism, better educate urself before judging the one struggling with. Be kind, it cost nothing. It's a real struggle n never ending job.
We really appreciate ,how u are n what you are doin’for Drugda🫶🏼 You really delivered splendid work each and everyday!!! Lots of love n huge respect for u Acha Lhakpa on the behalf of Drugda n RU-vid family as well 🌸🥰 Tse ring ney mey 😊
I have the same boy as you have and all the symptoms you're telling I think they're very much same I know it's very hard sometimes you tell every thing some close friends they think it's normal it feels very hard I also argument with my friend who is very close and I tell same thing too the school and they're except every words I say then it makes me little comedown so I am single father with two boys I know very well what you going through
U r the best n most caring mother u don’t listen those hater’s maybe they are jealous because they don’t much care n love their kids luv u always n be strong 👍❤️
Taking care of children is not a joke ! And specially autistic kids is really hard. Its take really a lots of energy. But you are doing so good. I m a working mother of 4 children. I really feel I m relaxing when I m at work. So whoever saying you are jobless is maybe they have no kids or may be they are 🙃. So don’t listen to them. Keep it up. You know what you are doing for ur kids and u will give best.
Just remember, negative comments will be there always. Be ready for that, best would be just learn to ignore it. Let’s say Out of 98 positive comments, if you pick up only 2 negative comments very important, there aim has been succeed. This was not your plan. Isn’t it? if u really wanted to read comments than only positive comments. Pls start from today. Black sheep will be there always in every field. Accept as a normal n forgive pls 💐💐💐
Ur passion is awesome if m at ur place I can’t do 1% of whatever u do. Dukdak must be very very lucky to have mother like u. Don’t give shit of those haters. I saw u at lachappel but I can’t talk cause m very shy but when I saw I feel proud of ur motherhood. Big big fan
Keep going yourself I know it's not easy just listen to your heart. People who really loves you and understands will always loving you. Stay strong and keep inspiring❤❤❤❤
A lhakpa, please ignore those kind of mean people. What so ever you are. You are a great mother of your kids. No one can do what you have done for your children. Be proud of yourself. God bless you and your kids.
