Love is not natural, Love has to be learnt || Acharya Prashant, at BITS Goa (2023) 

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Reminded me of JKrishnamurti, whose one favorite line was “you go to work and slay people with anger, jealousy, hate etc, and then you go back home and tell your wife and kids that you love them. That’s NOT love.”

"Whatever comes naturally to you,must be taken as problematic." 👌🙏💕

Love is not so cheap that you will just get it the hormonal way. Love has to be earned and that's what all spiritual pursuit is about, learning love.

🔅Whatever comes naturally to you must be taken as problematic. 🔅That which is natural is exactly that which keeps you in bondage. 🔅That which you usually call love is just natural attraction belonging to the domain of attachment and lust. 🔅The mind is a thirsty entity, the mind is an entity that is always in want. That which quenches the mind's thirst is love. 🔅It takes a lifetime to learn love. Love is not cheap, that you will just get it the hormonal way. 🔅Love has to be earned and that's what all spiritual pursuit is all about, learning love. 🔅Animal by definition has no insight, it just believes in what it sees and so do we, most of us human beings, we just believe in what we see. 🔅What does insight mean? There is something beyond the obvious, something beneath the apparent and if you can look at it, that's what makes you a human being. 🔅You cannot be in love if you do not know what is real. And you cannot know what is real if you are attached to what is unreal. 🔅First thing in love is to drop the nonsense, to clear the rubbish, that's what is love, that's the first act of love. 🔅Love demolishes, love destroys, love cleans up, love clears therefore it is said that love gives clarity because love clears. 🔅Learn to see what is not visible, if you see only that which is visible, you will never be able to see beauty. You will only see cosmetics.

The thing is it is your love that turns the living body into a dead body....... When you love something, you kill it......

Love you acharya ji❤❤ you are really brings peace for me😍

❤️❤️❤️What is Love? Something that would really bring peace to you ….💖💜💛 That is “LOVE” ❤️❤️❤️

Something that would really bring peace to you that is love,( and the relationship we see most of the time take away your peace from life)........

Just because you have given birth you dont becomes loving ! Its possessiveness . Love needs to be learnt !

Love is the Attraction of the restless mind(radha) towards ultimate peace(krishna). Incomplete consciousness towards completeness.

You cannot be in love if you do not know what is real and you cannot know what is real if you are attached to what is unreal. So the first thing in love is drop the nonsense.

So beautifully elaborated.. 🙏 the clarity this man holds!

Feeling at peace after watching this video🙏🙏

Gratitude acharya ji 🙏🏻

Gratitude Guruji ❤️🙏

Naman Acharya ji. Just no words for the wisdom and vivid explanation with examples.

Pranam Acharya Ji

Prnaam achry ji

This is the best one

I would like to thank you archarya jii.. I hv no word how to thank you.. I am learning so much thing from you..

Great insight 🙏💫

Thanks Acharya ji 🙏🙏

Gratitude

Indebted for life.

Each video of yours is a gem in itself. I don't know sir when I meet you I am eagerly waiting to meet you.I am preparing for civil services probably one day I meet you after coming out with flying colours in the upsc battle. As you said victory is possible ,even if it not battle is worth fighting. I am fighting the battle like Arjun and you are my krishna and your you tube lessons are my Bhagavadgeeta!!!

Love has to be learnt, love has to be earned.

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Sir 🙏 please help me please do not avoid my situation, I'll always thankful to your kindness sir 🙏

6:25, they say marriage is all about this.....😑😑😑 And then they name it as love.....😶

Amazing ❤❤❤❤

Love too has to be learned Nietzsche....

Thank you Acharya Ji 🙏

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Pranam Acharya ji 🙏🙏🙏

I love this intro❤️

संसारी दृष्टिकोण से क्रिया प्रतिक्रिया आधारित निरंतर बनने वाली बदलने वाली मिटने वाली मानयताओ धारणाओ सिद्धांतो पूर्वाग्रहो मे जुड़ने से हम फंसते है उलझते है भटकते है।जो जैसा है उसे वैसा ही देखना clarity है Clarity से मुक्त भाव विकसित होता है और यही प्रक्रिया हमे रुपांतरित कर बोध मे हमारे अस्तित्व को शून्य करती है।

Well done sir 👌👌👌

Amazing

I was thinking what were the moments which were able to experience me love in my life.i felt love inside me when i was connected with planet's nature, plants, animals but i never experienced it with human beings. So a question came y so? I think with nature there is no selfish motive of mine and no selfish motive of theirs. But with human being its always harmonal or any selfish motive of each being. I think in the absence of desire a love can flourish. Between human beings if there is desire no love can happen.

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Sir sir sir ....

Sir 🙏 my name is jitendra kumar from Bihar,, now I'm 23 and fully mature as I think about me. But sir 🙏 I really need your help to calm because mai avoid nahi kar pa raha hun , or ye meri harmonal activity ke karan nahi hai mai jaanta hun, maine use bol diya tha ki it's just a attraction between you and me , I want to clear it but wo mujhe mere dimaag me fit ho ja rahi hai baar baar . Please try to understand sir 🙏 please help me.

For other reasons also people marry. Definitely reason is always some consumption.

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Learn to see what is not visible. If you'll see only what's visible, you'll never be able to see beauty, you'll only see cosmetics. The Truth has to be seen with insight : Acharya Prashant

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But we often see there are couples who have been in a relationship for many years and they also do marriage and live together helping each other to grow and staying as a support in other's bad time. So , what can we tell this? Is all this derived from a core of "sex"?

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Love is not natural....

this red t shirt is very excited🤣🤣

Even I was 100% sure that a relation between man and woman is about sex before marriage. But it's more.... Only a married couple can understand that.

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Love is not all natural. Love starts when you start to understand that your thoughts are leading you to hell, you start to trust less to your instincts.

HUMAN HAS NOTHING TO SAY... ACHARYA G..😭😭😭😭😭😭😭THE WHOLE WORLD 🌍..IS LIVING..IN.A DISTRESS..

How to learn Love??

😂😂😂😂 damn right

At the end vegans stands for right

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